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RE: Older players (Mid 30s & 40+), Advice for 25yo
(04-10-2019 12:11 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  
(04-10-2019 12:06 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  I guess I sound salty.

A side effect of going through the same debate over and over again I suppose.

I'll give you just one piece of advice then in the hopes you'll remember it when the time comes.

If an honest-to-God incredible woman lands in your lap don't next her for five more years of soul-less sluts just because "that's the plan".

The guys I know who did that list it as among their greatest regrets. Unfortunately it seems to be the case for most men trying to get off the cunt carousel that once the stink of sluts is on your soul then that's all you'll ever attract. Past notch 50 you become invisible to decent women and they become invisible to you.

Co-signed.

After telling TravelerKai over a coffee that I’m gonna wait 5 years before deciding to marry again and travel in the meantime, he responded that I shouldn’t put a strict timeline on it.

He asked me, “so you find an unicorn before the 5 years are up, whatcha gonna do?”

I’ve already found my answer.

Worth rereading this one.
05-19-2019 12:42 AM
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RE: Older players (Mid 30s & 40+), Advice for 25yo
(04-09-2019 12:52 AM)bgbusiness Wrote:  Quite frankly, I am just asking for some advice, not sure why people are pretty angry about late marriage and issues with dealing kids. It's almost funny.

First, I disagree that I have to marry early. I would rather be financially secure so that I can send my kids to school even if I get married at 40. At least that's what I wanted from my parents instead of struggling to help me paying for school.

In fact, when kids go to college, that's pretty much it, you don't need to spend time with them. Moreover, when kids are entering elementary school, they are going to be in school majority of the time, you are not baby sitting them. When I was growing up, I only wanted to spend couple hours with my family, not play entire basketball game up to 100 points on a full court. I would rather play video/computer games, read books, go out with friends and watch a movie or something.

Second, as long as I take care of my health, my sperm is going to be healthy enough to have kids at 40 .That's when the biological clock start to tick for man. For woman it's 30. Look at Donald Trump, he doing just fine.


All the advice on here is interesting to read but at the end of the day you've got to follow your own lead. There is no magic age to have kids but I will say from my own sociological observations that most guys in the US (in real metro areas) are having their first kid in their 30's (guys not chicks). That being said, at 25 you've got lot's of time to figure it out and it's easy to stonewall to everyone else. I've known guys who swore off kids in their 20's end up having 3-4 kids and loving being a dad. I've also seen guys who wanted kids try to escape their family any chance they get. That's why you've got to just make your own decisions as life occurs. First thing to figure out is do you want to be in a LTR. After that decision, you can work on the whole reproduction one.
05-20-2019 10:26 PM
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RE: Older players (Mid 30s & 40+), Advice for 25yo
(05-12-2019 08:11 PM)Uprising Wrote:  
(05-09-2019 11:16 PM)a beer is enough Wrote:  Over the years, the toxicity and cynical attitude culminates into what you see on this thread. Age aside and circumstances aside, your average guy doing well in life would not want to be around that guy, why would quality women be any different? I mean read the posts, envying some guy with a dad bod who shops at walmart and has 6 kids? Specifying that his wife has blue eyes as a form of white pussy worship? This shit sounds like it would come from some thirsty socially awkward weirdo who has not been let out of his mother's house for years and spent his entire life on the internet for social interactions.

Thanks for the kind words, A Beer Is Enough. To much time on my hands tonight, so I took a look at the first two most recent pages of your posting history to get an idea of why me mentioning white skin and blue eyes set you off so much.

Quote:Uncontrolled immigration from South America and the Middle East is going to turn the western world into the same caste system they have in Colombia, Brazil, and all of the Middle East where blond haired whites are worshiped and everyone else is treated like an animal.

Quote:My experience with French women has not been as vast as some of the guys on this thread but I really want to put this out there. From my experience, it seems like Southern France tends to produce the women with an inferiority complex. Maybe it is because they look Mediterranean and there is some low self-esteem involved with not looking white enough.

Quote:Yeah that's right, that self-hating ethnic girl that thinks she is too good to be talking to you or your kind and will readily fuck some trollish looking white guy over you because she wants to desperately fit in, she'll bendover backwards as soon as she sees Becky with her arms around you.

Quote:So this means women from places like Brazil, Colombia, the Mediterranean, and the Middle East where social image and popularity mean everything. You will be passed for some trollish looking creep with blond hair because of how much people in those parts of the world worship that sort of thing. Yeah I know it sucks if you have a thing for that kind of a look but it is what it is, no point trying to associate with women or people from narcissistic cultures.

Quote:The same liberals who will talk about how bad Trump is but then want to make sure all minorities act in line with how they want them to. In case you missed it, this also means an overwhelming number of two-faced white women who will parade social justice one day but exclusively fuck Neo-Nazi posterboys.

Quote:I honestly believe that all ethnic guys in the US that have higher value should swear off the self-hating insecure trash of their own race and exclusively pursue white women because it is the smart thing to do. A white woman will judge you as a person and give you a chance if you are top tier while some cunt of your own race will leave you for a chubby lower value white guy if he looked in her direction.

Quote:It always bugs me whenever people bitch about guys liking white women though, I mean I have to know, why is it a crime to have a thing for white women but not to have a thing for other races?

I mean why is it wrong for some ethnic guy to only want blondes while a white guy can express his preference for Hispanic women?

I will say it here, white women are the highest quality and the bitterness towards them is purely sour grapes.

I promise you that an Indian or Arab feminist is 10 times worse than a white one, only difference is crazy bitches of minority groups also target men of their own race and want them dead, it is almost like them and the Neo-Nazis were made for each other

Quote:Some claim that Anglo women are "racist" because they won't fuck poor ol 5'6 stinky as fuck skinnyfat ethnic guy, wanna see true "racism"? Try being a handsome 6'2 ethnic guy and interacting Middle Eastern, Asian. Mediterranean and women from certain parts of Eastern Europe, they'll reject your ass for a 5'6 troll with blond hair. At least Anglo women are willing to be more objective about it all, if anything, I'd say they are most lenient about race.

Quote:Dude, the only reason that Colombian broad was good to you is because you were a white guy, plain and simple. Other than that, they are really narcissistic and materialistic plastic broads that make an Anglo chick look like an angel. Any other race will easily see her true colors, you just got suckered into the sweet talk because you were a westerner.

Quote:You start to realize that there is no need to have loyalty to anyone other than yourself when most women of your own race are probably more racist towards you and want you to go extinct than some Neo-Nazi does.

Quote:I'd stay far away from Middle Eastern and Mediterranean women, at least here in the US. Most of them come from narcissist, vain, and largely insecure cultures that value status and popularity a great bit, this is why they commonly go for the blond hair blue eyed trollish looking dudes.

Quote:If anything, I kind of feel for them because I think the westernized ones are going through what Asian guys have been going through for quite some time, seeing guys of other races poach their women for ONS and flings.

Two pages. That was only the first two most recent pages.

Jesus fucking Christ dude. You are the definition of why H1B1's and their like need to be fucking banned from ever coming to the west. You clearly have an ax to grind with heritage stock Americans. You disgust me.

It's pretty interesting to see posts like beer's which seem almost completely disconnected from reality. I've been to Latin America, which according to him is the heartland of white supremacy. I've seen blonde white travelers completely strike out with the locals. I've also seen beautiful local women with ass-ugly dudes who, shock and surprise, were short and dark-skinned local men.

It's laughable to see beer make these kinds of points as if they're some factual statements. I genuinely think the guy has a mental illness of some kind. It's unfortunate that so many Asian and Indian game spaces get brigaded by guys like this. I'm tired of seeing IRTs like him suicide bomb threads.

The problem is a bigger problem of people over fixating on race and blaming it for every positive or negative event in their lives. Yes, race can influence things, but we don't live in 1950 where it determines the course of your life.
06-23-2019 05:42 PM
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RE: Older players (Mid 30s & 40+), Advice for 25yo
OP, it's unfortunate I wasn't here early enough.

I'm glad your conviction was strong enough to push marriage until you were 40. I personally would just remove it from my dictionary entirely lol. It's insane the amount of people in this thread trying to convince you to get married at such a young age. It's like leading a Lamb to the slaughter house.

If by chance you get conned to this scam we call marriage, at least check your state laws of divorce 1st. I know some of you and your girls love are like no other. That us other guys just haven't found the right one yet.

But Please do not make this decision based on emotion... because you are going to find out real soon how she ends it with emotion when she's "no longer happy". No Fault divorce is a joke. But I get it, she says she wouldn't do it to you, because she loves you.

On another note it's ok to have a life partner, just don't get married to her. At least until these silly rules change.
06-24-2019 01:21 AM
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(06-24-2019 01:21 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  OP, it's unfortunate I wasn't here early enough.

I'm glad your conviction was strong enough to push marriage until you were 40. I personally would just remove it from my dictionary entirely lol. It's insane the amount of people in this thread trying to convince you to get married at such a young age. It's like leading a Lamb to the slaughter house.

If by chance you get conned to this scam we call marriage, at least check your state laws of divorce 1st. I know some of you and your girls love are like no other. That us other guys just haven't found the right one yet.

But Please do not make this decision based on emotion... because you are going to find out real soon how she ends it with emotion when she's "no longer happy". No Fault divorce is a joke. But I get it, she says she wouldn't do it to you, because she loves you.

On another note it's ok to have a life partner, just don't get married to her. At least until these silly rules change.

Would love you to elaborate on more of this.

Were you married previously?

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06-30-2019 04:30 PM
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RE: Older players (Mid 30s & 40+), Advice for 25yo
Marry a good woman and bang chicks on the side when you need to. I'm surprised nobody suggested this yet.
08-25-2019 10:41 PM
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Anyone seriously planning to bang gals in their 20s while in their 40s needs to accept that they'll either a) have to do it in some third world dump in SEA or (certain parts of) LatAm/Africa, or b) directly use $$$ one way or another (sugary daddy/p4p) to achieve it if you're still in the West. If you go with option b) know that she'll still be bangin her sweetheart crush that's much closer in age to her while charging you $500/hr for a lunch date. Some guys don't give a fuck, but most quality guys would have too much self respect to ever consider this a good proposition.

If you think you're goin to be numero uno for a quality gal (high status, good family values, educated etc) in her 20s while you're in your 40s just about anywhere in the world, you're straight up delusional. This is goin to rub some hardcore "PUA" types the wrong way, but I couldn't care less about their retarded autistic views anyway.

The only caveat to everything I've said so far: if you're ok with broads in their 30s/40s/50s as long as they've somewhat maintained themselves, then you can potentially live the player lifestyle even into your 60s...

Pussy ain't for pussies...
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08-27-2019 09:43 PM
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(08-27-2019 09:43 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  Anyone seriously planning to bang gals in their 20s while in their 40s needs to accept that they'll either a) have to do it in some third world dump in SEA or (certain parts of) LatAm/Africa, or b) directly use $$$ one way or another (sugary daddy/p4p) to achieve it if you're still in the West. If you go with option b) know that she'll still be bangin her sweetheart crush that's much closer in age to her while charging you $500/hr for a lunch date. Some guys don't give a fuck, but most quality guys would have too much self respect to ever consider this a good proposition.

If you think you're goin to be numero uno for a quality gal (high status, good family values, educated etc) in her 20s while you're in your 40s just about anywhere in the world, you're straight up delusional. This is goin to rub some hardcore "PUA" types the wrong way, but I couldn't care less about their retarded autistic views anyway.

The only caveat to everything I've said so far: if you're ok with broads in their 30s/40s/50s as long as they've somewhat maintained themselves, then you can potentially live the player lifestyle even into your 60s...

This is a sharp post. I agree with it. There will be occasional exceptions, but what you're saying will generally hold true.
08-27-2019 10:27 PM
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(08-27-2019 09:43 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  Anyone seriously planning to bang gals in their 20s while in their 40s needs to accept that they'll either a) have to do it in some third world dump in SEA or (certain parts of) LatAm/Africa, or b) directly use $$$ one way or another (sugary daddy/p4p) to achieve it if you're still in the West. If you go with option b) know that she'll still be bangin her sweetheart crush that's much closer in age to her while charging you $500/hr for a lunch date. Some guys don't give a fuck, but most quality guys would have too much self respect to ever consider this a good proposition.

If you think you're goin to be numero uno for a quality gal (high status, good family values, educated etc) in her 20s while you're in your 40s just about anywhere in the world, you're straight up delusional. This is goin to rub some hardcore "PUA" types the wrong way, but I couldn't care less about their retarded autistic views anyway.

The only caveat to everything I've said so far: if you're ok with broads in their 30s/40s/50s as long as they've somewhat maintained themselves, then you can potentially live the player lifestyle even into your 60s...

I think you are overstating this but point is well taken. By and large, he's pretty accurate here. The key points would be to define what you are saying when you state "in her 20s" (22 is much different than 27, that passes the spinster threshold in some foreign countries = better culture). The last part is true. In general, a girl over 32, if you are going overseas at all, is not worth it unless you are at least 55 (and in shape, which is what I think jsely is guessing most aren't).
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