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(09-18-2019 04:51 PM)GT777733 Wrote:  I wrote this on another thread recently, but I believe it's highly accurate ...

One of the biggest obstacles for men on these forums and red pill type men when it comes to dating is not having a social circle or not being connected into a blue pill community or groups (I'm not talking about the guy being a recluse - I'm saying he often just sees the insanity that goes on with the group think mentality, social politics and 'keeping up appearances' in the West)

A lot of us crave freedom, independence, and control over our lives, and it often comes at the expense of being a part of well connected or high exposure type groups

The problem with that is, in the same way that large sections of girls are scooped up by the likes of Dan Bilzerian and other guys with notoriety and money on a global level, large sections of girls are scooped up by their social circles and the 'who you know and what are you in terms of status or standing' scene in their city or town. This is even more pronounced in some affluent countries (this is HUGE in Australia - women here are heavily plugged into social groups and circles and their own little social worlds that they may or may not want to be open minded or long sighted enough to peer out of). And to be honest, it's probably getting even more pronounced in 2019 and beyond where more women are becoming satisfied with their lives without men (because they have their jobs, money, family, friends, smartphone, social media, pets etc. to keep them entertained), and they can be of the mindset 'you meet my requirements for someone I want to fit into my life, or you can leave'.

Girls are drawn to a guy who is financially secure, in shape, and a guy who independent to a certain extent, but, in my experience, they are far more drawn to a guy who is well known and well connected amongst social groups and circles.

At the very least, to get a foot in the door, they want you to know one of their friends or someone they know so they know you aren't stranger danger, and so they know you aren't some weirdo.

It's very hard to get any leverage to get to know these girls unless you have that, or unless you are a regular part of her lifestyle in some way so you are exposed to her in a natural way. You're just another random guy hitting her up otherwise (if you're very good looking or you have some other very high value trait, she might consider you though).

The problem with this is, you are left with the 'leftover' girls, or you are playing a low odds game to find that lone wolf unicorn who is isn't crazy but is independent thinking enough not to play into the social games of life.

And, as I mentioned in the other thread, to solve this problem - many guys end up going abroad and starting new leveraging low living costs and better spending power, or running some type of novelty/exotic Western guy or provider game (or something similar).

If you want an LTR in the West and you want to give yourself good odds, you either need to start building social circles (and strategically place yourself in environments where you are going to meet the types of women you want), or you need to raise your value enough and go for a very compliant 6 or 7 who is going to see you as a major prize that you can hold frame over very easily. The problem I see with the social circle approach is that you are still dealing with the mindset of a lot of these Western women (who often value materialism, group think, etc.) - you will likely have to change your lifestyle and compromise on some of your important values - I don't like the sound of what that would do to a red pill type guy over the long term. It's like @graft said - girls can be easy to find once you know what you're doing and you have a niche, but, they essentially always fail one or multiple major screening tests if you're looking to keep them around as an LTR.

*The above is an observation (it's certainly part of a glass ceiling I've encountered) and a generalisation - I haven't spent time perfecting this answer. But, it's certainly something I wish I was aware of when I was in my very young 20's. I spent too much time at points worrying about certain things in regards to dating that were out of my control.


This post sums up well the current state of affairs. I'll caveat it by saying it's important to be in the right social circles. There are plenty of social circles that don't have attractive women in them (or women at all). I don't need to go into examples of those circles but I'm sure some of you can think of a few. If one is not in the right social circle in the West, one had better be exceptionally good looking, have exceptionally good game, or have exceptionally high status in some regard. Those are the only ways to consistently have some semblance of a dating life with American women, who often schizophrenically deviate between extremes of cold and warmth and prudishness and sluttiness depending on whether a guy fits their absurd standards.


I think many guys who joined this forum didn't have the social circle and wanted to learn more about how to have a decent dating life otherwise. Cold approach was a solution for a while but now it's not nearly as effective for most guys. I personally don't see myself having much of a dating life as long as I'm in the US, so I'm slowly but surely doing stuff that will allow me to live elsewhere for an extended period of time.
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Why are guys making this shit so hard? Are you doing everything you can to maximize your chances with quality women when exposed to them?

Are your teeth white and straight
Are you well groomed
Are you dressed well, be it casual or business
Do you have a top 10% physique(not hard to accomplish if you aren't morbidly obese)/
Do have an above average social intelligence
Are you gainfully employed
Do you have friends, do you have cool friends

Next, are you in an area where there are a plentiful amount of nubile attractive women. If not, move. That is if finding a partner or engaging in a fruitful dating life is important to you.

Thirdly, social circles do not come over night. Im not gonna have a dude come into my social circle who I consider a dweeb, dork or nerd. This is coming from a former nerd lol. Men need to understand they need to bring something to a social circle as a new guy whether that be attraction which garners more social credibility, being the hook up man, being extremely generous, athleticism, being the muscle or a bruiser,being exceptionally funny...etc. A lot of guys want something for nothing. The least you can do is have your appearance in order as someone looking to social climb. The next thing you can do is have access to something the circle in question does not. Whether that be stock tips, bartenders, doormen, women...etc.
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In my experience social circle game rarely ever works. The only people who use social circle game are small town losers with nothing going for them in life. They live for validation and acceptance from the group. Rarely are there ever enough women for all the guys in the circle. The older you get the faster the circle disintegrates. People eventually find love and friendships outside of the circle and start their own lives.

Reading some of these posts about social circles makes me think the posters are from small towns remembering their glory days of high school maybe college. I don't know how many times it needs to be said but RATIOS is the number one factor when it comes to dating, friendships and finding love. Small towns almost always have HORRENDOUS ratios and women with the worst social traits. It's also very easy to go weeks/months without seeing any single attractive women.

Unfortunately if you were born into a small town environment you may not have the social skills to thrive in a bigger city. Often times the friends I make in small towns are frustrated at the lack of dating prospects and culture but because they were born into the culture they don't possess the skills needed to connect with people from bigger cities and are outcasts or seen as weird. This often leads to guys having to reluctantly move back to their small towns and remain stuck in boring soul draining familiarity because it's all they know.

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Inferior Game + Average Genetics = Friend zone
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I see your point velkrum, but it isn't just a small town phenomenom. There is a "small town mentality" that exists in several sizeable US cities where people pretty much only interact with those they know from high school, colllege, or work when it comes to non-business interactions. Just go to any decent nightlife spot on an average weekend and observe how many people are clustered in groups, or even during a random festival or event that doesn't involve intoxication. It's considered weird to do things alone and even more so to interact with strangers. This is a common theme in American cities with places like NYC having it on a much lesser degree.

As for quaker, I think some of the points in that post are valid while others basically ignore some of what has been said in this thread. I'm all for self-improvement as long as it is for the guy's sake and not that of some woman who is constantly looking for the next shiny guy like most American women are doing. One shouldn't have to depend on being in some exclusive social circle to meet quality women but that's what it has come to apparently. Not all men are involved in activities with a lot of women nor do some want to be around groups of people all the time.
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Velkrum is harsh on a few things, but he's right on the RATIOS aspect and the circle disintegrating over time and age factor. A lot of advice on the forums is for high energy 20 somethings, and it should be. But I've said that social big city fun and entertainment circles are low ROI especially when you are older, because it's a TON of energy and money and unless your goal is just getting laid by sluts, it's not worth it at all.

Why are EE women so much hotter? Part genetics, mostly RATIOS. What doesn't the West have? Any selection pressures on women. It's not a wonder. Even if a girl is super hot, her attitude or real femininity sucks. No, not always, but again, lottery time --- and that means she's already betrothed by age 24 for what we want, lol.

For what I want (some reasonable degree of youth and family oriented girl) the answer is quite obviously other cultures.

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(09-22-2019 06:14 PM)velkrum Wrote:  In my experience social circle game rarely ever works. The only people who use social circle game are small town losers with nothing going for them in life. They live for validation and acceptance from the group. Rarely are there ever enough women for all the guys in the circle. The older you get the faster the circle disintegrates. People eventually find love and friendships outside of the circle and start their own lives.

Reading some of these posts about social circles makes me think the posters are from small towns remembering their glory days of high school maybe college. I don't know how many times it needs to be said but RATIOS is the number one factor when it comes to dating, friendships and finding love. Small towns almost always have HORRENDOUS ratios and women with the worst social traits. It's also very easy to go weeks/months without seeing any single attractive women.

Unfortunately if you were born into a small town environment you may not have the social skills to thrive in a bigger city. Often times the friends I make in small towns are frustrated at the lack of dating prospects and culture but because they were born into the culture they don't possess the skills needed to connect with people from bigger cities and are outcasts or seen as weird. This often leads to guys having to reluctantly move back to their small towns and remain stuck in boring soul draining familiarity because it's all they know.


This is most definitely not the case. Plenty of people, be it in big cities, burbs or smaller towns meet their significant others via social circle. It's still the best way to meet someone that might have some more long term potential. Tinder, night game etc is more for SNL or short term flings and you have less probability of meeting someone decent enough to consider an LTR. Most people in cities don't have a wide social circle so they're stuck using these other suboptimal methods. Kind of explains why the cities are filled with broken, degenerate people. Then again as you get older, every method of meeting potential long term mates gets harder including social circle game. To say though that everyone that uses social circle game is an anti-social loser is just dumb.
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Yes, they are.
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(09-22-2019 06:14 PM)velkrum Wrote:  In my experience social circle game rarely ever works. The only people who use social circle game are small town losers with nothing going for them in life. They live for validation and acceptance from the group. Rarely are there ever enough women for all the guys in the circle. The older you get the faster the circle disintegrates. People eventually find love and friendships outside of the circle and start their own lives.

Reading some of these posts about social circles makes me think the posters are from small towns remembering their glory days of high school maybe college. I don't know how many times it needs to be said but RATIOS is the number one factor when it comes to dating, friendships and finding love. Small towns almost always have HORRENDOUS ratios and women with the worst social traits. It's also very easy to go weeks/months without seeing any single attractive women.

Unfortunately if you were born into a small town environment you may not have the social skills to thrive in a bigger city. Often times the friends I make in small towns are frustrated at the lack of dating prospects and culture but because they were born into the culture they don't possess the skills needed to connect with people from bigger cities and are outcasts or seen as weird. This often leads to guys having to reluctantly move back to their small towns and remain stuck in boring soul draining familiarity because it's all they know.

Agree that they have a different set of social skills. Disagree that they lack social skills. (Granted I'm biased.)

I grew up in a small town. I've lived in big cities for the last decade or so. I generally don't connect with people, but they generally aren't worth connecting with anyway. If you "connect" with a woman in a city, the prize will generally be a one (or multi) night stand. Connect with a woman in a small town and it's good for an LTR.

Same generally applies to men. You might find some long-term friendships, but they're usually with men who also grew up in small towns (or are "weird" for some other reason — e.g., maybe they're foreign and don't fit in). I don't know if the people who view us as "weird" have friends, but from what I can see, I don't think they generally do. This is the atomization of American culture: people in big cities are increasingly unable to maintain relationships, and they view anyone who hasn't been atomized as "weird."

TLDR: American women really are that bad. But so are the men.
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(09-25-2019 02:17 PM)Donbe Wrote:  Agree that they have a different set of social skills. Disagree that they lack social skills. (Granted I'm biased.)

I grew up in a small town. I've lived in big cities for the last decade or so. I generally don't connect with people, but they generally aren't worth connecting with anyway. If you "connect" with a woman in a city, the prize will generally be a one (or multi) night stand. Connect with a woman in a small town and it's good for an LTR.

Same generally applies to men. You might find some long-term friendships, but they're usually with men who also grew up in small towns (or are "weird" for some other reason — e.g., maybe they're foreign and don't fit in). I don't know if the people who view us as "weird" have friends, but from what I can see, I don't think they generally do. This is the atomization of American culture: people in big cities are increasingly unable to maintain relationships, and they view anyone who hasn't been atomized as "weird."

TLDR: American women really are that bad. But so are the men.

This is a great summation of 2019 USA. I have been on both sides and I don't have problems relating to people from almost any walk of life. For the most part if you are good to people, find a common interest, and you are respectful, you can get along with anyone.

But this is so true of people in bigger cities. I suppose most of it is the constant stress of not enough time in their lives so they are very hesitant to give their rare commodity of time to someone else. Where in small towns time is not as fleeting and you are more generous with it. A good example of this is how on the coasts people run up and down escalators and people from the midwest are culturally shocked by this.

But with women it is a bigger problem. For attractive young women (under 35) there are so many options out there they become consumed with confusion of trying to find the perfect choice. In the end they are often scared to make any choice, fearing they didn't make the best choice. A guy that ticks 99% of their impossibly high standards is not good enough because maybe a guy that ticks 100% is at the next club/venue/etc. Add in the riding the carousel and causing women issues with bonding, it is a recipe for disaster. So women are far more like to flake than ever before. Add on the constant dopamine hits from streaming TV services, being told a career is the only thing that matters at every turn of their life, and the ability to get drunk and eat whatever they want and buy all the pointless garbage they want, there really is no control over the situation. Then after this behavior they just need to put on some make-up, fix their hair and take a close up selfie and get 100 likes on Facebook within 1 hour and get the maximum upcommies.

I don't know how young men find and keep women in this day and age in the USA. It almost seems like an impossible magic trick.
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I'll admit, I didn't have a shit load of friends in high school but the ones I did, most of them got married. Actually, most people I know are married. A buddy's brother, he just got married in April. It definitely still happens. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong or maybe right if you read about some guy's divorces.
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The irony is that despite the feminist solidarity on the surface, American women hate each other and are dysfunctional when aggregated in professional environments. Check out the Glassdoor reviews of highly-publicized female-founded startups like Theranos, uBiome, The Wing, Glossier, Rent the Runway, etc. Common themes are elitist sociopathic leadership (usually white girls from wealthy families and/or dating/married to rich guys), favoritism, unfair treatment, low morale, poor financial performance, and outright fraud in the case of the first 2.

As Warren Buffet says, "You only find out who is swimming naked when the tide goes out."
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I have to get right with myself. Before I criticize other people. I knkw that. Am slowly on the way to implementing it.
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(09-22-2019 09:38 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  Why are EE women so much hotter? Part genetics, mostly RATIOS. What doesn't the West have? Any selection pressures on women. It's not a wonder. Even if a girl is super hot, her attitude or real femininity sucks. No, not always, but again, lottery time --- and that means she's already betrothed by age 24 for what we want, lol.

For what I want (some reasonable degree of youth and family oriented girl) the answer is quite obviously other cultures.

I was in EE this past summer. Saw a woman walking at the beach who appeared to be a runway model. Elegant stride, ideally toned figure, great T&A, tall, etc. Really remarkable beauty.

Well, as it turned out she was walking back to a day bed where her husband, an overweight mafioso looking guy, and four(!) kids were.

As it turns out, when there is no welfare available and women are in their naturally dependent state, they get with the program in terms of pleasing men, and stay with it.

In the US she would probably be a 300 lb rascal scooter riding monster, living off alimony payments and cheese doodles. In EE she looked like a dream wife.
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Yes you're fucked.

Completely utterly fucked.

Sodomised, in fact.

The person who is writing about "oh just make sure you have white teeth". Well yes you should but you're only addressing one side of the equation, yourself. Rather the whole fucking environment around you which is completely against you and increasingly so every year to the point of there being mgtow movements of avoiding women altogether, or fucking off out of there to the back waters of asia or eastern europe to live life as it once was.

There is very little you can do as a lone wolf when women degrade in quality all around you. Sure you can fix your teeth, bleach your anus, do what you can on social circle game. But let's face the truth if there are less quality women in every city there are less quality women. You can't fix supply, nor you can fix the court system in family courts etc which is massively against you.

It is getting worse every year. What you are competing for now are college girls who are turning by the hordes into prostititution as seen on statistics on sugar daddy websites. Yes the dating game is turning full on into pay for play.

Don't be surprised if within 2-3 years time even pay for play girls, as they continue to grow in numbers in a pure collective mentality that it's not prostitution but just "dating + gifts" will reject you for the chads.

No amount of teeth whitening will fix that.
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(09-28-2019 11:34 AM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  Yes you're fucked.

Completely utterly fucked.

Sodomised, in fact.

The person who is writing about "oh just make sure you have white teeth". Well yes you should but you're only addressing one side of the equation, yourself. Rather the whole fucking environment around you which is completely against you and increasingly so every year to the point of there being mgtow movements of avoiding women altogether, or fucking off out of there to the back waters of asia or eastern europe to live life as it once was.

There is very little you can do as a lone wolf when women degrade in quality all around you. Sure you can fix your teeth, bleach your anus, do what you can on social circle game. But let's face the truth if there are less quality women in every city there are less quality women. You can't fix supply, nor you can fix the court system in family courts etc which is massively against you.

It is getting worse every year. What you are competing for now are college girls who are turning by the hordes into prostititution as seen on statistics on sugar daddy websites. Yes the dating game is turning full on into pay for play.

Don't be surprised if within 2-3 years time even pay for play girls, as they continue to grow in numbers in a pure collective mentality that it's not prostitution but just "dating + gifts" will reject you for the chads.

No amount of teeth whitening will fix that.

My thoughts exactly. Its coming to the point in america where it doesn't matter how far you go to improve yourself unless you really truly are top 20%. Even then its going to start becoming diminishing returns.

The world is changing rapidly thanks for technology. As you state the supply of worthy women is just simply vanishing before our eyes. The only solution I have found to this is to get out to SEA,EE, Latin america etc.

Unfortunately thats not doable in my current position so I just continue to watch the demise and prepare to get out one day.
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(05-07-2019 08:52 PM)SW15 Wrote:  
(05-07-2019 08:33 PM)TheBMan Wrote:  I think as you get down in the South you get a higher quality of woman.....while the American girls are getting shitfaced at brunch.

Not in Dallas, Texas. Many look good in Dallas, but have terrible attitudes. There is also an obsession with brunch in Dallas.

Fort Worth checking in, and this is accurate. The whole concept of a "traditionalist southern wife" is a trope. They only pretend to be that. I go to A&M and the girls are massively conservative for social clout, but the way they act is no different from any other woman. In fact, they are worse than pussy-hat feminists. They want everything that a traditional man has to offer, but they want their modern feminism too. They're confused, sexually frustrated, and if you don't bang them real good on the first date, they view you as a pussy, and go get some somewhere else. They don't want to be cared for at all. They'll get their corporate office job in Downtown Dallas anyway.
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(09-28-2019 12:24 PM)Zenta Wrote:  My thoughts exactly. Its coming to the point in america where it doesn't matter how far you go to improve yourself unless you really truly are top 20%. Even then its going to start becoming diminishing returns.

It's already like this in DC and major east coast cities, possibly worse. If you're not in the top 20% of men, you are essentially stuck with the bottom 50% of women. If you're outside the top 10% of men, you're stuck with 50th-75th percentiles, which is obviously quite grim, too.

The market is so distorted that literally no one can have a monogamous relationship with most girls in the top 5%. They simply will not be in a monogamous relationship at all, because restricting themselves to a single man, even a top 1% man who is objectively better than them, means being cut off from the attention, validation, and seductive novelties they get to experience otherwise.

The only exceptions for those girls are male celebrities, DJs, athletes, etc.

It's almost like American women aren't that bad, but the dating market is really exceptionally bad, which simply incentivizes the bad behavior amongst females.
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RE: Are American Women Really That Bad?
I just started using Tinder and a few foreign dating apps to pipeline and see what the markets are like. The Thai girls I chat with all engage in conversation with me, tell me they think I look good, and can't wait to meet me when I come. Sure some may just want my money but some of these girls text me everyday saying good morning, sending emojis, and generally wanting to know more about me.

On Tinder, I just swipe right on everyone unless they are ugly to maximize my chances. I've matched with 20-30 girls in the few weeks I have been using it and half don't even respond and the others just seem so boring. They don't engage in conversation and the only one who messaged me first, unmatched after I answered her question.

Sure there are probably some good girls in the US but the time it takes to find the one is just not worth the ROI.

(04-21-2014 04:47 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  On the cool, she probably had at least one too many tortiillas, but the tetas was mas gorda, comprenede?
09-28-2019 03:39 PM
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RE: Are American Women Really That Bad?
,, I am quite surprised to see 4's and below still get wifed up.. One ex friend with benefits girl I haven't seen in two years has gained more weight is now engaged... She was 5.5 tall probably about 165 lbs when we were hanging out. I tried to get her motivated to do some exercise but she no drive...Now she looks bigger...
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RE: Are American Women Really That Bad?
(09-28-2019 03:39 PM)louiebeans Wrote:  I just started using Tinder and a few foreign dating apps to pipeline and see what the markets are like. The Thai girls I chat with all engage in conversation with me, tell me they think I look good, and can't wait to meet me when I come. Sure some may just want my money but some of these girls text me everyday saying good morning, sending emojis, and generally wanting to know more about me.

On Tinder, I just swipe right on everyone unless they are ugly to maximize my chances. I've matched with 20-30 girls in the few weeks I have been using it and half don't even respond and the others just seem so boring. They don't engage in conversation and the only one who messaged me first, unmatched after I answered her question.

Sure there are probably some good girls in the US but the time it takes to find the one is just not worth the ROI.

Yeah but also realize those Thai girls you are talking to on tinder/cupid are talking to probably 2-10 other dudes saying good morning to them to until one of them comes over and takes care of her. Not all of them as there are always exception to the rules, but how many other handsome foreigners are they easily matched with?
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RE: Are American Women Really That Bad?
Trust me, I know they are talking to other guys and some will find one to take care of her. I was just making a point about my experience recently.

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(09-28-2019 11:43 PM)louiebeans Wrote:  Trust me, I know they are talking to other guys and some will find one to take care of her. I was just making a point about my experience recently.

Just making sure, some people are roped into thinking they are special by those girls. And there are certainly women over there that will treat you special but perhaps best to not find them on tinder.
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RE: Are American Women Really That Bad?
Sometimes on bumble I go through profiles of American girls linked with Instagram that really baffle me.

I saw an Asian-American 8.5, 5'8 from Harvard and now an associate at BCG.
What surprised me were the thong bikini pics with ass zoomed in. I went through her LinkedIn. She had done a Harvard BA in Neurobiology and Economics and she just started working for BCG this year.

Another one, I saw, was even more surprising. She is a Colombian-American 7 and she does Digital Forsenics at EY. This girl only had slutty pics on her profile. By slutty, I mean, string bikinis at big pool parties, no bra pics with nipple pokes visible under a white shirt in some tropical location, injected lips, wearing evening tops that are designed to let your lower and upper boob out and bending down purposely to show butt at some club. I went through her LinkedIn and saw that she had gone to a Southern Chrisitan University and done Bachelors of Business Admin in Information Systems and Finance. She had also done basic Microsoft Office certifications.

The BCG chick is probably earning around 120k while the EY chick is earning 85k. Both right after college.

I know how hard it is to get into BCG and EY. During my MBA, guys with strong background ie. impressive 5 year Fortune 200  experience, real good undergrad with strong GPA and strong GMAT, had to network their ass off just to land an interview at these firms. Moreover, they did case interview studies 6 months before the start of MBA and then did 100s of case preps during MBA. Those very few who passed 3-4 rounds of tough interviews were selected.

None of these guys were travelling or instawhoring themsleves before or during MBA. In fact, most of them didn't have a social life except within the MBA. They had to put the time and efforts in.

Plus, none of them would be caught dead showing any pics of theirs on social media in comprimising situations such as being in a raver or a drunk party pic. Those who even had, removed the pics from their profile or kept them very private. The reason is that employers screen through candidate's social media and these firms supposedly want sober, decent, intelligent and hard working people who are not prone to a decadent lifestyle.

This is what I saw and experienced during my MBA but now after seeing these chicks' profile, I have no idea how the fuck do they manage to get such lucrative careers or have such perfect lives where they can instawhore, travel, party and still nab and perform at such high demanding careers.

On the other hand, I, with good International experience and an MBA from a top university, am jobless,  preparing day in night out and struggling to get a foot in firms which are even one-two levels below BCG etc. It's not that even my IQ is less and I am pretty sure it's higher than these thots'. I even have a 99th percentile GMAT score.

It also shows that the whole American work system hiring has become bad. These top consulting or accounting firms with their stupid sjw policies are giving thots an easy ride where as the hardworking men who want to seriously work, make a good career and support a family in the future get to do lower jobs than such thots or even remain unemployed.

So when I see profiles like these, I  either can laugh and double down on my efforts or can just say 'fuck this gay earth'.
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“I have no idea how the fuck do they manage to get such lucrative careers or have such perfect lives where they can instawhore, travel, party and still nab and perform at such high demanding careers.”

Come now, those suggestive shots are exactly why they’re where they’re at. Welcome to the Whoredom.
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(10-01-2019 01:53 PM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  @bk

“I have no idea how the fuck do they manage to get such lucrative careers or have such perfect lives where they can instawhore, travel, party and still nab and perform at such high demanding careers.”

Come now, those suggestive shots are exactly why they’re where they’re at. Welcome to the Whoredom.

^ another example. I have a friend that is a very smart, masculine, average looking woman. She is a dental hygenist and thinks like a man, she tries to work hard and excel at her job. She works with all women, for a male dentist she was complaining about this one other woman that works there, who is late, terrible at her job etc. She is rude to patients and screws up all of the time. She can't understand how she got her degree, let alone has not been fired.

I said, do you have any pictures of this woman? She said yes and showed me an incredible hot dark haired latina. She looked like she was an actress in a pornographic film set in a dental office as opposed to a real hygenist.

I said 'that is why she has her job and will not be fired'. Even if she isn't actually sleeping with the dentist, she is enough of a tease and he is enough of a cuck to keep her around.

The same thing you may have seen in high school with hot girls having guys do all of the 'group work' projects for them, is the same thing in 'real life'

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