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Broke up with my gf because of her past
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
In the past this forum would have advised you keep banging her while you find another girl, but hey at least you have your morals and your right palm.

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09-13-2019 10:42 AM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
My own thoughts are that you should be happy, you have dodged a bullet sir. It's amazing that she has told you the truth (or a lie that has led you to take the right decision because it's likely that she have had more than 10 ONS).

I know that it hurts now but just have to see things from different angle:

-there was no marriage and no children. This basically means that you don't have to pay alimony to anyone or you will have to through the ordeal of divorce
-2 years is not a lot of time. You really haven't invested much time on that girl/
-I am pretty sure that you have learnt quite a lot things that will be helpful for your future relationships.
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09-13-2019 11:15 AM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
(09-11-2019 10:46 AM)General Mayhem Wrote:  Who here has actually followed the advice that Roosh laid out here for any meaningful period of time?

I don't think you can live like a heathen only looking for women in the worst possible places in the west and still bitch that there aren't any unicorns to be found.

The forum is taking a turn but right now it seems like there is more theory being discussed than anything else. It's going to take some guys actually hitting the ground with these new ideas to see what's possible.

Just like the old game where you had to log a lot of approaches, this new game will require similar discipline and persistence but in a different manner.

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. For guys in our position, I honestly don't know how realistic it is to set our sights immediately on finding virgins. Current state, are we the kind of men who deserve to have them? If you believe in god, do you really think he is going to deliver a virgin just because you had a change of ideology?

Let's be honest about the situation on the ground right now. Like it or not, right now the virgin brides are mostly going to the going to young virgin husbands, highschool sweethearts, etc. Last night my mom told me about her co-worker's daughter getting married at 18 to a guy who she had been with for years in high school.

You can't just decide one day to play the new game and expect virgins anymore than you could just decide to become a playboy and slay 10s in the old game.

One thing I committed to as my relationship with my fiance was ending was that wouldn't let the breakup poison my mind. The last thing I need is to be infected with a doomer mentality.

This is truth. There is idealism and practicality. Notch count is also a very flawed metric, because as Loremipsum said, "The only difference between a notch count of 3 and 10 is time". A slut will always be a slut at heart. Catching her at 1 notch doesn't remove the red flag.

If guys are to be truly successful in finding a long term relationship, judging their moral compass must take far higher precedent over her notch count, otherwise I'm afraid most of the men here will remain single and jaded.
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09-13-2019 11:26 AM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
Keep in mind thats """10""" ONS from BARS.
Not to mention notches before adult age, or from Tinder, or festivals, or travelling, or girls night outs.

Makes me sick and makes me want to puke.
I am angry at myself for letting it even go this far.
There's a limit to how many men you can imagine blasting onto your "future wife" before going insane and losing all feelings
you had for a woman.

Guys, I'm pretty sure this is karma from pumping and dumping a virgin who was really into me at one time in my life.
Like a faustian deal "Oh you don't like virgins, well here's extra not-virgin for you".
I got what I deserved.
(This post was last modified: 09-13-2019 02:01 PM by loremipsum.)
09-13-2019 01:50 PM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
(09-13-2019 01:50 PM)loremipsum Wrote:  Keep in mind thats """10""" ONS from BARS.
Not to mention notches before adult age, or from Tinder, or festivals, or travelling, or girls night outs.

Makes me sick and makes me want to puke.
I am angry at myself for letting it even go this far.
There's a limit to how many men you can imagine blasting onto your "future wife" before going insane and losing all feelings
you had for a woman.

Guys, I'm pretty sure this is karma from pumping and dumping a virgin who was really into me at one time in my life.
Like a faustian deal "Oh you don't like virgins, well here's extra not-virgin for you".
I got what I deserved.

ONS count, rather than notch count should be the biggest red flag to look out for and I think 0 is the ideal number. 99% of men over the age of 20 aren't finding a virgin, but women who actually value sex are out there.
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09-13-2019 02:08 PM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
(09-13-2019 01:50 PM)loremipsum Wrote:  Keep in mind thats """10""" ONS from BARS.
Not to mention notches before adult age, or from Tinder, or festivals, or travelling, or girls night outs.

Makes me sick and makes me want to puke.
I am angry at myself for letting it even go this far.
There's a limit to how many men you can imagine blasting onto your "future wife" before going insane and losing all feelings
you had for a woman.

Guys, I'm pretty sure this is karma from pumping and dumping a virgin who was really into me at one time in my life.
Like a faustian deal "Oh you don't like virgins, well here's extra not-virgin for you".
I got what I deserved.




"Surely you joust."

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09-13-2019 06:48 PM
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RE: Broke up with my gf because of her past
I personally believe that even if a meaningful relationship/marriage is your goal you shouldn't forget what women are. Women are sexual creatures. They love sex and they all lack the rational mind to reflect their behaviors and moral codex. My ex gf was agreeing 100% with my views and we talked a lot about conservatism, Jordan Peterson and generally the bad influence of our society and leftist. But she wasn't agreeing because she really believed it, she agreed because she loved me. A few weeks later she dumped me because I became beta/unattractive.

My points is, even if you try to fulfill your ideals and moral beliefs don't forget what women are. Don't expect virgins and perfect girls. You yourself had many sexual encounters, you have the sin so why you expect her to be clean? Search for a relatively smart and good girl and make the best of it and if you get burned, remember why you have accepted that risk.
09-14-2019 09:05 AM
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