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How to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
this chick is super hot and seems normal. Thing is her family is fuckkkkkked up. moms an alcoholic siblings are all on drugs. parents are seperated. My town doesn't have the best pick of woman lol. But how should I go about dealing with her. we havent kissed yet and she goes ghost for a week at time. But comes back. Is it worth it? I think she might just be a tease.
07-17-2018 03:35 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
0/2 on threads, OP.
07-17-2018 03:42 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
OP i'd suggest posting in the player's log/lounge - this seems to be about the same woman.

She's toying with you - don't play her game and find better women to game.

You're putting pussy on the pedestal, badly.

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07-17-2018 04:12 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
That's why I'm on this site to get advice from the masters. Yeah we have been on a date but she is just toying with me I agree. why are chicks with bad family's hardest the hardest shells to crack?
07-17-2018 05:22 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Stop oneitis trolling. Find another bitch if she's causing you this much trouble. There's no secret cheat code to fixing broken girls and turning them into good girls that always behave and bare strong sane children. Simply drop it and find another one. Bitches are like water, you can direct the flow if you're skilled, they take the shape of the container they're in but if it's nasty bog water it's always gonna be diseased trash not suitable for drinking, dabble with that at your own peril
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07-17-2018 05:27 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
(07-17-2018 05:22 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  That's why I'm on this site to get advice from the masters. Yeah we have been on a date but she is just toying with me I agree. why are chicks with bad family's hardest the hardest shells to crack?

We're telling you that you don't need to make a special post about it, just put it in a thread that's already open, like this: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-24128...pid1820757

Chicks with bad families are usually to be avoided, especially when you're a guy with oneitis for this chick

They aren't supposed to be cracked, they're supposed to be avoided.

Sooner or later, their problems become yours.

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07-17-2018 05:35 PM
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
(07-17-2018 05:35 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(07-17-2018 05:22 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  That's why I'm on this site to get advice from the masters. Yeah we have been on a date but she is just toying with me I agree. why are chicks with bad family's hardest the hardest shells to crack?

We're telling you that you don't need to make a special post about it, just put it in a thread that's already open, like this: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-24128...pid1820757

Chicks with bad families are usually to be avoided, especially when you're a guy with oneitis for this chick

They aren't supposed to be cracked, they're supposed to be avoided.

Sooner or later, their problems become yours.

Gotta agree with kaotic on this one. 9 times out of 10 a chick like this will be more trouble than she is worth. Many chicks in questionable "professions" (ie. stripping, hooking, etc.) come from these sorts of backgrounds. I'd say maybe smash a couple times but do NOT catch feelings & get ready to move the fuck on ASAP. It will be far better for your health & your sanity.

Don't worry, some other Cap'n Save A Ho will find her soon after & get burned by her as well. The cycle will continue to perpetuate.
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Damaged chicks from bad families are easy to game: if you know what you're doing...But you dont else you wouldn't be all twisted up by a mediocre looking, trailer trash chick with poor self esteem who is gaming you.

The good news is that all the info you need is right here in this forum.

The bad news (for you) is that:

A. Either you dont heed / ignore the advice given by more experienced guys

or

B. Have a reading comprehension problem.

or

C. Are unwilling to actually do any work and expect answers to be spoon fed to you.

Unless you are willing to do the "work" that needs to be done in order to make the changes needed you will continue to not get pussy from the damaged goods girl thats throwing her pussy at the bad boys that she's fucking when she "ghosts" for a week.

(07-17-2018 05:38 PM)jordypip23 Wrote:   I'd say maybe smash a couple times but do NOT catch feelings & get ready to move the fuck on ASAP. It will be far better for your health & your sanity.

Thats the problem ...He cant smash once


By the way. These types broken of girls are not LTR material but they are the ones most likely to do any of the most depraved shit you want in the sack and can be fun as shit.

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Please review the 'Universal Wife Zone Matrix Chart':




Based on the Universal Wife Zone Matrix Chart, I suspect either that either:

A: She is just as crazy as the rest of her family, but you do not realize it yet.

B: She is not as good looking as you think she is, and that is keeping the crazy level lower.

C: She is good looking, and completely out of her mind, but you are giving her much leeway and reporting that 'she seems normal'.


You would be surprised how normal some people can seem to be when the truth is they are completely out of their minds most of the time.
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Treat her like absolute shit
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Walk away. Radio silent.
She's playing you for the attention.
Cut her off cold and never look back.
If you stay she will only bring you ruin.

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Man we already gave him some Golden advice on the other thread he started (hard to link to it since on Cell) Since this thread his most likely about the same chick... shod we keep on dishing him some advice? At some point, it seems guys have to crash & burn in order to learn!
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Get a her a good solid suitcase for that baggage, preferably one with wheels and a frame that will collapse under the weight.

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
different girl but much of the similiar problems. hahahaha
I'm gonna avoid to keep myself from going down the same road with other fucked up chick who is actually goes after good guys shes with another sap like me except hes uglier and even nicer hahah
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
There is not one vagina on this fucked earth thats worth that much.

Move on. Not even a message. Delete any contact info. Your future self will regret not following this advice.

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
(07-08-2018 11:09 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  I'm 28 she is 29. she would hold my hand. I would never iniate the hand holding etc i just went along for it. this is why I'm on this site to get tips and learn.


(07-19-2018 10:31 AM)kross1989 Wrote:  different girl but much of the similiar problems. hahahaha
I'm gonna avoid to keep myself from going down the same road with other fucked up chick who is actually goes after good guys shes with another sap like me except hes uglier and even nicer hahah



OP...Keep up the good work with your English. Its hard to believe you've only been in America 28 years

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Fuck her. Dump her . Dont commit save yourself the headache. You don't want to be the one rescuing the whole family paying for rehabs n shit.
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
good God this is dead on. she is good looking has a decent personality is doing ok for herself. but when I went upstairs with her to get my keys. there was 6 full coffee mugs on the dresser all full. might not seem like that big of a deal but I can tell this one woman is insane. shes all over the place and has even said that shes crazy and that she doesnt know how she has a job. hahaha contact deleted. I deleted her off every social media also. I have a feeling she is decent in bed but for fucks sake it's not worth going down the crazy rd again. And for everyone asking this is an absolute different female. not the same one but lots of the same issues.
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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Do the following:

-Slap your self in the face saying each word slowly-

I-will-NOT-date-shitty-loser-females.

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Don't

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RE: how to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
I absolutely agree but as far as her being loser I wouldnt say that. but I mean she has a decent job. pretty sure she doesnt do drugs but shes a massive bullshitter I feel like she just has no integrity. like she talks shit about alot of people then to there face she is nice to them.
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RE: How to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
Just because a woman has a decent job doesn't mean a damn thing about being a decent human being.

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RE: How to deal with woman with baggage. drug and alcohol riddled mom dad and siblings?
(07-23-2018 06:00 PM)kross1989 Wrote:  I absolutely agree but as far as her being loser I wouldnt say that. but I mean she has a decent job. pretty sure she doesnt do drugs but shes a massive bullshitter I feel like she just has no integrity. like she talks shit about alot of people then to there face she is nice to them.

We all spend a little time talking crap, just part of dealing with people...but people who spend a lot of time talking shit behind people's back to you are likely talking shit about you to other people. Move on bro
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