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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1) Overly concerned about public approval
2) Mainstream and overly invested in pop culture
3) Spoilt
4) Overly idealistic/naive
5) Fat

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02-10-2019 01:18 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
No particular order:
-smoking
-being out of shape
-bad with money
-coldness derived from intense desire to
compete with me on everything
-not wanting to be a mother
02-10-2019 08:11 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-10-2019 08:11 AM)Dilated Wrote:  No particular order:
-smoking
-being out of shape
-bad with money
-coldness derived from intense desire to
compete with me on everything

-not wanting to be a mother

Can someone explain this to me.

White women do this?

TDK

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02-10-2019 09:13 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
- Hairy (I don't mean down there, although I prefer it shaven)
- Too hipster fashion sense
- Curses when there is no "need" to (e.g. using the word f*cking as an adjective)
- Talks about sex in a very pedestrian way i.e. removes all the charm/mystery
- Indifferent behavior, checking phone too often, not engaging or opening up when flirting/meeting

Smoking could make the list too.

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02-10-2019 05:15 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
From most important to least:

1. ugly
2. fat
3. loud
4. crass
5. bad breath

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"coldness derived from intense desire to compete with me on everything" - some girls are just competitive, by nature or nurture, and not only among themselves as normal, but with men as well. These girls can be fun in short bursts, but it's still an inherently masculine trait. I've only experienced personally what I considered to be a mild version of this, but after a while it gets tiresome, and I ended up hating her a bit.
02-12-2019 03:18 PM
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Post: #131
RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1. excess weight
2. "alt look" (tattoos, colored hair, piercings)
3. lying or lying nature
4. Large number of sex partners
5. Bad upbringing (white trash, divorced, major childhood trauma)
02-12-2019 04:40 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1) Deep, loud, over-compensating male-mimicking voice
2) Self-centered and lacking real empathy
3) Unaware that they are more socially programmed and influenced than they think
4) Lack of a sense of consciousness and are based more in feeling than in reality
5) Lack motherly qualities, instincts, intuition and sense of softness
02-12-2019 05:16 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Feminist
Fat
Bad breathe or hygiene
Smoking
Bad style. Had a girl wear a neck collar like a dog. like wtf?
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02-12-2019 05:33 PM
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Post: #134
RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1)Fat
2)Aggressive Unattractiveness
3)WEAVE
4)Stinky Pussy/Bad Hygiene
5)Drama(not normal girl drama-call the police drama, getting guys to fight you, Destruction of property, ect...)

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02-12-2019 06:02 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1. fat
2. tattoos
3. smokes cigs
4. dumb
5. feminist
02-12-2019 06:05 PM
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Post: #136
RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1. SJW
2. The "always busy" girl. Has a 40-50 hour workweek, plus school and multiple circles of friends to entertain, plus needs her "me time." You have to schedule her two weeks in advance and she might flake. Get in a relationship with her and you're guaranteed to have sex a maximum of twice a week where she can slot it in on her calendar.
3. Crass, aggressive, masculine
4. Comes with a lot of annoying overbearing friends or family that you have to entertain and constantly please
5. high notch count
02-12-2019 09:14 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
I'm old so this applies to my age group:
1-talks about their grandchildren.
2-compelled to show you all 763 pictures of the grandchildren stored​ on their cell phone, especially little so-and-so who came in second in the spelling bee.
3-barrel shaped around the middle like an overstuffed sausage and still think they're hot enough.
4-earn six figure incomes and inherited houses from their parents and a favorite aunt in Des Moines (net worth over $5 mil), take vacation at the great wall of China, but figure out what they owe on the lunch tab down to the last penny so they don't overpay or get stuck for the tip.
5-come to think of it, everything about women my age is a turn off. I haven't even got to frumpy clothes, patio furniture and little yapping poodles.

I should have drunk a whole more alcohol when I was young.
02-12-2019 09:40 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Well, you could list 5 things that generally put you off, or 5 things that irritate you on a woman you'd otherwise consider being with!
I mean, excessive body fat is not a turn off, it's a NO, under no circumstances would I consider being with her.

If she's pretty and you would fuck her otherwise, but she has short hair or is a communist and you don't like it, now that's a turn-off.

1) short hair
2) SJW/commie/feminist
3) excessive use of drugs
4) 'slut and proud' behavior
5) attention-whoring
02-13-2019 01:52 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Agree with the above about difference between turn-offs and straight up NO. I would probably ONS all such girls in my list but would never date.

1) Toes not in size order (big toe should always be biggest, second toe the second biggest etc.)
2) Bites fingernails
3) Smoking
4) Uneducated/Villager mentality
5) Attention Whoring.
02-16-2019 11:38 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-16-2019 11:38 AM)Korrupt Wrote:  Agree with the above about difference between turn-offs and straight up NO. I would probably ONS all such girls in my list but would never date.

1) Toes not in size order (big toe should always be biggest, second toe the second biggest etc.)

That has got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That applies to so many people, it isn't some rare genetic disorder.
02-17-2019 03:38 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Aye everybody has their own weird turnoffs so don’t judge lol

For example I hate any veins in feet. It’s so common I simply don’t look. And I have a friend who HATES how pussy looks.
02-17-2019 04:42 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-17-2019 03:38 PM)Aenema Wrote:  
(02-16-2019 11:38 AM)Korrupt Wrote:  Agree with the above about difference between turn-offs and straight up NO. I would probably ONS all such girls in my list but would never date.

1) Toes not in size order (big toe should always be biggest, second toe the second biggest etc.)

That has got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That applies to so many people, it isn't some rare genetic disorder.

Lol why dumb though? It freaks me out. Horses for courses - you got your own shit that turns you off, I got mine.

So many people have put "fat" - that also applies to so many people.
02-17-2019 05:19 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Its easy to sum up as body mutilation and ugly personality.

But to detail the instant deal breakers:

1 - Neon hair - Never met a girl with neon hair who didn't have major character floors or huge baggage elsewhere in life.
2 - Facial piercings - Especially the nose ones that make them look like a pig. A tiny stud in the nose can sometimes be pulled off.
3 - Tattoos - Sometimes permissible, but generally shows poor judgement, impulsiveness and slave mentality.
4 - Obesity - Speaks for itself.
5 - A haircut that says "look at how much I don't care about beauty by doing weird stuff with my hair".

Might sound harsh, but it's easy from a woman perspective as the opposite is less work.

Don't do weird stuff to your body. Grow your hair long. Don't be fat. You have to be seriously genetically unfortunate to not be attractive if you follow those rules.
02-17-2019 05:20 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-10-2019 09:13 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  
(02-10-2019 08:11 AM)Dilated Wrote:  No particular order:
-smoking
-being out of shape
-bad with money
-coldness derived from intense desire to
compete with me on everything

-not wanting to be a mother

Can someone explain this to me.

White women do this?

TDK

My last American white girl notch legit said to me

"I know I can go toe to toe with you in anything."

I work at a hedge fund. She's getting her masters in public health from a school that I'd feel like a failure if I went to.

She's white, I'm black.

The one-upping is a legit turn off, and one of the only reasons I'd be open to having a stay at home wife.

The worst though are the career women in title who see a successful marriage as their "exit package."
02-17-2019 06:46 PM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1) fat
2) 24/7 gym obsessive, or girls who lift too many weights - I’m not a fan of this latest muscle building trend or a woman with a six pack - prefer the feminine look. Nothing wrong with taking care of yourself but still allow yourself to live a little
3) excessive tattoos - chavvy/white trash
4) too high opinion of themselves...exact same pose in every picture type. Girls who boast about themselves that aren’t justified/think they are above you
5) materialistic / all about the money

Bonus turn off
6) nagging for change in who you are/thinking you’re a project. That’ll get you 86’d
02-18-2019 05:10 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
Flat-chested
Overweight (Belly outreaches tits -see point 1-, too much cellulite, double chin......)
Attention whore
Smoker
Tattoos

Even if she has a pretty face, any of those is a turn-off.
02-18-2019 05:31 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
1) Not just fat, but *concealed* fat. It isn't like we won't find out eventually, ladies.

2) Wonder Bra wearers. Take it off and you wonder where the tits went. False advertising.

3) Any kinds of bad smells, from anywhere. Amazed they don't notice their own stench & take basic self care steps. Higher likelihood of an STD with these skanks also.

4) Qualifying questions; being an askhole. I'm not accountable to you.

5) If they've ever had an abortion. The ultimate expression of hypergamy. Fetus hearts can start beating in about 18 days. Killing babies says everything you need to know about their character.

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02-18-2019 09:39 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-18-2019 09:39 AM)SlickyBoy Wrote:  1) Not just fat, but *concealed* fat. It isn't like we won't find out eventually, ladies.

2) Wonder Bra wearers. Take it off and you wonder where the tits went. False advertising.

This absolutely. And you can add deceiving makeup. I'm tired of busty beauties with sexy bodies becoming haggard flat-chested skinny fatties when the "magic" disappears.
02-18-2019 09:54 AM
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-17-2019 05:19 PM)Korrupt Wrote:  
(02-17-2019 03:38 PM)Aenema Wrote:  
(02-16-2019 11:38 AM)Korrupt Wrote:  Agree with the above about difference between turn-offs and straight up NO. I would probably ONS all such girls in my list but would never date.

1) Toes not in size order (big toe should always be biggest, second toe the second biggest etc.)

That has got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. That applies to so many people, it isn't some rare genetic disorder.

Lol why dumb though? It freaks me out. Horses for courses - you got your own shit that turns you off, I got mine.

So many people have put "fat" - that also applies to so many people.

Fat is something that shows poor character. It is a choice, it is something anyone can change if they are motivated. The choice to do nothing about being fat shows laziness and complacency. People can't do anything if they're born with a 2nd toe longer than the first. It is not the result of poor character or poor choices. Your nitpicking small things is very feminine. Reminds me of girls who would say something like "I won't date a guy with asthma" I do not even look at a girls feet beyond seeing if they have applied polish. Since painting her toes shows that she cares about her presentation. Like I said, that "mutation" is so common and so irrelevant.
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RE: List your top 5 turn-offs.
(02-17-2019 04:42 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  Aye everybody has their own weird turnoffs so don’t judge lol

For example I hate any veins in feet. It’s so common I simply don’t look. And I have a friend who HATES how pussy looks.

Doesn't matter how it looks, its what it does. And knowing what it does makes it hot to look at. Are you sure your friend likes women?
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