Post: #1

As a red pilled conservative indian dude looking to settle down with one, do I have to worry about getting divorce raped, empty housed, or getting my penis chopped off while I sleep, as much as with other women? Not talking about fob women, but ones raised here in the US.

I would be targeting ones that are well educated and not too high on the looks scale as that's where the crazies tend to be (I'd say maybe a 7 would be my ideal). I look for submissiveness, the happy gene, and avoidance of social media.

I know they can be just as slutty as anyone else (I've had experiences with those but they were high on the looks scale, and unfortunately highly educated too.. which makes it tricky).

For some background my physique is top tier (I'm shredded and have size), my face is a 7-8 universally, I make six figures, have impeccable style, and have game.

I just can't help but feel that due to friends/family pressures these women are not as fucked up as others and will stay in line during a marriage (excluding the really hot ones).

Post: #2

Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Post: #3

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

Post: #4

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever read. There are lots of good reasons not to prefer an arranged marriage but this is not one of them.

Post: #5

(09-04-2019 10:47 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever read. There are lots of good reasons not to prefer an arranged marriage but this is not one of them.

Well, that's my belief and I stand by it. Every meaningful relationship I've had in life was because I had the balls to approach.

Edit: Let me rephrase. Replace cold approach with "make a move".

Post: #6

^^^^Calling it now, this guy is a either a keyboard warrior or a

Post: #7

(09-04-2019 11:16 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  ^^^^Calling it now, this guy is a either a keyboard warrior or a

Stop derailing my thread. It's not a troll post, there's nothing unreasonable about my view. If you don't have the balls to make a move, you fail natural selection, plain and simple. I believe 100% in biological roles as do most patriarchal men. Society is subverting the natural selection process and allowing shitty human beings to reproduce while the successful ones are reproducing less. Can't argue that.

That being said, still looking for input regarding indian women vs others.

Post: #8

Yeah, the relationship can be stronger if you pass some kind of selection test at the beginning, or near the beginning. However, dont let that put you off 'arranged' marriages, as that will still likely be the best way for you to meet the most suitable women. Arranged meetings can still introduce you to very picky girls who will test you from the first meeting, so it can still be a challenge if you want it. I've been in this situation myself on a few occasions.

Indian women are decent, not sure I get the question though? If that's what you want then go for it. Though you do come across as a bit of a 'bro', rating your looks, 'impeccable' dress, and salary and game etc, so you might be a bit young to really understand things fully.

Whether a woman stays 'in line' or not during a marriage has little to do with her, and everything to do with the societal and community influences around her. That is where you need to focus your energy to make sure things work out. Her friends, relatives, work, town etc.

Post: #9

When it comes to marriage, the race or ethnicity of a women is irrelevant. Its all about the environment she was raised in and/or more importantly where she currently resides in.

Post: #10

@tugofpeace

You may not be a troll, but you are definitely a keyboard warrior with little or no real-world experience with LTRs or with consistently laying women. I've read through some of your other posts and I can tell---too much red pill, not nearly enough game.

Let me give you a piece of advice that you won't take: if a quality woman is interested in building a life with you, don't rule her out because you didn't cold approach. If you don't know why this is good advice then you need to get off the internet, get into real life and accumulate some experiences with actual women.

I'd wish you good luck but guys like you wouldn't know what to do with it even if I did.

Post: #11

(09-04-2019 11:01 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:47 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever read. There are lots of good reasons not to prefer an arranged marriage but this is not one of them.

Well, that's my belief and I stand by it. Every meaningful relationship I've had in life was because I had the balls to approach.

Edit: Let me rephrase. Replace cold approach with "make a move".

If they were so "meaningful", why did they end and why multiple times?

Post: #12

(09-04-2019 11:54 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  @tugofpeace

You may not be a troll, but you are definitely a keyboard warrior with little or no real-world experience with LTRs or with consistently laying women. I've read through some of your other posts and I can tell---too much red pill, not nearly enough game.

Let me give you a piece of advice that you won't take: if a quality woman is interested in building a life with you, don't rule her out because you didn't cold approach. If you don't know why this is good advice then you need to get off the internet, get into real life and accumulate some experiences with actual women.

I'd wish you good luck but guys like you wouldn't know what to do with it even if I did.

You got me man. I'm a keyboard warrior with no experience. Everything I am, can be summarized in the few posts you've read about me.

Quote:If they were so "meaningful", why did they end and why multiple times?

How does a relationship being meaningful necessitate that it should last forever?

(09-04-2019 11:37 AM)mr_ks Wrote:  Yeah, the relationship can be stronger if you pass some kind of selection test at the beginning, or near the beginning. However, dont let that put you off 'arranged' marriages, as that will still likely be the best way for you to meet the most suitable women. Arranged meetings can still introduce you to very picky girls who will test you from the first meeting, so it can still be a challenge if you want it. I've been in this situation myself on a few occasions.

Indian women are decent, not sure I get the question though? If that's what you want then go for it. Though you do come across as a bit of a 'bro', rating your looks, 'impeccable' dress, and salary and game etc, so you might be a bit young to really understand things fully.

Whether a woman stays 'in line' or not during a marriage has little to do with her, and everything to do with the societal and community influences around her. That is where you need to focus your energy to make sure things work out. Her friends, relatives, work, town etc.

The only reason I gave personal info is for context. I assume you would be giving me different responses if I were an unattractive FOB asking this question. What would I have to gain by bragging on an anonymous forum?

Regardless, I do agree that outside influences matter heavily on a woman's behavior.

Post: #13

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

I agree with this.
The haters in this thread expose their impotence

Post: #14

India is a developing, modernizing country, so in the 2020s "arranged marriage" doesn't mean you don't have to do the work of seducing your bride, she will have the final say and she will still have a choice of eligible bachelors. Arranged marriage means that the target bride has had your parents' seal of approval. If you've had a decent upbringing and good parents, that endorsement is very helpful, you'd be foolish to ignore this. It also means you're more likely to have a harmonious relationship with her extended circle and in-laws, which means a more stable marriage.

I have a close friend who is Filipino, older NorCal buddy, huge player and serial slayer. When he was in his late 30s, he was still getting bogged down with good-looking high maintenance white women from broken homes.

After a breakup, his sisters set him up with a cute, chaste and pious college graduate from The Islands, with whom he had a whirlwind romance. They got engaged only a few weeks later and he has had a storybook marital life. She's had a very good influence on him, bringing out the best in him, and they're raising healthy, conservative daughters in the heart of the beast, San Francisco.

Note that he still had to seduce her, but the tight social circle connection meant that the conditions for this were a lot more conducive to a solid romance blossoming.

In the West we don't do these kinds of arranged marriages, but there are still aspects of that in the form of meeting a prospective bride through your closest social circle, which is more likely to yield to a stable marriage than meeting someone in a more random situation. It's like buying your meat or eggs from the organic farm next to your country home instead of getting them from the local supermarket chain.

Post: #15

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

99% of humanity reproduced without cold approaches.

If anything, you have it completely backwards. Man is a political animal that exists in groups, earning approval of the tribe to secure a marriage has been the norm for perhaps millions of years. Cold approach never meant **** except in doomed societies like ours, or Rome's.

Post: #16

(09-04-2019 01:58 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  

(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

99% of humanity reproduced without cold approaches.

If anything, you have it completely backwards. Man is a political animal that exists in groups, earning approval of the tribe to secure a marriage has been the norm for perhaps millions of years. Cold approach never meant **** except in doomed societies like ours, or Rome's.

Part of the reason why I wish we could edit posts after 60 minutes.. is this. What I really meant by cold approach, was making a move, which I mention above.

My perception of arranged marriage (and I recently just attended the wedding of one) is that after the marriage, the husband and wife are literally escorted to a private room to consummate the marriage. Usually the only qualification on the man's end for this is that he gets along with the family and has a good salary. No courage required.

Post: #17

Indian women have bobs and vagene like all other women, right?

Post: #18

(09-04-2019 02:31 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  Indian women have bobs and vagene like all other women, right?

Not quite as nice as your moms' bobs and vagene, but yes

Post: #19

seems like you are an ABCD, if you are interested in something arranged. 90% you won't get a submissive chick. Indian cities like Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai are developed enough where majority of the middle class attends some sort of university or collage. Factor in a Influence from bollywood, the easy access to english and english related medium of shows. Most of the time these chicks become hard to manage and end up become the alpha in the house. They will still cook and clean but also have you by the leash. Make you count every cent. Many of the "home" decisions will be hers first. Visiting her parents every weekend, attending community gatherings, watching ranbir singh, do Pooja. Do you do these things?

You could try to finding a match from a village or such. But in most cases you won't have commonalities. Avoid Villages from Punjab, its essentially a middle income state now with almost every village having multiple people that have emigrated to the west bringing back western ideas and customs.

If you want a decent western Indian chick you have to break into the Indian circle. Which means Bollywood dance, Religious duties, being a good boy to you uncles, following Indian politics, being part of the local South Asian group. You can find them outside of these circles but tbh those are worth it. Theres a reason why their aren't in those circles.

Post: #20

Indian women born in India that made their way to the USA are the worst. Essentially if they are well off enough to be in the USA, they are 100% sure to be suffering from princess jasmine syndrome "My daughter will get whatever she wants!"(the sheik from Aladdin talking there).

If they grew up in the USA then they are your average ordinary American basic girl, for better or worse.

Post: #21

Indian women age the worst out of all ethnicities.

They all get fat and unshapely and their face just sags like an old mans nut sack. They also get the panda eyes.

TDK

Post: #22

(09-04-2019 03:14 PM)22qwert22 Wrote:  seems like you are an ABCD, if you are interested in something arranged. 90% you won't get a submissive chick. Indian cities like Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai are developed enough where majority of the middle class attends some sort of university or collage. Factor in a Influence from bollywood, the easy access to english and english related medium of shows. Most of the time these chicks become hard to manage and end up become the alpha in the house. They will still cook and clean but also have you by the leash. Make you count every cent. Many of the "home" decisions will be hers first. Visiting her parents every weekend, attending community gatherings, watching ranbir singh, do Pooja. Do you do these things?

You could try to finding a match from a village or such. But in most cases you won't have commonalities. Avoid Villages from Punjab, its essentially a middle income state now with almost every village having multiple people that have emigrated to the west bringing back western ideas and customs.

If you want a decent western Indian chick you have to break into the Indian circle. Which means Bollywood dance, Religious duties, being a good boy to you uncles, following Indian politics, being part of the local South Asian group. You can find them outside of these circles but tbh those are worth it. Theres a reason why their aren't in those circles.

My family is from a Punjabi village. I don't agree with you. A lot of the girls are raised under very strict environments and most of them have no interest in Hollywood movies & western culture - they love Indian entertainment too much. I have relatives married to Punjabi village women and they’re very happy.

The vast majority of my UK born and raised female cousins had arranged marriages with UK Indian guys.

OP should go for a UK born and raised Indian woman. Most of them are not SJWs like Indian-Americans.

Post: #23

(09-04-2019 09:58 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  As a red pilled conservative indian dude looking to settle down with one, do I have to worry about getting divorce raped, empty housed, or getting my penis chopped off while I sleep, as much as with other women? Not talking about fob women, but ones raised here in the US.

I would be targeting ones that are well educated and not too high on the looks scale as that's where the crazies tend to be (I'd say maybe a 7 would be my ideal). I look for submissiveness, the happy gene, and avoidance of social media.

I know they can be just as slutty as anyone else (I've had experiences with those but they were high on the looks scale, and unfortunately highly educated too.. which makes it tricky).

For some background my physique is top tier (I'm shredded and have size), my face is a 7-8 universally, I make six figures, have impeccable style, and have game.

I just can't help but feel that due to friends/family pressures these women are not as fucked up as others and will stay in line during a marriage (excluding the really hot ones).

I think a lot depends on the age of the woman (assume you're talking about East Indian women as opposed to Native Americans). Older Indian women are more likely to follow their cultural traditions: marriage is to the death. In fact in India now many places the woman will be outcast after her husband has died or worse if she is screwing around.
Also tradition in India at least treats marriage is required and is treated more like selection for position as a job-you have to meet the financial, educational, etc prerequisites. By "older" I mean above 30 or so.
Young Indian women depends on where they have been raised. If in the USA, forget it, they are the same as all other western chicks, unless they come from strict, old fashioned family. Just my opinion-take it or leave it.

Post: #24

Others and yourself may not agree with me, but trust no woman, including your mother, wether she is Indian or any other nationality. That's my advice.

Post: #25

Let me get this right, you're top tier (shredded and have size), your face is a 7-8 universally, you make six figures, have impeccable style, got game and you're asking for advice on what exactly?
It sounds like you already have enough experience dating US based women of the same ethnicity as you, maybe you should be telling us
Elaborate more on the slutty ones?