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Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
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Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Either through a bar/club pull or dating app match.

some examples -

Bar/Club - You're talking to a girl you think you can pull for the night, you're ready to leave to a different venue or your place. But her friends take her away or she has LMR and then connection is lost. You later see her leaving with another guy instead.

App - you arrange to meet up with a girl, but its evident that she went with a different guy for the night (either to meet or just to bang). She went with him over you

Do you consider this a loss? Or does it not bother you at all?
07-13-2019 07:47 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
No...I am the other guy

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07-13-2019 07:59 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
(07-13-2019 07:47 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Either through a bar/club pull or dating app match.

some examples -

Bar/Club - You're talking to a girl you think you can pull for the night, you're ready to leave to a different venue or your place. But her friends take her away or she has LMR and then connection is lost. You later see her leaving with another guy instead.

App - you arrange to meet up with a girl, but its evident that she went with a different guy for the night (either to meet or just to bang). She went with him over you

Do you consider this a loss? Or does it not bother you at all?

Can't say the second scenario has ever happened, how would you even know that?

In the first, no. Recently I approached some girl at a bar and ended up spending a good chunk of the night with her, she was very into me, heavy physical contact. Near the end of the night, she saw her ex and disappeared with him, her friends even ended up apologizing to me. All I thought was "damn, all I did was warm her all night only up for her ex take advantage of my hard work", and thought it was slightly amusing, and learned from my mistake (blowing out the sexual tension by making out too much).

Why even care? It says nothing about your value, that would imply that women have good decision making skills.

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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
(07-13-2019 07:59 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  No...I am the other guy

I'm sure you've been both guys in certain scenarios.

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(07-13-2019 07:47 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Either through a bar/club pull or dating app match.

some examples -

Bar/Club - You're talking to a girl you think you can pull for the night, you're ready to leave to a different venue or your place. But her friends take her away or she has LMR and then connection is lost. You later see her leaving with another guy instead.

App - you arrange to meet up with a girl, but its evident that she went with a different guy for the night (either to meet or just to bang). She went with him over you

Do you consider this a loss? Or does it not bother you at all?

Can't say the second scenario has ever happened, how would you even know that?

In the first, no. Recently I approached some girl at a bar and ended up spending a good chunk of the night with her, she was very into me, heavy physical contact. Near the end of the night, she saw her ex and disappeared with him, her friends even ended up apologizing to me. All I thought was "damn, all I did was warm her all night only up for her ex take advantage of my hard work", and thought it was slightly amusing, and learned from my mistake (blowing out the sexual tension by making out too much).

Why even care? It says nothing about your value, that would imply that women have good decision making skills.

sometimes they will say they cant meet because they already have a date planned or something like that. or will sometimes tell you the next day. Really depends on the girl.

I know when I double book and have to choose one girl over another, I never tell a girl that, but some women dont care
07-13-2019 08:44 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
(07-13-2019 08:44 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  *snip* ...I know when I double book and have to choose one girl over another, I never tell a girl that, but some women dont care

....^ Theres the answer in a nutshell

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07-13-2019 09:04 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
No i dont get upset. I'm better than every guy she will ever hook up with so its her loss.

If you cant say the above, i think its good time to get your life in order rather than focusing on game
07-14-2019 02:37 AM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Of course. It's human nature.

And yeah, if you're kissing a girl at the bar and then Leo DiCaprio interrupts and tells her she's pretty and invites her onto his private jet, best believe she's gonna choose him over anyone on this forum lol

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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Yes I did.

When I was 18, after dating for a month.

I was but a harmless teenage boy who didn't fully understand game.

You learn Game, and learn to not take everything so personal - sometimes she's just not for you.
07-15-2019 01:57 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Game is a gamble, and alphas can be situational. This, combined with the fleeting whims of women, make it quite easy for a girl to leave her man for you, or vice versa. Maxing out your SMV will make it less likely that you are AMOG'd, but it is never a guaranteed goal
Sometimes you score, sometimes the other team scores. Women ebb and flow.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
It was just your turn
07-15-2019 05:03 PM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
(07-13-2019 07:47 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Either through a bar/club pull or dating app match.

some examples -

Bar/Club - You're talking to a girl you think you can pull for the night, you're ready to leave to a different venue or your place. But her friends take her away or she has LMR and then connection is lost. You later see her leaving with another guy instead.

App - you arrange to meet up with a girl, but its evident that she went with a different guy for the night (either to meet or just to bang). She went with him over you

Do you consider this a loss? Or does it not bother you at all?

None of those are "your" girl. None of them are your girl even until you're engaged and sometimes not even after that if you don't do your part.

But out of those game scenarios, the feeling of having some guy swooping in is not a feeling of upset. It's more laughing at the swooper for a well played move, laughing at the chick for being a chick and laughing at yourself for being too slow or unskilled while feeling motivated to improve.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
That means there's someone better, and it's time to improve yourself.
07-18-2019 11:41 AM
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
I went out with a legit playboy bunny this weekend and while she was nice to me, she wasn't on my dick like im used to. A day later I saw her at a pool party with dudes that didn't look nearly on my level physically, socially or financially and I was a bit peeved; but i chocked it up as her loss. I haven't made any contact with her since I've seen the company she keeps. It's equivalent to a perfect 10 going with you to your winter fraternity formal and then seeing her a week later partying with the lamest frat on campus. I was literally disgusted by her choice.

On the flip side, a chick I had a mini relationship with cut me off for someone who was more serious. I had no problem with that. I even ran into the dude once and he was a successful good looking guy. I was sincerely filled pleased with her choice of partner.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Yes.

But then I remembered the times where I was the guy on the other end. And I ask myself where I could have improved.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
I have been that guy and it has happened to me. All part of the game.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
(07-13-2019 07:47 PM)NextStop100 Wrote:  Does it not bother you at all?
Why would it bother me?

The way I see it is that you win some and you lose some, if it's just a hookup then who cares if I lost her, there's another girl in the bar/club, I'll just rinse and repeat, not the end of the world.

If I were in a relationship and then got dumped because she's lusting after a new dude, then yeah I'd be bothered but thankfully, my relationships have just run their course and ended on decent terms, aside from two.
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Of course not! If she did this to me, she will do it to him too!
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You never lose your girl, you just lose your turn
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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Yes, at myself

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RE: Do you ever get upset when you lose your girl to another guy?
Nothing matters if you can easily move on in your life.
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