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My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
There's no need for PainPositive or Wombraider to argue - I think they both agree and are just talking past one another:

   

You'd be hard pressed to get any straight confirmation out of a woman that she's committed adultery. But if she has feelings for another man, admitted to such and that she no longer has feelings for OP and wants a divorce, I believe that is enough of an admission to continue with a divorce (or perhaps seek an annulment?).

As this marriage was a secular one, I ultimately think that it's difficult to transcribe Godly advice into something would be of earthly use. I don't think anyone here disagrees that the relationship is dead - some just prefer to check for a pulse before moving on.

I think OPs doing the best he can with the information he has and the advice he's gotten. I wish him the best and I hope PainPositive and Wombraider leave their disagreements in the preceding pages of this thread.

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11-27-2019 11:57 PM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
The dog will help you find a better woman next time. (Dog-walking game for the win!)
11-29-2019 04:00 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
Well, I'm starting to feel angry at her. Mostly because of how easy she gave up on this for some other guy.

Fortunately this is my last day living together.
11-29-2019 04:18 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
Don't worry. Give it a year or two, and you'll feel a lot better about all this.

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11-29-2019 06:26 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(11-29-2019 04:18 AM)SnowHugger Wrote:  Well, I'm starting to feel angry at her. Mostly because of how easy she gave up on this for some other guy.

Fortunately this is my last day living together.

Let me second what HCE said above. Your situation sounds very similar to when things fell apart with my Russian ex years ago. I took it very hard, and we had a tortured post-relationship for years. It seems ridiculous now, but I was driven to the point of semi-seriously considering suicide a few times. All over a typical whorish godless woman behaving as godless women do. I wish I'd known about game and had the advice that you have available on this forum to guide me, it would have helped a lot. Anyway, good luck, stay strong, and things will get better, probably much better.

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11-29-2019 09:31 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
Walk away - leave the dog too. I like animals too, but it is a dog dude. If you insist on taking the dog, take it and then find it another home asap. It's just an emotional tie to her anyway.
12-01-2019 06:10 PM
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(11-25-2019 04:34 AM)SilentOne Wrote:  
(11-25-2019 02:10 AM)Polniy_Sostav Wrote:  Silent one ; I ve noticed that you are anti marriage - what is the main reason ? Only the financial issue when the woman leaves ?

It's rigged. For a detail answer, reread all my earlier posts. State marriage is a financial business. That's all it is.

Anyone who watched Divorce Corp knows exactly what you're talking about! Before seeing it... I believed you just had to marry a good woman who wouldn't want crazy $$$ in the instance of a divorce... but the very STATE makes that impossible! You're ex can't be like Well I just want $300 a month & that's it! NOOOOOOOOO! Everybody gotsta get paiddddd... so it's 50%-60% of net monthly income with a non modifiable clause, which can't be brought down due to the potential to re-make that income in the future!

Despite all this... I'll still tie the knot 1 day. However... there's no way in H**l I'm doing it without stashing $$$ somehow-somewhere. NO WAY! Don't care if I get caught! That's how I justify it to myself... and I feel good about it... so no MGTOW to the grave for me with this charade!
12-01-2019 07:55 PM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(11-29-2019 04:18 AM)SnowHugger Wrote:  Well, I'm starting to feel angry at her. Mostly because of how easy she gave up on this for some other guy.

Fortunately this is my last day living together.

Welcome to the anger phase. This feels probably like the longest phase of all.
12-01-2019 11:09 PM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(11-29-2019 04:18 AM)SnowHugger Wrote:  Well, I'm starting to feel angry at her. Mostly because of how easy she gave up on this for some other guy.

Fortunately this is my last day living together.

This was my fattest red pill to swallow when I was monkeybranched by a woman I was about to get engaged to. Within a week of successfully getting onto the new branch, she posted a selfie of her in bed with her new backer on social media.

Women ghost from all interactions more than men now ranging from texting to marriage yet they agitate for relationships.

Don't spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings. (Proverbs 31:3 GNB)
12-02-2019 02:38 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
Would love to see the state give 50% of a man's income/assets to one ex-wife when he still has 3 wives at home. Welcome to Polygamy.
12-03-2019 08:38 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(12-02-2019 02:38 AM)N°6 Wrote:  
(11-29-2019 04:18 AM)SnowHugger Wrote:  Well, I'm starting to feel angry at her. Mostly because of how easy she gave up on this for some other guy.

Fortunately this is my last day living together.

This was my fattest red pill to swallow when I was monkeybranched by a woman I was about to get engaged to. Within a week of successfully getting onto the new branch, she posted a selfie of her in bed with her new backer on social media.

Women ghost from all interactions more than men now ranging from texting to marriage yet they agitate for relationships.

"backer" I like that one. Like how some San Francisco Software money pits constantly need new backers so they can continue to to pay themselves and socialize.

It keeps you focused on "do I really want to invest in this woman?"

Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV
12-03-2019 08:47 AM
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
This form has always been a horrible place to get "advice". How many thousands of men have permanently damaged their souls following the advice found on this forum?

Nothing has changed.

Like I said before, you shouldn't be getting advice from an internet form. There are guys here with multiple divorces giving marriage advice.

Don't ask a homeless crackhead how to live a good life because he can tell you "what not to do."

Don't try asking a former prostitute how to live modestly.

Get your knowledge from God instead of from your own silly experiences.
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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(Yesterday 02:52 PM)PainPositive Wrote:  This form has always been a horrible place to get "advice". How many thousands of men have permanently damaged their souls following the advice found on this forum?

Nothing has changed.

Like I said before, you shouldn't be getting advice from an internet form. There are guys here with multiple divorces giving marriage advice.

Don't ask a homeless crackhead how to live a good life because he can tell you "what not to do."

Don't try asking a former prostitute how to live modestly.

Get your knowledge from God instead of from your own silly experiences.

Little harsh don't you think?

God makes the rules but can be very vague about the specifics.

Aren't we supposed to try to figure it out together?

What is the point of a forum if the answer to every question is, "Read the Bible and the early church fathers and stop talking to each other"?

I find it hard to believe that God doesn't want us to compare notes and put our heads together.

“That sig BTW is a very asinine anti-family anti-parent quote. You live in a country where 40% of children grow up without a biological father, yet somehow “the greatest burden a child must bear is the unlived life of its parents”? Sorry but this is fruity Boomer nonsense.”

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RE: My wife doesn't love me anymore and I think we will get divorced. What should I do?
(Yesterday 02:52 PM)PainPositive Wrote:  This form has always been a horrible place to get "advice". How many thousands of men have permanently damaged their souls following the advice found on this forum?

Nothing has changed.

Like I said before, you shouldn't be getting advice from an internet form. There are guys here with multiple divorces giving marriage advice.

Don't ask a homeless crackhead how to live a good life because he can tell you "what not to do."

Don't try asking a former prostitute how to live modestly.

Get your knowledge from God instead of from your own silly experiences.

OP states that his wife doesn't love him anymore. OP states that his wife mentioned falling for another guy at work. OP mentioned his wife wanting to get a divorce.

Let's look at this situation from multiple perspectives.

1. The non-game/women's nature/RVF/red-pill/whatever you want to call normies - Their advice would be that the marriage is over & that they should respect the wife's wishes, along with some bs on how the guy should see where he went wrong. The latter is noise, and doesn't take away from what the main advice is - you have to let her go.
2. The game/women's nature/RVF/red-pill people - what we've gotten in this thread

OP saying "we can't get divorced because God doesn't want that" to some godless woman? She'll laugh in his face.

The advice on this matter has been level and fine. If anything, it's evolved from the "just go out and notch 100 other women and you'll feel fine" circle-jerk that RVF used to be in its heyday.
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