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A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
What about robreke's cosmic perspective, "One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach. #BallsWin"

What do you have to lose, unless you shit where you live?

But I'm not opposed to the use of drugs by those who find nothing else works; maybe some guys have an extreme case of anxiety that won't respond to anything else. This is another reason why we need arranged marriage, by the way; it would help not only the anxious but also spergs who have trouble learning game, not to mention ugly guys and many other types who are hindered by their lack of superficial qualities that would make them exciting to chicks.
(This post was last modified: 07-04-2019 08:21 PM by setian.)
07-04-2019 08:20 PM
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
Something we do when getting back into approaching. Go out with a few wings, first person to get rejected 7 times gets free drinks for the night. You’d be amazed how receptive girls become when you honestly don’t care.
07-07-2019 12:45 AM
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
OP. Try the pill your brain maybe wired such that you need additional help. You know yourself best. A lot of people on her just think manning up is the answer, but I belive they are wrong and ignorant of how much different a brain can be wired then yours. Try it. And let us know. Prove everyone wrong.

PS. I had an expirence where prescription meds really really helped with approaching.
07-07-2019 07:19 AM
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
(07-01-2019 10:11 PM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  @dreadcom

If you’ve honestly tried to overcome your anxiety for months with no purchase, that sounds like some deep-seated trauma. How long have you had this anxiety? When did it start to set in? Have you tried various therapies with professionals? A loaded term, I know.

Hey man, I got an account on the forum just to message you (I can't PM you however yet as I just joined).

I saw your post on doing Ayuhuasca to remove social anxiety and it really impressed me. I have done over 300 day game street game approaches, have done night game and even a few sessions of therapy but I still have anxiety and low energy mood a lot of the time. When I am on form, I feel as though I can easily get girls but this 'in-state' feeling happens very rarely (only a couple times a week).

I saw that your Ayuhuasca trip cured your social anxiety which is awesome and I want to hear more about your experience. My personal concern is that, (I did shrooms twice and had a bad trip the second time - just felt moderately strong anxiety throughout) the same thing may happen with ayuhuasca only worse?

Please PM if you have time - would appreciate your advice and happy to share my own experiences.
07-10-2019 07:26 AM
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
That’s, possibly, worth sharing. For the OP and others.

It’s been nearly 4 months, I believe, and general social anxiety is at an all time low. What this means, to me, is that I can muster myself should I choose to.

When Ego Death goes right!

The fear of failure is still there, however, that fear compares very little to the fear of oblivion, of passing through it, and remaining still. Is it a viable solution? Possibly - the modern medical establishment has found that a similar process can be easily recreated with proper set and setting and 3.5 grams of Penis Envy. Concerning terminally-ill cancer-patients. The Dutch have found that a single dose of MDMA and a few sessions of talk therapy can deprogram PTSD in suffering soldiers and legitimate rape victims. I hate that I have to qualify that...

Ego death can go horribly wrong though, it’s not something to fuck around with. Perhaps, in the future, these methods will be legalized and standardized. In the meantime, see, I was seeking this stuff out for years. Eventually, I just washed my hands of it and sat back. Waited on the Will of Heaven. An old aquarian acquaintance blew in out of the blue - it found me.

So, I am in no way advocating chasing that dragon. It can work, though.

I would say that the real reason it had the affect it had is because of how intensely intimate the experience was, coupled with its alien strangeness. Small talk is, honestly, small. Child’s play. This can be accomplished without psychedelics - you need to challenge yourself man, you need adventure. Combining that with taking the ‘princess’ off the pedestal, and you expose yourself to the reality that a girl isn’t shit.
07-10-2019 10:53 PM
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RE: A Pill That Permanently Erases Fear Of Approaching?
I initially had a crippling fear of approaches, which I got over by doing approaches. But I didn't start with hotties. Instead, I'd ask random people -usually old guys- for the time, or directions, or something. And I got used to talking to strangers.

I worked my way down in terms of how easy I found it to talk to people in different demographics. For whatever reason, it wasn't difficult to talk to old guys. Next, I started striking up conversations with middle-aged women. That went really well, since they tend to find it flattering when a decent-looking younger guy gives them attention.

Then I started talking to girls my own age, starting with the ones I didn't find very attractive. And eventually worked my way up to striking up conversations with random hotties.

The experience you get from socializing with strangers who you aren't interested in dating will make it so much easier to socialize with a stranger you are interested in dating. You may find you actually enjoy it - these days I like going to bars where the retirees drink as they often have great stories and love to tell them.
07-12-2019 08:21 PM
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