Post: #1

Background:

Just turned 30. Lay count of 3 (not including paying).
I'm 5'8 and half Indian half Caucasian (light brown). about a 5/10 in looks currently. Could get to 6 or 6.5 eventually.

I haven't cold approached women in nearly a decade, and back then I did it drunk. Very daunted by the idea but I know I have to do it.

Want to daygame, but almost feel that because my social skills are not good now, approaching a woman above a 5 would be a waste of time.

5s obviously I will approach, but do you think 4 or 3s are too low?

3 being a girl about 40-50 lbs overweight.
Has any guy done that to start with?

I know it sounds stupid but I just want to slay 5-8 uglies, get some confidence and go from there.

Question 2 is- are those women a lot easier, or do they also think they deserve a 7/10 male?

Post: #2

If you can get it hard for them and you find their company passable then do it.

I'd say i'd fucked at least 20 women who are below par but still somewhat attractive. I'd do it again as well if I was horny and feeling too lazy to push myself in anyway.

Post: #3

As ugly as you have to go to get laid on the night a girl breaks up with you.....

Post: #4

(02-12-2019 08:26 AM)Rorogue Wrote:  I know it sounds stupid but I just want to slay 5-8 uglies, get some confidence and go from there.

Banging 3s will probably just fill you with self-disgust and shame, so that's not the best way to gain confidence. I would at least aim for 4-5s.

I don't think collecting very low-quality notches is an effective way of building confidence anyway; improving your lifestyle, value and appearance is a better use of your time.

(This is just my opinion, maybe others have actually benefited from banging visually grotesque women)

Post: #5

@Ouroboros

I agree. While 4s would somewhat arouse me, my body does not respond at all to 3s. I'll probably feel like shit after it.

4s and 5s seem reasonable. Guess there is no substitute for me building skill

Thanks for the reply everyone

Post: #6

I for one struggle with raising the flag for 5s, i.e. those I would consider average or okay looking. Below that? Unthinkable. I'd rather not have sex at all than sleep with those who are less than 5s, and only 5s when I am desperate.

If I were you I'd aim higher. You may not get them much, but at least they will be better. Quality over quantity.

Post: #7

Are you marooned in Australia? Go to Vegas.