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Transition from player to LTR
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Transition from player to LTR
What obstacles have you guys found?

My main one now is that my LTR thinks promiscuous people are bad people period - great that she's not a slut, but as a former player, most of my friends fall into this category and she's negative towards them.

Is there a solution?
Is it possible to find a non slutty girl who likes my player mates?
07-01-2019 05:04 AM
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RE: Transition from player to LTR
I don’t have this issue you mention. My girl knows I’ve had way more sexual partners than her but I don’t bring it up and I think she likes it.

Biggest cons for me so far (compared to having a couple of casual plates)
-more talking on the phone and giving attention
-you’re probably gonna spend more money than if you had plates. If she’s a solid gf then you’ll be more inclined to spend money on higher quality dates and excisions, also gifts for birthdays/holidays
-sexual boredom. The lack of variety will definitely come on your mind after a decent amount of time. Semen retention has been helping me out a lot with this.

I’ve found there are a lot of pros though. Less time dealing with low quality sluts, which is good for you mental state and means more time to do other stuff. Better sleep from lack of going out and gaming at clubs and bars. Good meals if she cooks. Getting good feminine energy. I’m still adjusting but for this season of life I’m in an LTR for me has been a good thing
07-02-2019 12:42 PM
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RE: Transition from player to LTR
(07-02-2019 12:42 PM)BlastbeatCasanova Wrote:  I don’t have this issue you mention. My girl knows I’ve had way more sexual partners than her but I don’t bring it up and I think she likes it.

Biggest cons for me so far (compared to having a couple of casual plates)
-more talking on the phone and giving attention
-you’re probably gonna spend more money than if you had plates. If she’s a solid gf then you’ll be more inclined to spend money on higher quality dates and excisions, also gifts for birthdays/holidays
-sexual boredom. The lack of variety will definitely come on your mind after a decent amount of time. Semen retention has been helping me out a lot with this.

I’ve found there are a lot of pros though. Less time dealing with low quality sluts, which is good for you mental state and means more time to do other stuff. Better sleep from lack of going out and gaming at clubs and bars. Good meals if she cooks. Getting good feminine energy. I’m still adjusting but for this season of life I’m in an LTR for me has been a good thing

I can concur with all these points. I need to experiment with semen retention, as this is my biggest problem. After a year and a half we're still at it twice/three times a day, but when I don't see her for a few days I start thinking of strange and opening up dating sites. What pisses me off most about this is that it's such a waste of time that I could be being productive with. It's like an addiction. She's an incredible girl, and after spending time with her I'm not thinking about fucking anything else. But after three/four days, I get urges.

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07-02-2019 01:38 PM
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RE: Transition from player to LTR
I am in my first serious relationship in a few years and can say I do spend more on my one gf than I did entertaining plates. That said, I get much more overall enjoyment out of the relationship, so I can justify it. The sex has been great, in fact as time has gone on she has become more and more comfortable with me, and it's improved.
07-05-2019 08:40 AM
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