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better looking friend who also studies game
I was always the quiet type and didn't really go well with women and the last 4 years i've improved and have met a fair few good women. Confident enough that i'd say its not impossblefor me to "meet" a new woman every week or two. I met one guy a few years ago and i liked him so we ended up meeting for the summer to travel for a bit.

We're both social but he's better looking then me(i'm not ugly, but shorter, and yeah still a point or two lower then apparently his hotness), and studies game a lot more.
The thing is my game is more, build social proof with everyone, guys and girls and when a chick sees i'm not hittin on them like the other 50 guys, they come over to me and then i get to know a girl over the night and then we go home, but this "friend"(and he actually invited another friend who has the same style as him) takes over every set i have.

so even when i do get a chick to check me out, he immeditaly comes over and basically steals her because he's confident, goes super sexual immeditaly, and i hate to admit it but yes, honestly better looking then me, the few times i've gotten a set back fromhim, the girls would gush about how hot he is.

I could handle it when it was just him, but his friend does it too, and they basically screen me out of every set i ever get a chance with. hell even when i purposefully go for the uglier chicks, they'll take that because they see shes an easy lay to.

I'm basically stuck with him for the next few weeks, and any quick tips to help turn the tables, i don't think i can do the same game as him, like sexual talk for me takes time because i'm just not as good looking and when i've done it too early, i lose sets so soon.
i'm not a stranger to solo game but i had actually set up a plan where we'd have like pub crawllike groups we'd lead ever night, with a small group of ppl that'd change every week. So i was banking on having this going for me, and not against me.

Normally guys like this get screened out on my events because i try to get everyone to be friends, but honestly because they "work" with me, they're able to take over the group from me.

tldr:hot friend of mine and his friend are actually shitty wingmen for my style and i've no clue what to do
08-01-2019 02:18 PM
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RE: better looking friend who also studies game
Didn't read fully, but if you can't have a conversation with your "friend" about poaching girls, you aren't in the right frame of mind to lead a woman. Also try and learn from your "friends" more aggressive style, then repackage what you learn from him.

Also, find and read the book of yareally (pdf). Perfect beginner learning material.
08-01-2019 04:13 PM
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RE: better looking friend who also studies game
They sound like crap wingmen if they're 'actively' poaching girls from you, so don't go out with them, but honestly, i'd even say in general to NOT go out with very handsome wingmen anyway!

I'ts brutal. I've seen it a million times and have even written about my experiences with having an extrememly handsome wingman who girls will literally jump on if they notice him lol.
One can't compete with a much better looking guy if you're hitting on young girls in bars no matter how much 'game' you have
It's 99% about looks in that situation. Trying to be so direct and sexually aggressive like your friend if the girl doesn't think you're hot is suicide

This reddit post gives you an idea! haha
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comme...some_mate/

My journal : https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-57783.html
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08-02-2019 04:42 AM
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RE: better looking friend who also studies game
(08-02-2019 04:42 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  They sound like crap wingmen if they're 'actively' poaching girls from you, so don't go out with them, but honestly, i'd even say in general to NOT go out with very handsome wingmen anyway!

I'ts brutal. I've seen it a million times and have even written about my experiences with having an extrememly handsome wingman who girls will literally jump on if they notice him lol.
One can't compete with a much better looking guy if you're hitting on young girls in bars no matter how much 'game' you have
It's 99% about looks in that situation. Trying to be so direct and sexually aggressive like your friend if the girl doesn't think you're hot is suicide

This reddit post gives you an idea! haha
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comme...some_mate/

yeah, that reddit post is basically any night out wth this guy. looks like i'm finding a reason to go solo for the next few weeks.
thanks guys.
08-04-2019 07:35 AM
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RE: better looking friend who also studies game
It's not your game that's bad, it's just that he is better looking. My advice is to start looksmaxing and forget game. Just remain social and improve your looks through unconventional methods not described on this forum.
08-04-2019 12:27 PM
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