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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
Long hair. Like looong hair. If I'm dating a girl and it ain't long enough naturally, I'll pay for hair extensions until it is. If she don't like the idea, ain't gonna work. Real hair extensions are expensive as fuck. But there's some good removable fake ones that look just as good and still do the trick

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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
Strikingly blue eyes.

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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-21-2019 11:46 AM)questor70 Wrote:  Wide-eyed, perky, girl-next-door neoteny. There's something about my type that screams "It's safe to approach me. I like everyone."

[Image: Amy+Adams+set+Enchanted+OtMoEj8yVUul.jpg]

This look has probably always been unicorn rare but is rarer than ever these days.

Amy Adams is pretty close to my physical ideal as far as white women go. Perfect girl-next-door look. She's well over 30 in that pic too, and still looks great nowadays at over 40.

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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-20-2019 11:26 AM)Laner Wrote:  
(09-20-2019 10:36 AM)loremipsum Wrote:  
(09-20-2019 02:35 AM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(09-20-2019 02:27 AM)loremipsum Wrote:  Flat stomach. Sadly in this age of fat women it seems to be more rare than any of the things OP listed.
I need to get over it since that's one of the things which will change due to childbirth, if I were to meet my future wife.

Mate in this day and age that's like - your Jason and the Argonauts seeking The Golden Fleece.

I know, but it's still up there in my top list and luckily I have my experiences of being with women having it.
Fucking alcohol man, these bitches in the west have gotten the beer gut only bums had the means to acquire.

Don't fall for that. Flat stomachs after childbirth are common. It just takes slightly more work than no work at all.

+1 I have seen women that look like they turned into deflated balloons and others that look like they never even had a child. Physical fitness and healthy skin seem to be common factors.

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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-20-2019 03:38 AM)MichaelWitcoff Wrote:  You're in for a rough life if women can make you weak. Overcome the reaction you have to beauty and you will know a freedom that few men do.

Any advice?
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-21-2019 08:42 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 11:46 AM)questor70 Wrote:  Wide-eyed, perky, girl-next-door neoteny. There's something about my type that screams "It's safe to approach me. I like everyone."

[Image: Amy+Adams+set+Enchanted+OtMoEj8yVUul.jpg]

This look has probably always been unicorn rare but is rarer than ever these days.

Amy Adams is pretty close to my physical ideal as far as white women go. Perfect girl-next-door look. She's well over 30 in that pic too, and still looks great nowadays at over 40.

The girl-next-door LOOK.

I know an American woman who lives in the UK.

Besties with Amy Adams at school. Apparently her family housed her for long periods of time during childhood. Because Ms Adams' home life was "troubled".

The chick is 50 shades of fucked up.

The Ideal and the Real.
09-24-2019 09:02 PM
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-20-2019 02:35 AM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(09-20-2019 02:27 AM)loremipsum Wrote:  Flat stomach. Sadly in this age of fat women it seems to be more rare than any of the things OP listed.
I need to get over it since that's one of the things which will change due to childbirth, if I were to meet my future wife.

Mate in this day and age that's like - your Jason and the Argonauts seeking The Golden Fleece.

Yeah, I'm the same. I hate fat guts, but these days even the supposedly thin girls have them. 30 years ago they would have been mocked for being fat; now they're considered thin because they're not obese.
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-24-2019 09:02 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 08:42 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 11:46 AM)questor70 Wrote:  Wide-eyed, perky, girl-next-door neoteny. There's something about my type that screams "It's safe to approach me. I like everyone."

[Image: Amy+Adams+set+Enchanted+OtMoEj8yVUul.jpg]

This look has probably always been unicorn rare but is rarer than ever these days.

Amy Adams is pretty close to my physical ideal as far as white women go. Perfect girl-next-door look. She's well over 30 in that pic too, and still looks great nowadays at over 40.

The girl-next-door LOOK.

I know an American woman who lives in the UK.

Besties with Amy Adams at school. Apparently her family housed her for long periods of time during childhood. Because Ms Adams' home life was "troubled".

The chick is 50 shades of fucked up.

The Ideal and the Real.

There's some truth in the phrase "It's always the quiet ones". I've had many mousy girls, the virginal kind you'd take home to mama, shock me with the thinks that came out of their mouths once the ice was broken.
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-25-2019 03:39 AM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:  
(09-24-2019 09:02 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 08:42 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 11:46 AM)questor70 Wrote:  Wide-eyed, perky, girl-next-door neoteny. There's something about my type that screams "It's safe to approach me. I like everyone."

[Image: Amy+Adams+set+Enchanted+OtMoEj8yVUul.jpg]

This look has probably always been unicorn rare but is rarer than ever these days.

Amy Adams is pretty close to my physical ideal as far as white women go. Perfect girl-next-door look. She's well over 30 in that pic too, and still looks great nowadays at over 40.

The girl-next-door LOOK.

I know an American woman who lives in the UK.

Besties with Amy Adams at school. Apparently her family housed her for long periods of time during childhood. Because Ms Adams' home life was "troubled".

The chick is 50 shades of fucked up.

The Ideal and the Real.

There's some truth in the phrase "It's always the quiet ones". I've had many mousy girls, the virginal kind you'd take home to mama, shock me with the thinks that came out of their mouths once the ice was broken.

We have a saying for specifically for redheads: "Rusty roof - moist basement." So their nature when running unchecked is kinda well known...
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
Sorry for fanboying but...

Amy Adams has stayed off the tabloid sheets as far as I know. If she was really so messed up we'd hear about it by now. The worst I can say about her based on her personal bio is she had a kid while engaged but didn't actually marry the guy until years later, but she seems like the most well-adjusted and trad-con actress in Hollywood. She also has avoided jumping on the #MeToo bandwagon. When asked gotcha questions about it she sort of strikes "I wish we could all just get along" tone and doesn't just take angry potshots at men. If all that isn't enough to make one a fan then I doubt any other female celeb would measure up. I also know she attracts a fair amount of haterade from other women which is all based on envy.
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
(09-25-2019 03:39 AM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:  
(09-24-2019 09:02 PM)Bienvenuto Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 08:42 PM)bucky Wrote:  
(09-21-2019 11:46 AM)questor70 Wrote:  Wide-eyed, perky, girl-next-door neoteny. There's something about my type that screams "It's safe to approach me. I like everyone."

[Image: Amy+Adams+set+Enchanted+OtMoEj8yVUul.jpg]

This look has probably always been unicorn rare but is rarer than ever these days.

Amy Adams is pretty close to my physical ideal as far as white women go. Perfect girl-next-door look. She's well over 30 in that pic too, and still looks great nowadays at over 40.

The girl-next-door LOOK.

I know an American woman who lives in the UK.

Besties with Amy Adams at school. Apparently her family housed her for long periods of time during childhood. Because Ms Adams' home life was "troubled".

The chick is 50 shades of fucked up.

The Ideal and the Real.

There's some truth in the phrase "It's always the quiet ones". I've had many mousy girls, the virginal kind you'd take home to mama, shock me with the thinks that came out of their mouths once the ice was broken.

Aye. Sometimes the innocent, wholesome looking ones turn out to be the worst type of succubi of them all.

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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
I have a thing for women who resemble and have the same mannerisms as tinker bell. I haven’t seen the Disney movie in Atleast 10 so maybe it’s a blurry image.
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Natural ginger with some freckles ...
Even the ugly ones make me shiver
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I have a weakness to big butts on non-black, non-fat women.
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RE: The curse of attraction to a specific physical attribute
I am kinda a weird guy but I like big ankles with good looking feet. Generally tall girls with pale skin is my kryptonite. Most Russian girls are like this.
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Curvy women with lower back dimples.
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Its funny because this is the "new Forum" version of the "unusual turn on" thread
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Have ruminated on this some more and read the serious responses. I don't have a porn problem and my strong attraction is triggered by meeting women in person who have this attribute. I've come to the conclusion that it's my subconscious pushing me towards the highest possible fertility/value woman for me, and I've just been unable to either lock down a woman with it or settle for a woman without it. So that's the situation, and I accept it. I'll either increase my value enough and/or get lucky enough to find the woman who is the complete package for me including this characteristic, or I won't, and that's the way it is.

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For myself, I had to accept that I needed to be with a girl who had my particular physical-attribute fetish as a foundational matter.

That and a primarily pleasant attitude are the baseline for me, and it is not worth any time pursuing if those are not met. It takes time to see if our personalities and life goals are compatible, but it takes just a few interactions to cover the baseline.

I get the fear that one will end up chasing the fetish in a newer model, but you will end up lusting for a newer model either way. Figuring out how to overcome that is just part of life. It is WAY easier to overcome the day to day when you can look at any current bullshit, set it to one side, and say "well, at least she will always check my box on this other side."

I think you have to pick your battles, and denying your primary visual sexual motivator is not a test worth pursuing for most.
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@Tresdus

There are two methods that I know of, both of which I have practiced.

The first is a Buddhist technique to overcome grasping, specifically with regards to the beauty of Woman.

Find yourself in a comfortable seated posiition with a quiet mind. This is the same foundational practice for Christian prayer, the spiritual technology is slightly different. One may use a mantra or focus on the breath.

Bring the image of a beautiful girl into mind. Then watch it rot. See her skin crack and wither, the flesh peel from her bones, her belly bulge and burst from decay. Watch time ravage her, turn her to a crone. If there is an emotional reaction stirred from the depths of your consciousness let it pass - feel it and watch it go, then turn your Eye once more to the ravages of time. This is speaking with your subconsciousness, allowing your deeper self the understanding of temporary existence. It is very similar to a Game technique which Tyler (where I had first heard it) recommended, “That beautiful girl you can’t even talk to? There’s been a night where she’s been sloppy drunk, shitting and vomiting all over herself! Where she’s been so fucked up she slips, squatting over that club toilet in her high heels, sprawled out on the dirty ground, just sobbing, covered in piss and puke and the poo-poo...”

This technology can aid with the second: overexposure. Place yoursef in an enviroment where you are surrounded by beautiful women who you have authority over. This is not so easy, I would suggest bartender or line-cook, at some trendy restaurant and lounge.

That is how I overcame it. Cooking in grueling kitchens, every day surrounded by tarted up waitresses and dealing with their inane conversations and complaints, their constant fuck-ups, their petty dramas and dysfunctions. It is important to be more important than these low-key prostitutes - In LA, these girls are entirely replaceable while a reliable line-cook is worth his weight in well whiskey.
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(09-26-2019 06:02 PM)Herzeleid Wrote:  I am kinda a weird guy but I like big ankles with good looking feet. Generally tall girls with pale skin is my kryptonite. Most Russian girls are like this.

off-topic , kindly recommending you rural Estonia , especially formerly sweden-dominated islands
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