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(10-16-2019 08:01 AM)tr1cky Wrote:  Can someone explain why a lower notch count is better? Is it only because she is less likely to leave (and/or divorce rape)?

As in, why does more notches equal less value?

There are some good points above.

Personally, I think I have trust issues with women. But then again, it is not based on nothing...

For example, I can think of a handful of women who were major sluts in high school and on who settled down, since most of them are entering or are in their 30s. The problem is that I have zero respect for the dudes who wifed up these females. It is my assumption that these guys just do not know their women the same way I happen to know them, and that makes me pity them. Maybe they just let the past be the past? But as I am realizing that it is time for something more serious than looking for hook ups, I am having a hard time seeing monogamy as a possibility in the REAL WORLD.

If I am going to invest into a female she needs to be trustworthy and honest. And if I find out a female has been with many guys, some of whom I am might disapprove of, I am likely to lose affection for her. It is an issue of disgust along with them being "damaged goods". This is why women hide these things and do not want to be perceived as sluts.
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(10-16-2019 01:05 AM)Lampwick Wrote:  
(10-16-2019 12:48 AM)Graft Wrote:  If she understands that having a low notch count=high value, then she will do whatever it takes to keep that shit as low as possible.

Or she will do whatever it takes to make it appear that shit is as low as possible, which is why this thread is needed. Even girls who are openly slutty will lie about their numbers.

The problem with this type of thinking is that she can lie anytime, anywhere. She can lie about going to the store when she's cheating. She can lie that the kid is yours. She can lie about taking your money.

You have to trust her. You can't live in fear.

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(10-16-2019 12:48 AM)Graft Wrote:  The problem with this type of thinking is that she can lie anytime, anywhere. She can lie about going to the store when she's cheating. She can lie that the kid is yours. She can lie about taking your money.

You have to trust her. You can't live in fear.

If you invest poorly in a woman, you will live in fear. That's what this thread is about: weighing past behaviors and personality traits to make a calculated risk to invest in a particular woman. Relying on women to present their slutty ways openly is not an effective means to calculate this risk, in my opinion. That's because all women are inherently aware that low notch count=high value, even if they do/say otherwise, and will use strategies to increase their perceived value along this axis. My point is not to never trust a woman. My point is to increase your chances that you are placing your trust in the right woman.
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If she took time off to travel and has used couchsurfing.com you can add anywhere from 20-200 notches to her body count

If it took more than 4 or 5 dates to get her to have full on sex with you then that is a good sign but ultimately use your judgement . If you met her at a bar and had sexual with her after one or two times of getting her to your apartment then she likely has a high notch count

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Many good points have already been made. I'll add a few that may have been missed (haven't read the whole thread) so trying not to state the obvious or repeat previously made points:

- Has always lived with parents (ideal)/family (provided they are conservative/gave her strict curfews).
"Family" should be grandparent, aunt/uncle, protective/strict older brother, NOT sister/cousin (especially if they are younger than her)
- Isn't the sexual type - likes sex as everyone, without *loving* it
- Romantic/emotional type
- Some ego/self esteem/confidence
- Knows how to say "no" (related to above)
- Doesn't like to "dance" (which basically means doesn't like going to clubs/bars)
- Morning person even on weekends (related to above)
- Doesn't drink/do drugs
- Is rather "stay home" type than active/outgoing (harder to meet people for her)
- Paranoid with health - legit fear of STD's - germaphobe type
- Little to no vagina smell

Ps: I had a several year long LTR with a virgin girl who met most of these characteristics.
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^ I can think of several girls who had many of those traits and were complete sluts, just better at hiding it.

From my experience, the one indicator that has so far never proven me wrong (as far as I know, at least) is when a girl holds sex in a very high regard and clearly believes that it is something special. These girls may even say things like "sex should be for two people who really love each other", but far more important than words is actions. A girl like this well get very shy when talking about it or referencing it, where you can tell it is something she desires though she isn't totally comfortable with it. This trait is a signal of my optimal combination for an LTR -- a sexual being who doesn't want to share it with too many people.

The problem though is that to be a better judge of women, you have to get out there and meet them. It's virtually impossible to learn this just from reading. When you have the experience, you build up a much better sense of whether a girl is genuine or full of shit.

Conversely: Best way to weed out sluts? Act very non-judgemental. Don't mention anything about having conservative values, looking for a wife, or the like. Most of the time, they'll tell you without you even needing to ask!
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1. Likes to go out to bars/nightclubs. Any girl with a vested interest (not just an occasional special occasion) in going clubbing is automatically suspect.

2. How quickly sex happens. This is kind of a tossup because of some of the biggest harlots will pretend to be good and hold out, especially as they cross 25.

3. Generally, her level of comfort with being physical. Is she awkward and nervous when you kiss her? That's a good sign. Or, is she an unhinged raven who sets your pants on fire and knows all the right moves? She had to learn that somehow. Even if she's only been with one or two guys, a new person will still make her nervous.

4. And, like RDF has said, her attitude about sex. He's totally on the money about acting non-judgemental.

5. Lived on her own is another hugeeee one.

The best way to find girls that aren't sluts is to change your demographics. Night game is going to disproportionally lead to you meeting these types of girls.

I strongly, strongly disagree with the notion that's being passed around on this forum that day game can't be used to meet nice, normal girls. If anything, that's pretty much the only way to do it if you're not working community/social circle game, particularly when in developing countries.
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(11-08-2019 09:49 AM)ArloDash Wrote:  Is she awkward and nervous when you kiss her? That's a good sign. Or, is she an unhinged raven who sets your pants on fire and knows all the right moves? She had to learn that somehow. Even if she's only been with one or two guys, a new person will still make her nervous.

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RDF is right about acting nonjudgmental in the beginning. If you espouse trad values up front, the ones you aren’t looking for will just shapeshift into angels (in other words, lie) and you could end up dating or marrying a woman you don’t even know.

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(11-08-2019 10:49 PM)MichaelWitcoff Wrote:  RDF is right about acting nonjudgmental in the beginning. If you espouse trad values up front, the ones you aren’t looking for will just ghost on you.

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(11-08-2019 10:49 PM)MichaelWitcoff Wrote:  RDF is right about acting nonjudgmental in the beginning. If you espouse trad values up front, the ones you aren’t looking for will just ghost on you.

^Fixed

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Tell a normie girl, "I'm not going to have sex with you, and I'm not going clubbing until 3 AM." Then watch her run for the hills.
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(10-16-2019 11:13 PM)RDF Wrote:  ^ I can think of several girls who had many of those traits and were complete sluts, just better at hiding it.

From my experience, the one indicator that has so far never proven me wrong (as far as I know, at least) is when a girl holds sex in a very high regard and clearly believes that it is something special. These girls may even say things like "sex should be for two people who really love each other", but far more important than words is actions. A girl like this well get very shy when talking about it or referencing it, where you can tell it is something she desires though she isn't totally comfortable with it. This trait is a signal of my optimal combination for an LTR -- a sexual being who doesn't want to share it with too many people.

The problem though is that to be a better judge of women, you have to get out there and meet them. It's virtually impossible to learn this just from reading. When you have the experience, you build up a much better sense of whether a girl is genuine or full of shit.

Conversely: Best way to weed out sluts? Act very non-judgemental. Don't mention anything about having conservative values, looking for a wife, or the like. Most of the time, they'll tell you without you even needing to ask!

True, make her feel comfortable/safe and she will spill her guts. An excellent way to do this is to take a girl on some kind of road trip. People can't keep up a facade for 8-10 hours straight sitting beside another person unless they sleep through it. Very very long hikes and crisis also work.

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(11-09-2019 12:58 PM)redbeard Wrote:  
(11-09-2019 12:43 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  
(11-08-2019 10:49 PM)MichaelWitcoff Wrote:  RDF is right about acting nonjudgmental in the beginning. If you espouse trad values up front, the ones you aren’t looking for will just ghost on you.

^Fixed

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Agree

Tell a normie girl, "I'm not going to have sex with you, and I'm not going clubbing until 3 AM." Then watch her run for the hills.

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(11-09-2019 01:06 PM)Dr. Howard Wrote:  
(10-16-2019 11:13 PM)RDF Wrote:  ^ I can think of several girls who had many of those traits and were complete sluts, just better at hiding it.

From my experience, the one indicator that has so far never proven me wrong (as far as I know, at least) is when a girl holds sex in a very high regard and clearly believes that it is something special. These girls may even say things like "sex should be for two people who really love each other", but far more important than words is actions. A girl like this well get very shy when talking about it or referencing it, where you can tell it is something she desires though she isn't totally comfortable with it. This trait is a signal of my optimal combination for an LTR -- a sexual being who doesn't want to share it with too many people.

The problem though is that to be a better judge of women, you have to get out there and meet them. It's virtually impossible to learn this just from reading. When you have the experience, you build up a much better sense of whether a girl is genuine or full of shit.

Conversely: Best way to weed out sluts? Act very non-judgemental. Don't mention anything about having conservative values, looking for a wife, or the like. Most of the time, they'll tell you without you even needing to ask!

True, make her feel comfortable/safe and she will spill her guts. An excellent way to do this is to take a girl on some kind of road trip. People can't keep up a facade for 8-10 hours straight sitting beside another person unless they sleep through it. Very very long hikes and crisis also work.

Hypnosis probably works better than a long road trip. One needs her consent to be hypnotized. You need the skill to take her into trance smoothly, and bring her out safely. Google Renegade Hypnotist.
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Here's the single best litmus test I've ever found. This isn't the only factor by a long shot but it's a damn good one.


Find out her attitude towards contraception. I have yet to meet a slut who was opposed to contraception being legal.


This question more than any other cuts right to the heart of the matter. It is psychologically impossible for any girl who partakes in casual sex to say that contraception should be illegal, because her own mistakes would then be impossible and/or extremely risky. Nobody with a fear of responsibility for their actions or of committing will ever say that contraception should be illegal, because it is a tool that directly appeals to those vices. No person who believes that sex is separate from reproduction and therefore actually can be something you do just for fun will say that contraception should be illegal because it not being illegal would blow that lie apart.


In short, nobody who even remotely buys into today's cultural programming will even be able to consider the question of contraception being illegal, let alone endorse an affirmative answer to that question.

I'm sure there's some exceptions out there but so far I've noticed a near 100% correlation between women who oppose contraception and those with a zero or near-zero notch count who want to be mothers.


This is the rare time I say this but if you're Catholic I highly suggest using online dating with two sites in mind. The numbers are terrible but outshining the competition in most religious venues isn't particularly difficult if you're at least halfway masculine and have your basic shit in order.

First: AveMariaSingles is an extremely traditional site to begin with so nobody on there is going to be pozzed.

Second is use CatholicMatch. There's a lot of pozz on there BUT...big but...the site allows you to filter by people's answers on questions. Filter only for women who agree unconditionally with church teaching.
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(11-09-2019 08:51 PM)Easy_C Wrote:  Here's the single best litmus test I've ever found. This isn't the only factor by a long shot but it's a damn good one.


Find out her attitude towards contraception. I have yet to meet a slut who was opposed to contraception being legal.

Why would anyone be opposed to contraception? I don't understand...
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A person's attitude towards contraception is a much more important litmus test, than their attitude towards abortion.

Someone who fully understands male and female human nature/sexuality, would be opposed to birth control. Birth control, and to a lesser extent, abortion, eliminates the checks and balances that are at the heart of healthy sexual relations. Nature designed women (and not men) to become pregnant (a high % of the time) after sex. This high probability restricted their decision-making, and forced them to choose sexual partners wisely. By eliminating this constraint, women are now able to use their sexual power in any way they choose. Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. Pregnancy was nature's way to put a restriction on this power.

It's similar to how a king without constraints tends to become ruthless..that's why the US Constitution created 3 branches of government..to prevent any one branch from gaining absolute power and becoming corrupt.
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(11-09-2019 10:17 PM)jasond Wrote:  A person's attitude towards contraception is a much more important litmus test, than their attitude towards abortion.

Someone who fully understands male and female human nature/sexuality, would be opposed to birth control. Birth control, and to a lesser extent, abortion, eliminates the checks and balances that are at the heart of healthy sexual relations. Nature designed women (and not men) to become pregnant (a high % of the time) after sex. This high probability restricted their decision-making, and forced them to choose sexual partners wisely. By eliminating this constraint, women are now able to use their sexual power in any way they choose. Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. Pregnancy was nature's way to put a restriction on this power.

It's similar to how a king without constraints tends to become ruthless..that's why the US Constitution created 3 branches of government..to prevent any one branch from gaining absolute power and becoming corrupt.

I do not think any woman holds such views on contraception. I understand the revolution that the pill brought, but I doubt that any woman looks at it that way and wants it to be illegal. She would have to be some weirdo. Maybe I am deluded and have been around too many sluts all my life...
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There are definitely women that hold such views. If you only live in big cities on the coasts, you've probably never met them. Their numbers are small, but not non-existent. I attended the Acton Institute (http://www.acton.org) and met many of them. They tend to be concentrated in universities that you've never heard of, such as

https://www.avemaria.edu/
https://www.franciscan.edu/
https://www.benedictine.edu/

Go to these campuses, and the majority of women will be opposed to contraception.
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You’d be surprised how many women exist out there who do hold that position.

It’s a still a tiny, tiny, segment of the population but it’s still much larger than one would think at first glance.

And the main reason I’ve found that women oppose it is, as is usual with them, emotional. They opposite it either because that’s what the church says (so they know how to obey rules) or because they absolutely love children/family and find the idea of trying to not have kids repulsive on some level.

Either way works because both are characteristics of a great woman.
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