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Log - 2019 calendar week 12

- Social circle: so finally I got my first heavy make-out with one of my dancing students (she was on her period, so the complete bang did not happen). The bad news is that she flaked on our "dinner date" a few days later.

Learning points from the past weeks:
. Do not organize a 3-4 weeks dancing course. Rather offer single events and taste the waters. That helps to recruit more girls until I have a decent amount of students to move forward.
. Right after the course I shall move to a bar, otherwise the people won't consume alcohol. I don't consume so much either, but (unfortunately) this seems the most effective way for loosing up my targets.
. Towards the end of the night gathering ask the girl to join me to the bus stop > and then "espontaneously" to my appartment right on the corner for a last drink
. If sex does not happen, then just make her wait till our next dancing meetup. No need to rush for a date.

- Day game: pretty weak as expected, but spring looks much better. I will aim to run at least active sessions over the weekend.
03-24-2019 03:34 PM
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Log - 2019 calendar week 13

- Day game: just a few approaches after work and on the weekend. This is expected, but I will keep it easy until I master social circle

- Social circle: this week I had a new dancing group with 8 women from work. However most of them are out of my target. I also had a follow-up meeting with the younger group (from universities). I already screened them all, so I don't see any strong target anymore. It's time to recruit a new group.
Learning points:
. Selling (inviting to the course) is the most important activity >>> 60% of my time goes in there. I am reading now books on selling skills and networking.
. It is not that complicated to invite girls to a dancing course. Men are however hard to get, either they are insecure or too goal oriented (want quick game results). I will have to prepare some marketing content specially for men. Alternatively I will start getting used to courses with 80% women and simply adapt the agenda Tongue
03-31-2019 12:33 PM
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Log - 2019 calendar week 14

- Day game: 1 approach per day on average. However, I felt calm and enjoyed a bit more the walks

- Social circle: a new group incl. 5 girls came to my dancing project.
The "recruitment" starts to get motion. I read a book on sales skills in order to push my "promotion" through indirect approaches at work.
The next sticking point is that girls tend to leave right after the dancing session. As a solution, now I am promoting the whole plan >> dance hour + drink afterwards... so people gets mentally prepared.
04-10-2019 02:34 PM
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Log - 2019 calendar week 15

- Day game: a handfull of approaches. A couple of them at work, through indirect approaching.

- Social circle: a new group incl. 3 girls came to my dancing classes.
"Recruitment" is becoming a bit easier, but still need to invest time on inviting new people. Still, now I can focus more on the experience itself and putting more attraction into it.
At one of my courses also a couple of wild guys came to dance. One of them even pulled one of the cute students. I was a bit jealous at the beginning (me working so hard, and he just coming to "have fun"). But afterwards I took a good learning out of it... that attitude needed for playing the field is what I still need.
04-14-2019 02:54 PM
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Log - 2019 calendar week 16

- Day game: a few approaches as usual. Just to keep it up and running.

- Social circle: I got my first lay with one of my dancing students.
As kind of expected, I kept my antennae up for IOIs and waited towards the end of our night gathering for staying alone with her. Then we moved to my place where I run standard mid and late game.
Interesting though, the connection is pretty good with her. But my "PUA mindset" reminds me constantly on going after other potential targets in the group.

Learning points:
- Verbal escalation is better than physical. It is less noticeable for the group and also more comfortable for her.
- The last isolation is tricky: most members of the group will stay until the very end and aim to say goodbye at the same time. I must ensure to invite her (to my place) on time for her to be prepared with an excuse when leaving together.
04-21-2019 03:01 PM
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