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Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
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Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
There's a girl I'm very interested, but she lives 3,000 miles away. Is there anyway to visit her while not coming off as desperate? I'm a pretty unique guy and this girl has checked all my boxes. I feel I can gauge someone's personality well from online interaction and she's definitely someone I can see myself in a LTR with. We're both 31 y/o

I proposed her meeting me but she has no passport.

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06-29-2019 09:15 PM
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RE: Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
If you have never met her before, only go there if you'd like to visit that place anyway. Pipeline in advance and have a few other girls' phone numbers in case things don't work out with that girl.
06-29-2019 10:04 PM
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RE: Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
If she's meeting you straight off the plane then make a list of places you want to see immediately. Turn her into your guide rather than the main attraction.

If she's not meeting you straight off the plane then tell her there's a couple of places you want to go see by yourself and you'll meet up with her after that.

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06-29-2019 11:10 PM
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RE: Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
Sounds like a lack of abudance to me. Hate to say it OP, but traveling to see a girl is not the wisest idea, unless you have ulterior motives for flying out (sight seeing, banging other girls, etc.)

Think about the money you'll be spending on flights, accommodation, food, and the like. Is it worth it - especially for a 30 y/o girl? Consider investing that money locally and it's possible you will have better returns.
07-15-2019 11:48 AM
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RE: Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
Generally a bad idea, and reeks of lack of abundance. You think movie stars ever fly out to meet chicks? Or on a smaller scale, a high value man who has his shit together? No. Have them come to you, foot the bill if you’re really feeling it and want to make it happen. Then she’s on your turf and you can call the shots
07-15-2019 12:40 PM
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RE: Maintaining frame on long-distance meet
I don't think anyone here can answer based on the information you provided whether you should make a 3000 mile trip to meet a person you like. Make the choice and bear the consequences, whether it's the love of your life or you flying back home deflated. No need to be desperate - if you do go, make it a holiday and find genuinely interesting things to do for yourself (not girls) and meet her as part of the trip. It'll make talking to her easier too. I would also think about post-meet logistics. That 3000-mile distance will still be there.
07-15-2019 03:00 PM
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