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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
(09-04-2019 10:48 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Indian women age the worst out of all ethnicities.

They all get fat and unshapely and their face just sags like an old mans nut sack. They also get the panda eyes.

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I think the issue is they just don't take care of themselves as much. The ones I've seen who work out etc look fine. Which IMO is true of almost any race. I feel like white women age the fastest but tend to keep themselves in shape (at least in affluent areas) so it balances out.

With regards to OP, most immigrant cultures are at least a little more traditional than mainstream American culture. Most second gen immigrant marriages I've seen last pretty well. Conversely every other black or white guy I meet comes from a single parent household so take that as you will. It's not really racial either, I've noticed Russians, Africans, and Chinese people tend to stick to their marriages as well in the US.
09-05-2019 12:27 AM
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I’m jealous as fuck

Indian, Arab, Pakistani dudes have the game on easy mode for LTR.

Women have to marry their own kind and the monied/ nerdy ones, usually get women that look better then then. Benefits of patriarchy, I suppose.

White dudes have to deal with feminism. Chinese dudes have to deal with competition from the highest value dude, the white man and have highly sought after women. Black dudes have no patriarchy and most of their women aren’t much of a prize.

Indians, Arabs, Pakistanis got their women on lock - like no other. They know if they step out of line , they’ll get.... at best ... a disowning.

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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
^I'm Persian in the US. I wouldn't really agree with that. Most Middle Eastern and Indian women here won't get "at best a disowning" lol for marrying out. You're in the UK which gets hyper conservative Muslims. Here plenty of brown women date white or black guys and no one really gives a shit. Persian girls love black dudes out here from what I've seen.

What you're saying is kind of true when it comes to FOBs. I couldn't believe my eyes the other weekend, I saw a bunch of hot Indian FOB women with okay looking FOB dudes. And of course Middle Eastern FOB women are usually loyal but there are barely any where I live.
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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
My man, you need to come to the UK.

These brown folk will disown a woman with a quickness for getting with a white guy. Hell, we get honour beatings and even killings over here.

No word of a lie.

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09-05-2019 01:39 AM
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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
(09-05-2019 01:39 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  My man, you need to come to the UK.

These brown folk will disown a woman with a quickness for getting with a white guy. Hell, we get honour beatings and even killings over here.

No word of a lie.

I think you may be confusing Indian women (mainly Hindu) with Pakistani women (Muslim).
09-05-2019 01:59 AM
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There are honour killings in the UK Hindu and Sikh communities as well.
09-05-2019 02:46 AM
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Yeah true. I work in an industry with tonnes and trust me, the stories these women tell me.

And , yeah, Pakistani Muslims have sky high birth defect rates in UK. “ Keeping it in the family,” I was told.

These dudes don’t play around with their women.

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09-05-2019 04:09 AM
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^Hows about sharing some of those stories here mate?
09-05-2019 08:38 AM
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anyone game international students?

Here in Canada the local colleges and universities are full of international students from India.
09-05-2019 08:47 AM
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Interesting. So you would turn down a woman who approached you? If your parents lived long enough to have you, that is natural selection. Turning down a potential mate because you feel like you don't deserve her, even when she is willing (regardless how she came to meet you) is a cuck philosophy propagated by media to make you establish artificial selection against yourself when there is no natural selection against you. You live long enough to meet her, and she says yes, those are the two elements of natural selection. Resist the media brainwashing. If you always say no to meaningful relationships you don't approach on, of course your only meaningful relationships will be ones you approach on.
(09-04-2019 11:01 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  
(09-04-2019 10:47 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  
(09-04-2019 10:27 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  
(09-04-2019 10:26 AM)scotian Wrote:  Just ask your folks to arrange a marriage for you.

Nah man. I couldn't live with myself if I got married to someone I didn't cold approach. To me that's cheating natural selection, if one isn't confident enough to lead every step of the way, he shouldn't be passing off his genes.

This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever read. There are lots of good reasons not to prefer an arranged marriage but this is not one of them.

Well, that's my belief and I stand by it. Every meaningful relationship I've had in life was because I had the balls to approach.

Edit: Let me rephrase. Replace cold approach with "make a move".
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09-05-2019 09:12 AM
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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
(09-05-2019 04:09 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  Yeah true. I work in an industry with tonnes and trust me, the stories these women tell me.

And , yeah, Pakistani Muslims have sky high birth defect rates in UK. “ Keeping it in the family,” I was told.

These dudes don’t play around with their women.

TDK

Yeah I think it's mostly economic. The brown people who come to America are usually middle class or better in their home country. The ones who come to Europe are usually dirt poor even if their descendants do better financially. Canadians from the sounds of it are in between. I read a story about Iranian immigrants in Sweden beating each other up for "acting white" in school. This would be unthinkable in the US. Similarly I read about Iranians hopping borders into Europe while the number of illegal Iranians in the states is probably in the single digits.

Seems pretty fucked though, I have zero desire to go to the UK. Every Brit I meet in the states refuses to go back except for holiday.
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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
(09-05-2019 12:08 AM)Bazzwaldo Wrote:  Let me get this right, you're top tier (shredded and have size), your face is a 7-8 universally, you make six figures, have impeccable style, got game and you're asking for advice on what exactly?
It sounds like you already have enough experience dating US based women of the same ethnicity as you, maybe you should be telling us
Elaborate more on the slutty ones?

I don't have experience dating indian women. My first girlfriend was white. The only experience I have physically with an indian girl, is a drunk hookup (she was the head of her sorority).

The things I have seen though suggest that there are plenty of indian women raised here in the states with good morals and who would make good wives. However, the opposite is also true - I have seen how hypergamous they can be (the sorority girls in college), and how they would trade up in a heartbeat if an alpha came along (which I have also seen). Even the most studious and moral ones will put out for an alpha regardless of their relationship status. I've seen this because my roommate was said alpha (indian) and he did this numerous times. The guy was one of those rare true alphas, not an aggressive overcompensating type. He was a natural leader of people.

The reason for this thread is that by RVF logic:

All women are sluts
All women lie, cheat, and steal
Men should not marry women
Men should get a written agreement before having sex and should have the entire encounter filmed to avoid rape charges
All women are hypergamous and will drop a guy if something better comes along
All women are feminists
Men should go MGTOW and drop out of the dating game to avoid getting divorce raped or cheated on

Based on my personal experience however, I don't believe the above to be true for every girl. I'm trying to understand how much of a risk it is with indian women, who I believe to have better morals/upbringing than other ethnicities due to cultural differences.
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09-05-2019 10:50 AM
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OP, you live in the US and are seriously going to enter into a marriage despite full well knowing the nature of how marriage laws treat men and the statistical outcomes of marriages in the USA? Well, each to their own ...

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RE: How do indian women fare in the marriage market compared to other ethnicities?
(09-05-2019 11:04 AM)KnjazMihailo Wrote:  OP, you live in the US and are seriously going to enter into a marriage despite full well knowing the nature of how marriage laws treat men and the statistical outcomes of marriages in the USA? Well, each to their own ...

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I would bet money that the statistical outcome of marriages is far better with indian couples than non indian. This is why I'm considering it.

Edit: From the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery...edirect=on

"While the U.S. government doesn’t track the divorce rate for Indian Americans specifically, expert estimates range from 1 percent to 15 percent, compared to a divorce rate of 44 percent for all Americans. (In India, divorce is even less common – just one in 1,000 marriages ends in divorce.)"
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(09-05-2019 11:06 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  I would bet money that the statistical outcome of marriages is far better with indian couples than non indian. This is why I'm considering it.

Edit: From the Washington Post: https://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery...edirect=on

"While the U.S. government doesn’t track the divorce rate for Indian Americans specifically, expert estimates range from 1 percent to 15 percent, compared to a divorce rate of 44 percent for all Americans. (In India, divorce is even less common – just one in 1,000 marriages ends in divorce.)"

Well, that's your choice then. All I know is that I will never get married in any country with marriage laws that are as similarly draconian toward men as they are in the USA.

If you're right, you've just answered your own problem. It would make this whole thread pointless to begin with.

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OP, this thread is gonna stress you out. You are an Indian guy and you are asking this, a non-indian forum, about whether you should marry an indian girl.

Yeah, its true most Indian girls are more traditional than the average American. So, if you wanna get married, find the one for you and quit the pointless arguing on the forum.
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(09-04-2019 11:01 AM)tugofpeace Wrote:  
(09-04-2019 10:47 AM)Buck Wild Wrote:  This is probably the dumbest thing I've ever read. There are lots of good reasons not to prefer an arranged marriage but this is not one of them.

Well, that's my belief and I stand by it. Every meaningful relationship I've had in life was because I had the balls to approach.

OK, but what about your analysis?

Do you stand by your analysis?
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(09-05-2019 01:39 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  My man, you need to come to the UK.

These brown folk will disown a woman with a quickness for getting with a white guy. Hell, we get honour beatings and even killings over here.

No word of a lie.

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I thought it was more about a) expectation of virginity until marriage regardless of who the guy is and b) religion rather than race? IE most families would be OK with their daughter marrying (but not having premarital sex with) a white or black guy who was a convert to Islam?

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(09-06-2019 10:16 AM)Dr Mantis Toboggan Wrote:  
(09-05-2019 01:39 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  My man, you need to come to the UK.

These brown folk will disown a woman with a quickness for getting with a white guy. Hell, we get honour beatings and even killings over here.

No word of a lie.

TDK

I thought it was more about a) expectation of virginity until marriage regardless of who the guy is and b) religion rather than race? IE most families would be OK with their daughter marrying (but not having premarital sex with) a white or black guy who was a convert to Islam?

Nope. South Asian societies are the most racist groups of people you will meet. They want religion and race. Families will disown their children if they marry out of the caste.

Here is an article that was making headlines. Basically the daughter married an untouchable and the father law ordered a hit. Same religion and same ethnicity but different caste.

https://www.scmp.com/magazines/post-maga...iage-ended
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OP I respect your decision on choosing a mate instead of an arranged marriage. Having grown up with parents of an arraigned marriage I have seen what a facade it really is. Most non-Indian people arguing for arranged marriage have never grown up seeing their parents get into screaming matches over the little of things everyday. Yes divorce rates are low but that is because of divorce is culturally frowned upon and every member of the family is basically disowned by the whole community when a divorce occurs.

By choosing who you want at least at the end of the day you can say you chose her and not constantly resent your own parents or your in-laws for putting you into this relationship. And it will allow you to screen someone you have some shared interests. A 1 hour conversation will never gauge how will you will mesh with someone for the rest of your life.

Now onto how Indian women (you want ones who were raised here) fare against other ethnicity, well the odds are in their favor. Female abortions are very popular in Indian communities in the West and there is surplus of men than women. So your competition will be harder.

Now onto how traditional they will be. Most Indian communities don't assimilate well. Sure on the outside they may appear to have assimilated but deep down a huge majority still follow their silly customs and religions. She might not be as good cook as one back home but I guarantee she will be with you in those massive 5 family households and follow all traditional roles she is supposed to do.

Also your wife will be ostracized if she dares to divorce you. She will be scared of leaving you because of fear of being disowned by Indian community. Most grow up with a network of relatives and community members for their whole lives and never once have had to be on their own. So they are fearful of losing these connections and facing change.
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