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Insta game with girl I've seen, had eye contact but didn't open
So, I've moved out of town (LDN, UK) for a year and I've been in Cyprus (island near Greece, Greek side) for the past month. Great island, local girls are generally hot as fu*k if you go to the popular beaches etc, and you've got a load of tourists coming in all summer as well like Russians, Swedes, English (not so good haha)....

Sometimes you see a good looking girl and think "oh she's hot" but every so often when you see one that takes your breath away. Around this time last month, I'm sitting on a food court table by the beach with my dad, and this girl walks up to the counter, orders food and walks off. I always get put off talking to girls when my dad's about, I just find it weird...anyway that was that. I kind of remembered her, but forgot about her. I thought she was just a tourist. Anyway, I go to the beach today, one month later and I see her. I'm sitting having a coffee and she just walks by with her family and sits down across the outside space from me with what looked like her parents and younger siblings. Someone's blocking the line of sight, but I kind of look around the table in line of view and she's looking and we make eye contact. How do you open a girl when she's sitting with her family? Again, I kind of let it slip. Then later on in the day I thought she'd gone, and I was ordering food from a food bar and as I turned around and looked across to the restaurant next door about 15 meters down she was walking into the place with her little sister whilst I was turning away and we made eye contact again, she was looking at me first though because when I turned she was looking. I thought "should I follow her in?" but then I thought that was weird following her into the coffee place at the end of the day when it looked like they were going to the use the bathroom or something.

I get home. Do some Instagram searches, and I find her profile. I thought I had no chance but a couple of places/location searches and I find her. So I've got profile. It's on private. A facebook check gives me 95% certainty it's the same girl. I'm giving it one more shot, because I can't be at the same beach every day just to see if she's there, and she's a Greek girl from back home, London, so she'll probably be going back soon, maybe at end of summer so time is limited but I don't care I want to open an interaction with her. You never know with these things. And funny enough, I was talking to someone yesterday who has a friend here from the UK like me, and I was like how did he meet his Greek girlfriend here and he said, he messaged her on Instagram!

I'm going to the same beach tomorrow. I'm going to keep an eye out for her and go to the same coffee spot on the beach around the same time i.e midday. If that fails, and I might actually give it another go on Saturday, I have her Instagram. It kind of makes it tougher that it's on private, because I either need to request to follow or DM first. And then there's the question about how to open? Occasionally Facebook and Instagram does throw up random profiles if you've been in the same location or on same public connection...it happens quite a lot to me. But it would be weird saying something like that. My profiles pretty good with good social value and I've got a good situation here...I'd say I'm good looking, athletic and I have my own apartment I'm renting with a nice car. She's 18, I'm 25...but damn I want to meet her before she goes.

What do I do if I don't run into her in the next few days? Request to follow her and nothing else, and just wait. I bet she'd accept. I'm also on private so she'd have to request me. But then I've got to DM something. Maybe I'm overthinking it, and a simple Hey Smile would do. How about this. "Hey (: You came up in my suggested followers, I recognise you (possible insert of descriptive word here i.e I recognise you as the (beautiful, weird, interesting etc etc) girl from xyz beach. Then I don't know what to say...how are you? how long are you here for? let's meet, bring some friends to this location etc"? No idea with this random Instagram game, but I've heard a lot of stories that this sh*t can work.
08-23-2018 04:32 PM
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RE: Insta game with girl I've seen, had eye contact but didn't open
Cliffs - Sorry for long post

Saw girl last month I like a lot, well at least beauty wise at the beach/beach restaurant/bar area. Didn't approach. I was with my dad and it was a really short time frame like a few mins so it didn't happen. I kind of forgot about it, but was pissed at the time.

Saw her again today. She was with her family and I couldn't do it. I regret it, but failing following her and her little sister into the toilets in a seperate restaurant I feel like there wasn't a chance without it being weird. We made eye contact a couple of times on three separate occasions; When she walked into the coffee bar I was in and sat down with her parents/family, another when I was on the phone randomly on edge of beach and she was on a sunbed with what looked like her dad and brother and another when I was just getting ready to leave beach, picked up some food to go and as I turned and looked across to another restaurant she was walking inside other place with her little sister and was already looking over at me when I turned around.

I'm here in Cyprus for a year most likely. She is from here, but like me born and raised in UK, so will be heading back to UK at end of summer, I'm guessing 10-14 days. I found her Instagram via location searches and some effort. It's on private, like mine. If I request to follow her, how do I slide in her DM's? What can I write other than "Hi/Hey" which doesn't scream oh by the way I stalked Instagram loads to find your profile? I've got buddies with stories of friends who have been successful using this method. I'm going to go back to same beach in next few days, I was going to anyway, but if I don't see her I'm looking for Instagram tips?

Thanks!
08-23-2018 04:40 PM
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Go for it, it doesn't hurt to try, especially if she struck you as particularly attractive. Chances are it won't work, but you're in Cyprus so there's plenty of girls around anyway. Worst thing that can happen is she ignores you.

Also, in the event that you bump into her elsewhere, just approach her and try to make something happen. Even if you've added her on IG, DMed her, and she ignored you, she probably won't remember, and in the TINY chance she brings it up, you can pretend to not remember either and game as usual.

Edit: Add her, and if she accepts/follows back, just DM her saying you're in Cyprus as well, that she seems familiar, and that you'd be down to hit the beach or grab a drink. I don't think its "creepy" given that its a relatively small place. Even if she thinks so, whatever, you have nothing to lose.
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08-23-2018 04:41 PM
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(08-23-2018 04:41 PM)RDF Wrote:  Go for it, it doesn't hurt to try, especially if she struck you as particularly attractive. Chances are it won't work, but you're in Cyprus so there's plenty of girls around anyway. Worst thing that can happen is she ignores you.

Also, in the event that you bump into her elsewhere, just approach her and try to make something happen. Even if you've added her on IG, DMed her, and she ignored you, she probably won't remember, and in the TINY chance she brings it up, you can pretend to not remember either and game as usual.

Edit: Add her, and if she accepts/follows back, just DM her saying you're in Cyprus as well, that she seems familiar, and that you'd be down to hit the beach or grab a drink. I don't think its "creepy" given that its a relatively small place. Even if she thinks so, whatever, you have nothing to lose.

Thanks man.

I've actually got no problem with using Instagram or DM'ing a girl. I just thought the randomness of the follow might see a little weird. But you know what, your are right..there are tons of hot girls here just what I like i.e tanned skin, good bodies etc, and if I don't see her again and don't message her it's the same result as if I message her and she ignores it....it's why I was kind of shocked my buddy told me a few days ago that his friend met his girlfriend by messaging her on Instagram.

I'm gonna do it after tomorrow if I don't bump into her.
08-23-2018 04:47 PM
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How long are you in Cyprus for?

It's only a matter of time before you end up crossing paths again. Girls in Cyprus usually end up heading to the same beaches and I am assuming you're probably in Limassol.

Cyprus is all social circle game, period. Local girls are really skittish about guys approaching them, especially guys they don't know and they will reject you to 'show face' when they're around their friends, especially on the beach.

I would definitely re-visit the same place and go chat her up. I like to take a tavli set and sit next to them and challenge them to a game. Anything playful works.

That being said, you can DM her and let the chips fall where they may. If she's also BBC (British born Cypriot) then she should be more down to earth and open to that.
08-24-2018 11:34 AM
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dude you have nothing to lose go for it!!!!
08-24-2018 12:08 PM
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(08-24-2018 11:34 AM)Noir Wrote:  How long are you in Cyprus for?

It's only a matter of time before you end up crossing paths again. Girls in Cyprus usually end up heading to the same beaches and I am assuming you're probably in Limassol.

Cyprus is all social circle game, period. Local girls are really skittish about guys approaching them, especially guys they don't know and they will reject you to 'show face' when they're around their friends, especially on the beach.

I would definitely re-visit the same place and go chat her up. I like to take a tavli set and sit next to them and challenge them to a game. Anything playful works.

That being said, you can DM her and let the chips fall where they may. If she's also BBC (British born Cypriot) then she should be more down to earth and open to that.

Hey man, I'm here until the end of next summer at least, so a good while. It's just a shame the summer season is winding down now.

I'm around Larnaca area actually, but I don't know if I'll see this girl again because I've got a feeling she'll be heading back to the UK in the next week or so. She wasn't around today at the same beach, but you win some and you lose, but maybe I can play the long game on Instagram. I'm gonna give it another day and then request to follow on Instagram. I've been messing about on Instagram a bit following local girls and all those on private have accepted me which is a positive.

I like Cyprus, and I feel like the Cypriot girls like me, because I see them looking quite a lot but I don't have that social circle yet which is frustrating. I was in a similar situation in Greece a few years back and I was running around the city/town with a guy who knew a lot of people, so it was so easy man. We'd just walk into a busy coffee/bar area, he'd see a group of girls he knew and straight away I was sitting down with them asking me questions/interested in me...whereas if I was by myself it would have been tough tough work...that inner social circle is so key, and it's frustrating because I don't have that here yet.

How do you know about Cyprus? You visited/live here?
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08-24-2018 02:52 PM
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(08-24-2018 11:34 AM)Noir Wrote:  How long are you in Cyprus for?

It's only a matter of time before you end up crossing paths again. Girls in Cyprus usually end up heading to the same beaches and I am assuming you're probably in Limassol.

Cyprus is all social circle game, period. Local girls are really skittish about guys approaching them, especially guys they don't know and they will reject you to 'show face' when they're around their friends, especially on the beach.

I would definitely re-visit the same place and go chat her up. I like to take a tavli set and sit next to them and challenge them to a game. Anything playful works.

That being said, you can DM her and let the chips fall where they may. If she's also BBC (British born Cypriot) then she should be more down to earth and open to that.

Hey man, I'm here until the end of next summer at least, so a good while. It's just a shame the summer season is winding now.

I'm around Larnaca area actually, but I don't know if I'll see this girl again because I've got a feeling she'll be heading back to the UK in the next week or so. She wasn't around today at the same beach, but you win some and you lose, but maybe I can play the long game on Instagram. I'm gonna give it another day and then request to follow on Instagram. I've been messing about on Instagram a bit following local girls and all those on private have accepted me which is a positive.

I like Cyprus, and I feel like the Cypriot girls like me, because I see them looking but I don't have that social circle yet which is frustrating. I was in a similar situation in Greece a few years back and I was running around the city/town with a guy who knew a lot of people, so it was so easy man. We'd just walk into a busy coffee/bar area, he'd see a group of girls he knew and straight away I was sitting down with them asking me questions/interested in me...whereas if I was by myself it would have been tough tough work...that inner social circle is so key, and it's frustrating because I don't have that here yet.

How do you know about Cyprus? You visited/live here? I'm Cypriot but born in London.
08-24-2018 03:00 PM
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I know Cyprus like the back of my hand, I'll PM you when I get some more free time.
08-25-2018 02:36 AM
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Newbie Forum next time.

This is someone you haven't even spoken to.
08-25-2018 03:30 AM
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The universe is trying to tell you something. Approach. Do it indirectly if the family is there, but fucking do something apart from stalking her on insta.
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