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Is Raw Sex Drive The Solution To All Problems With Women?
I'm starting to become more and more convinced that all problems with women can be solved by having a real/raw/animalistic desire for sex.

My experience has been that if i meet a girl and I have a real physical reaction/instant boner in her presence the girl will always also be turned on by me making everything easier from that point.

I've never had a bad reaction with a girl who genuinely turned me on in in this way.

On the other hand, some of my worst interactions with women have been when i force myself to interact with a girl who might be stereotypically attractive but does not trigger that legitimate raw/biological desire in me.

I've become obsessed with trying to find a way to increase my sex drive so I have that instant boner physical reaction with more women.

Am i on to something here or am I going down a wrong path?

I honestly think this might be a magic pill.

I literally cannot remember a single time in my entire life where I had a bad interaction with a girl who I was so physically turned on by that I had a boner while interacting with her.

I think they sense this genuine desire and it turns them on as well; its a 2 way thing.

My theory is that if I can find a way to have this instant boner happen more often then it will instantly solve pretty much all my women problems.

What do you guys think?
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Same for me.
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No. You do need the attraction and sex drive, but like anything else, these have diminishing marginal returns in regards to how well you do. If you are too attracted and pushed by your sex drive you might become desperate, needy, pushy or nervous, which would normally work to your detriment.
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(07-17-2019 09:29 AM)HAcoreRD Wrote:  No. You do need the attraction and sex drive, but like anything else, these have diminishing marginal returns in regards to how well you do. If you are too attracted and pushed by your sex drive you might become desperate, needy, pushy or nervous, which would normally work to your detriment.

I dont understand what you mean by "too attracted".

I'm talking about a physical reaction here.

I see girls I'm attracted to every single day but I very rarely see girls who cause this instant boner reaction.

When i meet a girl who turns me on so much to the point I have a hard boner in her presence; I have never not once in my entire life had a bad interaction with a girl who gave me this physical reaction.

My problem is that very few girls have this effect on me.

I've been experimenting recently to find way to increase testosterone and sex drive which I'm hoping will result in more girls causing this reaction in me.

if I can successfully find a way to get more girls to turn me on to that level then i theorize that all my problems with women will be solved since I literally had a positive interaction with every single girl who has ever had that effect on me.
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(07-17-2019 09:39 AM)dreadcom Wrote:  ... then i theorize that all my problems with women will be solved since I literally had a positive interaction with every single girl who has ever had that effect on me.

Not sure what you mean with "all problems with women" but I have some doubts.

Having a strong animalistic desire for sex with a girl will certainly solve many short term problems. However, I don't think it guarantees long term relationship success. No matter how great the sex is (for both), eventually women want other things too, such as commitment, loyalty, trust, etc. In the long term, good sex is less important for women than we might think (or hope).
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the instant boner it' s easier to get when you are in no PMO after a while you see that you become more primal and girls are more attracted by you...no doubt
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Honestly, you’re onto something OP.

I wouldn’t deal in absolutes, however I’ve noticed the same thing: if there is that primal, magnetic pull the first few interactions are easy and natural. This isn’t a silver bullet - there’s still The 1000 Things that can go sideways in any moment. You still need to juggle attraction and comfort to some degree, there’s still the games and the false starts, the flakes, the ghosts, the restarts. Things still go side-ways if you’re desperate.

The difference lies in the drive. You’re so driven that you begin to lead, subconsciously. That may be the ‘trick’ to it - taking the lead is a fundamental.

May be why the gym and forsaking pornography are such common cure-alls with regards to Game. Get your biochemistry right. Boost testosterone. Reframe your perception of sexuality.
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(07-17-2019 11:46 AM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  May be why the gym and forsaking pornography are such common cure-alls with regards to Game. Get your biochemistry right. Boost testosterone. Reframe your perception of sexuality.

I can confirm that. Boost the T and somehow everything just goes right. Anxiety leaves, confidence and masculinity engages, winning smile all the time, getting the mix between being bold and caring just right, stopped being compliant, passing tests without even recognizing them...

I experienced that two months ago, before my hormonal balance readjusted back to its "natural" state. I think that's how men were supposed to be back in the old times before the water got polluted with estrogen...
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There are some girls that you can feel an immediate sexual attraction to but they're very broken inside. I don't fully understand all of it but there's some kind of connection between a "damaged" person and their sex appeal (think girl with absent or very abusive father figure). Chicks like this can be very flirty, extremely in-the-moment and just naturally captivating - the opposite of a "good girl" who you'd find boring. Same applies to guys (nice guy = boring, bad boy = exciting). Some of these girls can be very harmful to be around, financially, psychologically, you name it, and if you just followed your urges, you'd likely run into one sooner or later. Like a borderline personality. Not advised.
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(07-17-2019 11:46 AM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  Honestly, you’re onto something OP.

I wouldn’t deal in absolutes, however I’ve noticed the same thing: if there is that primal, magnetic pull the first few interactions are easy and natural. This isn’t a silver bullet - there’s still The 1000 Things that can go sideways in any moment. You still need to juggle attraction and comfort to some degree, there’s still the games and the false starts, the flakes, the ghosts, the restarts. Things still go side-ways if you’re desperate.

The difference lies in the drive. You’re so driven that you begin to lead, subconsciously. That may be the ‘trick’ to it - taking the lead is a fundamental.

May be why the gym and forsaking pornography are such common cure-alls with regards to Game. Get your biochemistry right. Boost testosterone. Reframe your perception of sexuality.

You mention something very important which is that it makes everything natural and you kind of unconsciously do the right thing.

also, I actually dont think it helps because it makes you super driven.

What i like about this phenomenon more then anything is the way it makes the girl feel.

In my experience, when I'm that turned on by a girl, she is equally turned on by me.

I'm NOT talking about a situation where im just so turned on by her that it helps me because im more persistent.

I think it helps because the girl is also super turned on and she becomes very compliant.

also, nofap does NOT necessarily increase sex drive.

I've been experimenting with nofap for years and its a very complicated subject.

Just doing nofap without a plan will actually kill sex drive more then it helps.

nofap is one of the biggest scams/nonsense/bullshiet on the internet these days and it's not as simple as just cutting fap and getting higher sex drive
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(07-17-2019 12:06 PM)wwtl Wrote:  
(07-17-2019 11:46 AM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  May be why the gym and forsaking pornography are such common cure-alls with regards to Game. Get your biochemistry right. Boost testosterone. Reframe your perception of sexuality.

I can confirm that. Boost the T and somehow everything just goes right. Anxiety leaves, confidence and masculinity engages, winning smile all the time, getting the mix between being bold and caring just right, stopped being compliant, passing tests without even recognizing them...

I experienced that two months ago, before my hormonal balance readjusted back to its "natural" state. I think that's how men were supposed to be back in the old times before the water got polluted with estrogen...

have you found a way to consistently stay at levels of high testosterone and sex drive?
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(07-17-2019 12:52 PM)dreadcom Wrote:  have you found a way to consistently stay at levels of high testosterone and sex drive?

The T spike appeared due to lifestyle changes: abandoning porn and masturbation, starting to exercise, introducing cold showers etc. The "game changing" effects tapered off a bit, while I still got some lasting benefits.
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Take a viagra before going out clubbing.

But, yes having extreme desire like that works. It's actually a must in the overall structure of success.

1. Know exactly what you want
2. Want it hard enough
3. Confidently expect to obtain it
4. Persistently determine to obtain it
5. Are willing to pay the price of its attainment
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(07-17-2019 01:04 PM)wwtl Wrote:  
(07-17-2019 12:52 PM)dreadcom Wrote:  have you found a way to consistently stay at levels of high testosterone and sex drive?

The T spike appeared due to lifestyle changes: abandoning porn and masturbation, starting to exercise, introducing cold showers etc. The "game changing" effects tapered off a bit, while I still got some lasting benefits.

why do you think the "game changing" effects stopped?
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I am 37 now but I remember my time when I was going out into clubs where the girls were 16-18 (I was going there from 16-34). I always had a boner when dancing with those girls. I was extremely invasive on the dancefloor. I felt supergood. Didn't have a lot of sex (I was bored after kissing/dancing for more than 5-10min with one girl, so I had to switch constantly).

I believe my testosterone level definitely fell since I don't go to these clubs anymore (had some really crazy moments when I got over 30 so I had to stop visiting those clubs). Yes there are clubs with older girls but it's not the same.

Whenever I leave the gym after an exhausting workout, I feel extremely confident afterwards. On my way home I always walk through a shopping mall and whenever I say hi to a woman, I am definitely way more horny than usually.

In general I'd say yes, if you can somehow generate a higher sex drive that will help a lot. You act more confident.

I notice that it's really all about *where* I meet a woman. Usually, when there are other people around and when it's still bright outside, I don't really feel comfortable, I often feel observed. I prefer talking to women after sunset or at a place where there aren't many people. That way, I get more focused on the experience with her and it makes me more horny.

To summarize:

Hard session at the gym + location where you don't feel observed.
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(07-17-2019 01:22 PM)dreadcom Wrote:  
(07-17-2019 01:04 PM)wwtl Wrote:  The T spike appeared due to lifestyle changes: abandoning porn and masturbation, starting to exercise, introducing cold showers etc. The "game changing" effects tapered off a bit, while I still got some lasting benefits.

why do you think the "game changing" effects stopped?

"Stopped" is an overstatement. The invincibility-tier confidence wore off, so did my well adjusted and completely effortless "natural" game. Thanks to the lifestyle changes I made I'm still more capable than I used to be. Reading emotional state became easy for example, something I used to be unable to.
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Quote:What i like about this phenomenon more then anything is the way it makes the girl feel.

In my experience, when I'm that turned on by a girl, she is equally turned on by me.

I'm NOT talking about a situation where im just so turned on by her that it helps me because im more persistent.

We could ponder on the metaphysics of the psycho-sexual dynamo, that was apparently a part of early Game (coupling direct eye contact with imagined intimacy projects the thought into her brain). Is it real? Who knows.

Sticking to the sticky stuff - why is the girl turned on? Because you’re ‘on’ - confident, engaged, playful, dangerous, and leading in a natural way. That’s what’s so attractive, the inevitability of the frame, an understated, subtle dominance.

A great line someone wrote here:

“You’re a woman. I’m a man. It’s only natural.”

In the right moment, that’s a killer.
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I doubt it but who knows. I'm sure there's lots of very very horny dudes out there with a sex drive through the roof who don't get laid

Also, I saw a thread in kind of the opposite side of the spectrum recently where people were talking about how they game best when they aren't horny and don't really care about the outcome/are more indifferent and aloof in set

I guess like lots of things, there's just too many variables and lots of it will be specific to the individual

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Some people say no fapping will increase your drive.

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(07-17-2019 02:25 PM)ThriceLazarus Wrote:  @dreadcom

Quote:What i like about this phenomenon more then anything is the way it makes the girl feel.

In my experience, when I'm that turned on by a girl, she is equally turned on by me.

I'm NOT talking about a situation where im just so turned on by her that it helps me because im more persistent.

We could ponder on the metaphysics of the psycho-sexual dynamo, that was apparently a part of early Game (coupling direct eye contact with imagined intimacy projects the thought into her brain). Is it real? Who knows.

Sticking to the sticky stuff - why is the girl turned on? Because you’re ‘on’ - confident, engaged, playful, dangerous, and leading in a natural way. That’s what’s so attractive, the inevitability of the frame, an understated, subtle dominance.

A great line someone wrote here:

“You’re a woman. I’m a man. It’s only natural.”

In the right moment, that’s a killer.

to be honest, I did not understand this post at all.

to be clear, the effect I'm talking about in OP has NOTHING to do with confidence.

It's a 100% physical reaction that happens instantly.

There is no thought process or action on my part; i will get physically near a girl and notice that im suddenly rock hard and drawn in her direction.

When we start interacting it will obvious that she is also in a very horny state.

This can happen anywhere and at anytime.

It's a magical phenomenon that I'm looking for a way to predictably create.

My current leading hypothesis is that increasing overall testosterone and sex drive will result in more girl causing this effect in me.
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(07-17-2019 03:24 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Good topic OP.

Some people say no fapping will increase your drive.

do NOT listen to those people.

There's very few people on the planet who probably understand nofap to the level i do.

I've experimented with nofap for years and kept meticulous notes.

You have to be very careful in how you approach nofap or it will actually kill your sex drive.

Nofap is one of of the most misunderstood subjects on the internet these days.
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(07-17-2019 02:36 PM)subterfuge Wrote:  I doubt it but who knows. I'm sure there's lots of very very horny dudes out there with a sex drive through the roof who don't get laid

Also, I saw a thread in kind of the opposite side of the spectrum recently where people were talking about how they game best when they aren't horny and don't really care about the outcome/are more indifferent and aloof in set

I guess like lots of things, there's just too many variables and lots of it will be specific to the individual

thats very vague.

what exactly is very horny?

or sex drive through the roof?

what i explained in OP was VERY specific.

I think about sex all the time and consider myself a very horny guy.

but very few girls give me the instant boner reaction just by looking at them.

If there are guys out there who get instant boners looking at a lot of girls daily then I would bet anything that those guys have amazing sex lives.

I will say it again , I have literally NEVER had a bad interaction with a girl who gave me a hard boner just looking at her, every single time i could tell they where also horny and the interaction was (very) positive.

I've had situations where a girl caused this effect in me in a professional setting and it led to some pretty unbelievable/movie like interactions
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(07-17-2019 03:59 PM)dreadcom Wrote:  You have to be very careful in how you approach nofap or it will actually kill your sex drive.

Well it did for while (roughly 40 days). Was the best time of my life so far: Treating 8+ women like 4s - no neediness, pinpoint game - whatever I came up with ad-hoc just worked, dry humor with perfect timing, while not giving a single fuck about outcome...

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btw, to those of you wondering.

I had my testosterone checked recently and it was at 730

I'm hoping to get it beyond 1000 very soon
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