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Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
It's in my personal belief that some folks should not have kids, if they cannot support them - at the very least financially. I think that having children is a very big deal, and while no one would probably ever be ready, their should still be a strong foundation.

My life growing up until this point has been incredibly difficult. Looking back, a lot of it was unnecessary pain/guilt from my parents. While I don't have any life threatening diseases, I was diagnosed with a few genetic illnesses.

I'm in my late 20s and at this point I've been with roughly just under 100 partners in my lifetime. I'm at the stage where I am taking my finances a lot more serious, as well as my own well being. I don't want to risk building wealth because of an unwanted kid.

I've had women in the past try and scare me with fake pregnancies, and the thought of having a kid with them would be horrific. Not to mention I can't think of one that I would be ok with being the mother.

General Plan:
First, i'm I would get into the best shape possible over 4-6 months, through HITT and a strict diet. Then go into a top clinic to freeze my sperm for 5-10 years, after I'd get the snip.

Going this route I can continue being a manwhoreAngel While focusing on building my business and actual wealth. If later down the road I wanted kids, then I could go the IVF/IUI route. Yes it's expensive, but I'm not even worried about the cost's because I'm well off. To me this just makes the most practical sense.

I don't care about passing on legacy. Kids would do what they want, no matter how you raise them. They'll piss on your sweat equity claiming it theirs, and with how the world is going I'm no excited raising a baby in it. Freezing my sperm is literally just insurance in case I have regrets down the road.

Thoughts?
08-12-2019 09:52 AM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
Sterilizing yourself like that sounds pretty gay.
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
I had it done six years ago and I'm glad I did.
08-12-2019 01:20 PM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
I'm in my late 30s and thought about vasectomy in my late 20s as well.

Didn't have the courage to do it. Now I'm glad I didn't.
08-12-2019 02:39 PM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
Doing it likely this year, or early next year. Have bigger priorities now.


And vasectomy =/= sterilization . Your semen can still be extracted, and the process can be reversed in most cases . Sometimes, even the body can regenerate the "damage", so you'll probably have to again have a surgery.

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(08-12-2019 11:44 AM)zoom Wrote:  Sterilizing yourself like that sounds pretty gay.

Although not the same procedure, defeated men underwent the violent ending of their lineage when they were taken to the victor's palaces. I probably won't sire children for reasons discussed many times in this forum but I would think less of myself if I wasn't a live wire before old age.
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
I got a vasectomy at 40. I was done having kids, and had no desire to start over with more kids in middle age (and now I'm going to be a grandparent at 48, anyway). I certainly don't regret it. The procedure itself is really no big deal.
08-12-2019 04:48 PM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
The cons:

It cost almost $300 and there was pain typical of surgeries for two or three weeks.

The pros:

I don't have to pay child support.

I don't have to worry about having to pay child support in the future.

Orgasms felt really good before the vasectomy, but now they're a whole lot more intense and feel even better. I don't know what the surgery did to the nerves or muscles to cause it, but it's a huge benefit.
08-13-2019 11:48 AM
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I used to scoff at the idea of government plants on this site but now...Dodgy
08-13-2019 12:10 PM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
Know this :

+ you will not regret having the kids you did
+ most vegans now are going into full anti-humanity mode and sterilizing themselves
+ it's always the smart Western people who sterilize themselves
+ overpopulation is overvalued - we need more smart people and less dumb folk

Don't fall for the propaganda.
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
I think wanting a child, is strongly linking yourself to this reality.
Totally respect this idea, it just isn't mine.

I'll surely get a Vasectomy in the near future.
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08-15-2019 09:44 AM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
Two kids and got one post divorce. Dull pain for a couple of weeks after.

A fling came over and said hey I’m pregnant.

Awesome. Whose the dad?

Worth every penny.
08-15-2019 10:07 AM
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RE: Ever Thought About A Vasectomy?
(08-15-2019 05:21 AM)Simeon_Strangelight Wrote:  Know this :

+ you will not regret having the kids you did
+ most vegans now are going into full anti-humanity mode and sterilizing themselves
+ it's always the smart Western people who sterilize themselves
+ overpopulation is overvalued - we need more smart people and less dumb folk

Don't fall for the propaganda.

This man is right. I have a coworker, (((she))) commented about populations being too much, and I explained how white populations were being outbred and she seemed happy it was happening. Lefties are soooo guilty about being white, they want the race extinguished to assuage their guilt.
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(08-15-2019 09:44 AM)Latan Wrote:  I think wanting a child, is strongly linking yourself to this reality.
Totally respect this idea, it just isn't mine.

I'll surely get a Vasectomy in the near future.

Interesting philosophical thought process. It would be nice if you elaborated more on this. I always wonder why I haven't pull the trigger on the vasectomy yet.
08-15-2019 03:17 PM
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(08-12-2019 09:52 AM)takashi hanzo Wrote:  It's in my personal belief that some folks should not have kids, if they cannot support them - at the very least financially. I think that having children is a very big deal, and while no one would probably ever be ready, their should still be a strong foundation.


I don't care about passing on legacy. Kids would do what they want, no matter how you raise them. They'll piss on your sweat equity claiming it theirs, and with how the world is going I'm no excited raising a baby in it. Freezing my sperm is literally just insurance in case I have regrets down the road.

Thoughts?

You are correct. Some people should just not have kids. The poor and less intelligent outbreed the rich and more intelligent folks. They are the ones living on food stamps, section 8, and just dragging the system down as if things are really free.

That legacy thing always make me chuckle a bit. Most people are forgotten by the 3rd or 4th generation of children, unless you actually done something productive to benefit society. The majority just breed and let the system raise their kids while they go off doing their own thing.
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(08-15-2019 03:17 PM)SilentOne Wrote:  Interesting philosophical thought process. It would be nice if you elaborated more on this. I always wonder why I haven't pull the trigger on the vasectomy yet.

Ok, I'll elaborate on my personnal belief system, concerning this point.

To do so, I'd like to talk about what people consider Reality and themselves.
For most people, we are our body, our personnality, our Ego.
For example, one man will say "I am John Smith, born 1976, I work as an engineer, I enjoy rugby and painting, I went to this school, was born from these parents, etc".

I don't believe we are that, or more precisely not "only" that.
Using DMT, I was able to experience a short separation between my consciousness and my body.
I was able to see as the "soul" sees (in constrast with how we perceive, using our bodies' senses); to briefly visit a few other worlds; and more importantly to see "myself" from an external viewpoint, from the "real" me (soul / energy double / astral projection / intuition / inner shaman / god / source, call it as ou want).

This made me realize that my actual persona, my name, my body, my memories are just temporary.
They are only a little fraction of "me", and they will disappear, once the body I currently inhabit dies.
Will then only remain the "real" me, my core self, my soul.
This soul won't have a name, a personnality, a personnal history (or at least not the one I currently have, in this body).

I think creating children binds you to this reality, to your past body, once you die.
To me, we can explore an infinite number of realities, so I wouldn't want to bind myself to one.
This is as far as my little exploration goes, so I can't go any deeper on this topic (at least for now).
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I don't know how that bind would work if the child's body already has a consciousness in it when you past away. In natural life, the ego always try to protect itself and feel superior above others. I do believe we should look at others as if they were indeed us and treat them with a good heart.

However, this system we live in runs on hidden slavery such as a binding endless debt and putting others down to achieve more material rewards. And the indoctrination runs so deep. People are so scared of the truth and would rather live the fantasy lie. It's funny when you sit back and realize that the average Adult today are just being... A dolt. Stuck in modern slavery by design.
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(08-15-2019 04:38 PM)SilentOne Wrote:  I don't know how that bind would work if the child's body already has a consciousness in it when you past away.

I should have been clearer, indeed.

From my point of view, each object / animal / human we get attached to, is a binding to this world.
To me, a child is one of the most powerful one, as he's directly created from a part of the parent.
The emotional bound is thus much deeper than with, let's say, a dog.

Of course some people won't love their child, I'm just talking in a broad sense.
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(08-15-2019 05:30 PM)Latan Wrote:  
(08-15-2019 04:38 PM)SilentOne Wrote:  I don't know how that bind would work if the child's body already has a consciousness in it when you past away.

I should have been clearer, indeed.

From my point of view, each object / animal / human we get attached to, is a binding to this world.
To me, a child is one of the most powerful one, as he's directly created from a part of the parent.
The emotional bound is thus much deeper than with, let's say, a dog.

Of course some people won't love their child, I'm just talking in a broad sense.

Ok that's more clear and an interesting way to view things. I've never done DMT so I don't have that observation. Dreams however let's me know that there is more to life than moving on autopilot all day. In some ways life is like a dream, it just lasts longer from our perspective.
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I got mine done a few months ago. Im early 30s, no kids.
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(08-15-2019 10:07 AM)Reese1228 Wrote:  Two kids and got one post divorce. Dull pain for a couple of weeks after.

A fling came over and said hey I’m pregnant.

Awesome. Whose the dad?

Worth every penny.

I got the "I'm late on my period" phone call several years before I had mine done. Fortunately, it was a false alarm. When I was 35, a condom broke with a 20 year old and we had to go to the hospital and get her a NorLevo pill. I'm so glad those days about worrying about pregnancies are over and that I made it through unscathed. I don't know why people think vasectomies are for homosexuals when homosexuals can't get their boyfriends pregnant.
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I’d say this though:

If you don’t have kids yet think about it long and hard. My kids are my rock in life.
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I am already determined by this, but courage is lacking.

Letting a man move your balls is complicated.
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Spoke to the doc about this. Was told "you're very young, come back in a few years". Amazes me doctors can make decisions for other people.
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(08-17-2019 04:02 AM)fktax Wrote:  Spoke to the doc about this. Was told "you're very young, come back in a few years". Amazes me doctors can make decisions for other people.

It's called ethics. Destroying fertility is not healing. So it's his choice.
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