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The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
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The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
A huge epiphany I made this year was to the extent girls love to play on this daddy dynamic.

Usually (after sex) I start by joking she has to obey me and call me "daddy" in some situation.
After that it's often like an explosion and just about every text I get will contain "daddy". If we speak on the phone I notice that they'll often turn their voice into a childish submissive one and use slave like sentences. In real life they nod their head and have the puppy eyes.

"Wow. You bought some really good Christmas presents for your family. I'm proud. You're the best, daddy"

"I promise I'll be a good girl, daddy"

"What's up, daddy?"

"I belong to you, daddy!"


I realized they liked that stuff so I started to joke that I have this "good list" and "bad list" for them.
Anything good/bad they do will get on this list and I portray it like I will punish them (in bed with rough sex) if they don't act polite and then I usually lay and comfort them afterward "Daddy's girl made him proud, I'll clear the bad list now". I've noticed this has turned on a lot of them to a degree I haven't experienced before. Most I've been with have loved it.

I just find it fun and it's a nice way to get the girl to submit but at the same time I can't help but think it's strange since they're always the ones who want to keep playing and keep this going. What's up with the word "daddy" really?

I don't even think it's due to daddy issues since I've met those I know for fact have very good and successful dads that could almost be a member here.

What are your thoughts on this?

Why is this so exciting for so many women?

As far as I know, it seems to be a newer phenomenon and was not too popular say +20 years ago.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
Have you also tried experimenting with other words besides "daddy" to see if they elicit the same response?

I had a girl on a leash once (hilariously, she was another soldier in my unit at the time so she was a "strong and independent woman" outside of that hotel room) and have done the whole dominant thing but I never had anyone call me daddy just because that word had a weird feeling to it. As for why it is exciting to so many women, I think it is due to the fact that most of them have probably never followed a strong and competent male lead and that the form of pornography most commonly viewed by women is that in which a female is being dominated and/or abused somehow.

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Another factor is probably that women do not generally like being responsible for things. Who takes away her responsibility more than daddy? A woman calling you daddy and/or submitting to you is, in a role play kind of a way, relinquishing her control and responsibility, even if only temporarily within that specific context. This feels liberating to modern women who are not enjoying the modern world either because it pressures them into positions that are not fulfilling and which they are not geared for and turns men into exactly the sort of effeminate weasels that they can't stand.

In the same way that men are robbed by postmodern culture of submissive and respectable women, women are robbed by that same degenerate culture of dominant and competent men.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
There's a fairly extensive topic about this here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-36717.html

You may want to copy/paste your post into the thread linked above so the conversation is updated and in one place.

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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
(12-26-2018 05:52 PM)Waqqle Wrote:  Have you also tried experimenting with other words besides "daddy" to see if they elicit the same response?

I had a girl on a leash once (hilariously, she was another soldier in my unit at the time so she was a "strong and independent woman" outside of that hotel room) and have done the whole dominant thing but I never had anyone call me daddy just because that word had a weird feeling to it. As for why it is exciting to so many women, I think it is due to the fact that most of them have probably never followed a strong and competent male lead and that the form of pornography most commonly viewed by women is that in which a female is being dominated and/or abused somehow.

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Another factor is probably that women do not generally like being responsible for things. Who takes away her responsibility more than daddy? A woman calling you daddy and/or submitting to you is, in a role play kind of a way, relinquishing her control and responsibility, even if only temporarily within that specific context. This feels liberating to modern women who are not enjoying the modern world either because it pressures them into positions that are not fulfilling and which they are not geared for and turns men into exactly the sort of effeminate weasels that they can't stand.

In the same way that men are robbed by postmodern culture of submissive and respectable women, women are robbed by that same degenerate culture of dominant and competent men.

I'm normally not one for the dude-bro science, but this is actually pretty spot on. Women who have been very compliant about calling me daddy/submissive have been oddly open about their insecurities to me, and are very quick to blame me for making them feel bad by me saying/doing something.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
Never heard 'daddy' from a plate, and it would probably freak me out...
..but I love to hear 'papi'.
It's not quite the same.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
Daddy is alright but if the girl is of a darker complexion make sure you make her call you Master
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
(02-13-2019 02:24 PM)Prince Charming Wrote:  Daddy is alright but if the girl is of a darker complexion make sure you make her call you Master

I assume you are joking. I don't think we have discussed Raceplay here on the forum although I might be wrong. I've done it before and likely because I'm American and it has other implications here... it always creeps me out on some level.

I do realize that raceplay seems like 1/3rd of all porn... which usually involves black men and white women.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
Most girls get very creeped out of you mention the daddy thing in my experience, unless you dating girls 30 years younger?
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
(02-13-2019 02:55 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Most girls get very creeped out of you mention the daddy thing in my experience, unless you dating girls 30 years younger?

Really? I'm in my early 20s and girls love it when I make them call me daddy. Generally the more pleasant the relationship, the more likely she'll submit to calling me daddy.

My LTR gets so excited when I dominate her and will giggle like a little girl every time she calls me that.

This even extends to a few of the 40 something milfs I've tagged recently. They loved it that I made them call me daddy.

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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
(02-13-2019 02:55 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Most girls get very creeped out of you mention the daddy thing in my experience, unless you dating girls 30 years younger?

My experience with Daddy/Sir/Master is the opposite, fwiw. 20s 30s 40s does not matter even a little although the 19s/20s prob get off on it more.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list"
Most girls I have been with love this kind of lingo. I think Rat is referring to girls he hasn't been intimate with.

I always ask them who their daddy is in bed so they never forget.

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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
(02-13-2019 06:54 PM)Nater Wrote:  Most girls I have been with love this kind of lingo. I think Rat is referring to girls he hasn't been intimate with.

I always ask them who their daddy is in bed so they never forget.

Good point. I actually do this thing now with my main and I can tell that she loves it, especially if I've just released it on her face or mouth. That's when it's best used, right after ejaculation.

I ask her "Who do you belong to?".

And she has to respond like this

Her: "I belong to daddy"
Me: "Who?"
Her: "I belong to my daddy!"
Me: "Louder."
Her: "I belong to daddy and *nickname of my dick* is my savior!"

And then I either just check if she has swallowed or massage the cum a little bit into her face (like that classsic scene in the Lion King movie where the monkey Rafiki is massaging some oil on Simba's face when he's baptised). I think it's good to have her saying it 3 times because it really has to sink into her mind that you OWN her and that she is your property. Also good to hold a firm grip of her throat as you have this little conversation.

This one is fucking powerful and I believe it works a bit like affirmations.
Don't give me too much credit for this though because I read a version of this somewhere in the manosphere before I twisted it a bit to fit my dynamic.
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RE: The daddy dynamic and power of having a "good list" and a "bad list...
I really don't understand this "daddy" shit. Is it an American thing?
Why would a girl get off on her fucking her Father and why would you even entertain thoughts of fucking your daughter.

Its fucked up
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(02-16-2019 11:21 AM)fmman Wrote:  I really don't understand this "daddy" shit. Is it an American thing?
Why would a girl get off on her fucking her Father and why would you even entertain thoughts of fucking your daughter.

Its fucked up

Have you read the thread and the one that was linked? There's been some good answers.

It's about a very submissive-dominant dynamic, not that they have fantasies about incest.
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(02-13-2019 02:55 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  Most girls get very creeped out of you mention the daddy thing in my experience, unless you dating girls 30 years younger?

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