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Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
Anyone that has experience with Brazil, give some input on this topic.

I am about a beginner/intermediate traveler and beginner/intermediate with my women approaching skills.

I've had success from primarily daygame in the USA.

I recently just got back from Brazil and met up with a few girls, and banged one.

One girl is bothering me though, mainly because she was very hot. Here is the story.

Since I was there only 9 days, I was able to get 3 dates and one bang ( not bad huh?). My primary method was tinder, but one of the dates was from a daygame approach. This is about the date that did not happen.

Really really hot brasileira from North Zone of Rio. She wanted us to meet up at the end of the week before I left. I genuinely was not expecting anything, just wanted some brasileira dating experience and if it led to sex awesome. I know that the financial situation in Brazil is not the greatest, so I offered to pay for drinks and dinner when we met. We agreed to meet at 1 pm on saturday and about 30 minutes before it she texted me saying if we could move it to 2 ( you will see a theme here). I asked her out 2:00 if she was nearby, and she said she was packing her things. She also told me that she was on her period, and if I still wanted to meet. I said sure, we can just talk ( just wanted some brasileira dating experience). She said that she would grab an uber to hurry up, now it's 3:00 pm. She asked me if I would pay for her uber as well, I agreed after asking her why she didn't want to take the metro. She responded that it would be faster.

After about 15 minutes of waiting I asked where she was at? She said she was 40 minutes away, before this she told me the metro would be 40 minutes total. That is when I lost it. I told her " I think it's best we don't meet." She was confused and after some conversation, she basically called me a " Putha da Filha" ( Son of a Bitch.)

I blocked her after this. I genuinely just wanted some dating experience, but this girl was giving me reasons to ask questions before the date. The only reason why I am really worked up about it was that she was reallly really hot.

You guys think this girl was being genuine and did not have money, did not want to sleep with me on the first date?

Or was she actually trying to get a free meal and see what she could get away with?

Be nice haha, I'm knew to foreign girls.
07-10-2019 01:09 PM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
I dont think there's anything different about foreign girls in this regard. This one either wasn't that interested in you, or started playing games from get go, or was just dumb. You'll never find out. If she was playing games, she would have probably reacted positively to your boundaries. In any case, a girl you wanna hang out with wouldn't make you wait beyond what would make you uncomfortable, or she would offer a genuine apology. Plus this adventure sounded like it was going downhill before you even met.... you offering to pay, on her period, etc.
07-10-2019 01:24 PM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
Yes, in the future, you might want to try going for more than 9 days. Maybe a few weeks or a month. Tell them you are spending a few months and will eventually go back to USA.


The one thing you did right in this was to delete her number and forget about her. But instead of forgetting about her you made a thread about her to ask for advice? She was shit testing you like crazy(showing up extremely late, giving the period shit test, and all together didn't seem to value you very much at all. When that is the case it's best to punt and look elsewhere and forget about the girl and delete her everywhere(phone and any social media)

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07-10-2019 02:21 PM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
If she was a gold digger, she would've shown up and tried to extract as much out of you as she could.

As to whether she was genuine or not... all we can deduce from what you've told us is that she simply wasn't that into you. Forget about her, the good thing about Brazil is that the country is filled with beauties and you can rest assured that you'll find many more gorgeous women there if/when you return next.

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07-10-2019 09:37 PM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
"I offered to pay for drinks and dinner"

You framed yourself as a tool, and subsequently got treated like one. If you're going to date, your standard operating procedure should be splitting things equally until you've decided that she's worth more investment (based on the way she treats you). A man who immediately starts offering money, before he has any idea who the girl is or whether she's worth it, is automatically seen as low-value (regardless of whether he is) because she will subconsciously (or consciously) believe that you don't have the option NOT to offer money (ie, that your personality and confidence won't carry you through the date).

It's simply never the right move in the hedonistic world we live in, even if in the past it may have helped you get a girlfriend or wife by demonstrating your value as a provider. Things are so upside down now that even if you WOULD make a great provider, you have to actively suppress that part of your life in the beginning just to avoid being put in the "low-value" zone.

If you make her earn it by demonstrating traits like punctuality, positivity, and respect for you and your time first (that's what I look for, your standards might be different) then she'll treat you better and value the relationship more in the long run.

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07-11-2019 03:30 AM
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One thing you have to understand is that Latinas mostly from bigger cities will always be late. So when you say 2pm expect them to be there at around 3pm and try to be the one who is late. Just blame the traffic or whatever (works always). As a backup plan, choose a place that you like, where you don't mind to be alone and where you can game other women if she doesn't arrive at all.
07-11-2019 04:20 AM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
Could also be that she used fake photos on her Tinder profile and was then afraid of meeting you.
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
Brazilian girls are pretty well known for having poor time management skills. She was probably repeatedly late because she lost track of time playing with her smartphone.
07-13-2019 12:17 AM
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I’ve had Brazil women show up 2 hours after a planned meeting. Expect to wait if you’re meeting one
07-13-2019 02:40 AM
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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
You handled the situation completely wrong and blocker her like a little girl.

Let's keep it real here, you are a foreigner visiting Brazil. Do you really expect her to split the bill, especially if she is as hot as you claim?

How much would drinks and a uber cost!

A gold digger isn't going to waste time on a foreigner visiting for a few days. What could she possibly get from you?

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07-13-2019 11:55 AM
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(07-11-2019 03:30 AM)MichaelWitcoff Wrote:  "I offered to pay for drinks and dinner"

You framed yourself as a tool, and subsequently got treated like one. If you're going to date, your standard operating procedure should be splitting things equally until you've decided that she's worth more investment (based on the way she treats you). A man who immediately starts offering money, before he has any idea who the girl is or whether she's worth it, is automatically seen as low-value (regardless of whether he is) because she will subconsciously (or consciously) believe that you don't have the option NOT to offer money (ie, that your personality and confidence won't carry you through the date).

It's simply never the right move in the hedonistic world we live in, even if in the past it may have helped you get a girlfriend or wife by demonstrating your value as a provider. Things are so upside down now that even if you WOULD make a great provider, you have to actively suppress that part of your life in the beginning just to avoid being put in the "low-value" zone.

If you make her earn it by demonstrating traits like punctuality, positivity, and respect for you and your time first (that's what I look for, your standards might be different) then she'll treat you better and value the relationship more in the long run.

While I understand what you're getting at @MichaelWitcoff, clearly you don't have experience dating latinas, it doesn't work that way anywhere in Latin America. Girls are always going to be late and always going to expect you to pay, its not a sign they are disintereted, its just the way it is. Drives me crazy, but if you wanna date latinas, they are gonna be late, you are also goign to get flaked on like crazy. All worth it for the big booties.

OP just had a misunderstanding about how girls work south of the border.

For example today i'm here in north Brazil some girl said she wants to meet me at a popular touristy area with lots of little shops around 1pm, so I showed up around 1:30pm (she said she was otw at 1pm), she showed up about 2:15p, no big deal in the mean time I got a beer, walked around, I knew should would be late, frankly wasn't even sure if she was going to show at all. I was mildly annoyed but continued doing my thing whatever. After 45 minutes waiting around in the scorching sun i was almost going to send her a bitchy emotional text but thankfully held myself back. Ended up getting a fantastic post marraige BJ (she was on her period unfortunately).

You can let girls take public transport but why bother sending a girl an uber is cheap as fuck tupically $2-$4USD to go across the city in Mexico or Brazil and they get there much faster, it doens't make you look like a choad. On the contrary in these countries everybody is broke so getting their uber and drinks like you don't give AF (because you don't) increases interest. You didn't need to explicity say it though because it was already understood you would pay because she literally has zero money. These girls are so broke they can't even afford to keep internet data on their phone. (This applies to "educated" girls too, as the college chicks are just as broke as the slum girls)

Anyways as a guy who is in Brazil and is very familiar with Mexican, Colombian and Brazilian culture I would take a lot of the advice here with a grain of salt.

I disagree with posters here, she was def 100% interested, as she had intention to actually not flake which is a big deal in SA.... just being late as latinas typically are, and OP got emocional and blew it, its ok i've done it too, girls showing up 3-4 hours late can be infuritating but thats why you always agree to have the date as close to your house as possible, double book or even triple book the evening, and if you agree to meet somewhere else have it be somewhere yo ucould game girls or enjoy yourself in case shes super late or doesn't even show (also never leave your house until she confirms she is on the way). On the flip side since flaking is acceptable if you double book and some other girl shows up first and you flake on the other one, unlike in america where the girl would be upset, a latina won't mind and you can rescehdule for another time, if anything you flaking on her and beating her to the punch can even increase interest in some cases.

Trust me, i know what i'm talking about here i've been in the Brazil, Colombia Mexico game for years now. lots of well meaning posters here trying to apply western european/USA tactics to brazil its apples and oranges.

p.s. to op: don't put the pussy on a pedastal man, you are a good looking foreigner, almost every date in brazil should end in you getting her back to your place, and one lay in 9 days is not that great, but more importantly that 70%+ of your dates are not ending in getting her back, you need to escalate harder and faster trust me you won't lose points, you can never be "too forward" when dealing with latinas.

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RE: Genuine Brazilian girl, or gold digger?
Judging by my rather brief stint in Brazil, this is not uncommon at all. Don't get worked up over it and now you can plan better for your next trip.

Brazil is its own world and takes a while to figure out. I'd start by listening to those with direct experience.
07-15-2019 04:13 AM
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