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Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
@Pointer,

I asked a married player that I know, who is somewhat known for being full of shit, what his lifetime success rate is. I asked him specifically, “if you get a girl’s number, what is the rate that you’ll turn that number into a date?”

He said 95%. Of course my BS detector went off, but he added the honest caveat that a lot of the girls were not attractive.

I’ve known lots of guys over the years who talk a big game, but won’t show you a pic of the girl he’s bragging about and will shamefully admit that she’s a porker or something.

I’d rather strike out with a 9 than get the number of a 5.

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07-01-2019 12:33 PM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
10 to 11 percent of numbers you get result in things going all the way. By the way, that's according to Paul Janka and his extensive experience in gaming.
07-02-2019 02:32 AM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
Sometimes I go on awesome streaks where I convert at 50 percent, however I also go through terrible droughts where I am 0 for 30 with phone numbers. During the droughts I can go for 1-2 months where it is just nothing, just texting with no real progress. Then I get some success and the ball starts rolling- dead end texts will suddenly hit me up, I go out and get choosing signals , and everything falls into place. Enjoy the good times when they are happening, because a drought is always around the corner.....

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07-02-2019 09:50 AM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
Do you guys approach even if there was no initial smile or any other sign of attraction?

I started game back in 2011. I was 19 back than, and the women my age were not socially retarded as the the 20 year old girls of today. I find it so much more difficult to approach now, given that the signs are just not there most of the time. Since I am doing a part time professional work(Engineering firm) and a part time Bachelors study (Engineering school) I spend all of my time between the office, library, and the gym.

I am thinking about going again regularly to Salsa class once I accomplish my goals at the gym. It is really easy to meet women at Salsa class.
07-02-2019 12:56 PM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
I will approach without any indicators of attraction. Although it's not going to be as effective. Sometimes even hard to notice them. Especially if you're in parts of public words almost a bit impolite to share a lingering glance with a stranger. The perfect example would be on the boss or the subway. I've had females checked me out, but didn't notice it because they were so discreet about the whole thing. It was only because I had a friend with me some of these times, that I actually found out girls were looking at me. Yes salsa can be a good way to meet women, I'm not a big dancer myself but in more conservative cultures, is a solid way to meet women.
07-02-2019 01:26 PM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
I do not approach without some indication from the woman- she has to stare, shoot me a look, bump into me or something over or I leave her alone. The "choosing signal " must be there or it is a waste of time. During daygame I typically hit them with a go to line, if they respond positively that is my "choosing signal" then I follow up with the conversation. Save myself a lot of time and effort with this approach.

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07-02-2019 07:31 PM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
This is all utter rubbish. Trying to systemise this into a binary. The truth is you should approach a girl you like if she IOIs you and also approach a girl if she doesn't.

I've been strongly "IOId" and the lead has went no-where. I've had no IOI and had mini relationships with the girls.

If you see someone you like. Go talk. End of story.
07-03-2019 03:01 AM
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Looking back at it, the best interactions I have had, was with women I was really attracted to. The conversations just flow better that way. Thank you all for the advice!
07-03-2019 03:04 AM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
I must honestly say that, especially online, I expect it from every girl...I expect it so much that even I flake on them. The worst is when they then continue texting me endlessly, asking me what happened and bla. It just makes me bothered and I just keep doing my fun activities or hobbies. Women should never be your 1st priority.
07-03-2019 03:27 AM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
(07-03-2019 03:04 AM)AntoniusofEfa Wrote:  Looking back at it, the best interactions I have had, was with women I was really attracted to. The conversations just flow better that way. Thank you all for the advice!

I must say so far I never really had a very interesting interaction with a woman. Sure, some of them may be smart, some of them may be fun and you may tolerate them for a longer period of time, but eventually I just get bothered and want to be left alone.

But, I am pretty much asocial and I get bothered by every person after some time. So I am definitely not the norm.
07-03-2019 03:30 AM
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^I meant best interactions = getting them naked. I leave the philosophical debates to fellow men.
07-03-2019 05:03 AM
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RE: Does everyone get ghosted on, flaked on, rejected, etc?
(06-23-2019 11:39 PM)Janardan Wrote:  Appreciate the replies. I guess it's not really the straight up rejections and Tinder flakes that bother me. What does mess with my head is when I go on a great date and hook up with a girl who I'm very attracted to, then get ghosted on or rejected afterward. It's a torturous experience. Like I have this beautiful memory and am on a high for several days, then get a door slammed on my face. Not going to lie, that shit sucks.

But it's good to know that I'm not alone in this and that even experienced guys deal with it.

I know this guy got banned but to everyone else, having a high moment and leaving or being left at the peak is almost perfect because the inevitable slow deterioration of the relationship doesn't happen. No time is wasted and you can spend that free time focusing on other things in life.

The other thing you can't do is second guess yourself too much. It often IS her, not you. Women are mentally confused, let them deal with it alone or with someone else while you do more important, lucrative or exciting things with this free time.

For entertainment and educational use only, your m8 Jackin'
07-16-2019 05:00 AM
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