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(06-17-2019 04:58 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  
(06-16-2019 11:09 AM)Sandstorm Wrote:  This is not race baiting; this is cold, hard reality for Western men.

I'd ideally choose someone of my own nation but obviously that's (i) very hard to find an attractive woman at all (ii) one who could handle a larger age gap (iii) one who wouldn't divorce rape me anyway.

So options include another European country. Staying European seems permissible, it's happened a lot in history and we are a mixed bunch anyway, though all Anglo. We share the same sort of culture and values, and often the same language systems.

Much as EE women are purportedly hot, they carry a stigma about them as being lower value and whoreish.

Russian... never dated one. I have much admiration for their culture and country but they are very different to us. Also, I can't recall seeing any women over 30 from Russia who were attractive to me? Early 20s sure but... as someone already over 40, I'd be looking at around 30s for wifing and kidding up. Pop out 4 or 5 before she's 35. It's all a bit of a rush I must say!

Unlikely to happen probably ... sorry ancestors from hundreds of thousands of years ago....

Cat lady

The cold heart truth, is that Europeans aren't even close to replacement levels when it comes to having kids. Before, you look at other women - I suggest you look at your own Anglo women. Why is it they don't want to have children with their men?

In America, half of the states have more deaths that births among whites. Number one cause of death is drugs, as in prescription. I am sure the UK isn't any better, probably alcohol related deaths instead.

The old drivel about IQ and preserving your DNA, please you mean your recessive genes.

Again, i am not race baiting.

Why do black women in the US abort black babies at much higher rates then any other race? Is it because they don't want to have black children?

That's the equivalent of the point you're making.

Replacement levels are down all across the developed world. Give the mexicans and muslims a couple more generations and they'll be having 1.7 kids per couple as well. It has nothing to do with interracial preference. The vast majority of women, especially white women, want to be with men of their own race.

The real problem is decadence.

YOLO!

You go gurl!

Why look after a screamin demon when you can be a pill popping alcoholic and watch netflix all day with your ugly $160 nikes on? Want a little responsibility? Get a cat or dog, if you don't like it drop the little fucker off at a shelter to be put to sleep. Can't do that with a 4 year old boy.
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(06-16-2019 07:10 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  leave the interracial sex to me.

Having interracial sex and creating interracial offspring are two completely separate things. @Sandstorm was talking specifically in regards to creating a family.

(06-17-2019 11:32 AM)BoiBoi Wrote:  in this glorious age of Globo-Homolization, I've lost the ability to identify with "my" tribe a long time ago.

Cool bro, so propaganda has worked successfully on you, and the lord knows some parts of their propaganda has f**ked me up too... c'est la vie and hakuna matata. However, some of us whites are redpilled though and we can't deny truth or logos.

(06-17-2019 11:32 AM)BoiBoi Wrote:  Also, I'm from Europe and would never identify as white first and foremost. This is some US-American shit. I'd rather identify with my nation or city since being white is pretty much the norm where I'm from.

Na, it's just US-Americans aren't as cucked as Western Europeans... there are less whites as a demographic percentage in the US compared to EU, so they already have to deal with the real life problems that come from "enrichment and diversity".

So let's get this straight, you enjoy the spoils of the modern European society that you live in today, whilst denouncing your ethnicity as unimportant, and yet you're completely oblivious to the fact that an integral element of success in your society today is a result of its history as a white ethnostate in the past. Hmmmm

Have you ever lived in a majority non-white country? You'll start feeling white 0 to 100 real quick boi.

(06-17-2019 04:58 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  The cold heart truth, is that Europeans aren't even close to replacement levels when it comes to having kids. Before, you look at other women - I suggest you look at your own Anglo women. Why is it they don't want to have children with their men?

Feminism... Cultural Marxism... anti-white racism and propganda by ((( the oligarchs ))).

Your question is rhetorical, as its answer is so obvious at this point.

(06-17-2019 07:01 PM)Cobra Wrote:  I say good luck to the poor western guys that are trying to preserve their gene pool. It's a futile attempt as they continue to lose their women to a far left SJW liberal culture. Now to add on top of that, there's gender reassignment too.

A thoughtful and empathic comment, thank you Cobra.

(06-18-2019 01:55 PM)Brebelle3 Wrote:  I understand the thought of having children within my race, but I'd much rather have a girl that checks all of the important boxes.

Cool, and more power to you. However, your comment seems to overlook the simple fact that there are plenty of wife/mother-quality white woman in Eastern Europe. Nevertheless, all the best wishes for your future in South East Asia.
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Jungle, why do guys like you get so triggered and whine so much about interracial couples/marriages? It sounds utterly pathetic. You're worried about interracial kids diluting your race but let me ask you, have you done anything at all to preserve your race? Are you married? To a white woman? Do you have any kids with this white woman? I'm guessing the answer to these all of these questions is no. Guys like you ought to figure out what you are doing or more importantly what you are not doing rather than focusing on what other men are doing to try and find some happiness. If Atlanta Man, Roosh or anyone else wants to find a nice white chick in a foreign country to have kids with, what the hell business of yours is it? The funniest is when we have guys whining about this stuff while they're living in SEA or South America chasing third world women for casual sex.
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How did "white ethnostate" leak to the game forum?
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Our boy Sandstorm has decided to take his talents to a foreign country to further along his dream of pure bred, unmixed children. Where exactly is he looking for this white woman of his dreams? Russia? Poland? Estonia? Canada?

(06-19-2019 08:03 PM)Sandstorm Wrote:  Right.... To any of you that have stayed in Lima for like 6 months or more, what's the deal with rent? I want a studio/1-bed but I want it nice enough but cheap! If it isn't cheap, there's no point going to Lima.... Miraflores sure, sounds good but I doubt it'll be the cheapest.

Barranco sounds more my cup of tea anyway - but is it still cheap?

What are we talking per month in USD?

Thanks.

Nope. None other than the whitest country in the world, Peru!

Cheap though, he has to big ball on the cheap! Lima is too expensive for him! Yup, guys like him are the saviors of the West.
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(06-18-2019 10:49 PM)aeroektar Wrote:  
(06-17-2019 04:58 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  
(06-16-2019 11:09 AM)Sandstorm Wrote:  This is not race baiting; this is cold, hard reality for Western men.

I'd ideally choose someone of my own nation but obviously that's (i) very hard to find an attractive woman at all (ii) one who could handle a larger age gap (iii) one who wouldn't divorce rape me anyway.

So options include another European country. Staying European seems permissible, it's happened a lot in history and we are a mixed bunch anyway, though all Anglo. We share the same sort of culture and values, and often the same language systems.

Much as EE women are purportedly hot, they carry a stigma about them as being lower value and whoreish.

Russian... never dated one. I have much admiration for their culture and country but they are very different to us. Also, I can't recall seeing any women over 30 from Russia who were attractive to me? Early 20s sure but... as someone already over 40, I'd be looking at around 30s for wifing and kidding up. Pop out 4 or 5 before she's 35. It's all a bit of a rush I must say!

Unlikely to happen probably ... sorry ancestors from hundreds of thousands of years ago....

Cat lady

The cold heart truth, is that Europeans aren't even close to replacement levels when it comes to having kids. Before, you look at other women - I suggest you look at your own Anglo women. Why is it they don't want to have children with their men?

In America, half of the states have more deaths that births among whites. Number one cause of death is drugs, as in prescription. I am sure the UK isn't any better, probably alcohol related deaths instead.

The old drivel about IQ and preserving your DNA, please you mean your recessive genes.

Again, i am not race baiting.

Why do black women in the US abort black babies at much higher rates then any other race? Is it because they don't want to have black children?

That's the equivalent of the point you're making.

Replacement levels are down all across the developed world. Give the mexicans and muslims a couple more generations and they'll be having 1.7 kids per couple as well. It has nothing to do with interracial preference. The vast majority of women, especially white women, want to be with men of their own race.

The real problem is decadence.

YOLO!

You go gurl!

Why look after a screamin demon when you can be a pill popping alcoholic and watch netflix all day with your ugly $160 nikes on? Want a little responsibility? Get a cat or dog, if you don't like it drop the little fucker off at a shelter to be put to sleep. Can't do that with a 4 year old boy.

https://www.counterpunch.org/2019/05/20/...-dilution/

but in fact to prevent white women from producing too few white babies. 60% of the 1.6 million abortions annually in the United States are for white women.

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(06-19-2019 05:41 PM)Repo Wrote:  How did "white ethnostate" leak to the game forum?

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(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  Jungle, why do guys like you get so triggered and whine so much about interracial couples/marriages?
If your definition of "triggered" = speaking facts and truth in a calm and reasoned way... Then ok bro. Projecting much?

To answer your question as to why it's a "concern" - it's because whites are a small minority and we're being demographically replaced/genocided with each passing day. Whites want to receive their human rights to exist, the same way whites have given human rights to other ethnic groups. Is that too much to ask for?

(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  It sounds utterly pathetic.
What's truly pathetic is your ability to not see racism when it's done to white people.

(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  If Atlanta Man, Roosh or anyone else wants to find a nice white chick in a foreign country to have kids with, what the hell business of yours is it?
I didn't say anything about any non-white finding a white woman to have kids with, so I actually have no idea what the f you are talking about dude. Emotionality kills logic.
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(06-20-2019 09:49 AM)Jungle Wrote:  
(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  Jungle, why do guys like you get so triggered and whine so much about interracial couples/marriages?
If your definition of "triggered" = speaking facts and truth in a calm and reasoned way... Then ok bro. Projecting much?

To answer your question as to why it's a "concern" - it's because whites are a small minority and we're being demographically replaced/genocided with each passing day. Whites want to receive their human rights to exist, the same way whites have given human rights to other ethnic groups. Is that too much to ask for?

(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  It sounds utterly pathetic.
What's truly pathetic is your ability to not see racism when it's done to white people.

(06-19-2019 05:04 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  If Atlanta Man, Roosh or anyone else wants to find a nice white chick in a foreign country to have kids with, what the hell business of yours is it?
I didn't say anything about any non-white finding a white woman to have kids with, so I actually have no idea what the f you are talking about dude. Emotionality kills logic.

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Jungle I gotta ask, how old are you? Also where is the "White Genocide". Do you know what the definition of genocide is? The only "white genocide" in somewhat recent times was Hilter against Russians, Stalin against Ukraine, and in Bosnia. By saying "white genocide " you are being hyperbolic. No one is rounding up white people in America and putting them in camps for extermination or raping white women in mass as an act of war. In fact , you can go to any trailer park and get as many white women pregnant as you want and the government will pay to raise them- literally, just get 100 random white women pregnant and do your part for the white race. Start today and you can get 200 white women pregnant in roughly 4- 5 years.

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Jungle, I noticed that you addressed every point I made but provided no answer to the questions I asked. It would be safe to assume then that you are not married to a white woman nor do you have any kids. In essence you’re self-genociding since you’ve decided that hedonism is more important to you than procreation and sustaining your race. There isn’t a single person in the world who is preventing you from marrying and having kids, only yourself and your self-defeating mindset.

Like Atlanta Man said, no one is rounding you up and putting you in gas chambers. So indeed, in your case, triggered=triggered and emotional=emotional.
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(06-20-2019 11:32 AM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  Jungle I gotta ask, how old are you? Also where is the "White Genocide". Do you know what the definition of genocide is? The only "white genocide" in somewhat recent times was Hilter against Russians, Stalin against Ukraine, and in Bosnia. By saying "white genocide " you are being hyperbolic. No one is rounding up white people in America and putting them in camps for extermination or raping white women in mass as an act of war. In fact , you can go to any trailer park and get as many white women pregnant as you want and the government will pay to raise them- literally, just get 100 random white women pregnant and do your part for the white race. Start today and you can get 200 white women pregnant in roughly 4- 5 years.

When you think about it, many trailer parks essentially already are white ethnostates
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(06-19-2019 10:47 AM)Jungle Wrote:  Snip

Firstly, why are you so concerned with what kind of women other dudes are banging? I don't get it. Secondly, I don't pick the women I have sex with based on some political agenda. You behave just like these SJWs. You know, the kind of feminist who thinks that a skyscraper is a phallic symbol. To me, it's just a tall building though. In the same vein, I just happen to like a nice round ass and big juicy lips. It doesn't get much deeper than that, no indoctrination needed.

As for your grandiose plan of the white ethno-paradise, have at it and knock yourself out. Nobody is stopping you. How many white, blonde kids do you have (I have 2...)? Just remember, fix yourself before you try to fix others.

To answer your question, I have lived and worked extensively in non-white countries and you know what, idiots come in all colours. It all comes down to intelligence, education and a good upbringing. I can only repeat myself here, but I'd rather hang out with an educated Nigerian than a German hobo.

With regard to the success of Europe, it has probably very little to do with the skin colour of its inhabitants and a lot more with coincidence. I suggest that you do some reading and check out Guns, Germs and Steel.

Lastly, to be super proud about something that you literally didn't do anything for (like your skin colour or your place of birth) is a rather laughable notion in my opinion.
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(06-08-2019 11:33 AM)doc holliday Wrote:  Papaya I think point is not to discourage guys to think that their life is over by 40 if they're not settled down and that they can never find someone much younger than them, even at your age but to just to be realistic about the situation.

In the example of my 50 year old friend with his 30yr old wife, they decided not to have any kids because they feel that they wouldn't be able to handle it. Based on what I see of him, I'd say there is no way he could handle small children. There needs to be a distinction made between finding a young chick which is challenging enough but certainly possible and actually being married and raising a family which is the far more difficult tougher task.

A few of the older members have chimed in already on this but I would be curious to know how easy or difficult it is for a regular guy 40+ to CONSISTENTLY date women in their 20s and early 30s if said older guy decided he didn't want to 'settle down' and start a family.

Is it typically only achievable in Latin America and SE Asia? How easy is it to do even in those regions? Is there often a 'pay for play'/sugar daddy aspect to these relationships?

When I was in Mexico City and different parts of SE Asia (Vietnam, Singapore) I didn't really notice a bunch of older white guys walking around with younger women but maybe I wasn't observant enough.
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(06-20-2019 09:49 AM)Jungle Wrote:  To answer your question as to why it's a "concern" - it's because whites are a small minority and we're being demographically replaced/genocided with each passing day. Whites want to receive their human rights to exist, the same way whites have given human rights to other ethnic groups. Is that too much to ask for?

Are you saying that when I go back to the US I'm going to be sent to a concentration camp and killed because I'm white? You seem like this type of person.



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(06-20-2019 01:43 PM)MyFabolousLife Wrote:  
(06-08-2019 11:33 AM)doc holliday Wrote:  Papaya I think point is not to discourage guys to think that their life is over by 40 if they're not settled down and that they can never find someone much younger than them, even at your age but to just to be realistic about the situation.

In the example of my 50 year old friend with his 30yr old wife, they decided not to have any kids because they feel that they wouldn't be able to handle it. Based on what I see of him, I'd say there is no way he could handle small children. There needs to be a distinction made between finding a young chick which is challenging enough but certainly possible and actually being married and raising a family which is the far more difficult tougher task.

A few of the older members have chimed in already on this but I would be curious to know how easy or difficult it is for a regular guy 40+ to CONSISTENTLY date women in their 20s and early 30s if said older guy decided he didn't want to 'settle down' and start a family.

Is it typically only achievable in Latin America and SE Asia? How easy is it to do even in those regions? Is there often a 'pay for play'/sugar daddy aspect to these relationships?

When I was in Mexico City and different parts of SE Asia (Vietnam, Singapore) I didn't really notice a bunch of older white guys walking around with younger women but maybe I wasn't observant enough.

For a guy over 40 or 50, it is easy to date women in their 30s. The problem is that they are on a different agenda and they know their time is short to have children.
The shit tests will be through the roof, if you have some semblance of game then it should be easy to handle.

If you are an older guy that is in good shape and doesn't look like the typical middle aged guy, it isn't hard to get younger girls. I put strong emphasis on being in good shape and having a decent style.

The problem is when you get older, you become more stuck in your ways. I don't enjoy talking to people about trivial things like pop music, famous actors and material BS.

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Currently I am 43 about to be 44 soon. The youngest I have "been intimate" with in the last 12 months is 18 the oldest is 37. I am currently with dealing with an 18 year old, a 33 year old and a 29 year old. The easiest for me to get up with (get the number, communicate, and subsequently date) is 28-33 year old range- but they push hard for a relationship, very hard. The 18- 23 year old range is the most difficult because I have a full time job and I am learning a new language at the same time. I meet the 18- 23 year olds at clubs, on the street and around school- we always "get intimate " immediately on on the first date or they ghost, it never lasts longer that a month or two regardless. For my results you must be in shape, have a car, your own place in a cool area and some disposable income. I do not wear expensive clothes or have a particularly expensive car- but I live in the middle of the hot spot in Miami. The only real expense I have is rent , everything else I do not spend a lot on and I work out a lot. In Miami your body must be together, and men with their own place stand out.

Social circle and reputation have also helped me consistently. I am very honest with every man I meet and I have a reputation with all the promoters and security guards for being honest and polite. This allows me to get into good social circles

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Like Atlanta Man says, ultimately the social circle will be the requirement to be able to take advantage of a more normal trusting scenario wherever you end up. I think the other qualities are foregone conclusions (your own car, place, decent style etc.) for "game."

This is the problem that the forum generally, and forum members seeking new opportunities, aren't impressed enough by: you need a lot longer in foreign locations than you realize (month to months minimum), and that's so that you can be taken more seriously, not a fly by night tourist type. Why would a girl trust the new tourist/foreigner? At best, you'd be getting a vapid resource seeker if she went against her natural designs to distrust someone like that.

There's a reason why going to new and different places is risky. But high risk = high reward. Just make contingencies that it doesn't mean high loss that crushes you, because that's what comes with high risk in our same universe; an inescapable reality.

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RE: Dangers of "Settling Down" at 40+
(06-20-2019 04:14 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  Currently I am 43 about to be 44 soon. The youngest I have "been intimate" with in the last 12 months is 18 the oldest is 37. I am currently with dealing with an 18 year old, a 33 year old and a 29 year old. The easiest for me to get up with (get the number, communicate, and subsequently date) is 28-33 year old range- but they push hard for a relationship, very hard. The 18- 23 year old range is the most difficult because I have a full time job and I am learning a new language at the same time. I meet the 18- 23 year olds at clubs, on the street and around school- we always "get intimate " immediately on on the first date or they ghost, it never lasts longer that a month or two regardless. For my results you must be in shape, have a car, your own place in a cool area and some disposable income. I do not wear expensive clothes or have a particularly expensive car- but I live in the middle of the hot spot in Miami. The only real expense I have is rent , everything else I do not spend a lot on and I work out a lot. In Miami your body must be together, and men with their own place stand out.

Social circle and reputation have also helped me consistently. I am very honest with every man I meet and I have a reputation with all the promoters and security guards for being honest and polite. This allows me to get into good social circles

Aren't you 6'3" or something similar? I'm sure that also helps a lot. Do you know any average height or short guys your age doing equally well?
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RE: Dangers of "Settling Down" at 40+
^^Yes I am 6'5 , but I am in Miami and the girls here are short. The best player I know is 5'8 and I know some other players around 5'7-they all have charisma and speak Spanish. Being white down here pays big too-Miami is a different beast. As long as you are average height here you are doing good-5'9-5'10 is considered tall in this town. Game, status , and money are all that matters here-plus Latin culture means you can date all the 18-23 year old you can afford with no side eye from the locals.

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^ interesting to hear, thanks for the info.
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RE: Dangers of "Settling Down" at 40+
And there was me thinking I was on a Red Pilled forum!

Can't recall ever hearing so much leftist virtue-signalling propaganda in a long time!

Read it fellas:

http://www.hist-chron.com/judentum-akten...-plan.html

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(06-20-2019 04:14 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  Currently I am 43 about to be 44 soon. The youngest I have "been intimate" with in the last 12 months is 18 the oldest is 37. I am currently with dealing with an 18 year old, a 33 year old and a 29 year old. The easiest for me to get up with (get the number, communicate, and subsequently date) is 28-33 year old range- but they push hard for a relationship, very hard. The 18- 23 year old range is the most difficult because I have a full time job and I am learning a new language at the same time. I meet the 18- 23 year olds at clubs, on the street and around school- we always "get intimate " immediately on on the first date or they ghost, it never lasts longer that a month or two regardless. For my results you must be in shape, have a car, your own place in a cool area and some disposable income. I do not wear expensive clothes or have a particularly expensive car- but I live in the middle of the hot spot in Miami. The only real expense I have is rent , everything else I do not spend a lot on and I work out a lot. In Miami your body must be together, and men with their own place stand out.

Social circle and reputation have also helped me consistently. I am very honest with every man I meet and I have a reputation with all the promoters and security guards for being honest and polite. This allows me to get into good social circles

I can co-sign this is essentially "How to succeed with women in South Florida".
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(06-20-2019 09:35 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  Like Atlanta Man says, ultimately the social circle will be the requirement to be able to take advantage of a more normal trusting scenario wherever you end up. I think the other qualities are foregone conclusions (your own car, place, decent style etc.) for "game."

This is the problem that the forum generally, and forum members seeking new opportunities, aren't impressed enough by: you need a lot longer in foreign locations than you realize (month to months minimum), and that's so that you can be taken more seriously, not a fly by night tourist type. Why would a girl trust the new tourist/foreigner? At best, you'd be getting a vapid resource seeker if she went against her natural designs to distrust someone like that.

There's a reason why going to new and different places is risky. But high risk = high reward. Just make contingencies that it doesn't mean high loss that crushes you, because that's what comes with high risk in our same universe; an inescapable reality.

Good points.

I think about what Roosh said - about how after his sister died, he reflected and thought maybe he made a mistake moving to Europe and instead he maybe should have stayed in DC and spent all that time with family, and possibly trying to build some type of community.

I speak as someone who had the opportunity to continue travelling a few years ago and chose instead to stay in my home town amongst my closest family ...

I've been able to get my life sorted out in a stable situation (which was a huge priority at the time), and I've spent a lot of time with family (which is priceless in a way), BUT, there's literally nothing else I'd be missing out on by leaving where I am. In fact, I'm almost certainly losing opportunity in other aspects of my life by staying where I am rather than going overseas (if you took a sample size of if I went to a city overseas for the next 6 months compared to stay where I am). I think about this sometimes. If you have family you love in the West or in a certain city in the world, that's just one part of your life. You still might live in a depressing PC/blue pill culture or having shockingly bad dating prospects there, or a number of other drawbacks.

Everything is pros and cons - no place or path is perfect. And, you honestly never know how a situation or environment in life plays out unless you go and do it. You never get your time back no matter which path you choose (heinsight can be a bitch, and every man is given a different path to walk in life).

I think we have a tendency sometimes, especially as we get older, to focus on what we might lose by moving to a situation rather than what we might gain. Furthermore, what is the risk that you will keep missing out on opportunities if you don't change the current situation that you are unsatisfied with?

But practically speaking, if your current situation isn't to your liking, and you go try something else and it doesn't work out, rather than looking at it as an inescapable reality with no hope left - at least then you can choose to either keep trying different places, or to just accept your situation and move to an isolated place out in the country somewhere to live out your days and just forget about women and the material world altogether haha (at the very least, your mind with feel much lighter and free-er). Either way, you've moved forward instead of sitting still or going backwards like you were before.
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