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Tinder and dating
Question for the experienced guys or anyone who has experience or advice.

I haven't done much day game or night game because of work and other reasons ( excuses). I rely on tinder , which is a crutch but It's what I got for now. I'm trying to do day game , but it's whenever I have the courage to say something. I've gotten numbers but honestly it fizzles out right away. Anyway, I use tinder mostly, but my biggest problem I'm facing is I usually just ask girls to come over and chill. its successful sometimes but mostly it doesn't pan out. Ill get a girls number and we will talk and I try to see her right away ,but it doesn't always work out and eventually fizzles. I've tried the normal approach before by talking then going out with a girl on a date after I get her number,but honestly it never goes well. Its either they hate how I look in person or my conversation game is whack(my self analyzation). So do you guys think I should take the long approach and butter them up and not try and invite them to my place off the bat or should I see them a couple of times and not give them the creep signal. Honestly, a lot of the girls that do come over are up for it so I feel like the dating approach never works because they just move on to the next guy if they don't like something about you. I'm trying to change my approach so I'm more successful. Any advice?


Another question haha

How do you guys deal with girls that don't respond after exchanging numbers or you message them for a bit. Shit drives me crazy when you chat with them and they stop answering or even worse, they read it and don't respond. I try to play it cool but go against my better judgement and over text them until i get a response which usually just gives the vibe that I'm clingy.
(This post was last modified: 06-15-2019 12:56 AM by Pseudoteacher.)
06-15-2019 12:47 AM
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RE: Tinder and dating
Read this thread for the ones you get to meet

https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-8681....bang+guide

As for dealing with the ghosts - accept it, women on tinder have an abundance of sausage thrown at them. Once she agrees to meet, tone it down and just talk logistics, don’t keep trying hard to impress and be witty, save that for the date

If you are that into one of them leave it for several days and have a good restart text that demonstrates value. This is a decent guide to spotting the patterns within a texting exchange and how to deal with it by Todd V

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=7OZebLs6v7o
06-15-2019 02:38 AM
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RE: Tinder and dating
If a girl not answering to your text, "drives you crazy" you need to work on that ASAP.

Women will ghost or flake on you for no (apparent) reason, you need to just move on.
06-15-2019 05:27 AM
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RE: Tinder and dating
Your question called and it wants 2014 back

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06-15-2019 03:52 PM
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RE: Tinder and dating
OP wrote; ‘Its either they hate how I look in person‘.

I’ve had Tinder girls demand I send them a pic or face time with them before they’ll agree to a date. My pics look like me. iPhone selfies taken within the year. I wondered why they did that.
06-17-2019 02:20 PM
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