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(06-02-2019 06:28 PM)Kungfu Wrote:  Good luck to everyone trying to pursue their goals of having a wife and family, especially in this day and age but tbh I find it really worrisome that some people have almost reverted back to the same way of thinking that burned them in the past made them abandon the idea of wanting family and kids in the first place.

Religion and conservatism can help keep women's natural instincts at bay at best, but it won't change who they really are.

There are women out there who check off all the boxes that the OP laid out, but when push comes to shove are no different than your typical thot.

Women have the ability to rationalize their worst behaviors then go to church the next day and pass a lie detector test at the same time.

Times have changed. It's hard to ask for a faithful partner when the culture you're in churns out the worst partners imaginable.

Best of luck to all the guys looking for a wholesome partner, but they're getting rarer by the day.

There needs to be a new kind of troll: the "All women are deep down thots and there is no hope" troll...
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(06-01-2019 08:19 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(05-31-2019 11:48 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:  
(05-27-2019 11:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  If a guy wants to find a religious wife, he has to be as religious as she is in most cases. A lot of men have been chasing pre-marital sex. A lot of men who are passionate about chasing pre-marital sex are not actively practicing a religion. The Millennial generation, the current cohort of 20/30 somethings, are probably the least religious generation ever.

Since I have not been practicing religion since turning 18, I do not have deep roots within any religious community. That would not help my cause in finding a religious wife.

Eventually, when I get the desire to settle down, the fact that I have struggled to find god will make me more interesting to the Christian chicks. Being born Christian and always devout like a choir boy is not an interesting story to tell...

Part of the reason I moved to Dallas was I was pretty put off by the soullessness in NYC. It rubbed me the wrong way that all the chicks there seemed so unhappy and dead inside. First thing I did in Dallas was go to Church...

Especially before my past relationship, I had the opportunity to date a few Christian girls and tell them that story and it resonated very well. At the time I wasn't ready to commit myself to being fully Christian and all the machinations and self-denial that goes with it... I eventually met another girl who was decidedly Athiest, a nice girl, I didn't need to adapt much as an East Coast guy, but not someone who made me want to have babies/married...

As an aside, Dallas and places like it: economically thriving, yuppy-dense cities with a lot of transplants, jobs, and rich people are probably not good places to find a decent wife. Maybe that's obvious, but I don't think it's been said. Sure, a lot of Dallas chicks claim to be Christian (it's a religious town), but they're also feminist at the same time with their high powered careers and yuppy lifestyles... Don't move to a place just for work, that's the lesson. Become more location independent.

Hey though, at least you're in Texas. Might be the best place to meet women in the US, in my experience. Generally a cool state that I enjoy a lot. Maybe some looking outside of Dallas/Ft. Worth might be in order.

Texas is big and every city is different - and then there's the real Texas outside of the cities.
Very difficult to generalize.

My best vibe is in Houston, the ladies love me there, but I think it's hard to live there. It's too much sprawl. There's also fewer singles there than Dallas and Austin.
Second, San Antonio is real chill but its slim pickings.
Austin is a hot weather Brooklyn. If I wanted to live in Brooklyn I woulda stayed in NYC.

Likely relocating because I miss the beach...

Coming from the Northeast, I don't mind the liberal yankee jew chicks so much. They are creatures I understand even if I disagree.
The sorority chicks that went to school in Oklahoma and rural Texas I will never understand. I just have no vibe with them and that's most of Dallas.

Florida...
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(06-02-2019 08:10 PM)Onto Wrote:  
(06-02-2019 06:28 PM)Kungfu Wrote:  Good luck to everyone trying to pursue their goals of having a wife and family, especially in this day and age but tbh I find it really worrisome that some people have almost reverted back to the same way of thinking that burned them in the past made them abandon the idea of wanting family and kids in the first place.

I agree with the rest you wrote, but I didn't understand what you meant here. I'm sorry if I missed the backstory, but what way of thinking are you referring too? How did it burn them?

Blue pill men that originally wanted a wholesome relationship, wife, marriage..and got burned for it. Then found game, and are now chasing the same things they did as a blue piller.

Perfectly fine wanting a wife a family, but it's becoming less attainable by the day in this culture.

I feel some are abandoning core principles of game to chase unicorns.
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In this day and age, it's pointless. Trying to get married in this society is simply trying to live out some Disney fairytale lifestyle. Understand the game is rigged against men. There is no incentive to get married that you can't pull off while simply cohabitating with your woman. Even that too is somewhat dangerous, but not suicidal as marriage.

A lot of guys just sign that marriage license without a clue what they are getting themselves into. Most don't even know something simple like No Fault divorce even exist. That clause alone makes marriage a joke. There is even some states that have Lifetime Alimony if you are married for over 10 years. Yes! After 10 years she can divorce you, move on to another man while you continue to pay her for the rest of your life.

Let's not forget about sexless marriages. They do exist. Most of the men had no idea that they would end up in that situation. The one thing that she brought to the table she just takes it away simply because she doesn't feel like it anymore. Once you're married its an obligation, unless there's medical issues present. I don't know how men put up with that nonsense. That alone should have you serving her divorce papers no matter what. She broke the contract. Otherwise you're forced to cheat.

The second you sign those dotted lines, your power as a man has been turned over to the woman and the state. I dont care how red-pilled or alpha you think you are. It's a weak position and a severely bad investment to get into today.
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(06-02-2019 09:33 AM)Sol-lek Wrote:  I'm beginning to think that some societies are more "evolved" towards monogamy.
What I can't figure out is if its by virtue of extreme cultural and societal standards, or perhaps some form of (compartively speaking) evolution in the short term.
Allow me to explain. I am an Arab American, grew up in an Arabic family, with a large extended family, cousins, uncles, aunts, etc.
My family, for the most part, seem to represent what I call the perfect blend of eastern and western values, living for the most part an American Lifestyle, whilst keeping Islam and culture close.
Now, of every major "group" (group being a broad term here, but I hope I can make my point clear), I have noticed that Muslims seem to have the most successful marriages, with the lowest divorce rates, as well as infidelity. Overall happy family lifestyle, many children, and overall: Balanced Happiness.
Now again, I can't account for what goes on behind closed doors, as we all have skeletons in our closet. However, I can speak based on what I see and experience.
I myself have been in a relationship with a fellow Muslim lady for a number of years, and while we have our ups and downs, we are still in it for the long run. I can attest to her character, as she prays 5 times daily, reads the Quran with love, and attempts to be a better Muslim as much as she can.
She is, quite literally, a better human than I (religiously speaking).
The key here is to find a women who ACTUALLY fears God.
Not someone who merely follows a faith half wittedly because she was born into, but someone who actively seeks to practice it everyday as much as she can, because she genuinely loves it. Because she fears God.
How will you know? Simple, the years have taught me; She has to push YOU to follow a faith more closely. She has to push YOU to pray more, read scripture more. No drinking, no pre-marital sex, nothing. But this must be done with balance, as an over-bearing religious heart is pretext for compensation for unseen sin and vice (as in when one partner cheats on the other, the cheating partner will attempt to shower their partner with gifts, attention etc in a vein attempt to make up for what they did, in their minds)
Social awareness and understanding of human nature helps you screen out for this type of person. Life has taught me, and perhaps few of you will believe me, but they do exist. I promise, I swear. But they are incredibly, incredibly rare. There is a certain luck factor involved, akin to winning the lottery.
As I've said before, I don't know if these types of women exist because of Nature or Nurture, but regardless...
Islam is merely one conduit for this, Christianity works just as well. All these religions are merely conduits with different rituals to worship the same One, True God.
The only method for finding a good spouse, is through religion, is through God. There is NO other way.

Hey! It's great to hear from Muslim guys on this thread. My experience with the Muslim community and the women involved is very similar to yours. The difference in my experience is that I dated a couple women who were not super religious, but they still had all the basic positives of highly religious women. This is due to culture and you should have no doubt about that. Culture matters a lot when it comes to women.

Question. If a guy converted and wanted to meet a woman who is practicing Islam, how would you recommend that he attempt to find a good wife? A lot of these communities are difficult for outsiders to navigate. If I remember correctly the Mosques require men and women to worship separately.
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(06-03-2019 07:17 AM)EndsExpect Wrote:  
(06-02-2019 09:33 AM)Sol-lek Wrote:  I'm beginning to think that some societies are more "evolved" towards monogamy.
What I can't figure out is if its by virtue of extreme cultural and societal standards, or perhaps some form of (compartively speaking) evolution in the short term.
Allow me to explain. I am an Arab American, grew up in an Arabic family, with a large extended family, cousins, uncles, aunts, etc.
My family, for the most part, seem to represent what I call the perfect blend of eastern and western values, living for the most part an American Lifestyle, whilst keeping Islam and culture close.
Now, of every major "group" (group being a broad term here, but I hope I can make my point clear), I have noticed that Muslims seem to have the most successful marriages, with the lowest divorce rates, as well as infidelity. Overall happy family lifestyle, many children, and overall: Balanced Happiness.
Now again, I can't account for what goes on behind closed doors, as we all have skeletons in our closet. However, I can speak based on what I see and experience.
I myself have been in a relationship with a fellow Muslim lady for a number of years, and while we have our ups and downs, we are still in it for the long run. I can attest to her character, as she prays 5 times daily, reads the Quran with love, and attempts to be a better Muslim as much as she can.
She is, quite literally, a better human than I (religiously speaking).
The key here is to find a women who ACTUALLY fears God.
Not someone who merely follows a faith half wittedly because she was born into, but someone who actively seeks to practice it everyday as much as she can, because she genuinely loves it. Because she fears God.
How will you know? Simple, the years have taught me; She has to push YOU to follow a faith more closely. She has to push YOU to pray more, read scripture more. No drinking, no pre-marital sex, nothing. But this must be done with balance, as an over-bearing religious heart is pretext for compensation for unseen sin and vice (as in when one partner cheats on the other, the cheating partner will attempt to shower their partner with gifts, attention etc in a vein attempt to make up for what they did, in their minds)
Social awareness and understanding of human nature helps you screen out for this type of person. Life has taught me, and perhaps few of you will believe me, but they do exist. I promise, I swear. But they are incredibly, incredibly rare. There is a certain luck factor involved, akin to winning the lottery.
As I've said before, I don't know if these types of women exist because of Nature or Nurture, but regardless...
Islam is merely one conduit for this, Christianity works just as well. All these religions are merely conduits with different rituals to worship the same One, True God.
The only method for finding a good spouse, is through religion, is through God. There is NO other way.

Hey! It's great to hear from Muslim guys on this thread. My experience with the Muslim community and the women involved is very similar to yours. The difference in my experience is that I dated a couple women who were not super religious, but they still had all the basic positives of highly religious women. This is due to culture and you should have no doubt about that. Culture matters a lot when it comes to women.

Question. If a guy converted and wanted to meet a woman who is practicing Islam, how would you recommend that he attempt to find a good wife? A lot of these communities are difficult for outsiders to navigate. If I remember correctly the Mosques require men and women to worship separately.

My pleasure!

Barring the social norms (look nice, dress well, be social, etc), your best bet would be to simply get involved in the Islamic Community.

This is much easier in larger cities (NYC, Chicago, etc).

Gradually get involved in community gatherings and organizational meetups, this usually starts at a local mosque.

Now here is the thing about meeting a good muslim woman; it probably will not happen via direct contact. You are correct, as prayer is seperated by gender. As it should be. Prayer is chit chat time with God. Strictly.

I don't know what it is about Muslim women, but they rarely respond well to cold approaches, there needs to be an element of social proof. (I am talking strictly in the context of a long term relationship/spousal).

What I mean is, your best is to make friends with fellow muslims, and eventually be introduced to a potential partner. Again, community events, the mosque, get creative.

This is what happened to me. Was introduced to her through a friend, and it slowly built up from there.

As I type this, I realize the rather organic nature of the whole process, even holy in a sense.

Be religious, get involved in community, make friendships, find Love. Such a stark contrast to the nonsense that goes on today.

Good luck brother.

Jazak allah khair.
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Really a lot of this discussion is forgetting to mention that marriage isn't all "must be religious, low notch count, not degenerate, not leftist." You're not just looking for the perfect forum member here.

The X factor--the biggest factor honestly--is her compatibility with you. Some of the other stuff will even fall into place over time if you find someone who is compatible with you.

On this forum we're used to clear-cut answers. We might not like all the answers, but we're used to black-and-white things like "next her ass," "text her [this]," "do XYZ in this scenario." But this is not like that.

You need to know who you are if you're going to choose your spouse. If you're not going to choose and you have the benefit of society holding you two together with no way out starting with when you're very young, then this doesn't matter because you'll develop into who you both are in tandem. That's why those arranged marriages are so famously happy.

But most of us live in a society that values individuality (sort of), which unfortunately leaves the majority of people hanging. So you need to do a deep dive on who you are. Really.

That means what kind of vibe you have, what you need in a woman, etc. Honestly, what you need to know are things that are deeper than the questions I just gave you because they're almost indefinable and the above questions really just get you looking in the right general psychological place.

Only then do you know what woman you can honestly marry.

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What if you are not a religious man whatsoever?

I see all the benefits in a religious partner - honest, submissive, compliant, low notch count - but as an agnostic atheist, would you still game these women?

If not, what's your "next best" alternative?
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Religious girls aren't anymore honest or have a low notch count as any other girl; maybe better at fooling you. Just find somebody you're compatible with and willingness to submit to you.
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(06-17-2019 05:12 AM)flaghunter Wrote:  What if you are not a religious man whatsoever?

You could convert. Big Grin
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A good woman can call herself an atheist, yet fulfill more of the Gospel, while an evil woman can call herself a Christian, yet neither behave nor believe accordingly. A good woman will learn the Truth if it's offered to her, while an evil woman may have been born into it, but will only wear it as a souvenir.

You will know them by their fruits.

When I met my wife, neither of us were religious. She followed me and embraced it because she had the basic disposition to do so, the natural or nurtured inclination - unlike so many girls I have met which were permanently involved in Church activities and with Jesus and Mary on their lips, while being the worst gossipers, the most vain, the biggest sluts, and none inclined to be a proper Christian wife.

Following your lead is the key aspect of a good wife. But you have to be worthy of being followed by a good woman and keep working on being worthy, so she will do the same.

Complaining about the state of women, regardless of how correct the observations are, will not move you closer to being worthy of a good woman, nor of making one inclined to be worthy of you.

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I'm honestly willing to Convert and start going to Church every Sunday, as well as follow all the laws for the chance to be with a good God fearing woman who is untainted by modern "society". I've been looking into Jehovas witnesses and will be attending one of thwir meetings to see what it's like.
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(06-04-2019 10:09 PM)Tex Wrote:  Really a lot of this discussion is forgetting to mention that marriage isn't all "must be religious, low notch count, not degenerate, not leftist." You're not just looking for the perfect forum member here.
The X factor--the biggest factor honestly--is her compatibility with you. Some of the other stuff will even fall into place over time if you find someone who is compatible with you.
Only then do you know what woman you can honestly marry.

Compatibility changes.

We don't talk about love much on this forum. We talk about sex and dating and a lot of other relationship pieces, but we rarely talk about love.

I'm going to be very blunt with you... atheist and agnostic women are always a bad bet. When I see a friend start thinking about marrying one, the roulette wheel starts playing in my head, because those are your odds.

Love. To most women love is a feeling. They either feel in love or they don't. When they don't feel that love for you... which usually fades after a few years... then they bounce onto a new guy. If they have kids with you, then they start to resent the shit out of you for keeping them from finding a guy they believe will make them feel "love". This is sheer stupidity, but it's how women are raised to think today and it feels natural to them.

In reality... love isn't a feeling. Love is a choice. It's a hard fucking choice. You have to wake up every day and say... I choose to love this woman. Religious women tend to understand this because it is dictated by God. They don't expect to feel in love all the time. So, sometimes that feeling fades... and then they put in some work and it comes back.

Perhaps I should make a separate thread for this.
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(06-25-2019 01:30 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  
(06-04-2019 10:09 PM)Tex Wrote:  Really a lot of this discussion is forgetting to mention that marriage isn't all "must be religious, low notch count, not degenerate, not leftist." You're not just looking for the perfect forum member here.
The X factor--the biggest factor honestly--is her compatibility with you. Some of the other stuff will even fall into place over time if you find someone who is compatible with you.
Only then do you know what woman you can honestly marry.

Compatibility changes.

We don't talk about love much on this forum. We talk about sex and dating and a lot of other relationship pieces, but we rarely talk about love.

I'm going to be very blunt with you... atheist and agnostic women are always a bad bet. When I see a friend start thinking about marrying one, the roulette wheel starts playing in my head, because those are your odds.

Love. To most women love is a feeling. They either feel in love or they don't. When they don't feel that love for you... which usually fades after a few years... then they bounce onto a new guy. If they have kids with you, then they start to resent the shit out of you for keeping them from finding a guy they believe will make them feel "love". This is sheer stupidity, but it's how women are raised to think today and it feels natural to them.

In reality... love isn't a feeling. Love is a choice. It's a hard fucking choice. You have to wake up every day and say... I choose to love this woman. Religious women tend to understand this because it is dictated by God. They don't expect to feel in love all the time. So, sometimes that feeling fades... and then they put in some work and it comes back.

Perhaps I should make a separate thread for this.


After my conversion two years ago I asked the Lord for a religious wife. It decided be bold, because I saw no way for Him to actually answer it. As a MGHOW hermit living frugal I didn't go dating for a decade and I'm still not doing it. So I wasn't taking my request very serious and my prayer was pretty over the top: I asked for child-loving (near-)virgin 8.5+ (of course!), sharing my musical gift, Bible-carrying Christian. Yes, nothing less, the full package! Yes, I know how this sounds - as if someone like me in my income bracket would deserve anything like that.

Then this year out of blue sky the Lord put a girl into my life, matching the entire list. And she immediately got infatuated with me (of course!). Since then I'm just baffled watching how God works on both me and her to put His plan into effect. It's just "coincidences", "lucky" moments, parish people correcting her and me, as well as a lot of quality time at church outside worship piling up, without me having to do anything resembling game or officially dating her. The whole list of "fornication guides" as Roosh calls it now, it seems they're not needed at all. Things progress at God's pace.

All I did was telling the Lord that I fully submit to His will and follow along with His plan. Now I'm just fascinated how the Almighty works on seemingly completely impossible things. And I have to accept the fact, that my own power in arranging these miracles is essentially nil.

And that's what I want you to take from this testimony. It's not about boasting about some "happy accident" which might lead somewhere (it's still WIP), but to entrust your wishes to the Lord Christ, even if you think they are unrealistic. If it's in His plan, He will give to you, but only if you ask for it and have faith.

Oh, and it helps to stay away from sin, attend church every week and pay your tithe.
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(06-17-2019 11:52 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  Flaghunter

Religious girls aren't anymore honest or have a low notch count as any other girl; maybe better at fooling you. Just find somebody you're compatible with and willingness to submit to you.

I should also point out that there are religious, zero-notch-count women you might meet at Church who are just as cruel and back-biting as any secular woman (if not more so). One of the Saints, I forget which one, pointed out that purity of the body isn't really worth anything without purity of the soul to go with it. Honestly at this point I'm starting to think that just think finding a woman you really get along and connect with is probably a better option than having a list of requirements that few if any women are realistically going to meet.

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Sounds like wwtl made a deal

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(06-30-2019 03:16 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  Sounds like wwtl made a deal

I was just careless as a new believer and then forgot about it for two years. Now dealing the consequences I decided that it's the smartest decision to not interfere with divine power and just watch how it plays out.

But I noticed how the thread deals with the topic of finding a "religious wife" by purely implementing worldly measures. Under my circumstances that would never work out. One of the reasons why I turned to the Lord: I need His help.
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(06-29-2019 04:56 PM)wwtl Wrote:  After my conversion two years ago I asked the Lord for a religious wife. It decided be bold, because I saw no way for Him to actually answer it. As a MGHOW hermit living frugal I didn't go dating for a decade and I'm still not doing it. So I wasn't taking my request very serious and my prayer was pretty over the top: I asked for child-loving (near-)virgin 8.5+ (of course!), sharing my musical gift, Bible-carrying Christian. Yes, nothing less, the full package! Yes, I know how this sounds - as if someone like me in my income bracket would deserve anything like that.
Then this year out of blue sky the Lord put a girl into my life, matching the entire list. And she immediately got infatuated with me (of course!). Since then I'm just baffled watching how God works on both me and her to put His plan into effect. It's just "coincidences", "lucky" moments, parish people correcting her and me, as well as a lot of quality time at church outside worship piling up, without me having to do anything resembling game or officially dating her. The whole list of "fornication guides" as Roosh calls it now, it seems they're not needed at all. Things progress at God's pace.
All I did was telling the Lord that I fully submit to His will and follow along with His plan. Now I'm just fascinated how the Almighty works on seemingly completely impossible things. And I have to accept the fact, that my own power in arranging these miracles is essentially nil.
And that's what I want you to take from this testimony. It's not about boasting about some "happy accident" which might lead somewhere (it's still WIP), but to entrust your wishes to the Lord Christ, even if you think they are unrealistic. If it's in His plan, He will give to you, but only if you ask for it and have faith.
Oh, and it helps to stay away from sin, attend church every week and pay your tithe.

I could have written this same post when I was 20. I was a fool at 20.

You do not perform good works in order to receive God's blessing. You may find as I did that the zero notch count, super into you, Christian woman that you marry, becomes a cheating whore in 5 years or 10 years. What you believe is a blessing today may be something to humble you and bring you to your knees in years to come.

Women are human too, and sometimes they fuck up... actually a lot of times they fuck up. Especially when they have poor male leaders around them. That doesn't mean they are shit.

I think a lot of younger guys get obsessed with the idea of virgin girls because of their own insecurities. Don't be one of those guys.
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(06-30-2019 06:15 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  You do not perform good works in order to receive God's blessing.

Amen. Look at Job, or Hosea, or Samson. Especially Hosea. There's no guarantee of happiness this side of heaven.

So much of what Christ said in the gospel revolved around how we've got to lose our attachments. If we choose to follow Him, we might have to go without family, without possessions, without any of the earthly things we want.
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(06-30-2019 06:45 PM)Emperor Constantine Wrote:  Amen. Look at Job, or Hosea, or Samson. Especially Hosea. There's no guarantee of happiness this side of heaven.
So much of what Christ said in the gospel revolved around how we've got to lose our attachments. If we choose to follow Him, we might have to go without family, without possessions, without any of the earthly things we want.

I think it's also worth mentioning that the most righteous and blessed group of people within the Jewish community at the time Jesus began his ministry were the ones he preached against and the ones who eventually had him crucified.

I think in some ways it's worth reexamining how we evaluate women. I've had pretty negative experiences with women who married young as virgins. I know this works out for a lot of guys, but it's absolutely not a silver bullet. However, I'm also not saying that the post wall cock carousel riders are a good choice... in fact I'd say your chances are probably better with the virgins. I just think maybe the actual notch count is less important than the reason behind it.... just a thought.
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For you younger Christian guys out there, if wanting to find a true religious wife check out Hyles-Anderson College in Indiana. It's for independent fundamental Baptists (not to be confused with you cucked out southern Baptists etc) who are largely red pilled, uncucked, and where women are still women and men are men. As far as I know, and I could be wrong, one of the few if not only Bible colleges where there's programs for women to get there bachelor's in "Marriage and Motherhood". Here's from the website:

"This course of study is designed to train ladies to be capable wives and mothers. Ladies are given vital training in Biblical concepts of marriage and child-rearing, as well as in practical skills such as cooking, sewing, and household management".

If you're not keen on a full degree, there's some one year degree programs in Bible study and what not. I could never recccomend a four year degree in Bible study or some bs like that. All you need is the Bible, your brain to learn, and maybe some unpussed preachers to look up to. But if you want to surround yourself with red pilled Christian men and women for a year it might be a good investment. Not sure what tuition is like. Might not be an option for older guys as American girls are still gonna be American girls, but for younger guys out there who are marriage and family oriented might be something to consider and a safe bet to find a true Christian wife who knows her place and wants to look up to you. Your daygame opener could be easy..."hey do you know where you're going when you die?" haha.

https://hylesanderson.edu/marriage-and-motherhood/

https://hylesanderson.edu/bible-diploma/




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(06-30-2019 06:15 PM)EndsExpect Wrote:  I could have written this same post when I was 20. I was a fool at 20.

You do not perform good works in order to receive God's blessing. You may find as I did that the zero notch count, super into you, Christian woman that you marry, becomes a cheating whore in 5 years or 10 years. What you believe is a blessing today may be something to humble you and bring you to your knees in years to come.

We're in the West here, everything is already broken beyond repair:

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It's a given. I know this. That's why I'm not the guy who tries to create and control a situation impossible to control with his own human means (something this thread is about). I'm just following the Lord's plan, whatever it looks like. And yes, it's pretty normal to get called a fool for doing so.

"Rejoice if you are insulted for the name of Christ, because the Spirit of glory and of God rest on you" - 1 Peter 4:13–14
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(06-30-2019 06:45 PM)Emperor Constantine Wrote:  So much of what Christ said in the gospel revolved around how we've got to lose our attachments. If we choose to follow Him, we might have to go without family, without possessions, without any of the earthly things we want.

Exactly. I already consented (with His will) and the fact that it might not be a joyride at all. But you can still turn to Him for things you want. It never hurts to ask.
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