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STOP MAKING EXCUSES! NO EXCUSES THREAD!
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STOP MAKING EXCUSES! NO EXCUSES THREAD!
NOTE: ONLY POST HOW YOU ARE IMPROVING YOUR LIFE AND DATING SITUATION IN THIS THREAD. KEEP IT CONSTRUCTIVE AND POSITIVE. NO WHINING OR EXCUSES!

The ridiculous number of excuses on this forum for why guys can't get laid, can't get a girlfriend, can't even get a kiss, are endless.

Excuse 1: social media prevents me from getting laid. Dan Bilzerian must be getting all the pussy.

Excuse 2: all American/European women are fat and disgusting and too picky and.....

Excuse 3: all women are hypergamous: I need to be a 10 to attract a 5

Excuse 4: Eastern Europe was paradise until tinder/instagram/godzilla/mechagodzilla/babygodzilla destroyed it.

Excuse 5: "I can't get laid because women are married to their dogs."


Excuse 6: it's too scary to go to the bar alone. Impossible to find a wingman.

Excuse 7: all my wingmen are male 10's. My male model 10 wingmen make it impossible for me to get laid.

Excuse 8: I'm not tan or jacked enough. I can't get laid.


Excuse 9: Tinder ruined the philippines. Now I can't get laid.

Excuse 10: I only approach dimplomats, but they don't like me.


Excuses, excuses, excuses. Endless excuses. WTF is next? Dog ate my homework. Illuminati brain chip implant prevents me from approaching. Easter Bunny under my bed. My reptilian overlords forcing me to eat and drink GMO corn doritos and high fructose corn syrup mountain dew making me too fat to be loved. 7/11 ruined my life. Just stop. It's all bullsh*t.

Here's how to turn your situation around:

1. STOP MAKING EXCUSES. NO MORE EXCUSES EVER. ZERO. YOU ARE AN ADULT AND FULLY IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. WHEN THINGS DON'T GO YOUR WAY (TRUE FOR EVERYONE FROM TIME TO TIME), YOU HAVE FULL CONTROL OVER HOW YOU REACT TO ADVERSITY.

2. Identify SERIOUS weaknesses that you can improve upon.

3. make healthy, positive changes.

4. Enjoy WINNING.

If you are overweight, eat less and exercise more.

If you are not in prime health, make changes. Eat organic, eat more vegetables, take appropriate supplementation.

Identify areas of your appearance you can improve. Is it clothing? Skin? Hair? Body language? Posture? Be realistic, don't make excuses and IMPROVE.

If your finances aren't where they should be, do something different. Stop ordering $5 starbucks every morning. Get a $1 coffee or make your own at home. Don't reup to a new iphone every year. Stick with your current model for 3 years. Get a part time job, maybe meet new hotties at work. Outcompete your co-workers for a raise. Start a side hustle.

Instead of banging on your keyboard at home after work, go to the gym for an hour.

No friends? Attend a meetup. Check facebook for weekly social events.

Not good with public speaking? Go to toastmasters.

Bad teeth? Go to the dentist. Teeth whitening.

And don't lie on this forum. Impossible for some as there is zero accountability, but weird, exaggerated claims just make you look foolish and destroy the forum's credibility.

So, what have I done to improve?

1. appearance. I am currently 15 lbs overweight. I lost 5 lbs compared to last year. As a result, I am:

a. reducing portion sizes
b. eating more organics
c. exercising more: weight resistance and some aerobics at least 3 to 4x a week.

DO SOMETHING TO IMPROVE.
(This post was last modified: 08-20-2019 03:43 PM by reverup.)
08-20-2019 03:32 PM
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Good luck in your quest for improvement. But to be fair, there`s only so much that can be done with hard work. And if you have good genetics already, putting in that work will be much easier. It`s not like you`re burdened with an avalanche of problems.

We will stomp to the top with the wind in our teeth.

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08-20-2019 03:47 PM
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(08-20-2019 03:47 PM)Johnnyvee Wrote:  ...But...

Excuses are for losers. Next!
08-20-2019 03:48 PM
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(08-20-2019 03:48 PM)reverup Wrote:  
(08-20-2019 03:47 PM)Johnnyvee Wrote:  ...But...

Excuses are for losers. Next!

Example; (not meSmile)

I`m a 25 yo man with a 3 inch erect penis, and I want to get laid. What do I do next?

We will stomp to the top with the wind in our teeth.

George L. Mallory
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Whoah.

I like this thread.
08-20-2019 05:52 PM
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I like this thread and needed to read it.


My excuses were
"Tinder and social media FUCKED women's minds up and made them incapable of true love"
"Women are attention whores and will fuck their lives up just to get attention"
" You're always replaceable so what's the point in trying"

I should Quote Wiz Khalifa "Niggas be pressed for pussy
It ain't nothing
Instead of worrying about who that bitch fuckin'
Why don't you get you some money?"

Focus on you and your money and the women will flock, and even if they don't be happy with YOUR life.
08-20-2019 06:01 PM
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Stop making thread titles in all caps. It's annoying as hell.

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08-20-2019 09:48 PM
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I'll sit this one out. I don't make excuses, it's just that there are reasons why I can't do stuff. You wouldn't understand.

That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.

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08-21-2019 03:48 AM
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(08-21-2019 03:48 AM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  I'll sit this one out. I don't make excuses, it's just that there are reasons why I can't do stuff. You wouldn't understand.

Sorry to hear that man. Sometimes it just takes a simple step. Sleep has been a problem for me for a long time. I tried a tip someone told me about. I turned off wi-fi overnight.

I had some beautiful sweet dreams and woke up shortly after 6 AM alert, well rested and having enjoyed some beautiful dreams. No string of alarms necessary. I think I'll make a habit of this.
08-22-2019 01:30 PM
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Don't tell anyone.. What's the girl gonna do, run out of the bedroom?
08-22-2019 02:52 PM
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(08-20-2019 03:32 PM)reverup Wrote:  NOTE: ONLY POST HOW YOU ARE IMPROVING YOUR LIFE AND DATING SITUATION IN THIS THREAD. KEEP IT CONSTRUCTIVE AND POSITIVE. NO WHINING OR EXCUSES!

I couldn't help but post but I keep hearing something similar particularly from Kiwis/Aussies and self help circles. And I am wondering the psychology behind that kind of statement/mentality/way of thinking.

Personally, whining and negativity are often very constructive for me. But many Kiwis/Aussies lash out at me if I do them. I figure it's just better to avoid them, rather than completely change what I do to make them happy.

I'll stay out of the thread in future/make a separate thread if people want to have a meta psychoanalysis.
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(08-22-2019 01:30 PM)reverup Wrote:  
(08-21-2019 03:48 AM)Vladimir Poontang Wrote:  I'll sit this one out. I don't make excuses, it's just that there are reasons why I can't do stuff. You wouldn't understand.

Sorry to hear that man. Sometimes it just takes a simple step. Sleep has been a problem for me for a long time. I tried a tip someone told me about. I turned off wi-fi overnight.

I had some beautiful sweet dreams and woke up shortly after 6 AM alert, well rested and having enjoyed some beautiful dreams. No string of alarms necessary. I think I'll make a habit of this.

It's a joke, I was kidding.

That's not how we do things in Russia, comrade.

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08-23-2019 03:51 AM
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