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The PapayaTapper appreciation thread
I was surprised not to find a PPT appreciation thread via a quick search.

This guy is one of the forum's greatest assets and we're lucky to have him. He gives excellent advice to anyone who will ask and listen. He never assumes someone to be beneath his attention (until they prove that to be the case, anyway).

Unfortunately what this means is that many of his gold-tier posts are lost in the detritus of shit-tier threads, so we need a place to rescue them for posterity's sake.

Here's to you, PPT. You are living proof that financial success doesn't preclude humility and brotherhood.

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To get things started, here's the post that inspired me to make the thread.

(07-12-2019 05:16 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  You need to change the story youre in.

Throughout history men have been drawn to stories about the hero. Myths , The legends, tales etc that compel masculine men are about heros. Heros that overcome adversity, defy the odds, conquer evil etc. Look no further than modern movies and you will see the same hero in a different skin: seemingly normal everymen that end up accomplishing the extraordinary. Neo in The Matrix, Luke Skywalker in Star Wars, King Arthur etc etc....the examples are almost endless. In every culture the myth of "the hero" is prevalent in the folklore. Even super heroes start out as ordinary men and through extraordinary circumstances are compelled to become great. These stories resonate with us because the hero could be us... with the required ingredients of course. We want to be the hero

For women however the stories that resonate are not myths but rather fairytales Classic tales like Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Beauty And The Beast, Snow White etc have a common theme: the girl is not the hero but the one being rescued by him. Cinderella might be the central character in her story is not the hero. She is not vanquishing her evil step mother and step sisters but rather is being rescued from them by Prince Charming. They dont want to be the hero...they want the hero to want / choose them

The modern fairytale might look different but its themes are the same. One need only look at 50 Shades of Grey for example with this in mind to realize that its simply Cinderella's story with an R rated skin layered on. The 'heroine" of the story is waiting and hoping that the her "hero" (the billionaire, sexually dominant man) to save her from a life of bland mediocrity. Its no coincidence the crappy book sold millions of copies and a was turned into an equally crap movie...it's themes resonate with modern women

So what in holy hell does this have to do with OPs situation? Everything.

Women are attracted to the hero, the knight, the leader, the father, the teacher...all larger paternal figures. The sidekick never gets the girl

If you turn yourself into the the buddy the vassal, the assistant, the butler, they can NOT and will NOT remain attracted to you. By over exposing your self socially youre diminishing your perceived value and through accessibility youve made yourself "smaller"...the metaphorical sidekick

Find a way to be the group leader. Are you good at pool? Take them to play pool Are you knowledgable about art? Lead them on a museum excursion. Teach them something.

Find a way to position yourself as the authority figure in a situation. Be the hero of the story. This will change how they view you and you will end up attracting more than one of them

But you need to do this ASAP. The longer youre seen as a minor character in this story the harder it is to overcome that pidgeon hole

Caveat: You need advanced game to [hold hands with] several of them and / or not piss any of them off

God demands of Man responsibility. God demands of Woman vulnerability. These are their curse and blessing alike. Libertianism is to Man as Feminism is to Woman.
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RE: The PapayaTapper appreciation thread
Monsieur Tapper has a great signature:

I always keep the 'Happy Gene' idea in the back of my head. Will save you from a lot of trouble & stress if you take it seriously:
PapayaTapper (08-24-2015 12:14 AM)' Wrote:  One quality I think is essential for any girl to have as a LTR candidate is what I call "the happy gene". Is her natural equilibrium an upbeat / happy /laughs easily kind of demeanor ? Or is she prone to states of moroseness/crabbiness or acerbity that needs to be actively entertained/stimulated into being "happy"?

Before I knew better I exhausted a lot of time, money and energy on "sourpussy" because they were hot. I spent 5 years and I dont know how much money on one because she was smoking (tall blond bikini/ lingerie model) before I had enough and pulled the plug

If a girl doesn't have that "happy gene"...she's not long for my world anymore. If there was only piece of advice I could give a guy thinking about wifeing up,,,make sure she has that quality

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Quote:"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs
Quote:"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
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Probably the best attitude to go through life. On my end, the 'net' has been more of a hard landing, but I try to take some lessons out of it.

Bonus from Tex's signature:
PapayaTapper Wrote:you seem to have a penchant for sticking your dick in high drama retarded trash.
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RE: The PapayaTapper appreciation thread
One of my favorite posters on the board.

The "Happy Gene" post (quoted above by Tactician) has influenced my life in more ways than one and is probably my favorite post. I strongly recommend all men to read it multiple times and embody that in their search for a quality female.

This is another one of my favorite posts: https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-60989...pid1501096

(02-03-2017 03:20 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  I'll elaborate on what I was trying, albeit poorly (reminder to not drink and post), to convey in my previous response.

There is no magic combination of words that a guy can say that will "get the girl" every time. That's a common misconception (the one that the cheesey PUA hucksters use to prey on poor frustrated guys to separate them from their money)

That said there are immutable laws of attraction when it comes to women. The first one is Attraction Is Not A Choice That's a fact.

If that is a fact, then it follows that attraction is an effect. Effects are caused.

So your question then isn't really "What should I say?" (or shouldn't be) It should be "How do I cause the desired effect in this (or any) girl"?

To cause attraction you must stimulate what is broadly termed "tingles". Tingle triggering tools: attire, attitude, posture, etc in addition to what you say ....they all add up to your game

Boring her is the diametrical opposite of "tingling" her

She needs to be intrigued, curious, (if not fascinated)...you need to be memorable. Remember: even an average chick gets a ton of attention from unremarkable dudes...daily. Attention is a common commodity in our online world. (That's one reason that I believe Facebook is detrimental to your game...unless youre hang-gliding with naked bitches or snorting coke with Zac Ebron)


Give a Man a Fish, and You Feed Him for a Day. Teach a Man To Fish, and You Feed Him for a Lifetime

Here's your fishing lesson (albeit a broad one...pun intended)


Tingles = Attraction

Attraction + Comfort = Arousal

Arousal + Logistics = Bang

And

Bang = Just the beginning


Cheers PT!
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The "Happy gene" is indeed one of the most insightful and quotable pieces of thought on this forum. Thanks for being with us Mr. Tapper!

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I still want to hear the story of what happened when PapayaTapper was on a date with one girl, but saw a much hotter girl while they were out and picked her up on the spot.

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RE: The PapayaTapper appreciation thread
(07-26-2019 02:46 PM)Tactician Wrote:  Monsieur Tapper has a great signature:

I always keep the 'Happy Gene' idea in the back of my head. Will save you from a lot of trouble & stress if you take it seriously:
PapayaTapper (08-24-2015 12:14 AM)' Wrote:  One quality I think is essential for any girl to have as a LTR candidate is what I call "the happy gene". Is her natural equilibrium an upbeat / happy /laughs easily kind of demeanor ? Or is she prone to states of moroseness/crabbiness or acerbity that needs to be actively entertained/stimulated into being "happy"?

Before I knew better I exhausted a lot of time, money and energy on "sourpussy" because they were hot. I spent 5 years and I dont know how much money on one because she was smoking (tall blond bikini/ lingerie model) before I had enough and pulled the plug

If a girl doesn't have that "happy gene"...she's not long for my world anymore. If there was only piece of advice I could give a guy thinking about wifeing up,,,make sure she has that quality

Inversion Therapy
Let's lead by example

Quote:"Leap, and the net will appear". John Burroughs
Quote:"The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell
Probably the best attitude to go through life. On my end, the 'net' has been more of a hard landing, but I try to take some lessons out of it.

Bonus from Tex's signature:
PapayaTapper Wrote:you seem to have a penchant for sticking your dick in high drama retarded trash.

This happy gene post reminds me of the advice an old Maltese guy gave me. He said whatever you want in a wife, marry the happy girl with big tits.
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(07-26-2019 07:09 PM)scorpion Wrote:  I still want to hear the story of what happened when PapayaTapper was on a date with one girl, but saw a much hotter girl while they were out and picked her up on the spot.

Yea I remember hearing him mention that too. Must be one hell of a story.
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One of my favorite users, always worth reading. It's a good sign that he still posts.

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Our types of women may not be the same but PPT is a great member
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Just had a good laugh:

(07-25-2019 04:58 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  WBBNATF

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