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RE: Are Guys On Tinder Just Fucking Mediocre And Nasty Girls?
(01-22-2019 10:49 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  Location is a huge deal too. Just try swiping in cities like Prague, Budapest, Krakow,etc and you will find plenty of hot girls.

It's true. I have tried Tinder in the following cities: Budapest, Novi Sad, Kazan, Vienna, Bratislava and probably a few others. It's pretty dead in Serbia, but Budapest and Kazan returned a good number of girls in the 7.5-8.5 range. Kazan was the best.

But I think this has more to do with the different dynamics in those places. How does it compare to somewhere like London or Barcelona?

I have a feeling that online must be dying off in The West. According to this, POF (website) used to get about 5-7 million visit per day. Now it's down to about 1-1.5 million. And that's with them boosting their numbers by breaking into LatAm etc.

My home town has a population of about 70,000 in a 15 mile radius. There used to be about 200 girls online in the last day several years ago. Now it's 10.

Tinder is probably going down the same path. SimilarWeb has it as the 116th most popular app in the US. That must have been higher before.

This tells you all you really need to know about Tinder:

[Image: Why-use-Tinder.png]

That 45% attention seeking is probably mostly women.

Only about 1/3 of users are women:

[Image: GWI-tinder-demographic.png]

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02-03-2019 10:59 AM
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Gework you nailed it! Thank you for posting some data to prove the point. I can’t see straight men using tinder to boost confidence. You should post this in the tinder thread and watch half the forum get triggered. I wonder what people meant by other reasons? Maybe these are the women that are prostitutes and semi pros?
02-03-2019 11:51 AM
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(01-22-2019 09:16 AM)TutorGuina Wrote:  Ever noticed hot girls profiles all link to their IG?
Women use Instagram and Tinder for the same purposes, but Tinder is mostly for the girls who couldn't cut it in the former platform

The great majority of sheiks, sugar daddies and alpha celebrities are not on dating apps, they order their bitches through instagram instead
Case in point, world class footballer Neymar brings dozens of Instagram thots for his New Year party
[Image: neymar-rodeado-1.jpg]

Tinder is the lower league where mediocre girls who can't leverage their low value ass hang out for the chance of getting a common chad without fame pedigree, or for whales to try to fuck a normal healthy man

Hot girls go to IG to date up and hang out in real life to get a LTR of their level, tinder is mostly a passive stream of IG followers to them. Uggos are the one who need the dating apps, but they won't fuck guys the same level as them either

I'm late to this thread but this comment is gold. Very good understanding of the game. I saw this dynamic in NYC, and suspected something like that, but this explains it. I'm off the market now but this is good contextual information.
02-03-2019 05:38 PM
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RE: Are Guys On Tinder Just Fucking Mediocre And Nasty Girls?
Not sure why there's all the Tinder hate here.

It's definitely harder to punch above your weight on Tinder, and a lot of your intangible assets are marginalized but you can still pull 6's and 7's with a low degree of effort.

Part of Tinder is having a successful strategy, because GE is right. There's a ton of attention whores you'll need to filter through. Whether this is going for the number quickly, or only doing large scale swipe/messaging campaigns to normalize your result over a large population. If you're just swiping/messaging here and there, of course your results are going to suck.

Tinder is definitely not the right fit for everyone though.

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The data doesn’t lie: The women on tinder in the US are time wasting attention whores. I have had plenty of success with tinder as well have many other forum members that think tinder blows in the US. Tinder is not the best way to meet hot women in the US, and instragram is a shit show too. The attention whoring is 10x as bad on instagram. Back to the forum topic- yes, the vast majority of women on tinder in the US are fat skanks, and the rest are using the app to boost their sef esteem.
02-03-2019 08:49 PM
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(02-03-2019 06:09 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Not sure why there's all the Tinder hate here.

It's definitely harder to punch above your weight on Tinder, and a lot of your intangible assets are marginalized but you can still pull 6's and 7's with a low degree of effort.

Part of Tinder is having a successful strategy, because GE is right. There's a ton of attention whores you'll need to filter through. Whether this is going for the number quickly, or only doing large scale swipe/messaging campaigns to normalize your result over a large population. If you're just swiping/messaging here and there, of course your results are going to suck.

Tinder is definitely not the right fit for everyone though.

I thought tinder was basically 95% about looks.

I'm undeniably good looking and have pro pictures.

My issues have been:

#1 the massive amount of nasty/ugly chicks on the app

#2: the fuckable girls i match with will talk but then out of nowhere stop responding for no reason.

Maybe my issues are because I'm dealing with girls 18-21?
02-04-2019 01:08 AM
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(02-04-2019 01:08 AM)real98 Wrote:  
(02-03-2019 06:09 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  Not sure why there's all the Tinder hate here.

It's definitely harder to punch above your weight on Tinder, and a lot of your intangible assets are marginalized but you can still pull 6's and 7's with a low degree of effort.

Part of Tinder is having a successful strategy, because GE is right. There's a ton of attention whores you'll need to filter through. Whether this is going for the number quickly, or only doing large scale swipe/messaging campaigns to normalize your result over a large population. If you're just swiping/messaging here and there, of course your results are going to suck.

Tinder is definitely not the right fit for everyone though.

I thought tinder was basically 95% about looks.

I'm undeniably good looking and have pro pictures.

My issues have been:

#1 the massive amount of nasty/ugly chicks on the app

#2: the fuckable girls i match with will talk but then out of nowhere stop responding for no reason.

Maybe my issues are because I'm dealing with girls 18-21?

Yes tinder is all about looks, the issue here arises in the way attraction works for men and women is different.

Given a woman's sexual market value is almost entirely derived by her looks while for men it's a combination of factors. On that front tinder massively favours women in the way that it's designed in that your 'pitch' to the market is basically all boiled down to a few photos and some bullshit character limited bio which nobody ever reads. ie it's entirely looks focused, so women are able to maximize their shop window potential while dudes are somewhat restricted in only being able to advertise one aspect out of the many attractions triggers they may have.

Add onto this the fact that girls are more than happy to blantantly lie through the use of flattering photo angles, pictures taken years ago and photoshop apps then you get the scenario where chicks generally are able to massively upsell their 'product' (by quite some margin) while guys are generally underadvertising.

Thus tinder ends up being a massive attention whoring app for chicks (who are able to garner the attentions of dudes generally way out of their league in real life), while dudes generally are using it just to find low quality quick and easy bangs while they've got nothing else doing

I suspect rather than being a good looking guy, if you looked like any old Joe but instead had various photos of you flying private jets, on TV or partying in the DJ box in Vegas with Dan Bilzarian and the Chainsmokers etc then I'd expect you'd get a hell of a lot more traction on tinder

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I live in the metropolitan area of a capital of southern Brazil ... I put my location in the middle of my city and I put the distance in Tinder that took the farthest border ...

So far, I have not found even a single woman of relevance (who I know personally) who was in that app.
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