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Random encounters
What are the chances of anything happening if a girl comes to your home? Does a girl come with the intention or in their mind a friendly encounter? I met some girl randomly on the street and we actually spent the morning together. I invited her back to my home for some smoothies haha. She was a tourist so it was very random. I thought that she was interested since we ended up back at my place, but she quickly said she had to leave after we made smoothies. I tried to awkwardly go in for a kiss and she ended up leaving haha. Was she interested or was she and got turned off? I didn't touch her at all so you think that was a mistake? I'm new to game and I'm trying to learn so what do you guys think? Did I fuck it up or I never had the chance to begin with?
06-27-2019 12:43 AM
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RE: Random encounters
In this case, you either didn't escalate enough or she changed her mind last minute. In the former case, you failed to communicate that you wanted to "get intimate" with her, through how you acted, body language, touching, etc. You didn't give her those vibes and suddenly you tried going for the kiss, which consequently came off as unnatural and suspicious. If the latter case, she changed her mind because you were too slow, it became too awkward, she was turned off by your dirty apartment, or some other reason. It doesn't necessarily have to make sense.

She should know before going to your home that you are going to have a hug-off, otherwise you are taking her home prematurely.
06-29-2019 02:04 AM
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RE: Random encounters
I don't think any girl is naive enough to go to a strange man's house unless she's at least open to the possibility of sex. Doesn't mean she will though. I find it fairly challenging to pull it off unless we've had a few drinks at a bar or something first. You have to find a really good balance between making them comfortable but also setting a sexual vibe.

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06-30-2019 01:49 PM
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RE: Random encounters
Wouldn't beat yourself up over this one. I've had them come right back, I've had them come back and then leave like yours. Women are women, man. See if there's anything you can learn from it, but I would move on. She may not have been a potential notch at all and was just shit testing you.
07-04-2019 05:09 PM
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RE: Random encounters
You needed more comfort and escalated too fast.

She came along the ride because she was "having fun" and she suddenly realized that she just met you and she's at your place. In other words, her ASD kicked in.

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07-04-2019 05:46 PM
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