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Keeping the relationship in a choke hold with young Latinas
Hi,

So I recently met this hot piece of ass Venezuelan chick. She is 20 years old and I am 35. She behaves rebellious at times but each time she does I give her a stern warning and rebuke her and each time she submits and becomes really apologetic. The good news is she doesn't appear to be a party type. She could be a good medium to long term gf but I realised need to be dominate at all times.

She is still relatively unwesternized because she just came to the UK some 6 months ago and can not speak English to save her life. I can speak conversational Spanish which allows me to get at least understand most things.

The problem is I have never dated a woman this young before. At times I feel like a father or an uncle to this chick. There are some things she does which is immature but she doesn't come off as psycho. I am aware that Latinas in general and especially young Latinas like to be manipulative. I want to keep this chick under control and this is my first real Latina experience. I have heard and read many post about this. My aim is to become immune to this and keep her interested in me just on the alphaness. I want to try and keep her in this submissive state.

How do you keep these chicks in line? The people who would know best of course would be latin men themselves. Some of them have the machista gene and heavy pimp hand which I may have to use. but I prefer to psychologically keep her in check. I want to keep this as one my main things and have a few side pieces along the way. But I want to keep her in a place that she does things on my terms.

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(07-24-2019 03:28 PM)Diablo Wrote:  Hi,

So I recently met this hot piece of ass Venezuelan chick. She is 20 years old and I am 35. She behaves rebellious at times but each time she does I give her a stern warning and rebuke her and each time she submits and becomes really apologetic. The good news is she doesn't appear to be a party type. She could be a good medium to long term gf but I realised need to be dominate at all times.

She is still relatively unwesternized because she just came to the UK some 6 months ago and can not speak English to save her life. I can speak conversational Spanish which allows me to get at least understand most things.

The problem is I have never dated a woman this young before. At times I feel like a father or an uncle to this chick. There are some things she does which is immature but she doesn't come off as psycho. I am aware that Latinas in general and especially young Latinas like to be manipulative. I want to keep this chick under control and this is my first real Latina experience. I have heard and read many post about this. My aim is to become immune to this and keep her interested in me just on the alphaness. I want to try and keep her in this submissive state.

How do you keep these chicks in line? The people who would know best of course would be latin men themselves. Some of them have the machista gene and heavy pimp hand which I may have to use. but I prefer to psychologically keep her in check. I want to keep this as one my main things and have a few side pieces along the way. But I want to keep her in a place that she does things on my terms.

I'm 45 and have been dating a 23 year old Colombian girl for over a year. You need to have firm boundaries in terms of what you will and won't tolerate, as you would in any relationship and be willing to walk away if your girl crosses your boundaries.

I've had a few issues with my girl over the course of our year together and I've left once for 24 hours when she was acting particularly bitchy. She begged me to come back so I did, after which it was like night and day. I think she realized that I'm not going to tolerate her treating me poorly. We had one other major fight since then over money where she lectured me about needing to be a better provider. I booked a flight home that night, again she begged me to stay and has since found a new job and will be contributing to our expenses.

The lesson I've learned is that dating young latina girls, once the novelty of having a young latin girl by your side wears off, is really no different than any other relationship. Either it works and your compatible or you're not. My girl and I started off with slightly the wrong dynamic because she's smoooking hot... so I let my guard down and set a bad precedent where I ended up taking care of all the expenses and letting her basically sit around and do nothing all day. That got old pretty fast and so we're making changes, she's working and becoming more active, and we are both happier now.

It also feels really good to simply know where you stand and not settle for less. IF you're going to have a long term relationship with anyone it has to make sense and you have to be compatible in key areas like sex, finances, values etc...Otherwise it's just a matter of time before you start resenting each other and the whole thing implodes. My two cents....

PS - Also, I should add, that in both cases when I left, I really intended to leave. I wasn't playing a game. I had simply had enough and in both cases she agreed to make changes. I may or may not continue things, but either way, my girl knows where I stand on key issues. She seems willing to try and meet me half way so far....
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(07-24-2019 03:28 PM)Diablo Wrote:  Hi,

So I recently met this hot piece of ass Venezuelan chick. She is 20 years old and I am 35. She behaves rebellious at times but each time she does I give her a stern warning and rebuke her and each time she submits and becomes really apologetic. The good news is she doesn't appear to be a party type. She could be a good medium to long term gf but I realised need to be dominate at all times.

She is still relatively unwesternized because she just came to the UK some 6 months ago and can not speak English to save her life. I can speak conversational Spanish which allows me to get at least understand most things.

The problem is I have never dated a woman this young before. At times I feel like a father or an uncle to this chick. There are some things she does which is immature but she doesn't come off as psycho. I am aware that Latinas in general and especially young Latinas like to be manipulative. I want to keep this chick under control and this is my first real Latina experience. I have heard and read many post about this. My aim is to become immune to this and keep her interested in me just on the alphaness. I want to try and keep her in this submissive state.

How do you keep these chicks in line? The people who would know best of course would be latin men themselves. Some of them have the machista gene and heavy pimp hand which I may have to use. but I prefer to psychologically keep her in check. I want to keep this as one my main things and have a few side pieces along the way. But I want to keep her in a place that she does things on my terms.

Sounds like you're a bit controlling and you're overthinking the fact she's a Latina. She's 20. If you expect her to act like a 35 year old chick, that's tough. Has nothing to do with her being Latina as a 20 yo white chick is probably going to annoy you all the same. Good she apologizes, that's unlike a white chick. In that sense, this is a nothing burger and you've hit the jackpot.

Dominance is one thing, looking controlling and lame is another... make sure you're the former and not the latter. If you're going to roll with 20yo you will need to accept a certain lack of immaturity especially early on and you can nudge her in a good direction without being parental.

Rule #1 about dating younger chicks is don't be a lame parent, be cool and in control of your reactions...
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(07-24-2019 03:56 PM)nomadiam Wrote:  I'm 45 and have been dating a 23 year old Colombian girl for over a year. You need to have firm boundaries in terms of what you will and won't tolerate, as you would in any relationship and be willing to walk away if your girl crosses your boundaries.

I've had a few issues with my girl over the course of our year together and I've left once for 24 hours when she was acting particularly bitchy. She begged me to come back so I did, after which it was like night and day. I think she realized that I'm not going to tolerate her treating me poorly. We had one other major fight since then over money where she lectured me about needing to be a better provider. I booked a flight home that night, again she begged me to stay and has since found a new job and will be contributing to our expenses.

The lesson I've learned is that dating young latina girls, once the novelty of having a young latin girl by your side wears off, is really no different than any other relationship. Either it works and your compatible or you're not. My girl and I started off with slightly the wrong dynamic because she's smoooking hot... so I let my guard down and set a bad precedent where I ended up taking care of all the expenses and letting her basically sit around and do nothing all day. That got old pretty fast and so we're making changes, she's working and becoming more active, and we are both happier now.

It also feels really good to simply know where you stand and not settle for less. IF you're going to have a long term relationship with anyone it has to make sense and you have to be compatible in key areas like sex, finances, values etc...Otherwise it's just a matter of time before you start resenting each other and the whole thing implodes. My two cents....

PS - Also, I should add, that in both cases when I left, I really intended to leave. I wasn't playing a game. I had simply had enough and in both cases she agreed to make changes. I may or may not continue things, but either way, my girl knows where I stand on key issues. She seems willing to try and meet me half way so far....

You'll find 90% of young, foreign-born Columbian chicks (and frankly, any chick from the third world) without an education are going to treat you like a provider. It seems counter-productive to fight her on that point. Great you've persuaded her to find a job, but minus a few points for you in attractiveness to that point and there will be blowback. Successful men should want to provide to such a little piece. Why have a working woman in your life, especially one so young who probably has little to offer financially or careerwise? Give her a baby instead... that would make her more mature.

Also, at 45 yo (American?) you're probably not ever going to have compatibility with a 23 yo Columbian chick on any issue -- especially finances. That also seems like an unrealistic expectation. The best you can try to do is enjoy her body and if she matures through the relationship, great - keep her around. Be tolerant. Otherwise, the "setting firm boundaries" -- sounds pretty lame, like you're going to put her in time out like her father. Latinas want strong men in the bedroom and men with presence who are aggressive, know what they want, express themselves, assert themselves. Being a father figure/parent isn't the right vibe honestly, it's a bit off... That's not the kind of dominance you want to portray. Simply shows you're too old for her.

Also, it's never cool to fight about money as a man and expect the woman to contribute her share. It's extremely low value in most cultures and it's only tolerated in the feminized ones, or when you're truly poor. All financial transactions should appear effortless and it'll never be equal in a good relationship where you're a truly dominant male. Otherwise, you need to fix your finances if it's really an issue and you need her financial support. LOL if I dated a 23 yo foreign latina chick who would make any kind of positive financial impact on my standard of living... I make 6 figures, why would I make my foreign-born wife work at McDonalds?

I see in your other post you're looking at dating American chicks now after this bad experience...
Honestly, your perspective is very American -- you expect a 2 paycheck modern household from a young, foreign chick from South America who probably had a mother who stayed at home and a strong provider father. If her mother worked, it was only because she had to because her father was poor, it wasn't ideal. Sad for her that you can't give her a better standard of living than she had at home, that's sort of the whole point of her dating you...

You've got some runway because you're an American, but I think you probably need to stop conveying low value ideals sooner than latter: For example, making her work a likely shit job because you're too cheap to pay for her.... You're in your mid 40s (American?), you should be able to provide for someone.
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(07-24-2019 03:56 PM)nomadiam Wrote:  I'm 45 and have been dating a 23 year old Colombian girl for over a year. You need to have firm boundaries in terms of what you will and won't tolerate, as you would in any relationship and be willing to walk away if your girl crosses your boundaries.

I've had a few issues with my girl over the course of our year together and I've left once for 24 hours when she was acting particularly bitchy. She begged me to come back so I did, after which it was like night and day. I think she realized that I'm not going to tolerate her treating me poorly. We had one other major fight since then over money where she lectured me about needing to be a better provider. I booked a flight home that night, again she begged me to stay and has since found a new job and will be contributing to our expenses.

The lesson I've learned is that dating young latina girls, once the novelty of having a young latin girl by your side wears off, is really no different than any other relationship. Either it works and your compatible or you're not. My girl and I started off with slightly the wrong dynamic because she's smoooking hot... so I let my guard down and set a bad precedent where I ended up taking care of all the expenses and letting her basically sit around and do nothing all day. That got old pretty fast and so we're making changes, she's working and becoming more active, and we are both happier now.

It also feels really good to simply know where you stand and not settle for less. IF you're going to have a long term relationship with anyone it has to make sense and you have to be compatible in key areas like sex, finances, values etc...Otherwise it's just a matter of time before you start resenting each other and the whole thing implodes. My two cents....

PS - Also, I should add, that in both cases when I left, I really intended to leave. I wasn't playing a game. I had simply had enough and in both cases she agreed to make changes. I may or may not continue things, but either way, my girl knows where I stand on key issues. She seems willing to try and meet me half way so far....

You'll find 90% of young, foreign-born Columbian chicks (and frankly, any chick from the third world) without an education are going to treat you like a provider. It seems counter-productive to fight her on that point. Great you've persuaded her to find a job, but minus a few points for you in attractiveness to that point and there will be blowback. Successful men should want to provide to such a little piece. Why have a working woman in your life, especially one so young who probably has little to offer financially or careerwise? Give her a baby instead... that would make her more mature.

Also, at 45 yo (American?) you're probably not ever going to have compatibility with a 23 yo Columbian chick on any issue -- especially finances. That also seems like an unrealistic expectation. The best you can try to do is enjoy her body and if she matures through the relationship, great - keep her around. Be tolerant. Otherwise, the "setting firm boundaries" -- sounds pretty lame, like you're going to put her in time out like her father. Latinas want strong men in the bedroom and men with presence who are aggressive, know what they want, express themselves, assert themselves. Being a father figure/parent isn't the right vibe honestly, it's a bit off... That's not the kind of dominance you want to portray. Simply shows you're too old for her.

Also, it's never cool to fight about money as a man and expect the woman to contribute her share. It's extremely low value in most cultures and it's only tolerated in the feminized ones, or when you're truly poor. All financial transactions should appear effortless and it'll never be equal in a good relationship where you're a truly dominant male. Otherwise, you need to fix your finances if it's really an issue and you need her financial support. LOL if I dated a 23 yo foreign latina chick who would make any kind of positive financial impact on my standard of living... I make 6 figures, why would I make my foreign-born wife work at McDonalds?

I see in your other post you're looking at dating American chicks now after this bad experience...
Honestly, your perspective is very American -- you expect a 2 paycheck modern household from a young, foreign chick from South America who probably had a mother who stayed at home and a strong provider father. If her mother worked, it was only because she had to because her father was poor, it wasn't ideal. Sad for her that you can't give her a better standard of living than she had at home, that's sort of the whole point of her dating you...

You've got some runway because you're an American, but I think you probably need to stop conveying low value ideals sooner than latter: For example, making her work a likely shit job because you're too cheap to pay for her.... You're in your mid 40s (American?), you should be able to provide for someone.

To clarify on the money/job issue. The job is so she has spending money for things she wants/needs. I pay for everything else and don't really have a problem with that. I also think it's good for her to have something to do so she's not simply laying around on Instagram all day. I work online from home, so we end up spending all of our time together otherwise, which is a bit much for me. I like to have a little space now and then.

And trust me, she has a much better lifestyle with me than she would if she moved back home. We have a beautiful villa, pool, maid, go out several times a week, etc... take regular trips. I don't really mind doing any of this and I enjoy doing it, but I have limits and the point I was making is you have to know your own PERSONAL boundaries and what does/doesn't work for you. I am American and obviously my culture/background is a part of who I am, as is my girlfriend's culture/background, which is very different. Hence the challenges.... but I do appreciate your perspective.
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Today I began to pick her brain a bit. I realised that her brain has began shifting to the dark side of the feminist force either that or Latin America is not any different from the west.. She started talking about being "non conformist" and finishing her studies before having a family. So this is a very short ride. There is no long term with this chick and she is not looking to have a family whereas I am.

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Have you attempted dissecting feminism to her?

Red pill guys often say to date younger women but with all this feminism stuff, I wonder if it's even possible when men that are +30 and women that are in their early 20's are in completely different stages of their lives now that feminism is so influencial.
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Having "logical" discussions with (especially) a very attractive young woman is not only useless its counter productive

If you want to "control" your relationships with women then you first need to deeply inculcate the differences between their wiring and yours.

Girls dont want to "know" ...but they need to "feel".

You want to "own" a beautiful 20 Latina then you have to be 100 % willing to destroy her ego while risking losing her in the process. See Thermonuclear Option below.

Thats the paradox. The average guy isn't willing to do what it takes (Same as every other aspect of life)

"Control" is about making them feel that they cant live without you This is why the most beautiful women often "fall" for psychopaths (in the clinical sense)

The term "dread game" gets thrown around a lot but most men dont really get it.

It requires the two most basic elements ( Fear and Desire) be in constant "titration" / equilibrium

A) She's convinced youre her best option (Desire).

B) She's convinced she's about to lose you (Fear)

And Game never stops.

You think you're going to keep an attractive woman over the long haul without some form of fear interspersed with tenderness?

Dread Game isn't solely about the "negative"

It's a carefully crafted balance achieved through what I like to call "titration"* (borrowed from chemistry)

Quote:A titration is a technique where a solution of known concentration is used to determine the concentration of an unknown solution. Typically, the titrant (the know solution) is added from a buret to a known quantity of the analyte (the unknown solution) until the reaction is complete. Knowing the volume of titrant added allows the determination of the concentration of the unknown. Often, an indicator is used to usually signal the end of the reaction, the endpoint
Emotional stability is the enemy.
Stability = boredom
Boredom = Gone

The more attractive the girl more skilled and nuanced your "dread game" has to be

aka:

positive / negative,

push /pull,

fear / desire

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There are two ways to guarantee a healthy relationship. By healthy, I mean the girl is in love with you and there is no threat of her leaving; you have all the leverage you need to assure yourself peace of mind and a steady sexual outlet.

Meet your soulmate
If you are extremely lucky enough to cross paths with your soulmate this is the easiest way to live the kind of romantic bliss that Hollywood movies exalt. A soulmate connection is the Golden Ticket to happiness and a dreamlike existence. But it is rare. Don’t live as if it will happen to you. I estimate 1% of all men and 2% of all women meet their soulmates. The reason for the discrepancy is that male soulmates are in shorter supply than female soulmates. Male soulmates are shared amongst the women like a community hookah.

Instill dread
Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions. Result: she works harder to please you.

The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off.

Examples of effective doom inducement:

Turn off your cell phone twice a week. Alternate days. Don’t do this on a Friday or Saturday night unless the relationship is shaky and needs a high voltage jolt of dread.

Make a blatant but plausibly deniable move on one of her friends when she’s not around. The news will get back to her. Milk it.

Call her from a very busy place so that she can hear women’s voices laughing and shrieking in the background. Don’t tell her where you are when she asks. Just say you’ll see her soon.

Mention how skilled your Russian ex was at giving head. Bring it up again a few days later, pretending not to remember the first time you mentioned it. Bonus: Russians are very good at giving head, so this will have the ring of truth.

Be seen by your girlfriend flirting with other women in a social venue. Extra points if the women are attractive. Double extra points if you flirt without looking back at your girlfriend once to check her reaction.

Cook her a romantic candlelight dinner at home. Make it a memorable experience, complete with jazz, chocolate, and rose petals. Then, do not talk with her for four days afterwards.

Ignore her calls for a week. When you eventually answer and she reads you the riot act, act as if nothing was wrong and accuse her of sabotaging a perfectly good relationship, “just like all the other women in this stupid city. I thought you were different”. Hang up on her angrily.

When her best friend tells you how cute you and your girlfriend look together, shrug, put your hand to the back of your neck as if to scratch an itch there, look down slightly and with a mildly annoyed expression blandly sigh “Yeeeeah…”. Triple bonus points if your girlfriend is standing right there.

When she attempts the jealousy maneuver by flirting with another guy, act unfazed. Give her pickup tips.

Gaze longingly into her eyes, say how hot she looks, then immediately glance sidelong at the bosom of any strange woman in the vicinity.

Have a threesome. Spend an inordinate amount of time admiring the labia of the other woman. Be sure to moan louder with her. WARNING: If you cum on the other woman you will have to spend weeks consoling your girlfriend.

Say things like “I really value my independence and freedom” relevant to nothing in particular. It’s just a thought that popped in your head.

Thermonuclear Option:

Have an affair and make sure she finds out about it. Arrange the confrontation so that it does not happen at your place. When she confronts you, don’t get defensive. Don’t speak at all. Let her vent. Let her punch you in the chest and scream obscenities. When she takes a breather, tell her she’s never looked more beautiful and you will never stop loving her. Then without waiting for her response calmly walk out the door and break off all contact for two weeks. When she comes back to you… and she will… you will have a love slave for life.
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^^^^ Good stuff right there.
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(07-26-2019 11:29 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Having "logical" discussions with (especially) a very attractive young woman is not only useless its counter productive

If you want to "control" your relationships with women then you first need to deeply inculcate the differences between their wiring and yours.

Girls dont want to "know" ...but they need to "feel".

You need to write a relationship book. No shit.

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A wife should :

* Do all the household chores (or at least 95%)
* Work part time just to keep her even busier and so that she has a bit of money for herself, and also so that she has her own thing going on to feel "independent" (and maybe also contribute just a tiny bit to household expenses)
* Ideally also be involved in some kind of local community thing, whatever it may be, so that she'll be surrounded by local people and be seen, known, liked and respected and kept in check, as well as doing useful work.

That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.

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No doubt PT knows what he's talking about. However, the simple and traditional method for keeping a woman is to KNOCK HER UP. And yes, I mean to follow through and raise the kid/s, too.

Here's a hint: women go nuts when you grab them and tell them with a big grin that you're going to put a baby in her, tonight. Whether you're serious or not, that presses all their buttons.

To be a loveable, alpha rogue who was untameable but now wants to claim her and put a baby in her - that is alpha.

To try to lock her down and put hundreds of sterile loads in her for a few years, not so much. That will make a fertile young woman resentful, even if she's not consciously aware. And no wonder she will have a wandering eye under those circumstances.

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RE: Keeping the relationship in a choke hold with young Latinas
(07-27-2019 07:52 AM)RawGod Wrote:  No doubt PT knows what he's talking about. However, the simple and traditional method for keeping a woman is to KNOCK HER UP. And yes, I mean to follow through and raise the kid/s, too.

Here's a hint: women go nuts when you grab them and tell them with a big grin that you're going to put a baby in her, tonight. Whether you're serious or not, that presses all their buttons.

To be a loveable, alpha rogue who was untameable but now wants to claim her and put a baby in her - that is alpha.

To try to lock her down and put hundreds of sterile loads in her for a few years, not so much. That will make a fertile young woman resentful, even if she's not consciously aware. And no wonder she will have a wandering eye under those circumstances.

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Great points.
I've met a good number of girls (American and not) 25 and below that just need to get knocked up, and fast. No amount of reason is going to make them mature faster or become better long-term prospects. A female's hormones are in the driver's seat and beneath the surface they resent men for not fulfilling their biological destiny. The angriest and most shit testy of chicks are the ones who need babies the most to quell their inner hamster.

A lot of the angry feminists you read about are that way because they either couldn't find a man to knock them up when they were young or bad decisions were made (abortion, birth control) that turned them into shrews...

Honestly, my parting advice for my Latina ex who was 32 was: you need to get off the birth control and make a baby now, you're wasting time with a guy like me... she didn't like that lol.
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RE: Keeping the relationship in a choke hold with young Latinas
As the medieval men says: love your woman but trust just your horse.

Never trust latinas! I've discovered several times that the latina's who I was "making love" actually had a boyfriend, sometimes a husband.

Do the cold and hot and never be fearead by the possibility of lost her. You must to have the gift mindset: you're the gift, not her. Unfortunately for you, these women can act like the perfect wife while sucks her boss.

Her work and friends will ditate her behavior. She will be westernized and you cannot avoid that, just need to have balls, self esteem and eyes open. It's how it works when an "angel" comes to hell.

Anyways, if you can control her environment, that would help.

As Maquiavel said: between be feared or loved, it's better fo be feared (fear of loss) than loved, cuz people forget quickly all the good you've done for them.
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I see smoking hot used a lot in this thread, any pics?
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(07-26-2019 11:29 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Having "logical" discussions with (especially) a very attractive young woman is not only useless its counter productive

Why is feminism such a one way street though? Can't it be reversed on a woman? If they learn it, can't they unlearn it?
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(08-01-2019 08:52 PM)FresnoState1776 Wrote:  
(07-26-2019 11:29 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  Having "logical" discussions with (especially) a very attractive young woman is not only useless its counter productive

Why is feminism such a one way street though? Can't it be reversed on a woman? If they learn it, can't they unlearn it?

Sure they can and often do. The problem is that its usually waaaay past the "sell by" date and no men care

But in the above post I wasnt referring to feminism. I was referring the female limbic response to external stimuli to cause attraction and arousal. Logical discussions are anathema

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Hi,

Papaya got it completely. You have to apply a sutil dread game; but the problem is, as several times mentioned by Roosh, you cannot fake your willingness to leave. You need to be really full of her bullshit and act accordingly. Not even need to say much: she will sense you are about to leave her, and her instincts will take over her bad behavior, correcting it.

The question would be, if you really want to own her; in my experience no amount of anti-game will help you get rid of her once she have successfully go through this process several times.

Be aware you could loose her if the attraction is not strong to start with. But if she is just trying to test your alphaness / taking over your frame, it could work wonders.

The thermonuclear option Papaya has mentioned is very good, specially at the begging of a relationship when she is not really that invested and will not take it so personal. But I have only applied a variation of it, once, it was successful, she did something very serious and I did not care if she leave forever.

Just do not be cruel to her, do not treat her badly. Many Latin-American women have a sense of revenge that could surprise you.

Almost forgot it. For the shit tests, if you agree and amplify with a latina you better know what you are doing. Some will laugh at your responses to their shit tests, but will amplify themselves your replies in ways you cannot expect. For me, strong silence works better.

And would also recommend to use sutil and well applied neggings from time to time.
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RE: Keeping the relationship in a choke hold with young Latinas
You shouldnt yell or lay your hand on a woman. That is a toxic relationship. There is nothing alpha about that in a man doing that to a woman. Treat her good (But make sure she earns it) and have high value and she will not want to leave you and obey you and also become loyal. If you dont want to look soft than act like a man when in public, she will see how you handle yourself to others. Especially in third world countries where a lot of people test you and try to extract resources from you, be firm with people and dont let anyone take advantage of you. Stand up for yourself but at the same time dont go picking fights with people or a group of people... Especially in latin america.


And if a woman falls in love with you , she will give in to your needs because she doesnt want to lose you. You dont get her to give in to your needs by abusing her verbally and physically... That is an unhealthy relationship.

And this shit where you want to keep a few side peices is also not going to work. Latin woman are clingy and get jelous easy and they dont value time because the local men they are used to dont meaning they will call you a lot to check up you when you are away from them. If you dont pick up your video time call to check up on you if you are dating she will know you are cheating so i dont see how you will accomplish that.

Also they love to do shit tests to see what they can get away with. They love drama and will test you .So set boundaries and prepare to leave if she doesnt obey them(Such as her having "guy friends" that she texts to everyday . ) She may test you to see if you come back crying to her after a few days of being away from her. dont give in. let her come back to your terms...

good luck
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