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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
Father time is the great equalizer.
Unfortunately there is no winner in this case. The men don't win because they didn't find a wife to start a family with(yet), and the women are reproductive dead ends as they're completely out of time.

I'd be lying if I said I didn't feel a sense of justice for their fates.

No it's not the fault of men. People are responsible for their own choices. There are just as many women in the world who know better and act better as there are bad ones. It's just that the West is saturated with the short end of the stick in that regard, almost like we traded material comfort and wealth for a lonely empty existence.

It doesn't matter now as Father time will equalize that too.

The men that are of the same age group as these women have a choice to make:
Leave their empty comfort bubble and look elsewhere for something better or stick around and accept the very probable consequences of ending up exactly as their female peers.

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11-08-2019 02:02 AM
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(11-07-2019 10:35 PM)TigOlBitties Wrote:  All of these women are like repulsive clones of each other. Living with them would be like a prison sentence. I have no idea how other men put up with it, but too many thirsty simps I guess. All that money, time and sanity they're wasting just for some used up, aging, mediocre pussy.

Dog moms (gotta nurture something)
Travel enthusiasts (cock enthusiast)
Foodies (wow, you like to eat)
Wine lovers (helps cope with their miserable lives)
They love to laugh (as does every human)
Take them on an adventure (looking for beta bux and too boring to come up with own hobbies)
Liberal (brainwashed)
Not here for hookups (unless you're Chad)
Fluent in sarcasm (fluent in being an obnoxious cunt)
Muh career (submitted to work instead of a husband)

It's like they all get together to come up with the most pointless drivel possible.

QFT. It's tragically hilarious how these woman list liking dogs, food, coffee, and wine as personality traits.
11-08-2019 02:15 AM
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(11-08-2019 01:52 AM)Captainstabbin Wrote:  
(11-08-2019 01:25 AM)N°6 Wrote:  I almost feel sorry for her but if a beta doctor couldn’t marry her up with a hypergamous doctor - nurse pairing, she wouldn’t have pissed on me if I was on fire.

Most of the women in the 4Chan thread would have been easy 8 plus back in the day.

For modern women, life experiences have replaced boring pursuits like starting a family. They want to party, travel and have as much fun as possible before wasting as little of their fertile years on their husband. Ride that carousel until you get thrown off. The girls in this article couldn't stick the landing.

And they fully expected a great man to be waiting and be grateful that his prayers were answered with a beat woman who brings nothing to the table except a few eggs (if she's lucky) and stories about all the dudes she got crazy with during her party years.

The thing is, I don’t think their carousel rides are over. The queue/ line of thirsty young men hoping to get lucky by finding a ticket is very long. Anyone here with a dating app account set to 25 years of age will have seen 40 plus single women in his stack.

Young men see these women as classic cars to go on weekend rides but they’ve no intention of adding a lot of mileage to them while these women are getting validated by human dildos while they wait for something serious ™ with Dr Brock Hartford MD.

Don't spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings. (Proverbs 31:3 GNB)
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I blame feminism and equality movement. Cutting mens wages to accomodate women in the workforce etc. We all know if men had high enough salaries and women had very little women would seek a provider husband like they have done for centuries. These last few decades are a poison for single men looking for a wife and family. As long as women have money to support themselfs they will never actively try to look for a husband.
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
Not one of those women included a single line about what they're offering to a man in a relationship.

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(11-07-2019 10:35 PM)TigOlBitties Wrote:  All of these women are like repulsive clones of each other. Living with them would be like a prison sentence. I have no idea how other men put up with it, but too many thirsty simps I guess. All that money, time and sanity they're wasting just for some used up, aging, mediocre pussy.

Dog moms (gotta nurture something)
Travel enthusiasts (cock enthusiast)
Foodies (wow, you like to eat)
Wine lovers (helps cope with their miserable lives)
They love to laugh (as does every human)
Take them on an adventure (looking for beta bux and too boring to come up with own hobbies)
Liberal (brainwashed)
Not here for hookups (unless you're Chad)
Fluent in sarcasm (fluent in being an obnoxious cunt)
Muh career (submitted to work instead of a husband)

It's like they all get together to come up with the most pointless drivel possible.

All their interests can be summed up as things to pass the time and offer a hit of dopamine. No genuine moral foundation or spirituality to be found in any of them. No real genuine interests or human connections beyond acting as a materialistic meat vessel looking to tap pleasure centers in the brain.

Drinking, eating, fucking, and sucking. That's all their life is. It's like the living embodiment of that rant that Tony Montana does in scarface.
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(11-07-2019 08:59 PM)RIslander Wrote:  I still firmly believe this is an issue of a failure of men. Women are children. Men have failed them no less than a man who lets his son drown in the river. Blaming a woman for being a pill popping spinster with no future is like blaming a retarded kid for failing the special olympics.

The big difference of course is that parents have legal authority over their children. As a parent, you decide what your children are allowed to do and can block them from making short sighted decisions that will negatively impact them in the long term.

Men have no such authority, culturally or legally, over women. None.

At this point, the only way that men can really help women is by letting them feel the consequences of their own decisions.

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11-08-2019 06:42 AM
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If you were a father to a daughter would you simply accept that you had "no such authority, culturally or legally, over women"?

Sounds chickenshit to me, no offence to you personally.

Keep in mind that these 40yo chicks were between the ages of 10 and 20 in 1989 and 1999 respectively. Hardly total post-modern feminist territory. Sackless atheist soyboy "end of history" fathers are largely to blame, if they were even present in the first place.

If I had a daughter I would sooner move to the wilderness than let her become a modern whore.

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(11-08-2019 07:38 AM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  If you were a father to a daughter would you simply accept that you had "no such authority, culturally or legally, over women"?

Sounds chickenshit to me, no offence to you personally.

Keep in mind that these 40yo chicks were between the ages of 10 and 20 in 1989 and 1999 respectively. Hardly total post-modern feminist territory. Sackless atheist soyboy "end of history" fathers are largely to blame, if they were even present in the first place.

If I had a daughter I would sooner move to the wilderness than let her become a modern whore.



I'm just wondering what can bring back the balance of gender interrelations and natural order in society ? I think it's only a fervent faith and submission in Christ at this point. Everything seems hopeless in our own methods, or just as a means to an end


(11-08-2019 06:42 AM)Renzy Wrote:  At this point, the only way that men can really help women is by letting them feel the consequences of their own decisions.

Yeah but women aren't self aware. It's by their M.O. that they're not along with society giving them a free pass to ever keep them from becoming self aware.

You'll see glimmers of self awareness occasionally in women, but then they don't show it until they're well past child bearing age (45+) it's us men that bear the responsibility of self awareness

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(11-08-2019 06:42 AM)Renzy Wrote:  At this point, the only way that men can really help women is by letting them feel the consequences of their own decisions.

The problem is that the person needs to be capable of deeper self awareness to learn from their mistakes. These life lessons also take decades to manifest. Western society at this point has a built in feedback loop to encourage this behavior in media and society.

The "you go girl!" conditioning will soften the consequences because society largely vindicates their own misguided behavior.

Meanwhile the borders are blitzed every day with thousands upon thousands of little aztecs and mayans who have no problems shitting out massive broods that will eventually overwhelm the demographics.

That's all she wrote for the U.S. really. At this point there is very little chance at stopping any of this from the culture side or the political side.
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(11-08-2019 07:40 AM)pitbullowner Wrote:  ...
I'm just wondering what can bring back the balance of gender interrelations and natural order in society ? I think it's only a fervent faith and submission in Christ at this point. Everything seems hopeless in our own methods, or just as a means to an end

The question becomes a lot simpler if you just stop to ask "who is within my sphere of influence". These busted dog-moms are beyond help, obviously. Well so are a lot of sackless 40 y/o men if we're going to be honest. Not everyone is going to pass on their genes. For better or worse it is what it is. The important question is "who can/should I reach and how?"

Do you have a daughter? A wife? A niece? A sister? Female friends?

I've always found that speaking the truth out loud, not as a debate but as a statement of fact gets through the female skull more than anything else. The second you open yourself to debate you've lost because women submit to authority, not reason. They start the "but, but but" routine?

"But what about...."

"...but nothing. That's the way it's been for a million years and that's the way it's always going to be."

Women concede to male authority expressed remorselessly and without apology. It gets their noggin joggin'. They don't want to get their opinions from Cosmo magazine but they lack alpha males in their life to tell them what is.

If you're not a part of the life of any such woman/girl then don't worry about it. Focus on building your own tribe under God's will.

God demands of Man responsibility. God demands of Woman vulnerability. These are their curse and blessing alike. Libertianism is to Man as Feminism is to Woman.
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(11-08-2019 07:40 AM)pitbullowner Wrote:  I'm just wondering what can bring back the balance of gender interrelations and natural order in society ? I think it's only a fervent faith and submission in Christ at this point. Everything seems hopeless in our own methods, or just as a means to an end

The black pill. Nothing can be done. I think that ship sailed decades ago.

The western european world and its new world nations have already forsaken its moral and religious foundation in favor of Moloch and Jewish control over their societies. In the long run through this system they have set up is not that sustainable. I'm talking a century plus down the line however.

It will become very chaotic and third world.

America will resemble a combination of Mexico and South Africa but with nukes and increasingly antagonistic and irrational foreign policy as things melt down on the home front.

The white pill..I think in the ashes when things get really bad that something new can be rebuilt. Very insular communities will eventually coalesce sort of like how Mormons did it in the 19th century. There will be leaders in this who might be able to revive the old concept of America.
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Lots of great comments on this thread. I gave at least one person a rating point. There are also several other peripheral factors are work:

1). Women are more transient. They're also more alone. They no longer marry the local guy and settle in their community. Going from place to place after college might be exotic, but it has its consequences. Lack of community = lack of a mate because people used to find their mates within their communities.

2). Feminists banned workplace romances. Now women suffer.Years ago if you didn't meet your spouse in college (or high school) you met him or her at work. In the 1990s, I went out with something like 8 women from my workplace and married one. That can no longer happen. Feminists went to war on this, and #metoo finished off the war. So that closed off THE best mating source for women: Guys they knew and trusted who were employed!! LOL! Yeah, that's the door you wanna shut. Great, job feminists.

3). Women turned into elitist unpaid hookers; men responded. A lot of women spend their twenties sleeping with countless men who fit a specific micro-profile: Rich, tall, super good-looking, successful Most men are average so they don't get to ride this carousel. So, men responded by bypassing sites like Bumble and Tinder and going on Seeking Arrangement or What's Your Price. The women may be sleazy, but at least they're honest about what they are. And they're more egalitarian, because if you can pay you can play.

4). People were meant to bond early on. There is something called a teenage "memory bump," which psychologist/sociologist Dr. Helen Fischer has written about. What that means is that the experiences we have early on weigh heavier on us, memory-wise, than the ones we have later. This is why our first loves seem to matter more. Decades ago people married their first loves. Now they leave them behind and go on to study in Spain, work in New York, etc. You can't recapture that teenage (or twentysomething) passion in middle age. We need to tell women this at 14, not 40.
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So many great posts here from so many angles. Great work, threads like this is why I love this forum. As a man in his 40's this really hits home. I honestly feel sorry for so many of these women because they were brainwashed, as were many of the men the same age (Gen X) to believe in complete nonsense. But at the same time they also treated lots of real good men like crap for two decades straight and now the chickens have come home to roost. It is a realization that not only will they not have kids, but they will work the job they hate (but have to pretend to love due to peer pressure) until they are too old for the work force then be kicked to the curb and live a life of poverty on a tiny social security income until death releases them of their misery.

Now that I am older and more confident, women like these women here throw themselves at me. But they don't have anything to offer me as I want kids one day. Sadly many of them seem to be growing out of their man hating phase, but it is too little too late and I wish the best for them.

Anyway, I think the only fix for this is to over throw globohomo lead feminism. And that is a HUGE task that I am not sure is possible. So the best we can do is find a good woman, treat her like a woman should be treated (you lead her, you protect her, you are in charge and if she doesn't like this you find another) and you start your own family in a community of like minded people to wait the storm out and pass on these values to your children.

IMO, pleasure and happiness are two polar opposites. Pleasure is instant gratification, it is sugar, porn, alcohol, drugs, prostitution, etc. If not kept in check it leads to a pit of despair. The seven deadly sins hits on this very hardcore. Happiness is love and that only comes in the form of accepting who we are (men) and doing our jobs and living our best lives possible. God bless you all in your path to find happiness.
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(11-08-2019 08:27 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  1). Women are more transient. They're also more alone. They no longer marry the local guy and settle in their community. Going from place to place after college might be exotic, but it has its consequences. Lack of community = lack of a mate because people used to find their mates within their communities.

This is something I've been thinking of lately. 100 years ago my home town was full of people who'd generally been living there for 100s of years. The railroads brought in a few more. But particularly since the 60s, increasingly the generally more intelligent leave and generally don't return. They also break off school relationships that formerly would have led to marriage. On the other side, replacing the leavers are a collection of bestraggled left-wing idiots, who generally left their hometown, spent 10+ years in the cities, found nothing but debt and have washed up in my town.

I know a lot of people I went to school with now no longer have childhood friends. Many probably don't have or barely have friends from university. I think this makes a big difference and their relations are weaker and roots shallow. It must add to floating left.

Last year I happened to bump into a girl I went to school with. She was the girl everyone liked. I could tell she was depressed and the cause was that she had not been able to find a life in London and was now looking to downgrade to an affordable city. She actually looked good for her age, but 16 years later the girl everyone wanted was of no real interest to me.


A woman needs to say something like this on her profile:

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or she's not worth speaking to.
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Toronto-Occupied-Ontario -> The God Pill?
It would be interesting to see a comparison with Toronto women of the same age.

According to the thread, these women are from in and around Manhattan.

Their Toronto cousins of the same age are literally the generation that forced Ontario area men to create Game/Fast Seduction/Applied Charisma 1.0.

Without current late 30/40 something Ontario women, this forum probably would not exist.
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(11-08-2019 08:27 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  4).[b] People were meant to bond early on.[/b] There is something called a teenage "memory bump," which psychologist/sociologist Dr. Helen Fischer has written about. What that means is that the experiences we have early on weigh heavier on us, memory-wise, than the ones we have later. This is why our first loves seem to matter more. Decades ago people married their first loves. Now they leave them behind and go on to study in Spain, work in New York, etc. You can't recapture that teenage (or twentysomething) passion in middle age. We need to tell women this at 14, not 40.


This is a great point and so true. My 22 yr old son has been dating a girl 2 yrs younger than him for the last year or so. She's a nice girl, treats him very well and they have formed a very close, tight knit bond. Before, the forum would have encouraged him to ditch this girl and go chase a bunch of notches. After all, he's in college right, lots of pussy for the taking there. I'm glad I never encouraged that and I'm very happy that he has this nice girl. In fact I remember telling Cobra one time about this and I said to him that I was not going to encourage him to chase notches while he's in college.

Even if down the road it doesn't work out, this experience will serve him well and I have no worries about him being able to meet someone else if needed. From his GF's perspective, my son is good to her and she's not on the carousel at a time when too many other girls are. The ability to bond like this when you're young is something that is not given enough attention. Those girls in those profiles are beyond pathetic and I agree with the sentiment that they deserve their fates as bitter old cat ladies which is their final destiny.
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
You can technically blame men for all this. Weak, thirsty, and effete men who were broken over years of social engineering and technology are what gave rise to the women we see today.

MGTOW as gay as it is has one good idea, which is to turn away from women when the time is right.
11-08-2019 09:03 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
Mother Nature and Father Time take no prisoners. Women can win big early but if they don’t cash out then they are SOL.

I’ve said it before with the “incel” thing: a lot of young men are disenfranchised and sexless right now and it is in the public awareness (i.e. no one cares). The plus side is that men do have time on their side and CAN improve their lot in life (if they choose to put in the time and effort - many won’t)

Aging women, tattooed and worn down after years of partying and riding the carousel, are coming to terms with the reality of their biological reality, hence what we are seeing here. I would say this looks like the very beginning of a Spinster Epidemic but of course there will always be simps and betas who will wife up these aging slags. Even if it did happen the state would obviously step in and allocate tax payer money to help out the poor ladies
11-08-2019 09:11 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
The second woman is a prime example of the 1000 cock stare...
11-08-2019 09:12 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
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11-08-2019 09:15 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
All the women above can still easily find a man who wants to settle down with them - potentially a divorced guy.

However - whether that guy fits their gargantuan expections that are unllikely to go down - that is the issue here.

They wouldn't want to settle down with an in-shape truck driver who voted for Trump and who has zero debts. They want what the other bitches want, but at this stage they likely cannot get.
11-08-2019 09:32 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
(11-08-2019 09:03 AM)brando Wrote:  You can technically blame men for all this. Weak, thirsty, and effete men who were broken over years of social engineering and technology are what gave rise to the women we see today.

MGTOW as gay as it is has one good idea, which is to turn away from women when the time is right.

Men don't exist in the sense you are using here. I've seen this point made by several others in this thread as well. There is no common union or hierarchy of men that can agree to control women and enforce the agreement, and it is impossible for such a thing to exist.

Men are always in competition. The way that societies existed in the past with properly limited roles for women was that they evolved with those rules at an early stage, and since those rules made them strong, they grew into large, powerful nations.

Once those societies became rich and comfortable, the process of decay started, and it is beyond the power of men in such nations to prevent this process from playing out. We are at the end stage of this process, when extreme decadence, the breakdown of the family, and debt slavery run amuck. It is not possible for men as a collective to stop this process. It always happens in the end.

There is one bright spot however. Whenever a society falls into decadent collapse, there is always a remnant, who hold onto virtue, and who build strong families and secure, debt free households, usually somewhere distant from the big cities and the cultural centers. Our best bet as individual men is to find places where this is happening, and to do the same.

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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
What were these women doing between the ages of 18-30?

Let me guess, accumulating student loan debt, climbing the corporate ladder and rejecting honest and kind hearted men who could've potentially married them.

Quick story.

I had a 26 year old girlfriend that I wanted to marry back in 2006. She was beautiful, smart and was a few years younger than me. When I asked her to marry me she said "No". She didn't think we were compatible, wanted time to think it over bla bla bla. After some time of waiting for her, we decided to break up.

Fast forward to this year. The same girl is still single and will be 39 this month. After acquiring some financial success, she is now on the hunt for a man to have a child by. She admitted to me that I was the only guy who truly cared for her. All the other men she has met only wanted sex or had no morals.
11-08-2019 09:39 AM
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RE: Single women in their 30s/40s are starting to realize they will die alone
(11-08-2019 09:39 AM)BigTony Wrote:  I had a 26 year old girlfriend that I wanted to marry back in 2006. She was beautiful, smart and was a few years younger than me. When I asked her to marry me she said "No". She didn't think we were compatible, wanted time to think it over bla bla bla.

Woman can't make proper partner choices. That's why in the traditional past she a had a father deciding for her.
11-08-2019 09:47 AM
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