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Turning 31 New fears creeping in gaming girls help!
Hey guys I live in Tampa. And I am starting to think I am going to be getting too old to continue to game women at night clubs like where the college crowd goes. What do you guys think? Can it be bad game or just bad thoughts about the situation that I am 10 years older? Also am i at risk for law enforcements etc to be after me ?
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It's all in your mind. When I was in my early 30's I also thought I was old. I was also a new Father so that will really made me feel old.

Now that I'm middle age I look back at how I was in my absolute prime in my 30's and I did have some great times, though if I didn't let myself feel age-shamed it could've been even better.

Western culture tries to shame men about their age while putting boyish looks and behavior on a pedestal. It's been unconsciously ingrained into you through the culture since you were born.

I don't understand what you mean about law enforcement being after you?
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Lift heavy or go on TRT. Meditate. Don't say "hey guys!" under any circumstances. You're 31, not 19. The best years are ahead of you.

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(08-17-2019 09:26 AM)RawGod Wrote:  Lift heavy or go on TRT. Meditate. Don't say "hey guys!" under any circumstances. You're 31, not 19. The best years are ahead of you.

lol, TRT at 31, you're crazy...
19 is a shit age. In your 30s you have more financial wherewithal (hopefully) and more wisdom. 30s are way better than 20s my friend.
Best years only if you didn't take care of yourself. I'm definitely healthier now than I was in my late 20s and early 30s. I look better and am more fit than I was at 21. I had no idea how to deal with women in my 20s compared to now.

Look forward to your 30s, it's a great time for most men.
When you turn 40, there are actually more single chicks. I see plenty of older dudes here in Dallas with young chicks.
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ok, so I can still go to bars and college places where girls are 18-25 and not run into trouble? or looked at as a creeper? I have No kids never married etc, in good shape just didn't know if that "image" can be portrayed still in the states.
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(08-17-2019 09:03 AM)Fitman2018 Wrote:  Hey guys I live in Tampa. And I am starting to think I am going to be getting too old to continue to game women at night clubs like where the college crowd goes. What do you guys think? Can it be bad game or just bad thoughts about the situation that I am 10 years older? Also am i at risk for law enforcements etc to be after me ?

My guess: Its an issue for you because your physique and energy are set at a "getting older and more mellow" setting.

You need to get more physical mate. Throwing yourself around in your off time. If you aren't taking physical risks its going to translate into your vibe in the club.

And the young have bodies that are fast twitch, delicate of perception, almost liquid in their movements - across the board, even the fat shits - and its effortless for them.

If you bring a high physical energy they respond to it.
If you are physically getting more staid and careful they pick up on it and you seem like a different species to them.

Get a part time job on a construction site, throw your guts up from a morning of concreting some foundations, go to a club afterwards and when you see some younger chicks your only instinct will be "ours is a match made in evolutionary heaven"

Sit around like me bent over a smart phone, reading the Everything else thread, exasperated that the young baristas haven't brought my order yet and agonising over China's Role in the Next Millennia... then the vibe given off is more of an "old codger" vibe.
Which will get a frosty reception and, allied to the self consciousness and insecurities you mention, just turn it all into a negative spiral.

Think more Parkour, surfing, skateboarding, rugby, bar dives off balconies .. less full colourful lycra and fit-bits and GPS systems.

With the right approach, played right, then your 30's are an awesome decade filled with young chicks.

My two cents - use or disregard as you see fit.

EDIT: just noticed that your username was "FItman" in your profile, ha ha. so maybe its more psychological.

Bear in mind when I was 35 I had a (legal) 16 year old girlfriend. All the guys I knew and all her friends thought it was awesome. - then she dumped me, c'est la vie..
I used to love mentioning it - especially around middle aged feminists.
But now, not so much. Not in this shrieking Feminist Harpy society. Not on this forum either. Be prepared to get a few Old Testament sermons and doubled-down lectures on parenthood and degeneracy.
Society has gone very puritanical. In turn this forum is also, in its own way, getting very puritanical - often from people who, I would guess from their posts, have much red pill but zero game.
Im 44. My last girlfriend was 19.
There will always be people who give you shit. It happened to me as a 27 year old with an 18 year old girlfriend.
Learning to ignore/ overcome the puritans and societal shit is part of the game you are right.
You have to decide what's fine in your eyes first, and then just be "zero fucks given, no apologies" off the back of that.
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(08-17-2019 01:48 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(08-17-2019 09:03 AM)Fitman2018 Wrote:  Hey guys I live in Tampa. And I am starting to think I am going to be getting too old to continue to game women at night clubs like where the college crowd goes. What do you guys think? Can it be bad game or just bad thoughts about the situation that I am 10 years older? Also am i at risk for law enforcements etc to be after me ?

My guess: Its an issue for you because your physique and energy are set at a "getting older and more mellow" setting.

You need to get more physical mate. Throwing yourself around in your off time. If you aren't taking physical risks its going to translate into your vibe in the club.

And the young have bodies that are fast twitch, delicate of perception, almost liquid in their movements - across the board, even the fat shits - and its effortless for them.

If you bring a high physical energy they respond to it.
If you are physically getting more staid and careful they pick up on it and you seem like a different species to them.

Get a part time job on a construction site, throw your guts up from a morning of concreting some foundations, go to a club afterwards and when you see some younger chicks your only instinct will be "ours is a match made in evolutionary heaven"

Sit around like me bent over a smart phone, reading the Everything else thread, exasperated that the young baristas haven't brought my order yet and agonising over China's Role in the Next Millennia... then the vibe given off is more of an "old codger" vibe.
Which will get a frosty reception and, allied to the self consciousness and insecurities you mention, just turn it all into a negative spiral.

Think more Parkour, surfing, skateboarding, rugby, bar dives off balconies .. less full colourful lycra and fit-bits and GPS systems.

With the right approach, played right, then your 30's are an awesome decade filled with young chicks.

My two cents - use or disregard as you see fit.

EDIT: just noticed that your username was "FItman" in your profile, ha ha. so maybe its more psychological.

Bear in mind when I was 35 I had a (legal) 16 year old girlfriend. All the guys I knew and all her friends thought it was awesome. - then she dumped me, c'est la vie..
I used to love mentioning it - especially around middle aged feminists.
But now, not so much. Not in this shrieking Feminist Harpy society. Not on this forum either. Be prepared to get a few Old Testament sermons and doubled-down lectures on parenthood and degeneracy.
Society has gone very puritanical. In turn this forum is also, in its own way, getting very puritanical - often from people who, I would guess from their posts, have much red pill but zero game.
Im 44. My last girlfriend was 19.
There will always be people who give you shit. It happened to me as a 27 year old with an 18 year old girlfriend.
Learning to ignore/ overcome the puritans and societal shit is part of the game you are right.
You have to decide what's fine in your eyes first, and then just be "zero fucks given, no apologies" off the back of that.

I don't really see what you're saying, where do you live, Oklahoma? In NYC, it's completely normal to be doing the bar scene well into your 30s and 40s. It never really ends and there is no judgement to be had. Even in Dallas, I notice a wide range of ages at the bars.

Roosh dropped out of the night game scene pretty much by the time he hit his mid 30s - and focused almost entirely on day game. It's not the most effective venue anymore for meeting women and it can fuck with your sleep/energy to be out late drinking. I try to tell my (old) friends this who are stuck in the 90s, they don't listen to me - but clubs are bullshit in 2019. Everyone is online (dating apps) or you can try day game or doing events, but millennials and Gen Z in general are not big clubbers... When I go to clubs in 2019, it's mostly black and latino. A lot of clubs in DC had to be shut down due to violence. I'm not claiming there is a correlation... Angel
Best night game scene for pickup are neighborhood bars during the weekday.

So you really shouldn't asking the question "am I being creepy?" at a club being 31 (lol, 31 was the height of my bar scene antics), ask instead if you're really doing the most effective thing to meet women in 2019... usually the answer is no. You're probably wasting your money and health doing weekend club scene game, especially with college girls who are the flakiest and most social-circle focused group.
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