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RE: Early 30s newbie
A friend of mine invited me to a gathering at the beach on Saturday, it was cool to be social with a bunch of people during the day, I haven't done that in a LONG time. There was some nice looking girls but it was more of a friendly gathering and I didnt want to game especially since i was a new and didnt know anyone. I was content just being there and chatting with people.

So my friend and i decided to hit up the clubs at night, first club we went to I talked to this girl that was apparently alone at the table next to us, she was receptive but we only talked for a while since they moved her table. We went to some other clubs and I did at least one approach at every spot, I was feeling really good and had zero approach anxiety, my friend would just point out girls to me and id go talk to them. Unfortunately none of the 8 or 9 approaches i made were successful, i didnt get any harsh rejections but none of the girls were interested and one even left her brand new drink on the bar to get away from me. I was surprised that my confidence and mood wasnt being lowered, I honestly didnt give a shit i and my energy was still high despite the rejections. Being with a wingman made ALL the difference, like you dont have a chance to internalize bad shit since your busy being social with your wing. I also havent approached this many girls in years so i was proud of myself, even my wing complimented me on my energy.
05-20-2019 12:30 PM
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RE: Early 30s newbie
(05-20-2019 12:30 PM)cruzinV Wrote:  A friend of mine invited me to a gathering at the beach on Saturday, it was cool to be social with a bunch of people during the day, I haven't done that in a LONG time. There was some nice looking girls but it was more of a friendly gathering and I didnt want to game especially since i was a new and didnt know anyone. I was content just being there and chatting with people.

So my friend and i decided to hit up the clubs at night, first club we went to I talked to this girl that was apparently alone at the table next to us, she was receptive but we only talked for a while since they moved her table. We went to some other clubs and I did at least one approach at every spot, I was feeling really good and had zero approach anxiety, my friend would just point out girls to me and id go talk to them. Unfortunately none of the 8 or 9 approaches i made were successful, i didnt get any harsh rejections but none of the girls were interested and one even left her brand new drink on the bar to get away from me. I was surprised that my confidence and mood wasnt being lowered, I honestly didnt give a shit i and my energy was still high despite the rejections. Being with a wingman made ALL the difference, like you dont have a chance to internalize bad shit since your busy being social with your wing. I also havent approached this many girls in years so i was proud of myself, even my wing complimented me on my energy.

You really can't discount that you went and had a measure of success already that day because you went somewhere interesting/fun (the beach) and interacted with girls in a no-pressure fashion because you focused on being friendly and chatting with people.

This is a huge start to a night out as this friend was also the guy going out with you. Clearly also a good wingman which is great to have on a night out, but this guy sounds like a bit of a social connector. Have fun with him and see what value you can show him as this kind of friend is a great one to have.

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05-20-2019 08:04 PM
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(05-20-2019 08:04 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  You really can't discount that you went and had a measure of success already that day because you went somewhere interesting/fun (the beach) and interacted with girls in a no-pressure fashion because you focused on being friendly and chatting with people.

This is a huge start to a night out as this friend was also the guy going out with you. Clearly also a good wingman which is great to have on a night out, but this guy sounds like a bit of a social connector. Have fun with him and see what value you can show him as this kind of friend is a great one to have.

Yeah I wish i could do more social things during the day since that ended up being the best part of the weekend. But at this point i just dont have the social circle, working on it though.

And yeah my friends a great wingman, super social, zero approach anxiety and has a really good Instagram since he travels all over the world. Already have a road trip planned for this weekend.
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05-20-2019 08:51 PM
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RE: Early 30s newbie
Anybody know why OP got banned? I PMd with him briefly over time and participated in this thread, he seemed like a reasonable guy, a little self-loathing and clearly inexperienced but looking to improve and listen to advice. I was looking forward to following his progress.

His last post doesn't seem ban worthy especially given the context of it being in response to an obvious troll thread, and he never publicly got involved in the discussion regarding the new forum rules. Curious if anybody has insight.
06-03-2019 12:50 PM
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RE: Early 30s newbie
I would also like to know why OP got banned. I was following this thread and he seems reasonable in detailing his approaches and asking for advice. After, the new rules effect he does not seem to have explicitly mentioned anything about actually having sex with girls. Most of his posts even before that were about approaching.
06-04-2019 11:57 PM
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