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(02-07-2019 01:15 PM)teddy bear Wrote:  By the way, I was never once approached by a girl I didn't know. That said, I was approached by two dudes in span of one hour in one club. How does that fare?

Somebody should start a thread about the most aggressive gay approach you've ever had to shut down.
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(02-07-2019 01:50 PM)Fortis Wrote:  Not sure why guys are throwing shade at Linux for applying the principle of being different from the norm.

You see this shit all day in Asia. You often don't even need to be huge, just taller/more handsome/whiter/blacker/better dressed or something else than every other schlub in the area. You can easily verify these ideas if you go out and observe.

Here's an experiment for you guys who are around 30 or so: go lurk in a popular college bar and just be chill. You will probably get approached by some curious co-ed wondering why you aren't jumping through hoops to get her attention. Your poise and calm demeanor can really set you apart in these scenarios.

If the place is really popping you might even get grabbed on the arm and pulled into a group or conversation since you just look "cool."

So true. Depending on the venue I've had chicks open me by making fun of me for "looking cool". One of my fwb's calls one of my close buddies "miami vice" because he "thinks he's cool". She would let him rail her btw and I wouldn't care. He's just not pressed.
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aswifty:“You could have a perfect face and physique, but if you're anywhere sub 5'7 or such, too bad you're genetic trash to them, and now you hav eto jump through retarded hoops just to get in their overrated pussies. “

Have to disagree with OP here. I’m just sub 5’7” but no problem with women, and do get cold approached about 1/week or so during day/early evening (not clubbing or bar hopping right now). I do have a good face and I’m a gym
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I think game is particularly useful for guys who are 4/10 up to 8/10 (most guys) and those (like me) who struggle with escalating/closing (just out of 15 year marriage).
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(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  That an interesting perspective, and certainly inspiring. However, is it really anything to do with mentality or more so to do with physique? If we take some virgin with beta mindsets who's facially handsome who's like 6'4 and has been working out blasting tren for like a year, then place him in a club, he'll probably still get girls approaching him. And we can't really argue it has anything to do with his mindsets.

Nobody is saying that being taller than average, more handsome, and such isn't a factor but it's not the only factor like you seem to think it is.

You can absolutely argue that it has to do with his mindset. He has the mindset of a guy who has worked hard and made major gains in the physical strength and looks department and he's lived his adult life being tall so he expects to be treated well (many studies show that people attribute positive qualities to people who are tall). That is ALL part of his mindset. Some learned through accomplishment/earned (gym), and some luck (height/facial looks).

Having a shit mindset/complete lack of charisma will all but kill you as in the example I posted. Is the rest of it a large factor? Sure, but why focus on what you can't control?

(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  I'm not going to lie, i made this thread hoping to maintain my inclination that the purple pill has at least some validity in regards to looks vs personality/game, when in reality the black pill has been proven correct. Women are incredibly superficial, and are extensively picky on who they represent that special sexual intent to, that the majority of guys won't ever even experience a fraction of.

Wrong. Women CAN be very superficial but as proven by the guys here who are short, not model-quality looks, but have banged/dated countless girls, they are far less superficial than your "black pill" conclusion. Hell, I personally just banged a girl with an incredible body who I pretty much handed to my friend who is better looking, jacked, and far more financially successful and she chose me over him despite all those things. It's because of game!

(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  It's like, you have to be so particularly good looking, for them to throw out all those fronts they lie to society about out the window; "he only needs to be taller than me, i want a funny guy, i want a confident guy."

All of that shit becomes irrelevant when a guy is physically the cream of the crop.

No, they don't want a guy who's simply taller, they want a guy who is 6'2-6'5. No, they don't care how funny you are or intelligent you are, as much as they care about your physical dimensions.

No, no, and no. They may want all kinds of things but they will still bang/date guys that don't have those things.

(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  Because, if they did care about those personality traits, they would rather be approaching guys who have a higher likelihood of exhibiting those traits, based on observing their behavior and style, when in reality they're only interested in approaching guys who are more likely to have a rippling 6 pack and big cock.

Why do you care about what women are interested in approaching? Are you so lazy you don't want to go out there and get what you want? It's easy to say "oh women are whores and just want a Chad," and what is actually a challenge is to say, "I'm going to toughen up and teach myself how to bang/date attractive women. I'm going to make myself better and earn something"

(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  It is a total myth that women are not confident enough to approach men, lies. I don't think they take rejection as hard as us men want to delude ourselves into believing. Why would they? They have another option right after you reject them, might not be their first choice, but at least it's another warm body to hold onto at night.

Women take rejection very hard when they are really into a guy. It's still very rare that women approach. As others have said they usually will provide more IOIs to any guy they find very attractive.

Would you rather focus on the fact that attractive women have endless options or accept it and look positively on the fact that you can improve yourself drastically while women really can't.

(02-07-2019 07:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  I mean, i'm dedicated to the gym, and am going to be improving my looks substantially, but because i have like 3 facial flaws, and im only 5'10, ill never get that special intention, most likely. I mean, maybe things can change when im 8-10% bodyfat.

Just curious, what is your height?

Facial flaws in men are usually nowhere near as an affect as they are for women. In fact, scars and other rough things can be attractive to women where as for men they rarely are. You'll never get any significant attention with that attitude.

You're above average height and you're complaining about being short. Your mentality is the only thing really holding you back.

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  Okay, fair enough, i agree with you, i'm not going to quit just because good looking guys have to put in next to no effort.

It's not more of a matter of me wanting to give up, it's rather more of a matter of me resenting women for it.

The reason why I resent them for this behavior is because they're always lying about how a man's looks are down the list of importance for them, but then look how they behave around chad.

If women are going to act so dramatically different for chad vs a normal looking man, this actually proves that women actually care more about looks than men, or rather genetics.

Men, by large, are open minded to be sexually free and willing to both a 6 out of 10 to a 10 out of 10, assuming his options aren't overflown.

If women are so specific about what they truly find attractive, then that proves they think about it more, and have more refined tastes.

No dude, women are not all about looks. They've proven this that women get turned on by all kinds of things sexual whereas men are far more specific with what turns them on. It is easy to resent women for how they are but if you look at why they are that way then it starts to make sense and the world starts to become your oyster.

Hating women is a bad choice to make. It's letting yourself be controlled by your own fear and insecurities. Women are awesome. I love to flirt with them and game them and sometimes bang them. They are one of the best things in life, don't despair because the world you were sold isn't the world you live in. Realize that you can be Neo in the Matrix and allow yourself to gain the power of game, charisma, etc... and it will change your life!

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  It's a lot easier for a woman to hit that 9+ category through working out, cosmetics, and surgery. Usually just make up, working out, and dieting will get them to a 9, despite have far than less than ideal facial genetics.

Dead wrong. Women have FAR less ability to become a 9+ than a man can bring himself up. We men are SO fortunate in this regard. Men can age like wine, women age like milk.

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  Women, after all, tirelessly analyze their facial proportions trying to accentuate beautiful aspects of their face, whilst hiding the flaws. Pure manipulation. Women are red pilled about looks just by application, and they have learned through observing beauty standards of what makes a beautiful face, and attempt to replicate that via makeup. So, when they see the oh so very rare men fulfill the standards of beautiful proportions, their pussies gush.

Women's pussies gush for a guy that gets in their head. The one that knows how to flip all the right switches. The one that can pick them up and make them feel protected. It's not a specific height, big dick size, ripped 6-pack, or any particular thing. While they see us initially by looks, our attitude, our experience, our toughness, our friends, our accomplishments, bleed through and color their view.

Lucky for us!

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  Also, there's one consistent aspect to the top tier male's looks in this thread, is height. Men are tremendously more open minded about height than women. You could have a perfect face and physique, but if you're anywhere sub 5'7 or such, too bad you're genetic trash to them, and now you have to jump through retarded hoops just to get in their overrated pussies.

Women will pick height up on dating apps and such but in person they are far less height-variable and there are a lot of short chicks out there. So what that some want height. That's not what they necessarily end up only going for.

How do you know that their pussies are overrated especially since you don't seem to be having hardly any success? That's just a massive male hamster spinning away at warp speed on it's wheel.

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  It's this self righteous lie of being the less superficial sex, and being some victims to male superficiality that makes me sick to my stomach, because the behavioral evidence keeps showing the contrary.

Your attitude and weak bitterness is what turns girls stomachs instead of wetting their pussies.

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  It's not just stories like these ones on this thread that prove this deranged mentality they project, but a catfish account on tinder can prove this true as well.

It is enraging, and I don't really know how to cope with the anger without it leaking negatively into my game attempts.

Let it go! Don't dwell on what you can't change, it doesn't matter. Focus on what you can't change and work on improving yourself in areas that will make you happy and ultimately get you more of what you want out of life.

(02-07-2019 10:33 AM)aswifty Wrote:  People tell me sometimes that girls can probably sense my hatred for them when i speak to them, thus explain my low success rate, but the black pill in me just says, "5'10, 17% bodyfat, weak style sense, lack of dhvs, and reserved body language, ect."

I'm not the only man who admits this, but the truth about women is very negative, and once that truth is realized, it's very hard not to hate them for it, on biological and cultural level. I've been struggling with this for years... perhaps the red pills just hits some men too hard, and me being one of them. lol

The truth about women is negative only because you've been lied to and it sucks to find out. But the truth about women isn't negative. The truth about them is that it doesn't really take ALL that much to set yourself apart from the sea of men that want them but can't get them. You've spent years struggling and being bitter when you could've spent those years focusing on the gym, your health, your wealth, and enjoying all the women (or relationships if that's what you want) that can be had with improvements in your life and learning game/charisma.

Quit living in the past and start living in YOUR future.

EDIT: One more thing. I was not that attractive and was short in school but I had multiple girls into me then that I only learned about long after I was out of school. I was so clueless that I thought these girls didn't like me at all and even looked down on me. If you had told me then this fact I would've told you no fucking way, but this was the truth. I literally had one of these girls throw themselves at me when she told me about it otherwise I might not have believed her. I was blown away. This girl was mean to me and laughed at me with her friend back then. Maybe because I pretended I didn't care, who knows why, but it wasn't because I was a tall model because I certainly wasn't.

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My buddy is about 6'4", many visible tattoos, attractive, successful but not rich, dresses well whether casual jeans and shirt or suited up -- and honestly he's the first guy I've known who women literally throw themselves at. And I don't mean ugly/average girls, but hot girls, models, strippers. They're happy just to have him bang them 1x a week.
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Why does it matter?

Worry about things you can change, not what others are doing.

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Lots of people advising OP to 'learn game'. I'm curious, OP. Have you 'learnt game' yet? i.e Have you read any game books.
I'm assuming since your posting here, you already know game/have game

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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
Yeah, I've been cold-approached by girls that may or may not have been attractive. Here are some things that can improve your chances of getting a cold approach:

(1) Eye contact and staring: If a girl is staring at you from a close-distance, return the eye-contact and motion her to come close to talk to you. Wave to her and tell her to come over.

(2) Wear a flashy accessory like Mardi Gras beads. If you are wearing something cool and fun to play with. Girls love to have fun and laugh around, even if you are average looking. The common term is peacocking but accessorizing is more accurate. This also includes having interesting tattoos to talk about. Its not so much a direct approach from girls, but an indirect fun approach these girls use.

(3) If you are in a VIP bottle service section of a club, then girls will approach you if they want to sit with you or share a drink. Also, if you are good dancer and they want to dance with you on the dance floor. Or if you are showing off the biceps, girls will approach you to touch your arms and compliment you.
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(02-06-2019 10:34 AM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  Seriously? My experiences haven't been that great but even I've been approached by a 6 before. I have 2 close friends, 1 looks like a mix between Jalen Hurts and Shamar Moore. The other friend looks like a darker Zyzz. Both of these guys SUCK with women (I mentioned the Zyzz looking one before) The First friend, gets approach every often usually by 6's but sometimes the occasional 9 approaches him. The other friend gets approached by 7's ups but bores them off VERY quickly.

I've been aggressively approached by Black girls at clubs, even if its just to dance and goof around. I guess its the prissy white girls that never approach. But there are certain types of aggressive ethnic girls that aren't afraid to approach. Granted some of them may be gold-diggers/greencarders who have ulterior motives to finding a boyfriend/husband. If you want to be really lazy and attract gold-diggers then suit up and buy bottle service in a private booth and invite all the hot girls to your booth for free drinks.
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(02-06-2019 11:31 AM)aswifty Wrote:  If this is true, than learning the skill of cold approaching women is more or less a waste of time, and the best method would to be is get good looking as possible, and eliminate neediness entirely and wait for girls to approach you. You do know your comments somewhat dispels the virtue of cold approaching women and learning game, if your intention is getting laid. I'm starting to agree with incels lol

You're missing the point. Girls want trust and comfort before dating a guy. Even guys with physical attraction can screw it up with bad personalities that turn-off women. It certainly does help 75% of the time to go the gym, wear nice clothing. But you need that 25% of flirting to cross the finish line.

But social circle game is a better way to get laid outside of the club, and that doesn't even rely on good looks, just a friendly personality.
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Most guys never get cold approached by women. I don't think any of my friends have been CA'd. Nevertheless, most of them managed to get a wife or girlfriend. I think having women make the move should be considered as a little treat. It's nice and I do greatly appreciate it. But most guys 'man up' and do the approach and that's how it should be.
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(02-08-2019 12:20 AM)UlugBeg Wrote:  Most guys never get cold approached by women. I don't think any of my friends have been CA'd. Nevertheless, most of them managed to get a wife or girlfriend. I think having women make the move should be considered as a little treat. It's nice and I do greatly appreciate it. But most guys 'man up' and do the approach and that's how it should be.

It just sounds like the OP wants to take the Laziest method possible.
He just thinks if he looksmax then he doesn't need to learn game to escalate to a relationship.
In reality, game is both the physical and mental attraction.

But impressing and attracting women involves putting in the effort and energy, even if its just working out and grooming. Nothing in life is easy, even hollywood celebrities need to work hard at acting.

I think the laziest method to picking up women would be to become a male stripper or build a social circle of women from a college sorority.
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No amount of game is going to help you if women do not find you physically attractive. Men are realizing this slowly but surely. On this forum it used to be all about game back in the day and even here views on this are changing.
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In germany I have never seen a guy who gets constantly approached by women. also, I have never seen or met a guy who constantly fucks hot women here.
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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
Simple answer is NO.

They'll hover within range and look when out of range, not directly "approach". They'll signal.

"Normal" women are afraid to make the first *obvious* move unless drunk, high or in an indirect and deniable scenario.

This is what real "game" is about. It teaches you to see, and leverage signals.

p.s. Spam approaching is not game, it's spam and women never do such stuff unless they're looking for Johns or marks. For men, spam approaching is a noob training tactic for rejection/fear adaption.

Women don't cold approach men so don't expect it if you're good looking.

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(02-08-2019 02:08 AM)emilio123 Wrote:  No amount of game is going to help you if women do not find you physically attractive. Men are realizing this slowly but surely. On this forum it used to be all about game back in the day and even here views on this are changing.

Come on man. When dudes born with no arms and no legs manage to get a cute wife then you have zero excuse to believe in this crap. Women are attracted far more than just physically to men. It's like you've never seen an ugly weird looking but mean criminal dude have a damn attractive girl. It's not just about looks.

You guys are so self defeating it's really sad.

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(02-07-2019 06:29 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Why does it matter?

Worry about things you can change, not what others are doing.

Learn game and self improvement, then your luck will improve with women.

Great post. This is a simple post but says literally everything that needs to be said on the matter.
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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
No but they often get eyes from women inviting them to approach.
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(02-06-2019 03:20 PM)Hombre Wrote:  I’ve gone out with a couple of my guy friends who are objectively very good looking. Girls will give them “looks” but rarely actual approaches. If the guys are savvy enough to pick up on that, that’s a different story.

@Hombre, You took the words out of my mind here.

From what i have witnessed,
The girls i`ve seen doing that don`t necessarily approach, but rather give very strong eye contact and present an inviting body language to the guy.
In other words they give a a very strong invitation for the guy to approach, And they will respond in kind and with a smile when approaches.
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I still have trouble understanding what “the look” means. I usually get blank stares for like 5+ seconds with zero emotion on their face. Is that it?
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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
I'm happy to see this subject being discussed.

I'm good looking.

I've been cold approached by girls in nightclubs literally hundreds of times.

The vast majority of the girls are 6s, then a decent number of 7s have approached me and less then 10 girls who are 8+ in looks have ever approached me.

And its a myth that you need to look happy to get approached; i naturally look pretty much angry and annoyed all the time and girls still approach me so if you're good looking they dont care if you look angry.

I can literally just stand in a club by myself looking bored/annoyed/even angry and get approached; I never look happy/friendly like a lot of people claim is needed for girls to feel comfortable coming up to you.

I've discussed this subject with my friends who are taller/better looking then me and they get approached even more.

And i specify height because I feel height is super underrated.

I'm just over 6 feet but i've gone clubbing with guys who 6"4 + and there's a significant difference in how girls react to them compared to me even though I'm better looking facially then most of these guys. I'm pretty skinny and at just over 6 feet my height is not that great so my face is by far my best asset.

So in my experience being super tall beats even a better face assuming the super tall guy still has an above average face.

so a guy who is 6 foot 5 who has a face of level 7 will get approached by more and hotter girls then a guy who is 6 foot 1 and has a 9 level face.

All my friends who are 6 foot 4 and above all get laid in clubs at will and consistently, if you are that tall just make sure you are not fat and you will get laid at will; people do not understand how valuable that level of height is.

I also want to add that even my friends who are taller/better looking still get mostly approached by 6s and some 7s.

In my experience most 8+ will give IOIs but they dont have the guts to actually come up and talk to you.

Anyone claiming on here that they have been approached consistently by 8+ chicks is lying; I've never ever seen it.

If you want to fuck only girls who approach you then you will mostly fuck 6s like 70% of the time and 7s the other 30%.

8+ require that you approach, I've been getting approached by girls all my life since i was like 14 so I know this subject very well and I assure you that even top 0.1% guys do not get consistently approached by 8+; these chicks might give them very strong IOI but they will almost never come up and talk to your first.
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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
I have a couple friends who get this. I mean I've had girls cold approach me, but I'm not holding my breath.

One of my friends is good at reeling them in with eyes and glances. I'd never advise this method, because you have to have A game. But this guy does. I've seen girls go crazy over him.

But most guys shouldn't spend too much time in this thread or think about this disparity much. It's not even good for me to read. It's probably not even good for guys like him or real98 to read/write/think about this thread, because the only takeaway is either that you're so alpha you don't have to approach or you're so beta that approaching is useless.

(It should be noted, my friend who reels in chicks from across the room...He's married to a pretty hot chick, and she's the only woman he's ever asked out. You'll respect yourself and your woman a lot more if you had to put some effort in to get her than if she just falls into your lap.)

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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
(02-08-2019 09:10 AM)real98 Wrote:  All my friends who are 6 foot 4 and above all get laid in clubs at will and consistently, if you are that tall just make sure you are not fat and you will get laid at will; people do not understand how valuable that level of height is.

Nah, this isn't an universal truth.

I'm 5'9. My main wing man is 6'4. Looks wise, I'm better looking than him and I have a better body. He's above average face wise but he is bald. He is red pill'd and his game isn't bad. He has no fear on approaches. However, over the last two years I've slept with more girls than he has and I've even had girls say they were more attracted to me than him. Hell, last Fall some buddies and I met him and a girl he took out earlier in the evening for some drinks. She came up to me in the kitchen, kissed me and grabbed my dick. I wasn't going to even entertain the idea of fucking his date that night so I had to blow her off. And I have other examples like this of where a girl he was interested in actually was interested in me.

I have never had a girl tell me I was too short. So I really think this height thing is overrated.

We all have anecdotal stories that will contradict observations from another's story. And while looks and height DO matter, knowing game seems to be the universal element that matters most.

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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
If you're good looking, it will happen once in a while (particularly when out at night- at bars, clubs, etc.). It seems to be mostly average girls.

From what I've witnessed, more so than facial structure or sense of style- the biggest physical advantage for men is height (if you're significantly above average/objectively tall, 6'2"+). We know women like men for other things (primarily money and status- which women will be oblivious to if you're a stranger at the bar and not a celebrity) but in terms of raw, initial physical appeal- height is often the number one factor, and will increase your chances of standing out/getting approached and female receptivity in cold approach.

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RE: Do sexy guys really get cold approached by random girls that often?
(02-08-2019 09:51 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  
(02-08-2019 09:10 AM)real98 Wrote:  All my friends who are 6 foot 4 and above all get laid in clubs at will and consistently, if you are that tall just make sure you are not fat and you will get laid at will; people do not understand how valuable that level of height is.

Nah, this isn't an universal truth.

I'm 5'9. My main wing man is 6'4. Looks wise, I'm better looking than him and I have a better body. He's above average face wise but he is bald. He is red pill'd and his game isn't bad. He has no fear on approaches. However, over the last two years I've slept with more girls than he has and I've even had girls say they were more attracted to me than him. Hell, last Fall some buddies and I met him and a girl he took out earlier in the evening for some drinks. She came up to me in the kitchen, kissed me and grabbed my dick. I wasn't going to even entertain the idea of fucking his date that night so I had to blow her off. And I have other examples like this of where a girl he was interested in actually was interested in me.

I have never had a girl tell me I was too short. So I really think this height thing is overrated.

We all have anecdotal stories that will contradict observations from another's story. And while looks and height DO matter, knowing game seems to be the universal element that matters most.

this has NOT been my experience at all.

To be 100% honest, I do not even consider guys your height to be competition.

When i go clubbing guys your height are basically invisible to me.

I have NEVER in my life lost a girl to a guy who is significantly shorter then me; never not once.

Not in school, not at work and definitely NOT in clubs.

I dont care how good your game is or how muscular you are, or how handsome your face is, I'm not losing a girl to a guy that short.

Again, height in my experience is incredibly underrated.

I would trade 20% of my facial looks (by far my best asset) to be 6'5 without hesitation and I'm already over 6 feet.
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