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Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
(09-17-2019 06:13 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  ...After some time she responded with "Ok let's do movie and ice cream at your place. You pick the movie I'll pick the ice cream."

Picked her up at her house and consummated with non-RVF approved premarital activities within 60 minutes. All she needed was a bullshit thin veil of plausibility. Ridiculous...

That part hasn't changed. They just need something. Start around 9:30 for a play by play.

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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
(09-17-2019 06:13 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  
(09-15-2019 01:20 PM)questor70 Wrote:  
(09-14-2019 10:46 AM)Easy_C Wrote:  Also since when are these “dating apps”?

We're talking about women here. Even women explicitly looking for hookups rarely cop to it and reach for the euphemism.

On Tinder, I invited a 20 year old girl to my apartment for a first date. She balked and said, "Uh do you usually invite people to your apartment for a first date?"
I forget what I responded with. And she said, "well thanks but no thanks, I'm looking for a boyfriend not a hookup"

I said, "I'm looking for a girlfriend. But it's hard to tell if we will get along if we don't meet and spend some time together. I can tell you've been hurt before, and I understand that you're hesitant to put yourself out there again."

After some time she responded with "Ok let's do movie and ice cream at your place. You pick the movie I'll pick the ice cream."

Picked her up at her house and consummated with non-RVF approved premarital activities within 60 minutes. All she needed was a bullshit thin veil of plausibility. Ridiculous...

You have to overcome the "slut, slut, slut" mantra she is thinking in her head. It doesn't take much. I was teaching my recently divorced friend this the other day haha.
09-17-2019 09:11 PM
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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
(09-17-2019 09:11 PM)Swordfish1010 Wrote:  
(09-17-2019 06:13 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  
(09-15-2019 01:20 PM)questor70 Wrote:  
(09-14-2019 10:46 AM)Easy_C Wrote:  Also since when are these “dating apps”?

We're talking about women here. Even women explicitly looking for hookups rarely cop to it and reach for the euphemism.

On Tinder, I invited a 20 year old girl to my apartment for a first date. She balked and said, "Uh do you usually invite people to your apartment for a first date?"
I forget what I responded with. And she said, "well thanks but no thanks, I'm looking for a boyfriend not a hookup"

I said, "I'm looking for a girlfriend. But it's hard to tell if we will get along if we don't meet and spend some time together. I can tell you've been hurt before, and I understand that you're hesitant to put yourself out there again."

After some time she responded with "Ok let's do movie and ice cream at your place. You pick the movie I'll pick the ice cream."

Picked her up at her house and consummated with non-RVF approved premarital activities within 60 minutes. All she needed was a bullshit thin veil of plausibility. Ridiculous...

You have to overcome the "slut, slut, slut" mantra she is thinking in her head. It doesn't take much. I was teaching my recently divorced friend this the other day haha.

Actually you first have to start the "slut, slut, slut" mantra in her head (and nether parts), before giving her any paper-thin excuse at rationalizing said mantra.
09-18-2019 05:22 AM
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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
(09-14-2019 11:08 AM)Eazy_E Wrote:  I dated a girl for 8 months I met off tinder. She was pretty cute, nice flat stomach, blonde, but she was also kinda high strung and I'm more relaxed so that was an issue. Honestly, if it weren't for a couple things, she could have maybe been a long time girl, not just a good time girl. It ultimately didn't work, I was inexperienced in the ways, she felt I wasn't ready to settle down with just one girl, stuff happens.

I had to sift a lot of chaff to find that one kernel of wheat though. She goes, maybe we outta have a break, I'm thinking, yeah whatever, fuck you I'm tight laced now, I'll get your replacement in under a week. Yeah well, two years of chaff sifting later, still haven't found a kernel of wheat as good as she was, despite the problems she had.

I dunno what I'm trying to say, but in the three years that have gone from me first meeting her, to the breakup, to the dating life lately, the chaff has multiplied and the wheat is way down.

This has been my experience as well as another forum members friend I recently met up with discussed this with over lunch. Years ago I was easily finding higher quality women on Tinder and OKC(I say higher quality a bit tounge in cheek) but now it appears the well is drying up.
09-18-2019 12:49 PM
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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
I tend to think hinge is the higher quality app these days. Tinder is pretty much Vaudeville anymore. Plus with hinge, you can sort by ethnicity, height, kids, yadda yadda yadda.

I don't get any more matches or results from hinge, tinder, or bumble. They're all about equal for that.
09-18-2019 01:02 PM
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My experience with Tinder back when I was fornicating can be summed by this beautiful artistic piece.



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(09-15-2019 12:52 PM)Eazy_E Wrote:  I mean I'm 6'4, I'm not hideous, pretty blue eyes, and mighty funny if you can get used to the fact that my sense of humor is really dry. I travel and in my home life, I read two or three books a week, and I have legitimate hobbies and interests.

I don't want to sound like a narcissistic prick, but I'm pretty close to perfect except for the fact that I'm not rich and even a real specimen like me has trouble in my home market of St Louis, MO. I mean for a girl to swipe left on me or let the conversation die, you gotta be diseased in the fucking head, but it happens all the time. I can look around, the world isn't drowning in 6'4 strapping lads like me, so I got no idea what these girls are thinking.

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09-18-2019 03:43 PM
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(09-17-2019 05:54 PM)Mikeyd03 Wrote:  Met the girl who redpilled me off tinder.

Lasted about 6 months, but I caught feelings quick. Long story short chick was an alcoholic. Lost her car from a dui...dumped me the week she got it back. Being a genuine, bluepilled guy I couldn't put two and two together. Lesson learned.

This is the type of woman you find on tinder. Low quality.

On top of that you risk your self esteem. You can be in shape, educated, and even have a decent job...no matter.

The top tier guys in a 150 mile radius are on tap for the 5-7's to get pumped and dumped. Online dating is largely a waste of time for the average man...a net loss.
Sad, but true.

This is an unfortunate story. But you should know these women existed before Tinder. Heck, they existed before you were born. At least with Tinder they're now all corralled into one sleazy corner. Back when I was young, you didn't know what you were getting in the real world.

Example (which is a story I told on here before). In college I dated a "townie" a few years younger. She was nice enough, not stupid, and I took to her because she was salt-of-the-earth-ish. She seemed a little sleazy, but I was tired of preppie college girls so I kind of liked that. Little did I know.

One night she phoned me, telling me she'd spent part of the weekend in a motel with her best friend and two "gangstas" (this is the Baltimore area, so you know that word is bad news). Her best friend bet her she didn't have nerve to have sex with both "gangstas" at the same time. So she had a threesome as her friend looked on.

She told me this after we'd gone out on about three dates. Needless to say, there was no fourth date. When I tried to press her for some insight into this whole encounter, all she could offer was "It was a bet."

I'm guessing this beats most Tinder horror stories. The difference is, I was shocked. I'd have been less blindsided had I found her on Tinder because of the low expectations I'd have gone in with.
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RE: Tinder turns 5, and dating circles the drain....
(09-19-2019 06:50 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  
(09-17-2019 05:54 PM)Mikeyd03 Wrote:  Met the girl who redpilled me off tinder.

Lasted about 6 months, but I caught feelings quick. Long story short chick was an alcoholic. Lost her car from a dui...dumped me the week she got it back. Being a genuine, bluepilled guy I couldn't put two and two together. Lesson learned.

This is the type of woman you find on tinder. Low quality.

On top of that you risk your self esteem. You can be in shape, educated, and even have a decent job...no matter.

The top tier guys in a 150 mile radius are on tap for the 5-7's to get pumped and dumped. Online dating is largely a waste of time for the average man...a net loss.
Sad, but true.

This is an unfortunate story. But you should know these women existed before Tinder. Heck, they existed before you were born. At least with Tinder they're now all corralled into one sleazy corner. Back when I was young, you didn't know what you were getting in the real world.

Example (which is a story I told on here before). In college I dated a "townie" a few years younger. She was nice enough, not stupid, and I took to her because she was salt-of-the-earth-ish. She seemed a little sleazy, but I was tired of preppie college girls so I kind of liked that. Little did I know.

One night she phoned me, telling me she'd spent part of the weekend in a motel with her best friend and two "gangstas" (this is the Baltimore area, so you know that word is bad news). Her best friend bet her she didn't have nerve to have sex with both "gangstas" at the same time. So she had a threesome as her friend looked on.

She told me this after we'd gone out on about three dates. Needless to say, there was no fourth date. When I tried to press her for some insight into this whole encounter, all she could offer was "It was a bet."

I'm guessing this beats most Tinder horror stories. The difference is, I was shocked. I'd have been less blindsided had I found her on Tinder because of the low expectations I'd have gone in with.

Ah yes, "Townies" brings back memories. Nice girls for sure, but with a hidden deviance that doesn't reveal itself till later. I had a ONS with a Townie back when I was in college. Cute girl and though i tried pursuing things further, she wanted no part of that. What was funny about your story that reminded me of my stint is that this townie ALSO had a threesome with 2 jamals(she was white ofc).... I only found this out because I still had her on snapchat and i guess drunkenly, she uploaded a video of her and the two thugs with liquor all over some sleezy looking place. needless to say, she removed the video first thing in the morning, but everyone who saw that already knew the deal.

She's now married to some other local schmuck and they have a kid together. Crazy how these girls try to live out their degeneracy first before settling down, but at least this one was smart enough to get married and knocked up in her early 20s.
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I dated a booze-fueled chick who was pretty hot, but even for my young 20-something liver it was tough to keep up. Eventually it got to be too much and she was a side piece anyway. I moved from the area & forgot all about her and her tattoos (they stuck out; few girls had them in the early 90s.)

Then a decade-plus later I'm surfing the web and quite by accident I found out her pics were on some sleazebag mugshots web site. They make people pay to have them taken down - pretty shitty. The mug shots were from a couple of DUIs. It was only a matter of time before she was nailed. Thought eh, might want to find some way to let her know, decent thing to do, etc.

That's when I found her obituary. Turned up dead in her apartment years earlier, no cause of death listed but I'd be amazed if it wasn't alcohol or drug related.

It probably would've happened even faster if Tinder were around back then.

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(09-17-2019 06:13 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  Picked her up at her house and consummated with non-RVF approved premarital activities within 60 minutes. All she needed was a bullshit thin veil of plausibility.

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