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Strange Irony of Attraction: Very Good Looking Guys Treated Like Ugly Guys
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RE: Strange Irony of Attraction: Very Good Looking Guys Treated Like Ugly Guys
It's not just alpha widows who are guarded. Girls who haven't been burned yet will also feel insecure about dating a male 10 who can dump her at any given moment. They already see themselves becoming alpha widows.
06-24-2019 04:37 AM
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RE: Strange Irony of Attraction: Very Good Looking Guys Treated Like Ugly Guys
@ The Stronger Sex

While I'll agree with you that girls who haven't been burned are also guarded, they are in general far less guarded than a girl who HAS been burned. There are also less alpha widows in their early 20s, than alpha widows in their late 20s.

Let's take a 29 year old female with above-average looks. Chances are if she's single and childless, she's been through MINIMUM one bad breakup/heartbreak that in some way has altered her behavior as well as her thinking. Chances are if it was with someone she deemed as an "alpha" or deeply cared for, she's more than likely carrying around a lot of emotional baggage from that break-up. Hell, even girls who get dumped by guys I would consider low-value dirtbags are emotional wrecks. They then play it off with this faux-alpha female persona that is so easy to spot and is downright unattractive. Even if you are a good looking guy, alpha widows are more likely to put you through the mental gymnastics before their guard comes down and they "allow" you to conquer them. Despite all the horse shit the media feeds them, these girls know the clock is ticking, and it's ticking fast. If they want to settle down and have a family, they know the next person they enter a LTR with is crucial. Enter Mr. Beta Bux. He's largely a safe bet, validates her mere existence, and she's less likely to get burned by him than that high-value male who can and will drop her like a bad habit, provided that good looking high-value man is not a chump. This in turn, causes said girl to treat that good looking guy like shit. It's a defense mechanism to protect themselves against potential future heartbreak.

Now let's take an above-average looking 22 year old female. Chances are she's maybe been in one LTR, more than likely from high school or college. Generally speaking, she's not jaded or cautious in the same way a 28 year old starring at 30 is. Someone else on this forum posted something regarding younger girls and the jist of it was, that at that age it's more primal than methodical. Young girls care more about if you are hot, turn them on sexually, and are fun. That's not to say the older alpha widow doesn't feel primal attraction or gets into a sexual relationship quickly, it's just that they are far more likely to play mind games with you and are going to proceed with far more caution. The process becomes more dragged out and time consuming. They basically want you to work for something that is usually out of its prime, and comes with a ton of problems. It's like paying for a car near full-price that's 10 years old and has been in a few accidents and needs a few new parts. I'll pass.

Contrary to what they'd have you believe, women are very intimidated by very good looking guys, especially ones who got all their shit together and give off the vibe that if she's not cutting it, she can and will be replaced. This causes the walls around the castle to go up, and that guy a lot of the time is treated with contempt and hate, sometimes even before he opens his mouth.
06-25-2019 05:38 PM
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RE: Strange Irony of Attraction: Very Good Looking Guys Treated Like Ugly Guys
Yeah, it's usually due to one of two reasons.

Either A, his vibe and social skills are absolutely terrible, or B, it's her "slut defense" and she's just doing it for the validation of her friends.

This happens to me sometimes (very good looking, jacked), where girls will "reject" me just to look cool in front of their friends.

The way you treat this depends on how much effort you want to put in. Either A, plow through the resistance and just ask for her number, or B, ignore because it isn't worth your time or effort.

I typically choose B, but some guys choose A. It all depends on how much effort you want to put in.
06-26-2019 06:34 PM
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