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Traits to look for in a mother?
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RE: Traits to look for in a mother?
(09-28-2019 04:16 PM)Mage Wrote:  
(09-28-2019 04:00 PM)Swordfish1010 Wrote:  1. Not fat
2. Not ugly
3. Has money/class

This is far too little criteria.

Anything else is a bonus.
09-28-2019 04:30 PM
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RE: Traits to look for in a mother?
(09-28-2019 04:30 PM)Swordfish1010 Wrote:  
(09-28-2019 04:16 PM)Mage Wrote:  
(09-28-2019 04:00 PM)Swordfish1010 Wrote:  1. Not fat
2. Not ugly
3. Has money/class

This is far too little criteria.

Anything else is a bonus.

you are a very modest man
09-28-2019 04:47 PM
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RE: Traits to look for in a mother?
My wife is a fantastic mother to our child.

Some advice:

Look for a woman who isn't materialistic. Someone who knows how to save and make use of resources is someone who has low time preference.
(This is a pretty important indicator of what woman will have patience when raising a child and will nurture even when it comes to making personal sacrifices.)

A woman who isn't career orientated. This is self explanatory. Career fem bots do NOT make good moms. I've seen some who just dump their kids with nannies so they can continue to climb some pointless corporate ladder and attend cocktail parties.

Find someone who believes in traditional culture. Unfortunately America is pretty fucked in this regard but there are pockets everywhere in the world where gender roles are still very meaningful.

Social media obsession is also a bad sign. It's a sign of narcissism (selfishness) and someone who is narcissistic will not make a good mom.


I also don't recommend wifing up a woman who has kids. Don't be that guy who is the baby daddy to some other man's kids even if you end up having your own together. I'm sure this role works out in a few exceptional cases but raising a kid is already hard enough you don't need these other complications.
09-29-2019 02:32 AM
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RE: Traits to look for in a mother?
(09-29-2019 02:32 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote:  My wife is a fantastic mother to our child.

Some advice:

Look for a woman who isn't materialistic. Someone who knows how to save and make use of resources is someone who has low time preference.
(This is a pretty important indicator of what woman will have patience when raising a child and will nurture even when it comes to making personal sacrifices.)

A woman who isn't career orientated. This is self explanatory. Career fem bots do NOT make good moms. I've seen some who just dump their kids with nannies so they can continue to climb some pointless corporate ladder and attend cocktail parties.

Find someone who believes in traditional culture. Unfortunately America is pretty fucked in this regard but there are pockets everywhere in the world where gender roles are still very meaningful.

Social media obsession is also a bad sign. It's a sign of narcissism (selfishness) and someone who is narcissistic will not make a good mom.


I also don't recommend wifing up a woman who has kids. Don't be that guy who is the baby daddy to some other man's kids even if you end up having your own together. I'm sure this role works out in a few exceptional cases but raising a kid is already hard enough you don't need these other complications.

Excellent post.

From experience. A girl who can cook and clean, wants a family, loves babies, doesn't "go out".
09-29-2019 09:27 AM
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RE: Traits to look for in a mother?
See how she smiles when she sees other kids in the street.
If you see her smile is 100% honest , then it s a good sign.
Women have fake smiles , or no smiles at all when they see my kids in the street. Some women have smiles full of love.

You have to look for these ones
09-29-2019 10:57 AM
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