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The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-10-2019 10:07 AM)wwtl Wrote:  
(10-10-2019 09:49 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  
(10-10-2019 04:56 AM)wwtl Wrote:  A wife needs a husband more than ever. However a husband who thinks "the tingles", "the bang", "the bankroll", "the car" and "the house" is enough to win and keep a good wife while practicing fornication and cohabitation, is going to get stripped of his assets.

In a real marriage a wife rests in her husband, she depends on him and his virtues. That's nothing a family court can strip from him.

Really...now more than ever? What are these things that a wife needs from a husband?

Spiritual lead through what becomes more and more a complete upside-down clown world.

So apparently, she doesn't need you. She can do that on her own.
10-10-2019 10:28 AM
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-10-2019 10:28 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  
(10-10-2019 10:07 AM)wwtl Wrote:  
(10-10-2019 09:49 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  
(10-10-2019 04:56 AM)wwtl Wrote:  A wife needs a husband more than ever. However a husband who thinks "the tingles", "the bang", "the bankroll", "the car" and "the house" is enough to win and keep a good wife while practicing fornication and cohabitation, is going to get stripped of his assets.

In a real marriage a wife rests in her husband, she depends on him and his virtues. That's nothing a family court can strip from him.

Really...now more than ever? What are these things that a wife needs from a husband?

Spiritual lead through what becomes more and more a complete upside-down clown world.

So apparently, she doesn't need you. She can do that on her own.

And then at age 45 publish one article after another about: "Where are all the good men gone?"
10-11-2019 04:12 AM
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
Marriage is not the union of a man and a woman .
It is the union of a man and a woman ( as a united couple) with God .
10-11-2019 05:35 AM
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-11-2019 05:35 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  Marriage is not the union of a man and a woman .
It is the union of a man and a woman ( as a united couple) with God .

Yea... sure. Tell that to the State. They won't recognize it and could care less what you think it should be.
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-11-2019 10:07 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  
(10-11-2019 05:35 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  Marriage is not the union of a man and a woman .
It is the union of a man and a woman ( as a united couple) with God .

Yea... sure. Tell that to the State. They won't recognize it and could care less what you think it should be.

SilentOn I like your commentary as you've got a good debate with power balances in a marriage.

As far as the state goes, they ought to care. Theres a fine line between when a state must intervene regarding her citizens' values but overall it has always been the state's duty to provide the best means to ensure her citizens survive and thrive where she can. The state shares what's called a social contract with her citizens but it isn't a formal contact. Once that contract is breached, the people are faced with replacing the state with a new state. Social contracts aren't exclusive to democracy and switching types of states is also not a fixed order. All that matters in this case is the state must fulfill her duty to her people; spiritual included.

All the classical, early and middle enlightenment political philosophers discussed this (before the enlightenment went off its rocker).
10-11-2019 10:50 AM
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-09-2019 02:45 PM)velkrum Wrote:  
(10-09-2019 09:53 AM)Goldin Boy Wrote:  wives asking them to help around the house is a shit-test that men are failing en masse. The husbands are going the chores to make her happy

A majority of the responses were a pleasure to read, however..
I highly advise ALL men to get rid of the "relationships are a power struggle" mindset.

Relationships with THE WRONG WOMAN is a power struggle.

When you recognize the situation and how it makes you feel, you can choose to help your lady become a better person (eliminating bad behavior) or you can leave her and find another woman who is mature and respectful.

Talk with your woman if you feel like she is taking advantage of you.

She needs to know how it makes you feel.
You both need to know why she is doing it.
You both need to know how to resolve the problem.

When a woman asks her man to help her out it should legitimately mean that she needs help (please don't go jumping to conclusions without a history or pattern of evidence).

Relationships ARE about power. Look at the story of Adam and Eve. Eve tells Adam to eat of the fruit God forbade them, Adam knew it was wrong but did he did it anyway. The moral of that story is: Men are to lead. Women are to follow. It's unnatural, an abomination, for a man to follow his woman, ignoring his personal judgment, and it will ultimately lead to disaster for both. If Adam would've maintained frame, we wouldn't all be born with original sin today.

Serious question, this isn't sarcastic or derisive, do you live in the Anglosphere? And how old are you?

I have never heard of a man telling a woman:

Quote: I feel like you're taking advantage of me
and her saying "Ok" and stopping the drama or irksome behaviour abruptly.

From my experience, and thought observation and discussion with friends/co-workers, women know 99% of time instinctually when they're being bloody hysterical. My parents have been married since 1979 and my mom still shittests my dad on occasion. They like to test if their man has a firm sense of reality.

Not saying you don't communicate or compromise but I when I'm with a girl, I do things because I want to do them, not because I want win her approval or get her to stop nagging me.

(08-18-2016 12:05 PM)dicknixon72 Wrote:  ...and nothing quite surprises me anymore. If I looked out my showroom window and saw a fully-nude woman force-fucking an alligator with a strap-on while snorting xanex on the roof of her rental car with her three children locked inside with the windows rolled up, I wouldn't be entirely amazed.
10-15-2019 11:29 AM
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RE: The More Chores A Husband Does, The More Likely The Marriage Will End In Divorce
(10-15-2019 11:29 AM)Goldin Boy Wrote:  Relationships ARE about power.

It's foolish to focus on tiny semantics and minutia so I will say this, when I think of a power struggle in a relationship, Im thinking of a woman who is disrespectful, bossy, controlling and rude to her man.

Her throwing out a few different/counter suggestions once in awhile does not qualify as a power struggle.

I'm hoping that was the main point of your post.

...also, I have balance. A woman's approval won't make me do something I don't want to do but, I enjoy impressing women I like or care about.

Inferior Game + Inferior Genetics = Incel
Superior Game + Inferior Genetics = Incel

Inferior Game + Average Genetics = Friend zone
Superior Game + Average Genetics = Beta Bucks
Inferior Game + Superior Genetics = Alpha
Superior Game + Superior Genetics = Game of Life: now on EASY mode
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