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On Men Who Let Their Wives/Girlfriends Drive While He Rides Shotgun
This photo could easily represent today's married American man. I see it everywhere in the USA:

[Image: ?u=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.gettyimages.com%2...amp;nofb=1]

To me, it’s just wrong. I’m the man…I drive. I'm in charge.

The car is a metaphor for life and man is (both emotionally and spiritually) in control of the relationship. When the woman drives, it indicates that the man is acquiescing his control to her. Bad! Even before I was red-pilled, I understood the importance of me driving while she rides shotgun.

What are your thoughts?

"Action still preserves for us a hope that we may stand erect." - Thucydides (from History of the Peloponnesian War)
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(10-22-2019 01:13 AM)MajorStyles Wrote:  What are your thoughts?

Never let a woman take you for a ride.

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I let my wife drive for portions of early/late long hauls while I sleep.

But I have enough masculinity to spare so maybe that's not for everyone.

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10-22-2019 06:24 AM
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I let my wife drive us last weekend.

There go my balls. Dodgy

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I have a rule with my wife. If we visit my friends/family I can have a drink and she will drive. If we visit her friends/family she can have a drink and I will drive.

This has nothing to do with masculinity just with common sense... don't drink and drive!

But when I'm sober yeah then I always drive

> What are your thoughts?

You are exaggerating ...
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Obviously noone thinks you turn cucked the second your woman gets behind the wheel. In any couple that drive places regularly, theres a default driver, and that should be you. Ive noted in the cases of some of my cucked relatives that the woman is the default driver, and its not a coincidence.
10-22-2019 06:45 AM
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Really, you just have to have the right attitude.




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10-22-2019 07:08 AM
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The only country I've ever seen men truly cucked during transportation is.......Spain. It's not uncommon there to see men riding bitch on a motorcycle or a scooter in the cities with the girl driving.

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In the rural England, in my neck of the woods, it is the definition of frame control to share the driving...

I drive there, my wife drives back.

Rural England has a much more established social drinking culture than the states.

My friends and I will look down on any guy who has to drink lemonade so that his wife can drink rose in any social setting.

Unhealthily, nearly every social setting is a drinking opportunity in the UK, we drink alcohol like Americans drink coffee. Sadly this is changing slowly but I see that as a net negative.

However family driving, trips, excursions, or just plain trip to the shops = me driving. Also there is no way in hell I would ever ride in the bitch seat on a motorbike with my wife.

Maybe chalk this one up to cultural norms.
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(10-22-2019 06:24 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  I let my wife drive for portions of early/late long hauls while I sleep.

But I have enough masculinity to spare so maybe that's not for everyone.

Obviously, as your example shows, there are exceptions. Also, if the man is drunk (which is something other people have mentioned on this thread).

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10-22-2019 10:40 AM
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(10-22-2019 07:08 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  Really, you just have to have the right attitude.

Really though. It's the same reason you can lead a girl out of a nightclub while walking behind her, without breaking frame. It's not optimal, but can be done in a pinch
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My rule is, I ALWAYS DRIVE. Even if it’s me and my mates, I’m always going to drive. Had way too many instances where I was left, almost killed in an accident, or just bored in a car. Biggest advantage of driving is you get to leave whenever you want. I’ll rather take multiple cars than to ride wuth somebody.

With women is because I believe the stereotype that women can’t drive. Once I let a girl drive and we hit a light pole in the middle of the interstate (laying flat) apparently we couldn’t sue because we over rode our headlights (we were going slower than the speed limit but ok) but I knew then I had to drive all the time.
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I never cared about who drove, never particularly liked driving, and would have been happy having my wife chauffeur me around for the rest of my life.

The problem was, and this was a while ago, even though I never noticed the symbolic importance of who did the driving, my wife did.

Any time we left the house, she always tried to hand me the keys.

Only now, years later, do I realize that it is just as important to them that you drive as it is to you.

“That sig BTW is a very asinine anti-family anti-parent quote. You live in a country where 40% of children grow up without a biological father, yet somehow “the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents”? Sorry but this is fruity Boomer nonsense.”

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It’s called “Riding Bitch”.


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(10-22-2019 06:38 AM)Meliorare93 Wrote:  I have a rule with my wife. If we visit my friends/family I can have a drink and she will drive. If we visit her friends/family she can have a drink and I will drive.

This has nothing to do with masculinity just with common sense... don't drink and drive!

But when I'm sober yeah then I always drive

> What are your thoughts?

You are exaggerating ...

Sir Meliorare, I do not think I am exaggerating. I actually think that this topic is bordering on a national crisis. Go anywhere in the USA...you see the man "riding bitch" as it's called. Eventually, we've become a nation of male bitches. And even worse, these men teach their sons how to become male bitches in the future.

Remember that the devil is in the details. And a thousand small details is how a nation falls. Some men think nothing of this detail because nobody brings it to their attention. If they do mention it, they're immediately ostracized as sexist, etc.

The fact that you drive your gal (whenever sober) shows that you're aware of this important dynamic.

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It's my Prius and I'll let my woman drive it if I want. I make the decisions. It's called being alpha.
10-22-2019 12:37 PM
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(10-22-2019 12:37 PM)WombRaider Wrote:  It's my Prius and I'll let my woman drive it if I want. I make the decisions. It's called being alpha.

If this is a joke, it is very funny.

“That sig BTW is a very asinine anti-family anti-parent quote. You live in a country where 40% of children grow up without a biological father, yet somehow “the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents”? Sorry but this is fruity Boomer nonsense.”

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If I’m sober (which is 99.99% of the time these days), I’m driving. It’s a very subtle way to reassure your woman that you are leading the way and taking care of her.
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(10-22-2019 01:13 AM)MajorStyles Wrote:  This photo could easily represent today's married American man. I see it everywhere in the USA:
[Image: ?u=https%3A%2F%2Fmedia.gettyimages.com%2...amp;nofb=1]

The other way this photo represents the modern man is how slovenly and unkept he looks. Unless you're Indiana Jones and House MD, shave your damn face before you leave the house in the morning. I mean, he looks like he just rolled out of bed Monday after a weekend bender wearing the same clothes he wore last Friday.
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I'd never let the woman drive the car: never. I've seen the stereotype of women not knowing how to drive lot of times and simply I wouldn't have the guts to ride in a car a woman is driving after seeing how women generally drive.

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She also needs to drive your kids so imo it is stupid no not assess her driving skills, maintain and improve her driving skills, and enjoying her driving you around.
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With no disrespect for OP, this thread can be upgraded to the "F$#king female drivers" thread.

I'll start with an honest note about my wife. She really hates it when people tailgate her (less than 2 seconds stopping distance) but does it to other people unless I correct her...

BUT

The moment she's supposed to follow me in a second car somewhere I have to put a fucking magnifying glass up to the rear view mirror to spot her.

F$#king female drivers.

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My ex-LTR used to always want to drive my sports car. Every once in a while I'd let her...Maybe on a road trip when I didn't feel like driving and wanted to nap.

But my standing rule was always this: if you want to drive my car, you are not allowed to wear pants. So she would take off her shorts or pants and drive me in my car, in her underwear.

Found a pic: https://i.imgur.com/EU6ynZl.jpg

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I need feminism because I am tired of feeling "unmanly" for enjoying to be cucked during transportation
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I rode bitch behind a 85lb Vietnamese girl on a moped as she gave me an awesome tour around Saigon. I didn't feel cucked... we had a great time and it gave me the chance to take in the city. Plus if I was driving we'd of ended up in the hospital.

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