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Advice on cold approach
31 years old, fit, attractive black male. I haven't cold approached women since I was 19 and am obviously extremely rusty. I make my living in casinos and am planning to start off there. I'm naturally non-talkative and introverted but I believe I have the ability to be engaging and charismatic.

I'm looking for general advice on opening and closing the deal (getting the number). An interesting dynamic is I usually have luxury suites in aforementioned casinos so if a gal is willing we're a stones throw away from a suitable location.
12-23-2018 12:19 AM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
Assuming you want to do daytime approaches, I'd say read Daybang by Roosh, do the Roosh program (100 approaches) and start a journal here so you can get feedback on your approaches. Then once you've gotten good at indirect approaches and gotten over your AA, start experimenting with direct approaches (Tom Torero has a lot of high-quality, free material).
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12-23-2018 12:24 AM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
Head over to the black man game options thread and listen to the podcasts.

Also, read the entire thread. There is tons of actionable advice for people of every skin color. I'm white, but reading it and listening to the podcasts definitely improved my game.

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RE: Advice on cold approach
Just a word on being introverted and non-talkative: I’m like you and I don’t find it a problem at all. I don’t try to be an extrovert, I have my own introvert style, I ask questions, I make her talk, I have a few ready-made funny anecdotes, I play the mysterious guy, and it works well.

Another thing I’ve found is that it’s always better to close the deal immediately rather than take the number for later, so if you have a luxury suite close by it’s a great asset. Ideally you chat a little, go get a drink, and directly to bed.
12-23-2018 11:04 AM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
(12-23-2018 11:04 AM)Montrose Wrote:  
Another thing I’ve found is that it’s always better to close the deal immediately rather than take the number for later, so if you have a luxury suite close by it’s a great asset. Ideally you chat a little, go get a drink, and directly to bed.

+1. Close the deal immediately if logistics allow it. Getting a girl's number/instagram can lead to no reply or flakiness later on.
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(12-23-2018 10:11 AM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Head over to the black man game options thread and listen to the podcasts.

Also, read the entire thread. There is tons of actionable advice for people of every skin color. I'm white, but reading it and listening to the podcasts definitely improved my game.

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12-23-2018 12:00 PM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
Oh c'mon PapayaTapper...

You are part of a chatroom gossip ladies, gossiping about other men in a private RVF chatroom. You have cried about every actual game post on the forum.

You clowns even doxxed me. (I'm self employed so just complain to the boss. Or call me, it's way easier).

Now you're crying there is no content on the forum.

Huh.

Okay. Cool. Be a man and post some original content. Tell us how it's done.

You're an accomplished player, right?

Let's hear what you've got.
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RE: Advice on cold approach
(hint: papaytapper will post nothing. she has nothing. Except a Gossip Girls chatroom about other RVF members.) Weird.

C'mon PT. You are a true player. So let's see some content.

We're waiting ...
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12-25-2018 12:53 AM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
(12-25-2018 12:53 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  (hint: papaytapper will post nothing. she has nothing. Except a Gossip Girls chatroom about other RVF members.) Weird.

C'mon PT. You are a true player. So let's see some content.

We're waiting ...

C'mon Hank. I've not been here as long as either of you, but even in the year I've been here I've watched the game forum's noticeable decline. It's the same tired debates on every thread (looks v. game, money v. game, anglo women suck, etc).

Without knowing what's going on between you two, I'd ask you this: is the community more important? Or the beef? Because this is juvenile and takes away from the caliber of the forum.

As someone that enjoys reading your posts and has agreed with a lot of what you've previously written, I hope you'll choose the former regardless of how you feel about this.

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RE: Advice on cold approach
OP are you consistently around a large volume of women in these casinos? Are you in a place where you can chat up women by just going about your day? I think some more detail is warranted here.
12-25-2018 11:21 AM
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RE: Advice on cold approach
(12-24-2018 02:56 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Oh c'mon PapayaTapper...

You are part of a chatroom gossip ladies, gossiping about other men in a private RVF chatroom. You have cried about every actual game post on the forum.

You clowns even doxxed me. (I'm self employed so just complain to the boss. Or call me, it's way easier).

Now you're crying there is no content on the forum.

Huh.

Okay. Cool. Be a man and post some original content. Tell us how it's done.

You're an accomplished player, right?

Let's hear what you've got.

This shit is out of control. You are fantasizing about things that haven't happened.

PT hasn't been on any RVF chatroom, Facebook group message, iPhone green check mark group chat, or Sonos speaker fan forum gossiping about you, doxxing you, nor coming even close to posting, much less crying about "every game post" on this forum (hell, that claim would be ridiculous for almost ANY poster considering the sheer volume of game posts).

For YOU to challenge someone else to post some original content is laughable considering how much of your posts are just regurgitating someone else's concepts or re-writing your own. You got called out on it so hard that you scaled back your posting as a result.

You are acting like a jealous little girl who doesn't talk and hang out with members outside of the forum and isn't in the "in crowd" as if anyone is actively trying to ostracize you when the reality is that not many would even consider hanging out with you because of your behavior (despite your truck, big dog, and sonos speakers), not because of any conspiracy to keep you out.

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RE: Advice on cold approach
(12-24-2018 02:56 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  Oh c'mon PapayaTapper...

You are part of a chatroom gossip ladies, gossiping about other men in a private RVF chatroom. You have cried about every actual game post on the forum.

You clowns even doxxed me. (I'm self employed so just complain to the boss. Or call me, it's way easier).

Now you're crying there is no content on the forum.

Huh.

Okay. Cool. Be a man and post some original content. Tell us how it's done.

You're an accomplished player, right?

Let's hear what you've got.
Hank the reason you got doxxed is because you wouldn't stop humble bragging on the forum. So some rando lurker found your shit because news flash there's still rabid feminists and SJWs still hawking this place. Learn some basic OPSec and stop bitching about what was clearly at the end of the day your fault.

This is also the main reason no one on the forum that travels or does cool shit wants anything to do with you. Your blabbing might just get someone else doxxed.


And C your advice doesn't stand up. Half of it is just posing. The other half is lifted from elsewhere. Also for all your threats of just leaving this place you seem to never do perhaps this is the only place some hapless newbie might give you the ego boost that life seemed to have continually denied you.

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RE: Advice on cold approach
(12-24-2018 02:56 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  You clowns even doxxed me. (I'm self employed so just complain to the boss. Or call me, it's way easier).

There's more of that classic self-praise, slyly fit in there. Let's all get reminded of how cool and secure he is.
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