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girl has pain during defloration try virgin tips
I've had a virgin in bed. She wanted me to fuck her. Even put my penis into the right position. But whatever got too close to her hymen leads to her having a strong pain so she moves away and pushes me away. Looks real. Something to be respected without prior agreement.

(The idea of "sign a contract before having sex" and "rape culture" is nonsense but this is a real no.)

My first virgin. Approx half a centimeter inside her vagina. No ruler. Doesn't feel like a "thin" skin. Feels pretty stable.

This reaction comes whether my penis comes close, my finger and even my tongue, which is the most surprising.

Is this normal, to be expected feelings for her?

I tried a lot. Perhaps was a mistake. Perhaps should not have tired too often. Reaction was same every time. After that reaction I went back to cuddling, kissing, licking. She got horny again time and time again and then again and again that pain of hers.

Could "fuck" her with the tip of my penis really carefully without hurting.

I didn't dare to push through. Might not even work even if she previously gave permission since it that moment she'd strongly shy away.

Usually I don't ask for lots of verbal permission. Just two steps forward, one step bad. Calibrate. However, virgins are different?

I guess it needs to be discussed? "Yes, it's gonna hurt, but after two or three times you'll be fine and we'll be having lots of pleasure. Let' do it? Whenever you're ready." Kinda. Put that in flowery words but that's it?

Should I suggest her to just push through it with my finger? Quick and reduced pain?

I don't think it makes sense to make a big deal of the hymen and require to break it with the penis.

Just like her. She's amazing. Wouldn't mind her attached to me.

Any tips on defloration either technical or game otherwise?
08-02-2019 08:02 AM
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RE: girl has pain during defloration try virgin tips
Sounds like the symptoms of vaginismus (look it up). It's treatable but complicated.
08-02-2019 08:09 AM
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