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Thinking about other women during sex
Does anybody in a LTR not do this?
06-08-2019 01:10 PM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
I'll be honest, I do sometimes and that's when my gf doesn't meet my standards. Usually because she's not feminine enough... and another girl who I bump into frequently is.
06-08-2019 03:32 PM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
I'll admit I"ve done it a few times. I think part of it is we're programmed that way by the sex-saturated culture we live in, part of it's just normal.

Not every time though. For me there's a few specific sessions I"ve had with my SO that the memory of does more to get me going than anything else I can think if.
06-08-2019 04:07 PM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
Maybe like 1/10 times. It's normal to want some variety. If you're having to think about other girls the majority of the time you are having sex with your LTR than that's a problem IMO and you should ask yourself why you have to fantasize about other girls while essentially masturbating with a warm body.
06-08-2019 08:46 PM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
I've done it - especially if I've been seeing them for a while.

I have a massive problem with getting bored sleeping with the same woman long term.

I can actually go without sex for a while in a relationship; but that usually frustrates them after a while (which is fair).

Not much way around it either as some of us are just programmed like this so we have to fight with ourselves to be good.
06-09-2019 04:06 AM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
It seems I do it more than most - time to make an active effort to cut it out.

- Actively control my mind on the moment when I'm with my girl
- No porn and no fapping unless it's with her
- Concentrate on aspects poorly served by my imagination such as touch

Feel free to add other remedies if this is a problem for anyone else.
06-13-2019 02:53 AM
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RE: Thinking about other women during sex
Not watching porn or fapping if you're in an LTR that you are seeing regularly is crucial for a healthy sex life...it builds up sexual hunger and she will definitely feel it when you are barely able to contain yourself, there is a big difference in a guy who has watched porn and fapped for 3 days before having sex with his girl vs.na guy who has abstained. It's huge and she will notice, and you won't even need to fantasize about other girls.

If she is good about staying in shape this should be less of an issue. Try some new positions, I know for me and my gf we had kind of gotten into a routine of doing the same 4-5 positions in the same order - routine kills the sexual vibe, some spontaneity and newness is needed to keep up that energy
06-13-2019 09:44 AM
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