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She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
I just wanted to get shit off my chest. It's been 4 months or something now since I cut off contact with the bitch. What sealed the deal is she posted one of those really long and wordy instagram posts which went something like 'some people have outer shells and inner shells and once you get to a person enough their outer shell will break and you will see how beautiful their inner shell is'. So I wrote a comment to the post saying "u're fking ugly." She called and texted immediately which I didn't pick up or reply to. She said 'don't involve yourself with me if your girlfriend won't let you' and that I was just a 'chained dog.' And that's because I wouldn't leave my girlfriend for her? I'm not sure what kind of psychotic she is. She then proceeds to block me on facebook and instagram.

Despite all this, it's been 4 months and I'm still thinking of her. I'm real fucked up. I'm still with my GF which I also can't tell myself whether I'm enjoying it or not. She's a great girlfriend and very supportive of me in every way and I do enjoy spending time with her from time to time but I'm not crazy about her and sometimes even feel like I'd rather be left alone. TBH, there are some physical features about the GF that I can't get over like the fact that during sex her breasts and pussy smells off, more so than any of my ex girlfriends. This in between feeling I have, I just dont think it justifies a break up.

I also can't get over miss sociopath. As I said before, she's still a lifelong friend, as in probably the person I've known the longest, since elementary. I still feel like there's no closure and I'm still stuck with the feeling of what could've been. And at this rate, I feel like she would be willng to come back and play again any time, whether it's now or five years from now when she is married to another guy or whatever. We can still pick this back up and start the fucked up games again. I want her to not want to play this flirty game with me and we can go back to just being friends but that doens't seem like it can happen at this point.
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05-30-2019 01:17 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
I thik the pussy smelling off or tasting slightly weird is a biological sign that the pair of you are not a good fit.

Girls I've been properly into have had amazingly smelling pussies, even after not showering for a few days when camping together.

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05-30-2019 03:55 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
1. Further contact, even to insult was unnecessary
2. I’ve encountered some smelly cat in my days, but smelly breasts? I’m going to need you to elaborate on that one.
05-30-2019 09:42 AM
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(05-30-2019 09:42 AM)CDRhodes Wrote:  2. I’ve encountered some smelly cat in my days, but smelly breasts? I’m going to need you to elaborate on that one.


^ The best-titted girl I ever banged, who I was with for a few months, also had somewhat smelly tits. She was skinny but with D's that naturally stood up. However if she hadn't showered in more than a day or two, the area between her tits smelled like "behind the ears smell". (i.e. if you haven't showered yet today, and were sweaty yesterday, and touch behind your ear, your finger will smell a bit...)

It was a big turnoff! She used to be weird like "I don't need to shower EVERY day" because she was lazy and knew she was still hot...
05-30-2019 09:54 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
[/quote] The best-titted girl I ever banged, who I was with for a few months, also had somewhat smelly tits. She was skinny but with D's that naturally stood up. However if she hadn't showered in more than a day or two, the area between her tits smelled like "behind the ears smell". (i.e. if you haven't showered yet today, and were sweaty yesterday, and touch behind your ear, your finger will smell a bit...)

It was a big turnoff! She used to be weird like "I don't need to shower EVERY day" because she was lazy and knew she was still hot...
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Thats some nasty shit.. only time I ever encountered something like that was a ONS where when I dropped the pants I got smacked by a fish smell so bad that I legit was not able to be aroused. A girl telling me she didn't have to shower every day would be a no go for me.
05-30-2019 10:25 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
(05-30-2019 01:17 AM)Wonitis Wrote:  I just wanted to get shit off my chest. It's been 4 months or something now since I cut off contact with the bitch. What sealed the deal is she posted one of those really long and wordy instagram posts which went something like 'some people have outer shells and inner shells and once you get to a person enough their outer shell will break and you will see how beautiful their inner shell is'. So I wrote a comment to the post saying "u're fking ugly." She called and texted immediately which I didn't pick up or reply to. She said 'don't involve yourself with me if your girlfriend won't let you' and that I was just a 'chained dog.' And that's because I wouldn't leave my girlfriend for her? I'm not sure what kind of psychotic she is. She then proceeds to block me on facebook and instagram.

That was unnecessary. Your kinda still validating that you still care what she thinks even if its to diss her. Your not fooling anyone. Best to cut contact completely.

Despite all this, it's been 4 months and I'm still thinking of her. I'm real fucked up. I'm still with my GF which I also can't tell myself whether I'm enjoying it or not. She's a great girlfriend and very supportive of me in every way and I do enjoy spending time with her from time to time but I'm not crazy about her and sometimes even feel like I'd rather be left alone. TBH, there are some physical features about the GF that I can't get over like the fact that during sex her breasts and pussy smells off, more so than any of my ex girlfriends. This in between feeling I have, I just dont think it justifies a break up.

I don't think this will be shocking news but if you feel that way about your GF she's not the girl for you

I also can't get over miss sociopath. As I said before, she's still a lifelong friend, as in probably the person I've known the longest, since elementary. I still feel like there's no closure and I'm still stuck with the feeling of what could've been. And at this rate, I feel like she would be willng to come back and play again any time, whether it's now or five years from now when she is married to another guy or whatever. We can still pick this back up and start the fucked up games again. I want her to not want to play this flirty game with me and we can go back to just being friends but that doens't seem like it can happen at this point.

The ship has sailed kid. Move on. I want you to listen and listen good. IF AND ONLY IF.. you were to ever get with this girl, it will be when no one else wants her. She won't be hot anymore, she would be a wore out broad and then and only then will she come back to her safety blanket (AKA YOU) because she knows she's got your balls in here purse. IT will not end well bro.. move on
05-30-2019 10:36 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
^This is spot on. With a sociopath/narcissist/borderline, you’ll never get closure. They will keep doing what they do until their looks go and nobody will put up with them anymore. Then they reach out to the truly weak, the only person or people left that they can still manipulate who may put up with them. You have to move the fuck on and stay no contact, see other girls, and move forward with your life.

I repeat, YOU WILL NEVER HAVE CLOSURE.

I used to know a girl who’s husband divorced her in her mid-30s because she was a toxic pain in the ass. No kids. After a few months of taking random dicks, she settled in with some rube who had been relegated to the friend zone since college. Over 15 years of orbiting. Dude had professed his love back then when they were maybe 19 or so and she had laughed in his face. Fast forward the years and she’s been dumped, no real friends who will put up with her, no job or career, priced out of the city she was living in. So finally at 37 this guy gets his shot and she moves to his smaller city and eventually gets married to this male feminist who posts pictures of her on his IG, while she comes back to her old city every other weekend, often without him, for “weekend fun”.

Just for a little perspective, his most recent ex before that had been a tattooed single mom of a 12 year old.

Don’t be this guy.
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05-30-2019 11:02 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
Reminded me of this post by Jariel (full post here: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-44722.html):

(02-01-2015 02:10 PM)jariel Wrote:  Opponents

An opponent is someone who wants to win at your expense, which means you lose. Most women that cross your path will be nothing more than opponents, just accept that now. It doesn't matter how hot she is, it doesn't matter how badly you want her, neither of those thought processes changes the fact that she's an opponent, and you will lose against her.

You meet a girl, she gives you her number, you two plan a date, 15 minutes before the date, she texts you to let you know that she forgot to add Oxy Clean to her load of laundry and won't be able to make it to the date. She's an opponent. She didn't value your time, and didn't have any desire for there to a potential relationship between you two, so while you were making plans, getting dressed, etc. she didn't invest anything because she knew she was never going to make it.

Now sometimes, the girl shows up for the date. But you find out later, she wasn't really attracted to you, and she doesn't have any real desire to see you again. This was a chick who used you for a free meal, night on the town, etc. She knew what she wanted out of the interaction, and she damn sure knew what you wanted, but had no desire to give you what you wanted, so she got hers, and now she's done.

If you're getting used, taken advantage of, etc. then you're dealing with opponents. Opponents are out for themselves. They don't give a fuck about you. They look for whatever they can get out of the interaction, and while you're thinking progress is being made, they're thinking of how to eject since their goal has been accomplished.

For men out there that actually have something more to offer to women, they have to be careful for women who masquerade as teammates. While lower-level women may use a man for a free meal, some attention, a night out on the town, women who are opponents masquerading as teammates want something more. Much more. They're looking for financial security, name recognition, etc. To get there, she suckers you into believing that she's down for you, and as soon as there is any bump in the road, she will eject, knowing that she got what she was looking for, and she's done with you, she can move on. She could have married you, she could have had your children, but that doesn't mean she wasn't an opponent.

Struggling/broke bitches, single moms, gold-diggers, etc. are prime material for women who will masquerade as teammates.

At the end of the day, you can see the L coming, if you choose to.

If you want to be a player and win, know the game, not just the environment, but the different types of people who thrive within it, you'll be much happier with your results.
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(05-30-2019 10:25 AM)thackerybinx Wrote:  
Quote: The best-titted girl I ever banged, who I was with for a few months, also had somewhat smelly tits. She was skinny but with D's that naturally stood up. However if she hadn't showered in more than a day or two, the area between her tits smelled like "behind the ears smell". (i.e. if you haven't showered yet today, and were sweaty yesterday, and touch behind your ear, your finger will smell a bit...)

It was a big turnoff! She used to be weird like "I don't need to shower EVERY day" because she was lazy and knew she was still hot...

Thats some nasty shit.. only time I ever encountered something like that was a ONS where when I dropped the pants I got smacked by a fish smell so bad that I legit was not able to be aroused. A girl telling me she didn't have to shower every day would be a no go for me.

The odor issue does seem to be a growing problem for me. It sort of smells like sweat from armpits both down there and mildly on her breasts. The taste from her breasts always lingers in my mouth after sex. She does shower everyday so I don't think that's the problem, it is probably just something biologicial but whenever I try to tell her about body odor or any weird smells she says I'm rude for even mentioning it. I dunno here.
06-04-2019 01:34 AM
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RE: She's also a player, and a desperate case of oneitis
She doesn`t deserve your time and energy. First of all, she is older than you, then if she wanted to have sex with you, you shouldn`t have to wait for 10 years...

From my own experience i know that the best relationships (and bangs) happens when the interaction is really smooth and you don't have to put much effort.

Less effort = smooth and fun relationships
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Not surprised OP is in the same boat since he last posted.

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