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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
(10-16-2019 08:01 AM)tr1cky Wrote:  Can someone explain why a lower notch count is better? Is it only because she is less likely to leave (and/or divorce rape)?

As in, why does more notches equal less value?

There are some good points above.

Personally, I think I have trust issues with women. But then again, it is not based on nothing...

For example, I can think of a handful of women who were major sluts in high school and on who settled down, since most of them are entering or are in their 30s. The problem is that I have zero respect for the dudes who wifed up these females. It is my assumption that these guys just do not know their women the same way I happen to know them, and that makes me pity them. Maybe they just let the past be the past? But as I am realizing that it is time for something more serious than looking for hook ups, I am having a hard time seeing monogamy as a possibility in the REAL WORLD.

If I am going to invest into a female she needs to be trustworthy and honest. And if I find out a female has been with many guys, some of whom I am might disapprove of, I am likely to lose affection for her. It is an issue of disgust along with them being "damaged goods". This is why women hide these things and do not want to be perceived as sluts.
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10-16-2019 11:29 AM
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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
(10-16-2019 01:05 AM)Lampwick Wrote:  
(10-16-2019 12:48 AM)Graft Wrote:  If she understands that having a low notch count=high value, then she will do whatever it takes to keep that shit as low as possible.

Or she will do whatever it takes to make it appear that shit is as low as possible, which is why this thread is needed. Even girls who are openly slutty will lie about their numbers.

The problem with this type of thinking is that she can lie anytime, anywhere. She can lie about going to the store when she's cheating. She can lie that the kid is yours. She can lie about taking your money.

You have to trust her. You can't live in fear.

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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
(10-16-2019 12:48 AM)Graft Wrote:  The problem with this type of thinking is that she can lie anytime, anywhere. She can lie about going to the store when she's cheating. She can lie that the kid is yours. She can lie about taking your money.

You have to trust her. You can't live in fear.

If you invest poorly in a woman, you will live in fear. That's what this thread is about: weighing past behaviors and personality traits to make a calculated risk to invest in a particular woman. Relying on women to present their slutty ways openly is not an effective means to calculate this risk, in my opinion. That's because all women are inherently aware that low notch count=high value, even if they do/say otherwise, and will use strategies to increase their perceived value along this axis. My point is not to never trust a woman. My point is to increase your chances that you are placing your trust in the right woman.
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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
If she took time off to travel and has used couchsurfing.com you can add anywhere from 20-200 notches to her body count

If it took more than 4 or 5 dates to get her to have full on sex with you then that is a good sign but ultimately use your judgement . If you met her at a bar and had sexual with her after one or two times of getting her to your apartment then she likely has a high notch count

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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
Many good points have already been made. I'll add a few that may have been missed (haven't read the whole thread) so trying not to state the obvious or repeat previously made points:

- Has always lived with parents (ideal)/family (provided they are conservative/gave her strict curfews).
"Family" should be grandparent, aunt/uncle, protective/strict older brother, NOT sister/cousin (especially if they are younger than her)
- Isn't the sexual type - likes sex as everyone, without *loving* it
- Romantic/emotional type
- Some ego/self esteem/confidence
- Knows how to say "no" (related to above)
- Doesn't like to "dance" (which basically means doesn't like going to clubs/bars)
- Morning person even on weekends (related to above)
- Doesn't drink/do drugs
- Is rather "stay home" type than active/outgoing (harder to meet people for her)
- Paranoid with health - legit fear of STD's - germaphobe type
- Little to no vagina smell

Ps: I had a several year long LTR with a virgin girl who met most of these characteristics.
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10-16-2019 08:04 PM
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RE: Signs of Low Notch Count in a Woman
^ I can think of several girls who had many of those traits and were complete sluts, just better at hiding it.

From my experience, the one indicator that has so far never proven me wrong (as far as I know, at least) is when a girl holds sex in a very high regard and clearly believes that it is something special. These girls may even say things like "sex should be for two people who really love each other", but far more important than words is actions. A girl like this well get very shy when talking about it or referencing it, where you can tell it is something she desires though she isn't totally comfortable with it. This trait is a signal of my optimal combination for an LTR -- a sexual being who doesn't want to share it with too many people.

The problem though is that to be a better judge of women, you have to get out there and meet them. It's virtually impossible to learn this just from reading. When you have the experience, you build up a much better sense of whether a girl is genuine or full of shit.

Conversely: Best way to weed out sluts? Act very non-judgemental. Don't mention anything about having conservative values, looking for a wife, or the like. Most of the time, they'll tell you without you even needing to ask!
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