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Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
Not sure if this goes in the newb section, but figured it's better for simple questions like this.

So this chick is at a bar with her friend and she she invites me to come through.

Do you guys think it's worth the effort to go game her with her friend there - or is it better to just decline and get her for a proper date?
03-02-2019 09:53 AM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
I would say yes but I'll bring a friend with me. Last time I said yes to a girl who was with a friend and I was alone I banged her the same night. I said yes because I was on holidays abroad, I wouldn't have done it at home.
03-02-2019 10:13 AM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
No for many reasons:

Friend may be jealous, try to make you look bad or talk bad about you while you are gone taking a leak or after you go home.
Im not there to entertain her friend. My conversation has to be getting a green light for sex.
She wouldnt in most cases get rid of her friend just to have sex with a guy
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03-05-2019 03:33 AM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
Absolutely not that's a disrespect from the beginning no matter the culture.

Next her for even making that an option.

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03-05-2019 10:28 PM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
Hell yeah man!!....if she invited you it means she wants you there! That's a good sign, especially since theres other guys there that she could meet.
03-05-2019 10:36 PM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
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03-06-2019 06:07 AM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
I think guys are mixing a few things up here and we need a bit more background.

Is this a girl you met, got her number, and she invited you out a later time to hangout?

If so, then yeah go have fun and meet up with her and her friend, hell even bring a wingman along.

She thought of you, she wants to see you, I don't see the problem here.


Is this a girl you met, got her number, invited her to meet up with you on a date?

If so, then no, that's a hard pass, you don't go on a dateswhere a girl invites her friend also.

That's inconsiderate, rude, and disrespectful.

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03-06-2019 01:47 PM
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RE: Meet up with a girl if she's with another friend?
kaotic did a correct résumé of the situation

But however u met that girl, the point is you will have to prove yourself to two of them now.

I am obviously guessing u still didnt bang (in that case most of the power comes back in your camp), so that means you still have to properly game her and close the deal, but if she is with friends then those friends also need to like you to a certain level.

She is not gonna bang you if her friend(s) think u are lame, even if at the beginning she was attracted.

The best course of action here is simple and applicable to ALL scenarios:
show up to the bar, meet the girl and her friends, leave a good impression, and leave after 5-10 minutes.

From many personal experiences, this has always worked well in my favor. It shows you are not a pussy and can meet/join a bigger circle of strangers, but at the same time since you are not 1 on 1 with that girl, you know that intimacy is not happening directly, so you leave and raise your value at the same time.
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03-08-2019 09:44 AM
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