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Restart Text After Rough Breakup
So last year I had been going through a lot of stress with Study and finding a job, at the time my Girlfriend was overseas back in her country. We grew apart and had an argument and I broke up with her. She is now back in my country and It's been about a year since I texted her.

What sort of restart text would work in this instance?
06-16-2019 06:28 PM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
Concentrate on meeting someone new.

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06-16-2019 11:54 PM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
Text her that you just won millions $$ in Lotto and that you would love to share it all with her... and wait for miracle.
06-17-2019 04:43 AM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
The obvious answer is you have already broken up, there is no doubt raw emotions and resentments on both sides, why try to go back?

Someone always has the upper hand in a break up, and the fact that a year on you're still thinking about this girl, and that given the modern male/female balance in the dating marking, and if she's a even a relatively attractive prospect she will likely have moved on entirely, that that is not you.

However, lame as it may well be, chancing your arm on what appears to be a busted flush, isn't always the worst thing to do. Worst thing that happens is she ignores you, you feel like a loser for a bit, and your status in her (and possibly your own) drops a bit. I'd also hazard a guess that that is the most likely outcome of any 'one year on post-break up' texts. You are literally telegraphing your scarcity to her. If she responds, pity, or some sort of similar emotion may well be a significant factor. Do you want to be perceived like this?

So yeah, weigh up it up, and decide what's best to do. I'd say move on and forget about her as a potential mate, would be your best bet by a distance. But i wouldn't judge or denigrate a punt, just don't expect much good to come from it.
06-17-2019 05:24 AM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
Another thing that can happen is a short and fiery fling that implodes disasterously after a month or so. Especially if you broke her heart. In this case, she’ll be hunting for the opportunity to break yours - a sort of tit for tat. If, in the last year, you’ve dramatically changed yourself for the better she may fall ‘in love’ with the new you. Otherwise, especially if you fall for her, she’ll use it as an opportunity to grind you to dust. The subtle cruelty that women are so easily capable of still surprises me.

That you’re still thinking of this girl leads me to assume that you haven’t been killing it in the last year. You may have even backslid, rather than simple stagnation.

To paraphrase the great WIA, “You moved on for a reason.”
06-17-2019 11:09 AM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
Lazarus nailed it. I tried this recently with a girl i broke up with after 11 months, I ignored the advice from a few guys on here who helped me tremendously and let her contact me (she begged multiple friends to ask me to talk to her).

Turns out my gut instinct and the advice on here was right on the money. She is a manipulative and nasty attention whore (the main reason i binned her) who's only reason to make contact was to try and hurt me and get revenge.

Once you've hurt a woman's heart she'll never behave the same way towards you again.
06-17-2019 03:23 PM
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Don’t do it.

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06-17-2019 04:21 PM
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Hi, I was a bit brief earlier when I said to concentrate on meeting someone new. Take your ex girlfriend's phone number out of your phone and delete her for good. Unfollow her on social media and block her forever on all media sites.


Do not talk to her or think about her or think of ways to get back together with her. Especially if the break up was bad, you need to move on.

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06-20-2019 02:07 PM
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Adding to all the above, you may think you can keep things light and fun this time. This won't happen.

One of you two will jump straight back to the deep end on your first day back together. And this time, you'll have the break up, its aftermath and what/whom you both did since then to deal with. Horrendous odds.

So yeah, don't do it
06-27-2019 04:45 AM
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Delete her number, delete all social media links to her.
Find new prospects.
Respect yourself.
06-27-2019 08:34 AM
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I've been tempted to do this kind of stuff before but as soon as I really questioned exactly why I wanted to get back in touch with my ex, I realised it wasn't worth it.

I realised it wasn't HER that I wanted back, I just liked the idea of being the guy she worshipped because my ego felt good while we were together and I didn't like the idea of her now being with someone else. And of course a well-rounded man should not give a fuck about shit like that.

It could have been different if I knew she had a fantastic personality, was super traditional, sweet, incredibly loyal and forgiving, caring and someone I could have constantly have fun being around.

So question your inner motives for this and you most probably realise it's better to focus your energy on finding someone of higher quality.
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06-27-2019 04:31 PM
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(06-16-2019 11:54 PM)eradicator Wrote:  Concentrate on meeting someone new.

I'm going to second this. Also work on improving yourself and more doors will open for you.
06-28-2019 05:41 AM
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RE: Restart Text After Rough Breakup
Dont

But if you must then send: "wear that sexy little black dress and hi heels I like"

Then when she responds "what?/wrong girl/ huh?" (and she will because her hamster will be out of control. It might take a few minutes or a few days but she most definitely will respond) let her marinate for at least 24hrs before you respond with

"who's this?"


This is advanced level game and likely leads to any number of failed outcomes. But you asked for a restart...there it is

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- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
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