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Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
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Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
Hi, How to differentiate in Asia between girls who are DTF and hookers?
Also would like to screen out domestic helpers without actually mentioning this on my profile (never know).

Background:
While I am not relying exclusively on online dating (before this comes up), I found it a somewhat useful addition. Also it can be useful in pipelining e.g., via Tinder Gold.

How can I screen out hookers? I don't have a problem with them but when on Tinder, I am obviously looking for amateurs, not pros. Same also for domestic helpers, some apps (e.g.. Blendr in Hong Kong) are full of them.

My challenge is that I am 40 and have the provider/ bf look so I naturally attract both hookers and helpers. I'm better/ younger looking in person (yes, need to take better photos but no time). My profile doesn't show my age but I am clearly not early/ mid-20s (what I would call the natural range target range for girls looking for hookups).

Going to Shanghai next week and I just matched with a 7 (age 26 or 27 I think) with no info in her profile (not uncommon in Asia I found).

I changed convo to WhatsApp and said let's meet on Wednesday and she said ok, 'waiting for you'. She also unmatched me on Tinder (potential red flag but this also happened to me with my first Tinder ONS and I am still in touch with her. So maybe this is not a 100% red flag if done to keep Tinder inbox clean?.

My gut says 95% chance the Shanghai girl is a hooker ('waiting for you' just sounds like it). But on the off chance she is just DTF (my profile doesn't show my age), how do I screen her out? Ideally before meeting up, don't want to waste my time.

Do I just message her 'Just to be clear, I don't pay for love/ sex...'? Am worried this might put off a girl who is genuinely DTF.
Ask for her job and if she doesn't answer, then it's clear (or not?)

Any tips welcome!
(This post was last modified: 11-08-2018 04:09 AM by OM88.)
11-08-2018 03:44 AM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
(11-08-2018 03:44 AM)OM88 Wrote:  Hi, How to differentiate in Asia between girls who are DTF and hookers?
Also would like to screen out domestic helpers without actually mentioning this on my profile (never know).

Background:
While I am not relying exclusively on online dating (before this comes up), I found it a somewhat useful addition. Also it can be useful in pipelining e.g., via Tinder Gold.

How can I screen out hookers? I don't have a problem with them but when on Tinder, I am obviously looking for amateurs, not pros. Same also for domestic helpers, some apps (e.g.. Blendr in Hong Kong) are full of them.

My challenge is that I am 40 and have the provider/ bf look so I naturally attract both hookers and helpers. I'm better/ younger looking in person (yes, need to take better photos but no time). My profile doesn't show my age but I am clearly not early/ mid-20s (what I would call the natural range target range for girls looking for hookups).

Going to Shanghai next week and I just matched with a 7 (age 26 or 27 I think) with no info in her profile (not uncommon in Asia I found).

I changed convo to WhatsApp and said let's meet on Wednesday and she said ok, 'waiting for you'. She also unmatched me on Tinder (potential red flag but this also happened to me with my first Tinder ONS and I am still in touch with her. So maybe this is not a 100% red flag if done to keep Tinder inbox clean?.

My gut says 95% chance the Shanghai girl is a hooker ('waiting for you' just sounds like it). But on the off chance she is just DTF (my profile doesn't show my age), how do I screen her out? Ideally before meeting up, don't want to waste my time.

Do I just message her 'Just to be clear, I don't pay for love/ sex...'? Am worried this might put off a girl who is genuinely DTF.
Ask for her job and if she doesn't answer, then it's clear (or not?)

Any tips welcome!

Hmm if they do not answer what they work with, ask again, if still no answer move on.

Also apply some common sense; if the girl is above average (a 7 or above) and lives in a city where she could fuck a new foreigner every night if she wanted to (Shanghai, Bangkok, Hong Kong etc.) there is probably something fishy unless you look like a total stud in your profile photos. I am talking about the girls that somehow showed in written form that they are DTF.
11-08-2018 07:47 AM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
Yep if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. We all know deep down our approximate SMV unless you're a total social retard.
11-08-2018 02:50 PM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
Based on my limited (but recent) experience on Tinder and OKC in Asia, the real answer might be that you can't.

That is, I don't think you can screen them out online. You will have to meet and next the ones who drop a P4P vibe. It might be useful to stack meetups so that you can bounce on the first/second/third girl if they give you "the sale".

You also won't be able to develop a screener script that will filter out all pros. They adapt. When the police in Macao went after the girls in the fishbowl for dressing a certain way, they started dressing like tourists. They adapt to whatever the market throws at them. If (honest?) guys wise up to their ways on swipe sites, they will just change their strategy.

As for the domestic helpers, why not just say on your profile that you are looking for someone to clean your house and make you a sandwich? Icon_biggrin

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11-08-2018 11:26 PM
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(11-08-2018 11:26 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:  Based on my limited (but recent) experience on Tinder and OKC in Asia, the real answer might be that you can't.

That is, I don't think you can screen them out online. You will have to meet and next the ones who drop a P4P vibe. It might be useful to stack meetups so that you can bounce on the first/second/third girl if they give you "the sale".

Thanks man this was super helpful!
11-08-2018 11:45 PM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
(11-08-2018 11:26 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:  As for the domestic helpers, why not just say on your profile that you are looking for someone to clean your house and make you a sandwich? Icon_biggrin

HAHAHA great idea Wink
11-08-2018 11:48 PM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
If she sends explicit photos and videos it’s usally a sign. Though I’ve had girls two points below my sexual market value do this.

Also some virgins like to send masturbation stuff sometimes too. But if she sends video of herself being raw dogged and sluttily sucking cock it’s usually at least a semi pro.

Most Asian bangs are willing, if not eager to cook and clean for me. I’ve never had to screen out one looking to be an actual maid, though.

I was talking to a guy recently who was pipelining. He got excited thick Pinays were sending him the raw dog stuff. I was like you know those are working girls, right?
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11-09-2018 12:03 AM
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RE: Asia Tinder/ Okcupid... how screen out hookers/ domestic helpers?
Agreed, If she sends a video of herself being raw dogged and sucking cock she is only a semi pro.....
11-09-2018 12:04 AM
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Ask what they do for work.
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