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Revealing real age to girlfriend
I am 24, my notch count is in the hundreds and I have the appearance and aura of a 40 year old man. I have never revealed my real age to any woman, I always said I’m 30 because it has proven to be the most effective method for me.

My last girlfriend I was in a relationship with for a couple of years, she was undoubtedly in love with me and saw me as some kind of paternal alpha figure. At one point I decided it didn’t matter anymore because she was “locked in”, and I revealed my young age to her, and that I was in university not actually working as I said. The girl was 29 I was 22. There was a dramatic shift in her attitude towards me, she went from being childlike and submissive in my presence to being outright dismissive. She gave me a speech about being “duped by a kid”. She did not believe my passport was real because I looked and behaved like a much older man a.k.a. an alpha male. This is the same girl who for two years had looked up to me almost as a father, from one day to the next my alpha cred was nuked. Eventually she left me.

Now I have a much hotter girlfriend who is 26, two years older than me. She believes I am 30+. I am looking at marrying her because frankly she is perfect for me and a virgin before I met her, however for that she must know my real age. She is in love with me and also looks up to me as a father, I am the alpha male of her life. I fear that revealing my younger age may destroy my alpha cred as it did in my past relationship. I even tested the waters and she also expressed revulsion toward dating men in their 20s, which was not promising. However the age gap is much smaller than in my last relatonship. She also has a nice-paying job with a fair amount of professional responsibility while i am still in college living off my parents (but I have my own apartment), another imbalance which could prove harmful if revealed.

I am wondering, what do you guys think the extent of the damage would be?

And how can I reveal this to her while minimizing the damage to her perception of me as the alpha of her life. Perhaps I can propose to her and reveal on the same day so the positive emotions overpower the negative. Ideas are welcome, what I need is a very smart ingenious way of minimizing this damage, no matter what it takes and what lies have to be told (as long as they are permanently sustainable).
(This post was last modified: 07-29-2019 07:45 PM by Bill Oreilly.)
07-29-2019 07:33 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
Tell em you are the real life Benjamin Button.
07-29-2019 07:45 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
(07-29-2019 07:33 PM)Bill Oreilly Wrote:  And how can I reveal this to her while minimizing the damage to her perception of me as the alpha of her life. Perhaps I can propose to her and reveal on the same day so the positive emotions overpower the negative. Ideas are welcome, what I need is a very smart ingenious way of minimizing this damage, no matter what it takes and what lies have to be told (as long as they are permanently sustainable).

Definitely don't do this.

Just tell her casually during dinner or drinks and don't make it seem like a big deal. Say that you lied early on when you met her and never really had a moment to make it clear. I'm assuming you've been dating for less than a year, right? I've cleaned up lies I told early on to girls in a time period like that and its always been fine.

In all honesty though, it could blow up in your face. In the future, if you're actually pursuing a woman to marry, there's no benefit to lying about something like this. You can't hide it forever.
07-29-2019 08:03 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
I want to clarify that I’m not concerned about the lie, I have already revealed other lies to her without trouble. But those were not lies that did any damage to my image.

What I am concerned about is her losing respect for me as an alpha male after learning my age.
07-29-2019 09:16 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
Are you into older chicks?
Do you avoid younger chicks because you -appear- older?

Is there a medical reason for you looking older?

Why the focus on older women?
07-30-2019 01:42 AM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
OP already started a thread about revealing lies on name and nationality. This is even more improbable. What's next, how to reveal to my gf that I am Black?
07-30-2019 02:04 AM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
(07-30-2019 02:04 AM)Montrose Wrote:  OP already started a thread about revealing lies on name and nationality. This is even more improbable. What's next, how to reveal to my gf that I am Black?

Good spot Montrose.

OP reveals in another thread.. "I am already reaching the twilight of my game career"

... at the age of 24?

Also reveals that he has to lie because if anyone googled his name it would reveal his name and prior presumably famous criminal history.

OP is a fantasist.

Thanks for wasting our time OP.

Banhammer anyone?
07-30-2019 03:12 AM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
I understand it’s an uncommon problem to have fucked hundreds of girls at 24. It is indeed the twilight as I feel I have done everything already.

All other lies were skillfully revealed thanks to users’ advice here. No problems. Age was withdrawn because it is a DLV as discussed here.

I’m hoping I can get some constructive advice from seasoned players as I did on my last post.

With respect to older women, my focus is 18-28 just like any other man, it just so happens for most of my game career even 21 year old babes happened to be older than me so I had to lie about my age for optimum results.
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07-30-2019 03:22 AM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
This forum is slowly starting to attract more larpers that are full of shit.
07-30-2019 09:40 AM
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(07-30-2019 09:40 AM)Rush87 Wrote:  This forum has been attracting more larpers that are full of shit for a while now.
^Fixed

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- Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example


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07-30-2019 02:05 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
(07-30-2019 03:22 AM)Bill Oreilly Wrote:  I understand it’s an uncommon problem to have fucked hundreds of girls at 24.

Any man, regardless of age , who's had the the mental wherewithal, experience and psychological dexterity to actually bang "hundreds of girls" would not have the need to come ask for advice on any issue regarding how to deal with women much less such a trivial one

I call

Bullshit

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07-30-2019 10:35 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
So am I really not going to get any useful advice from this thread?

Come on dudes, you can do better than this.
07-30-2019 10:37 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
(07-30-2019 10:37 PM)Bill Oreilly Wrote:  So am I really not going to get any useful advice from this thread?

Come on dudes, you can do better than this.

Just "maintain frame" and it'll all work out. Also, go to the gym.

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07-30-2019 10:55 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
Also, get a shower and a haircut.
07-31-2019 09:19 AM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
5/10 troll for getting me to respond.
1. Stop dating women older than you
2. Wash your benis.
07-31-2019 10:33 AM
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What’s the point of telling her your real age? Don’t tell her. Let her think you’re 30+ Also, don’t ask her to marry you.
07-31-2019 02:30 PM
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You are 24 and you look 40. Damn you must have had a hard life.
07-31-2019 05:42 PM
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RE: Revealing real age to girlfriend
I was seeing someone who didn't know my age for 3 months and then I told her 3 months into it. (She thought I was closer to her age she was younger).

We still kept chilling for 3 more months after I came clean. Her finding out might've changed the dynamic though a bit but I can't say for sure because other things happened as well, such as me saying that I wasn't sure if we were right for each other. So she became less affectionate + I also started spending more money on dates. Was kinda shitty.

I feel that if I used more words better though it might've worked out better perhaps or it might've just been that she didn't love the age difference.
07-31-2019 08:16 PM
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