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Road to my first bang
So I'm making this thread not as an approach log, but to document small successes throughout learning game up until my first lay. For background, I am a 21 year old who hasn't done anything with a girl(date, kiss sex). I realize that I will have to start at the bottom, before even doing approaches just learning to be more social. It's time to stop living my life pathetically on the internet and wasting my life like a loser. I hope to gain not just experience with women from this, but just improving my life in all areas, being a better son, brother, teammate. I'm tired of bieng the guy who awkwardly fades out of the conversation when the topic of banging girls gets brought up. I hope to inspire others to not go the incel route and give up while complaining. If I can do it, I'm sure you can as well. Here we go.
03-16-2019 03:34 AM
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Good luck. There's a wealth of knowledge on here that I wish I'd known about when I was your age. Make sure you spend at least twice as much time taking meaningful action (either improving yourself or practising game, ideally a mixture of both) as you do reading about it. The sheer quantity of information can be overwhelming, which can lead to over-analysis, but the core necessary tenets of game are pretty basic and can be quickly learned. Don't neglect the older threads on game/self-improvement, there is much value to be gleaned from them.
03-16-2019 04:06 AM
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I wish you good luck.
I've just been trying to do it as well and so far I'm happily surprised that it's easier than I thought, I just literally never tried.
My fear was not being sure I'd be able to hold a long conversation with women, turned out that was the easiest part.
03-16-2019 05:35 AM
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What steps are you taking to improve your life along with success with women?

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03-17-2019 01:52 PM
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What challenges have you had on this path?

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03-17-2019 02:37 PM
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(03-17-2019 01:52 PM)Remington Wrote:  What steps are you taking to improve your life along with success with women?

- I'm going to cut my internet usage out except for school related stuff and RVF.
- Luckily my parents cover most of my expenses so I'm going to save almost all of my income from my part time job so that when I move out after college I have a head start.
- I also plan on reading more and am currently doing convict conditioning.
- Dress nicer
- Apply for internships
- And finally just trying to be more social and get out of my head
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(03-17-2019 02:37 PM)Cobra Wrote:  What challenges have you had on this path?

I think just being from a conservative household where having a girlfriend in K-12 would've been out of the question. My parents believe in the you'll just meet someone narrative and no sex before marriage. It would be out of the question for me to bring a girl home, I just wouldn't happen. My mother is middle eastern so she has that cultures traditional views. If I got caught banging in my house like some American teens say happened, I would be boiled alive. Aside from this I just discovered RVF and the red pill about 6 months ago and I have learned a lot from here that I just need to apply. I spend way to much time online and not in the real world. I may be a shy introvert, but I can't let that be an excuse.
03-17-2019 02:51 PM
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RE: Road to my first bang
Good to see OP.

Where are you on game, what have you read, and how many approaches have you done?
Fitness level?
Addicted to tech?
Introverted?
Hobbies?
In university?
What's your social circle like?

You mentioned your convos die out sometimes. What are you going to do to fix that, or become more social.

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RE: Road to my first bang
Reply to Heuristics:
- read day bang, the game, zero approaches
- naturally strong but super lean/skinny
- yes
- yes
- hobbies are basketball, strength training
- yes
- have a few friends that I do sports with
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RE: Road to my first bang
(03-17-2019 09:12 PM)a mans life Wrote:  Reply to Heuristics:
- read day bang, the game, zero approaches
- naturally strong but super lean/skinny
- yes
- yes
- hobbies are basketball, strength training
- yes
- have a few friends that I do sports with

-Ok good, watch a few youtube vids, maybe "london daygame model", and start approaching.
-sounds ok
-Minimize tech use (advise would be to get off social media or turn off notifications), but share updates with us Tongue
-Work on introversion. Go out 3 or 4 nights a week. If you find yourself still lacking in motivation, try nofap.
-Find a hobby that gets you close to girls. For me it used to be: going to raves, art and music. Masculine hobbies are good too of course.
-I'm gonna assume youre in uni in the US. even if you're not take advantage of it. Play proximity game. Go to all social functions you can, and spark up conversations with girls, with intent! With intent! That's crucial. Show some interest and follow up, that's all it takes in college if you're not trying to get a single night lay. It's just crucial you establish you have something in common, that's all it takes, then, just watch for IOIs. Enjoy your time in college and get some notches. It's easy.
-As far as social circle, find some drinking buddies/ gang, or find some people you can go out with at night. Company can be mixed, just important ya'll get along and support each other.

'Safe sex'- a term which makes one appreciative of the truth of... saying "Is having sex with a condom not like taking a shower with a raincoat on?" The ultimate goal would be... to invent "opium without opium": no wonder marihuana is so popular among liberals... it already IS... 'opium without opium'. -S. Zizek

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