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Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
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Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
When I think about approaching women I noticed there are circumstances that make the approach harder(Buff) or easier(Debuff). Name your top 5 Buffs and Debuffs. For example:

Buffs
• Girl is looking at phone for long periods of time
• Girl is moving faster than people around her
• Girl is currently doing an activity that requires concentration
• Girl is sitting down
• Girl is wearing shades
Debuffs:
• In a group girl is doing an interactive activity such as taking a selfy.
• Girl locked eyes with you for a second or more
• Girl walking slower then people around her
• Girl smiles at you
• Girl waves at you
02-17-2019 03:28 PM
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RE: Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
When i first l saw the thread title i thought you were talking about video game buffs and debuffs.

Back to the topic...

Depending on the environment determines how/if you approach.
The list you gave, at least to me, aren't exclusively no approach or 100% approach.

Try to think of approaches as situational. What could be the "perfect approach" might not be apparent to you if you're tired or running late or in a shitty mood because the last few girls shut you down.

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02-17-2019 04:43 PM
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RE: Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
All of my buffs and debuffs are a matter of my internal states of mind, with very little to do with the external environment. That said, I never do "dancefloor game" or ever attempt to open girls in that area.

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02-17-2019 05:48 PM
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RE: Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
My top debuff is when a girl is wearing something I legitimately like. Makes the opener come across as authentic. Have never had a bad reaction to it.

The key is to legitimately like it. Not just "oh I find this girl pretty, if I compliment her shoes then maybe she will talk to me."
02-17-2019 06:43 PM
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RE: Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
(02-17-2019 04:43 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  Depending on the environment determines how/if you approach.
The list you gave, at least to me, aren't exclusively no approach or 100% approach.

Try to think of approaches as situational. What could be the "perfect approach" might not be apparent to you if you're tired or running late or in a shitty mood because the last few girls shut you down.

Not saying an approach will or will not work. It all depends on your confidence level. I mean situations where you think "Oh man she just walked in the X store, I love that store. I am going to go talk to her." Confidence boost.
So you could say a common situation where you benefit or the approach becomes harder (but maybe not impossible)
02-17-2019 08:28 PM
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RE: Name your Top 5 Buffs and Debuffs to approaching
From my perspective, I dont have those confidence issues when approaching a girl. Its more of an energy issue.
Am i tired from work and school all day?
Did i get a good nights sleep?
Did i have a solid meal and felt satisfied?

Keep in mind this is coming from a guy that's been approaching girls in public for nearly 10 years. I don't have "confidence issues" in my game. If anything i have time/enery limitations that prevent approaches. Ir the environment is some place i frequent and don't want a bad reputation if the girl rejects me.

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02-18-2019 04:03 AM
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